[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Mon, Sep 27, 2010 at 1:22 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
Are you reffereing to the 'lies' about your inappropriate conduct of a sexual character with [daughter] that I stated in trial- repeatedly- in detail- with times and locations of incidents?
Those 'lies"?
That sworn testimony, [custodial dad]?
Those were lies?
Did [Step Mother] think so too?
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From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, September 27, 2010 12:25:28 PM
Subject: Re: Father's opinion on Mom 'telling on him" Re: Chiropractor info and all other doctors listed please & time share
It's disgusting for you to state such lies and disgusting that you even think of such lies to state.
Your desperation is showing again.
On Sep 27, 2010, at 11:46 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
Do you think it was disgusting to tell about your behaviors of sexual inpropriety with [daughter] in INFANCY to TODDLERHOOD.
Or was was it DISGUSTING for you to have DONE that?
Which one?
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From: [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, September 27, 2010 11:30:12 AM
Subject: Re: Chiropractor info and all other doctors listed please & time share
I am sure I gave you the Chiropractor information but here it is again:
[chiropractor] Chiropractic in [town in home state]
(xxx)xxx-4100
You have the contact information for all the providers [daughter] sees.
Here is the ONLY email regarding Children and Youth sent by [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] to [The Ex fourth other state lawyer]. How you reinterpreted that I do not know.
I would also suggest you get the transcripts of trial because the only "disgusting conduct" described was your own and your attempts to remove me from [daughter]'s life.
From: "[Custodial Dad other state lawyer]" <[Custodial Dad other state lawyer]@[website]law.com>
Date: August 26, 2010 3:09:34 PM EDT
To:"[The Ex fourth other state lawyer] [The Ex fourth other state lawyer]" <[The Ex fourth other state lawyer]@[website]law.com>
Cc: [Custodial Dad]" <[email]@[email].com>
Subject: Re: [The Ex] - Post-Judgment Relief : 43477.22002:
[The Ex fourth other state lawyer],
It is highly unlikely that Mr. [last name] will allow [The Ex] to have anything more than Judge [Judge in other state] requires because of your client's latest failed attempt to have the [home state] Department of Children and Youth remove [daughter] from the [last name] home, inter alia. She has been speaking to the child "in code", trying to get [daughter] to tell authorities that she is being abused. To the child's credit, she will not lie on her Mother's behalf.
See if you can get [The Ex] to cut it out. Then maybe [Custodial Dad] will be more forthcoming and gracious.
[Custodial Dad other state lawyer]
Sent from my iPhone
On Mon, Sep 27, 2010 at 10:50 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
1. Need a list of all rpoviders for [daughter]- conventional and alternative treatments.
2. Got the pediatrician, dentist and orthodontist in Lehigh Valley.
3. Is there a chiropractor for [daughter]? Pleas provide contact information.
4. Is there an eye doctor at Wallmart?
5. Any others?
Please send promptly.
(Wow. Don't know what letter you got that [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] sent- not the same Matt got.)
How can I help you start to address [daughter]'s time share with Mom?
[The Ex]
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From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Sun, September 26, 2010 9:20:57 PM
Subject: Re: C&Y notice from your lawyer t to mine- Thanks, [Custodial Dad other state lawyer]! Re: [daughter]'s September Update
Wow your reinterpretation of [Custodial Dad other state lawyer]'s letter is astounding. It's in black and white and speaks for itself.
[daughter] is OUR daughter. Sorry you are failing to understand that. No matter how much you say, bold and underline "my" does not make her any less OUR daughter.
Sent from my iPhone
On Sep 26, 2010, at 8:52 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
The reason we know that Children & Youth Services is because YOUR attorney wrote that information in an email to [The Ex fourth other state lawyer], my attorney.
THAT is how we know.
You told us. And we are horrified. And we are watching.
Had it not been for [Custodial Dad other state lawyer]'s keen sense of responsibility in informing
[The Ex fourth other state lawyer], I would have NEVER known.
Maybe because [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] remembers my testimony on your disgusting conduct as told in trial and he did not want to seem as if he was protecting you. Good for [Custodial Dad other state lawyer]. Bad for you.
So, I hope people keep an eye on you. Clearly someone called C&Y.
You know we are ALL watching.
[The Ex]
P.S. Send the names and people who claim your reporter to C&Y is me.
I will have to manage that with a slander suit for each... go on... send it.. all names.
YOU BE CAREFUL WITH MY CHILD.
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From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][last name]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@edison.edu>
Sent: Wed, September 22, 2010 2:27:52 PM
Subject: [daughter]'s September Update
[The Ex]
I will be sending these via email as you have finally acknowledged receipt and although your father was signing for the previous updates, it does not appear you actually read them.
Text really should not be used for in depth communication. In one day, I received over FIFTY texts from you at obscene hours. Please refrain from calling and texting outside of the designated hours as it simply disruptive and annoying. If you truly wish to communicate with [daughter], I do not believe you can achieve that by texting me at midnight. In addition, last night you telephoned SEVEN times in five minutes... that simply achieves nothing as we have caller ID and voice mail.. ONE call is sufficient in that time frame.
A. School: [daughter] is doing fantastic at school. Her teacher Ms. [teacher] is very familiar with our [sibling]'s time at [school]. We are very happy to have such great teachers with [daughter] this year. Principal [teacher] and her guidance counselor, Ms. [teacher], only have positive things to say about [daughter]. [daughter] is already making fast friends at school. Please ensure you are on the school's mailing list, as I know that they are more than happy to forward you all documents as they are distributed. Attached is [daughter]'s self portrait that she drew and her brief bio/home information.
B. Medical: [daughter] has been seen by Dr. [orthodontist] regarding the swelling and scrapped tongue. I didn't take her when she initially arrived because there was no swelling and/or marks on her tongue which would prompt a visit. I am very curious as to how that occurred when her tongue never scrapped or was swollen in the previous four months including the weeks following the installation of the palate extender. [daughter] couldn't explain it either. Her cold is obviously better and didn't require a Doctor's visit either as it was a very mild cold that we passed back and forth for a few weeks.
[daughter]'s sessions with Dr. [therapist home state] have been very revealing. I am thankful that she has a provider that she trusts and can talk to without worry or inhibition. As I mentioned previously, please do not make appointments with Dr. [therapist home state] that you have no intention of keeping. We want to keep a cordial and professional relationship with Dr. [therapist home state] and his staff.
C. Activities: [daughter] was signed up for Cheerleading and she is really excited to start in October. This is a great gateway in to dance, gymnastics and possibly even acting/chorus and although quite a commitment [daughter] is very very excited at meeting new friends and participating in such a great team activity.
D. Communication: After discussion with Dr. [therapist home state] and [daughter], we will be calling every night and a [webcam] on Sunday. Please be mindful that there are times where contact is not feasible. We will do our best to facilitate contact every night. Please understand [daughter] has cheerleading three nights a week, sessions with Dr, [therapist home state] on top of homework, chores, dinner, bath and bedtime rituals to fit within four hours every evening. Further, an hour conversation is just not possible every night. Also, you mentioned some difficulties with the phone calls. Please understand that [daughter] telephones you from home from our HOME line - there are no reception or dropped calls on a home line. Understand that [daughter] does have younger siblings and most nights, I am upstairs with them preparing for bed and some nights we are all awake doing an activity or family time together. I am sorry it disrupts or so greatly disturbs you but it does not bother [daughter]. [daughter] does know that at anytime, she may go into the office or kitchen for quiet to remover herself from the noise level. And of course [daughter] may contact you via email, skype or telephone at her discretion. *Please check and respond to your emails as I know she have sent several since August.
E. Pictures: As I am certain you know from your visits to [school], Picture Day is today. I do hope that you made arrangements to purchase pictures. If not, I can provide you with the website to order photos. Also, I reconfirmed with [daughter] that you did receive the pictures she sent. I will continue to facilitate [daughter] sending you pictures as she enjoys that aspect of the emails. Also, I will mention again, [daughter] would love a picture of you for her bedside table, if you are feeling generous.
F. Children and Youth: You have been attempting to allude to your non-involvement with Children and Youth... I have failed to address this with you as a. you were the one to call and b. we were cleared by the several tiers of the agency due to your escalated claims. It is a shame that you feel it is necessary to abuse these resources and waste not only their time but embarrass [daughter] and [sibling] as they overheard the officer confirm it was you making these calls, [sibling] has been a wonderful big-brother in reassuring [daughter] that none of this was/is her fault.
Any valid questions and/or concerns please email me.
[Custodial Dad] [last name]
[Step Mother] [last name]
[email]@[email].com
(xxx) xxx - 6052
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[sibling]..[daughter]..[sibling]..[sibling]...[sibling]...Baby [sibling]
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[last name]s <[email]@[email].com> Mon, Oct 18, 2010 at 9:52 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>, [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
This is [Step Mother]. I just saw this message since you asked me a very specific question, I thought I'd answer... Yes and that is an emphatic yes, I do think you lied. Not only do I know you lied about any form of abuse, I think you continue to lie to get your way. I think you are a sad excuse for a mother who has used a little girl as a cash cow.
What is sad is that you are only hurting yourself and your daughter. Your nonsense has only strengthened our family and our resolve, your daughter included. Reality is your stories do not match up. We have the actual transcripts of various hearings and never once do you mention this. You are now only bringing this up to lend credibility to your insanity. Actually with ALL of your ridiculous and sudden allegations, not only do they contradict each other, they make no sense. You make no sense what so ever.
And for the record about your "sworn testimony"... You, my dear, are an alcoholic. We all know no one fabricated your law school application that is on file with Rutgers or in which "rooms" you met my husband in or your journals or your cards or your notebooks or your scribbles of paper that you peppered our life with...
And clearly your drinking is causing you to be delusional and paranoid once again.
I hope for [daughter]'s sake that you get the help you so desperately need. You are not well and its not only X and I who have noticed.The Police have noticed; the trained professionals at Children and Youth have noticed; Your past lawyers have noticed; Your current and past in laws have noticed; And the list goes on.
Maybe that's the reason you are refusing to meet your daughters therapist? Afraid you can not hide your insanity in front of a professional?
And since I'm throwing out advise. Lets discuss your grammar. Your spelling is atrocious (spell check is highly underrated) and your possessive nouns are confused. [daughter] is yours AND [Custodial Dad]'s daughter. [daughter] is MY (and [The Ex's current husband]'s) step daughter. Saying "my" when speaking to X speaks to your selfishness and the fact that to you, [daughter] is not a child but a prize or some other tangible object. When you are referring to visitation it is 'you' and not "us" because despite being married you are all alone (and I doubt your current boy friend has or wants any say in this situation.)
On that note, as a mother, maybe you want to slow down on the frequent introductions to your daughter. Being married and dating different men is not a true "Christian value" now is it? Lying under oath is not a value that is condoned by Christianity either.
And for the record, I am not calling you a whore but a hypocrite.
[Step Mother]
and since see you seem to be so very confused, my name is spelled the same as [country]. Its simple.
[Quoted text hidden]
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[Custodial Dad] & [Step Mother]...
[sibling]..[daughter]..[sibling]..[sibling]...[sibling]...[sibling]...[sibling]
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Text Messages (10/2010)
Me to [The Ex] 10/31/10 10:20 AM 33 hours ago Me: Please call back 7:58 PM [The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter]. Tried ur line. No answer. Here waiting. 7:58 PM Me: let it ring more then twice 7:59 PM [The Ex]: Went to voicemail. Will call now. 8:00 PM Me: Are you going to call back? 8:01 PM [The Ex]: Voicemail again. Pleaser call please do not text on this. Call is only one button to press. Call is easy for [daughter] to talk to her Mom. 8:01 PM Me: On house line please 8:01 PM [The Ex]: Please call me. I do not know houseline from any others. Make it easy. Send number if u wish. Or cal. 8:03 PM Me: Obviously we will be out trick or treating this evening. If you want we can [webcam] around 2 PM. 10:20 AM [The Ex] 52c9f7010e41f7e5 10/29/10 10:11 AM 3 days ago [The Ex]: Please email. 9:54 AM Me: About? 9:55 AM [The Ex]: Any topics on which u text. Tnx. 10:11 AM Me: huh? You're texting me?? 10:12 AM Me to [The Ex] 10/28/10 8:56 PM 3 days ago Me: Calling tonight? 7:39 PM Me: [other state friend] told older person to shut up 8:03 PM Me: [The Ex] laughed 8:03 PM Me: Oh that was [other state friend] 8:03 PM Me: Say shut up 8:03 PM Me: Sleepover at your house 8:04 PM [The Ex]: No call last night. [daughter] watches video od herself tonight and that seemed fun for her. [other state friend] and [other state friend] kids were eager to share phone time w [daughter] tonight. 8:20 PM [The Ex]: We cannot make ense of your comments. Please email. 8:21 PM Me: Nothing to email, comments were not meant for you and as you know last night was school open house 8:26 PM [The Ex]: Ok. 8:56 PM Me: You need to look at a clock occasionally it is WELL past an acceptable 'comunication' time 8:58 PM
[The Ex] 10/20/10 7:28 PM 6 days ago
[The Ex]: Pls cal with [daughter]. No call last night. 7:13 PM
Me: Call anytime, she's eating but available 7:27 PM
[The Ex]: Ill give her time to eat. Will call in a few minutes 7:28 PM
Me: 8pm bedtime 7:28 PM
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[The Ex] 10/17/10 1:13 PM 9 days ago
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[The Ex]: Please set up for seven PM [webcam]. Please set call back up for same time This is for tonight. Sunday. 12:58 PM
Me: Are you saying a call or [webcam] at the scheduled time? 12:59 PM
[The Ex]: Ill be waiting. Tnx. 1:00 PM
[The Ex]: I can talk to [daughter] now or anytime of day also. 1:01 PM
Me: Great 1:01 PM
[The Ex]: Oh well. No answer. Please call w my child today. This would be in addition to tonights contact. 1:03 PM
Me: excuse me? Do you mean OUR child? [daughter] knows full well she can call you anytime.... At the moment she and her siblings are busy. 1:05 PM
Me: Unless [daughter] asks otherwise .... chat at 7 1:06 PM
[The Ex]: Please carve out some time before. Thanks. 1:13 PM
Me to [The Ex] 10/11/10 6:49 PM 2 weeks ago
Me: Supper is over feel free to call 6:49 PM
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[The Ex] 10/9/10 6:06 PM 2 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Please be sensible and helpful. I wait daily for [daughter]s call. Please place call for her to Mom. 6:06 PM
Me: I've been nothing BUT sensible and overly helpful, we are just done supper so feel free to call. [daughter] will answer directly. 6:12 PM
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[The Ex] 10/8/10 9:46 PM 2 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: No call at all today eIther. Please place call for [daughter]. 9:43 PM
Me: If you have not noticed it is almost 10pm [daughter] is asleep 9:45 PM
[The Ex]: Text is for you. Thx. Goodnight. 9:46 PM
Me: Why then text me if you didn't want to speak with [daughter]? 9:50 PM
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[The Ex] 10/7/10 8:35 PM 2 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: No call at all. 8:32 PM
Me: Its 8:30 however glad you enoyed pizzahut with [daughter] today. Hope it was a positive visit. 8:35 PM
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[The Ex] 10/6/10 9:34 PM 2 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Pls call w my child. Triied. Got voicemail. Already past seven thirty. 7:38 PM
Me: Our daughter had a busy evening with her doctor appointment and cheerleading, so glad you saw her this afternoon at lunch and recess 8:18 PM
[The Ex]: No call today. Please indicate doctor for todays appointment. 9:16 PM
Me: Goodnight 9:17 PM
[The Ex]: Noted. Request for doctor seen today denied. 9:19 PM
Me: I'm sure it was discussed over lunch 9:19 PM
[The Ex]: Noted dad evades disclosing doctor. Takes a few words [Custodial Dad]. Send doctor name please. 9:21 PM
Me: You are simply being obtuse since you spoke to Dr [therapist home state] already 9:25 PM
[The Ex]: Noted assumptions. Noted. Possibly [therapist home state] seen today. Thanks. 9:26 PM
Me: Who are you are noting these things to? Do you realize how absurd you sound saying "noted" every other word or is that your intention? Of course things a 9:30 PM
Me: re noted, they are in writing. 9:30 PM
[The Ex]: ? 9:34 PM
[The Ex] 10/5/10 7:27 PM 3 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Pls call w my child. Please allow time share for thurs pick up and friday drop to school as per email requests previously sent. 3:50 PM
[The Ex]: Pls allow for weekend time share for [daughter] with us. 3:51 PM
[The Ex]: No one answere but I hear background talking will wait for call. Thanks. I tried. 7:12 PM
Me: Call or not it's your choice [daughter] answered said you hung up on her 7:14 PM
[The Ex]: pls call back. 7:25 PM
[The Ex]: No answeR when I just called. 7:25 PM
Me: Feel free to call back 7:26 PM
Me: On our home line 7:26 PM
[The Ex]: That was ur [Custodial Dad] [Custodial dad last name] voicemail. I will wait for my kid to be placed on a call to Mom. 7:27 PM
Me: You want her to call your mom? I'm confused, is this [The Ex]? 7:28 PM
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[The Ex] 10/4/10 8:42 PM 3 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter]. Waiting since seven. 7:30 PM
Me: Call anytime 7:31 PM
Me: Are you going to call tonight? 7:34 PM
Me: Sorry shutting fax off 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: Well that's a fax line. So please call or set up phone. 7:36 PM
Me: Sorry shutting fax off 7:37 PM
Me: Call 7:37 PM
[The Ex]: Well thaats voicemail. Will be here when you call. I have tried. 7:37 PM
Me: Stop drama and call our home line 7:38 PM
Me: Stop drama and call our home line 7:45 PM
Me: I am upstairs settling children, if you wish to speak with [daughter] you should call soon it's ten to eight 7:50 PM
[The Ex]: No call from u. I tried to call. So sad for my child. 8:33 PM
Me: Stop your silly drama, you called home line once and when it was sent to fax you were apologized to and asked to please call back, what's sad us you plac 8:36 PM
Me: ing your dramatics before our daughters needs 8:36 PM
[The Ex]: Please invest your time in placing call not in texting. Goodnight. 8:40 PM
Me: Please invest YOUR time in getting the mental help YOU need. Goodnight 8:42 PM
[The Ex]: ? 8:42 PM
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[The Ex] 10/3/10 6:59 PM 3 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Please see email. Awaiting phone call. No [webcam]. Please book christmas for [daughter]. 6:59 PM
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[The Ex] 10/20/10 7:28 PM 6 days ago
[The Ex]: Pls cal with [daughter]. No call last night. 7:13 PM
Me: Call anytime, she's eating but available 7:27 PM
[The Ex]: Ill give her time to eat. Will call in a few minutes 7:28 PM
Me: 8pm bedtime 7:28 PM
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[The Ex] 10/17/10 1:13 PM 9 days ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Please set up for seven PM [webcam]. Please set call back up for same time This is for tonight. Sunday. 12:58 PM
Me: Are you saying a call or [webcam] at the scheduled time? 12:59 PM
[The Ex]: Ill be waiting. Tnx. 1:00 PM
[The Ex]: I can talk to [daughter] now or anytime of day also. 1:01 PM
Me: Great 1:01 PM
[The Ex]: Oh well. No answer. Please call w my child today. This would be in addition to tonights contact. 1:03 PM
Me: excuse me? Do you mean OUR child? [daughter] knows full well she can call you anytime.... At the moment she and her siblings are busy. 1:05 PM
Me: Unless [daughter] asks otherwise .... chat at 7 1:06 PM
[The Ex]: Please carve out some time before. Thanks. 1:13 PM
Me to [The Ex] 10/11/10 6:49 PM 2 weeks ago
Me: Supper is over feel free to call 6:49 PM
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[The Ex] 10/9/10 6:06 PM 2 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Please be sensible and helpful. I wait daily for [daughter]s call. Please place call for her to Mom. 6:06 PM
Me: I've been nothing BUT sensible and overly helpful, we are just done supper so feel free to call. [daughter] will answer directly. 6:12 PM
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[The Ex] 10/8/10 9:46 PM 2 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: No call at all today eIther. Please place call for [daughter]. 9:43 PM
Me: If you have not noticed it is almost 10pm [daughter] is asleep 9:45 PM
[The Ex]: Text is for you. Thx. Goodnight. 9:46 PM
Me: Why then text me if you didn't want to speak with [daughter]? 9:50 PM
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[The Ex] 10/7/10 8:35 PM 2 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: No call at all. 8:32 PM
Me: Its 8:30 however glad you enoyed pizzahut with [daughter] today. Hope it was a positive visit. 8:35 PM
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[The Ex] 10/6/10 9:34 PM 2 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Pls call w my child. Triied. Got voicemail. Already past seven thirty. 7:38 PM
Me: Our daughter had a busy evening with her doctor appointment and cheerleading, so glad you saw her this afternoon at lunch and recess 8:18 PM
[The Ex]: No call today. Please indicate doctor for todays appointment. 9:16 PM
Me: Goodnight 9:17 PM
[The Ex]: Noted. Request for doctor seen today denied. 9:19 PM
Me: I'm sure it was discussed over lunch 9:19 PM
[The Ex]: Noted dad evades disclosing doctor. Takes a few words [Custodial Dad]. Send doctor name please. 9:21 PM
Me: You are simply being obtuse since you spoke to Dr [therapist home state] already 9:25 PM
[The Ex]: Noted assumptions. Noted. Possibly [therapist home state] seen today. Thanks. 9:26 PM
Me: Who are you are noting these things to? Do you realize how absurd you sound saying "noted" every other word or is that your intention? Of course things a 9:30 PM
Me: re noted, they are in writing. 9:30 PM
[The Ex]: ? 9:34 PM
[The Ex] 10/5/10 7:27 PM 3 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Pls call w my child. Please allow time share for thurs pick up and friday drop to school as per email requests previously sent. 3:50 PM
[The Ex]: Pls allow for weekend time share for [daughter] with us. 3:51 PM
[The Ex]: No one answere but I hear background talking will wait for call. Thanks. I tried. 7:12 PM
Me: Call or not it's your choice [daughter] answered said you hung up on her 7:14 PM
[The Ex]: pls call back. 7:25 PM
[The Ex]: No answeR when I just called. 7:25 PM
Me: Feel free to call back 7:26 PM
Me: On our home line 7:26 PM
[The Ex]: That was ur [Custodial Dad] [Custodial dad last name] voicemail. I will wait for my kid to be placed on a call to Mom. 7:27 PM
Me: You want her to call your mom? I'm confused, is this [The Ex]? 7:28 PM
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[The Ex] 10/4/10 8:42 PM 3 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter]. Waiting since seven. 7:30 PM
Me: Call anytime 7:31 PM
Me: Are you going to call tonight? 7:34 PM
Me: Sorry shutting fax off 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: Well that's a fax line. So please call or set up phone. 7:36 PM
Me: Sorry shutting fax off 7:37 PM
Me: Call 7:37 PM
[The Ex]: Well thaats voicemail. Will be here when you call. I have tried. 7:37 PM
Me: Stop drama and call our home line 7:38 PM
Me: Stop drama and call our home line 7:45 PM
Me: I am upstairs settling children, if you wish to speak with [daughter] you should call soon it's ten to eight 7:50 PM
[The Ex]: No call from u. I tried to call. So sad for my child. 8:33 PM
Me: Stop your silly drama, you called home line once and when it was sent to fax you were apologized to and asked to please call back, what's sad us you plac 8:36 PM
Me: ing your dramatics before our daughters needs 8:36 PM
[The Ex]: Please invest your time in placing call not in texting. Goodnight. 8:40 PM
Me: Please invest YOUR time in getting the mental help YOU need. Goodnight 8:42 PM
[The Ex]: ? 8:42 PM
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[The Ex] 10/3/10 6:59 PM 3 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: Please see email. Awaiting phone call. No [webcam]. Please book christmas for [daughter]. 6:59 PM
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Text Messages (8/2010 - 9/2010)
[The Ex] 9/30/10 8:01 PM 3 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: I will wait for call from [daughter]. No sound though ringing stopped. All I need is a call. No text. Call or don't. Don't text. 7:25 PM
Me: Call back I'm upstairs settling children 7:27 PM
Me: Call back I'm upstairs settling children ... [daughter] will answer directly 7:40 PM
Me: Heading down since you're not calling I'll try you 7:50 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] sweeping. Its almost eight. Call died. Why is a schooll age child sweeping At eight pm? Are u kidding? Is she cinderella? 7:55 PM
Me: Goodnight 7:56 PM
[The Ex]: Let's address this list of chores in email. Start writing [Custodial Dad]. Other children her age are reading at this time. 7:56 PM
Me: Thank you for suggesting tonight bedtime fairy tale 7:57 PM
Me: I'm certain you'll be passing this on to Children and Youth tomorrow.. write to your hearts content. 7:59 PM
[The Ex]: It is unfortunate that you believe I am suggesting a bedtime story. I am very concerned. 8:00 PM
Me: Its 8PM stop texting me. 8:01 PM
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[The Ex] 9/29/10 7:45 PM 3 weeks ago
Inbox
[The Ex]: no answer. Want to call or too busy? 7:18 PM
[The Ex]: Call w [daughter]. 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: No response. Pls resolve and call. 7:37 PM
Me: We keep answering, no one on your end 7:42 PM
Me: Please try again 7:42 PM
[The Ex]: Ah huh. you are the only one with this deficiency. Call w my child now. 7:43 PM
Me: Call or not stop playing games 7:45 PM
[The Ex]: Are u kidding? 7:45 PM
Me: Call or not stop playing games 7:47 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/28/10 7:51 PM 4 weeks ago
Inbox
Me: Missed call please call back 7:51 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call. No call yet. 7:51 PM
Me: Missed call please call back 7:59 PM
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[The Ex] 9/26/10 9:00 PM 4 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Please provide a good protein for my child at lunch. Jam and bread is not gonna do.No way. As usual both lines go to voicemail. More than 2 weeks of this. 7:32 PM
Me: Excuse me? 7:33 PM
[The Ex]: Call me with my child. Ensure you connection. Find time to place the call. You are responsible for that simple action for [daughter]. 7:33 PM
[The Ex]: You text long messages but no time for call. 7:34 PM
Me: We're eating 7:34 PM
[The Ex]: Can [daughter] have time with her Mom on Sunday? 7:34 PM
[The Ex]: You got the messages. You decide your actions. 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: I do not need texts. My child needs a call to her Mom. 7:35 PM
Me: We are done eating. I also told [daughter] what YOU said about lunch, she laughed since she eats a broad variety of foods all week. 8:13 PM
[The Ex]: What does that mean you told [daughter]? 8:14 PM
[The Ex]: Please call me when you have verified your phone can have audio both ways. I am waiting. 8:15 PM
Me: Call or not ... it's bedtime Sion 8:15 PM
Me: Soon 8:16 PM
Me: [daughter] cannot wait up all night for your call. Please call ASAP. I receive multiple phone calls each day, I know my phone works just fine. 8:29 PM
[The Ex]: Hey no sound Past the first sentence. What a way to go out. 8:35 PM
Me: Curious this only happens with your calls and [daughter] states she can hear you just fine. I welcome you to call back again. 8:45 PM
Me: And refrain from threatening me... No one is going "out" regardless of how you meant that statement. 8:48 PM
Me: You are welcomed to call until 9 pm this evening ONLY. Although [daughter] said she was done, she is waiting to say good night to you. 8:50 PM
[The Ex]: That is what we call an empty offer. I called. No answer and voicemail. Why don't you set up the conditions for reall phone contact for [daughter]. Send me an email. 8:59 PM
[The Ex]: Good night. Let me know about time tommow with [daughter]. 9:00 PM
Me: Out phones are fine, [daughter] will be on [webcam] at 7 tomorrow 9:02 PM
[The Ex]: No in person time with [daughter]? 9:03 PM
Me: No 9:04 PM
Me: I do not think your behavior is healthy for [daughter]. You have caused [daughter] unwarranted confusion and sadness since August. [daughter] will see you at Dr. [therapist home state] 9:04 PM
Me: Meter on Thursday, as scheduled. 9:04 PM
[The Ex]: Really? Now that needs an email. Will ya? 1:54 AM
Me: Where do you find it even remotely acceptable to text at 2am? If you continue to use texts inappropriately, I will BLOCK all incoming texts from you. Fee 9:44 AM
Me: l free to email me or take note of this 9:44 AM
[The Ex]: Hey I guess u got the text. So did not mean to have it sent at that time. Well just let me know about [daughter] having time with us today.tnx. 10:28 AM
Me: [webcam] at 7 10:34 AM
[The Ex]: Hey looks like a no and ignoring request of time. My oh my. 10:41 AM
Me: It should be no surprise to you and your "request(s)" have been answered a multiple of times 10:43 AM
Me: Hey looks like you have many issues sending texts at inappropriate times. Glad you are able to curb your behavior, hate to remove this avenue of communication. 10:46 AM
[The Ex]: Yeah. I know. Sad. 10:47 AM
Me: [daughter] is logged onto dadaseeyou the [webcam] account associated with [Custodial Dad email]@gmail.com 7:17 PM
[The Ex]: Ah huh sure. You have to accept me on [webcam] or no contact can be made. You know that. Stop with this keep away game?Don't let the child sit for your mean act. 7:24 PM
Me: The dadaseeyou account is the only account I've used ever the Bradley[Custodial dad last name]s account is the ONLY home account we've ever used, your dozen or more account 7:26 PM
Me: s tell a tale 7:27 PM
[The Ex]: Can't see her liive. Just a picture still. No audio. Just cracking noises intermittently. Just call. 7:40 PM
[The Ex]: You get on [webcam] to log time. You pick up phone to log time. Go to bed. This is over. I will make sure [daughter] has contact me. Don't keep this up. 7:44 PM
Me: What? 7:45 PM
[The Ex]: Please call with my child tonight for my child to talk with Mom? 7:52 PM
Me: We went MONTHS without issue and suddlenly you start attempting to build a case, we have a ton of issues. Wonder who is actually playing the games? 7:59 PM
[The Ex]: Oops. Stop txt on nonsense tnx. 9:00 PM
Me: Correct this is nonsense, please go on about your evening. 9:03 PM
Me: [daughter] is not a possession or a prize won She is OUR daughter Maybe correcting your language would also correct your behavior. 9:08 PM
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[The Ex] 9/24/10 8:40 PM 4 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: There was no call today again. There was no answer on any of your phones. All go to voicemail. So sad for [daughter]. 8:11 PM
[The Ex]: Can [daughter] have time with her Mom tomorrow? Saturday I can come get her and bring her back to you. 8:12 PM
Me: What would be sad? You and your Mother saw her at lunch again today. 8:14 PM
Me: No 8:14 PM
Me: I do not think your behavior is healthy for [daughter]. You have caused [daughter] unwarranted confusion and sadness since August. [daughter] will see you at Dr. [therapist home state] Me 8:17 PM
Me: ter on Thursday, as scheduled. 8:17 PM
[The Ex]: Please let me have time with [daughter] this Saturday. Maybe a restaurant meal of her choice? Breakfast? Lunch? Dinner? 8:32 PM
Me: I do not think your behavior is healthy for [daughter]. You have caused [daughter] unwarranted confusion and sadness since August. [daughter] will see you at Dr. [therapist home state] 8:33 PM
Me: Meter on Thursday, as scheduled. 8:33 PM
[The Ex]: Is that a no for any meal with [daughter] for tomorrow? 8:35 PM
Me: I do not think your behavior is healthy for [daughter]. You have caused [daughter] unwarranted confusion and sadness since August. [daughter] will see you at Dr. [therapist home state] 8:35 PM
Me: Meter on Thursday, as scheduled. 8:35 PM
[The Ex]: If you refuse to let her eat with us then~Can we take her to the park or to a kiddie movie Saturday? 8:38 PM
Me: Are you reading my response? 8:38 PM
[The Ex]: Yes. I read it. I see that you decided to refuse time for [daughter] with Mom for Saturday. 8:40 PM
Me: This is precisely the behavior that concerns me. I hope this time you actually show up for Dr. [therapist home state]. Good night, Its late and I have children that a 8:42 PM
Me: re sleeping. 8:42 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/23/10 8:00 PM 4 weeks ago
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Me: Supper is finished please feel free to call 7:19 PM
Me: Just missed it please call back 7:31 PM
[The Ex]: Two lines go to voicemail. 7:32 PM
[The Ex]: You answer. Call recording on heard. No child there. 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: Call back with child please. 7:35 PM
Me: [daughter] said she heard you clear as a bell, try again if you want 7:38 PM
[The Ex]: Call back with child please. 7:54 PM
Me: I am busy, if you want To speak to [daughter] call directly 7:57 PM
[The Ex]: If there is no call from my child by eight o clock I will call the police for a welfare check. 8:00 PM
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[The Ex] 9/22/10 9:12 PM 4 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: No answer. No call. Please call. 5:08 PM
Me: Supper is finished please feel free to call 6:26 PM
[The Ex]: No answer. No call. Please call. 7:05 PM
Me: Supper is finished please feel free to call 7:15 PM
Me: [daughter] was in the shower when you called previously, please call as soon as you can. Bedtime in 25 mins. 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: Ah huh. 7:48 PM
Me: Disconnected 7:50 PM
[The Ex]: Nah. Your sound is off. Child cannot hear me. 7:52 PM
Me: No 7:52 PM
[The Ex]: Please call. Why is call recording on and text working but child canot hear Mom? 7:52 PM
Me: Phone is working fine, heard you disconnect. 7:56 PM
[The Ex]: False claims noted. 9:12 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/21/10 10:25 PM 5 weeks ago
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Me: Out @ school event. Will try later if we are not in too late 6:58 PM
[The Ex]: No call to Mom. No answer of your three phone lines. You text when out. But no call from same phones. Poor [daughter]. Why? Again. Six days no calls. 9:58 PM
[The Ex]: Two days Sunday and Monday call cut off. Why is that? 9:59 PM
Me: STOP TEXTING 10:05 PM
[The Ex]: Texting? What? Why will you not let my daughter talk to me again? Just let her call. Please. Please. Please. I'm begging. Be sure my child is unharmed. 10:25 PM
Me: She's in bed you are texting at OUTRAGEOUS times! Stop this nonsense immediately. 10:54 PM
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[The Ex] 9/21/10 6:40 AM 5 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: [webcam] tonight? 11:03 AM
[The Ex]: Hello? [webcam] or call today? 11:15 AM
[The Ex]: Can I have [daughter] this week? I am in town and can care for her and get her to school etc. Can I please offer [daughter] this time with Mom? 11:17 AM
[The Ex]: Can [daughter] have this chance to share her time as I am here in [home state]? 11:17 AM
Me: [webcam] tonight as agreed upon 11:18 AM
Me: No 11:18 AM
[The Ex]: Time? 11:19 AM
[The Ex]: Time for [webcam]? 11:20 AM
[The Ex]: What is no for? 11:20 AM
[The Ex]: What does your accusation of me calling dcf or child welfare have to do with the call schedule and contact with [daughter]? 11:23 AM
[The Ex]: Why deny [daughter]'s contact with her Mom? I am right here in town and I have come to spend time with [daughter]. 11:24 AM
Me: Will text when [webcam] is available 11:26 AM
[The Ex]: Need to set up at wireless spot so need a time frame please. 12:32 PM
[The Ex]: Need to set up at wireless spot so need a time frame please. 3:44 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter]. No answer both lines. One line is forwarded. 5:09 PM
Me: Call instead of [webcam]? 5:12 PM
[The Ex]: Any conact is good. Call is fine. Just answer your phoneS please. 5:29 PM
Me: Call @ 7... great. Text if you want to [webcam]. 5:45 PM
Me: Logged in... call or [webcam] at your convenience. 7:16 PM
Me: Logged in... call or [webcam] at your convenience. 7:24 PM
[The Ex]: Cannot log in. No internet aS you did not schedule in time. You do not answer your phones. 7:37 PM
Me: Schedule was set months ago.... anyway... please call at your convenience. 7:38 PM
[The Ex]: Really? And [daughter] is off tomorrow. Why noT share her time since I'm here to see her? Let's set up with [therapist home state] as you have communicated. This week. Huh?Good? 7:46 PM
Me: Thought you had a copy of the school calendar? 7:47 PM
Me: You need to schedule with Dr. [therapist home state] directly... sure he will try to accommodate you. 7:48 PM
[The Ex]: Thought you had a copy of the calendar. Need to have [daughter] present for [therapist home state] meet and greet and some session time with her and doctor. I or Dr will call u. 8:38 PM
[The Ex]: Still can have time Monday tomorrow with [daughter]? Can keep her for week and take to school and care for her. Ok? Set pick up and drop off please. Thanks. 8:40 PM
Me: Message unclear... please email for clarity. 8:40 PM
[The Ex]: I can even take her to [therapist home state] as I schedule it. And cheerleading or any activites. I'd love to share [daughter]s time as I am here in [home state]. 8:42 PM
Me: No. 8:42 PM
[The Ex]: See email previously sent. Same requests. Email uses letters and words too. Just like text. See texts above? 8:43 PM
[The Ex]: Denial noted. 8:43 PM
[The Ex]: See email previously sent. Same requests. Email uses letters and words too. Just like text. See texts above? 8:43 PM
Me: You need professional help. 8:43 PM
Me: Its late, please stop. 8:43 PM
[The Ex]: Please please please. Please please I'm begging you reconsider. [daughter] needs time with her Mom too. I am right here in town this week. Please share her time. 8:44 PM
[The Ex]: I ask for [daughter] to have time with her Mom. You respond with NO and referral for me to get what? 8:47 PM
[The Ex]: Oh just got that. Sleep tight. 8:47 PM
Me: Is that a threat? You make these ambiguous threats so I suggest you either cut it out or just say it for the record. I'm getting really tired of your insanity. 8:48 PM
[The Ex]: Hey let's be fruitful if your texting- so how about time Tuesday with [daughter]? Say what? Saying I want to see my child and keep her for dinner&take her to school 9:14 PM
[The Ex]: Why is it threatening to you to have [daughter] spend time with her Mom? Why is child services at your door? Again? Why? 9:16 PM
[The Ex]: Why not let my daughter have her time with her mom? Is my daughter on your child services list? Is that what is going on there? Please please please tell me. 9:18 PM
[The Ex]: I'm begging you. Pleasr let me know what is going on. My concern has brought me to town. Is that why you are keeping [daughter] away from her Mom? 9:20 PM
[The Ex]: CnY has confidential reports so you know issues so please tell me? Is my child involved? My daughter better be unharmed. I will find out the truth. 9:23 PM
[The Ex]: You are responsible for [daughter]. Be responsible. Be open and honest. It helps me to see that things are ok. This keep away game is of concern. Severe concern. 9:24 PM
[The Ex]: I'm sure I would have known if something was wrong. So what is it that I do not knoew that puts your house under Child welfare investigation? Concern valid? 9:27 PM
Me: Your faxes and calls were documented, I am sure they will give you copies if you need them. Understand that we ALL know it was you. [town in home state] police, the lawyers, the judge.. we all know its you. Please stop this nonsense. You are making a fool of yourself. 9:28 PM
Me: For the record and to state it again... YOU ARE IN SERIOUS NEED OF MENTAL HELP. Your behavior is not that of sane person. You are a danger to ALL of the children in my home and most specifically [daughter]. 9:30 PM
[The Ex]: Ah avoidance. Bad indicator. Maybe everything is just fine. Ill say a prayer for you all. Make sure my child is unharmed. 9:31 PM
[The Ex]: Still you do not share the issues. Why would I ask if I could get a copy? 9:32 PM
Me: Everything is and will be fine. I can certainly make that assurance. Good night. 9:32 PM
[The Ex]: Sleep tight. 9:33 PM
[The Ex]: Your assurance is what counts. Thanks. 9:34 PM
[The Ex]: Let me know about tuesday for [daughter]s time with Mom. 9:34 PM
Me: My assurance would not be necessary had you not have called multiple times and faxed them on "BASELESS" claims. 9:39 PM
[The Ex]: Why are you sending me these texts? I am concerned about investigation but you refuse to share. So let's just set up time share as we can both do that for [daughter] 9:47 PM
[The Ex]: Let's give her time with her Mom. I don't see that you are concerned. So let's move on. Wish I could know more but [daughter] is my only concern. Time share? 9:49 PM
Me: I'm not sending you texts, I am responding to your texts. I am concerned about what your intentions are while you are in the area. I am concerned about how your mental defects affect [daughter]. I am concerned about your false allegations and what you may be capable of doing. 9:52 PM
Me: Now stop texting me. 9:53 PM
[The Ex]: What are you doing sending me texts of this content? What is going on with you? Why are you texting me this but not a single visit schedule? 9:55 PM
[The Ex]: Pleasr don't try to involve me in your household issues. I just want to see my child. That is why I texted. Please limit your responses to time share for [daughter] 9:57 PM
Me: Stop texting me. Good night. 9:58 PM
[The Ex]: It Momday and I'd like to ask you to reconsider and allow us to take [daughter] out for a meal at least. Or have her overnight. I will get her to school Tuesday. 9:22 AM
[The Ex]: Please please please. I am begging that you allow time for [daughter] to share with her Mom. Please. 9:24 AM
Me: Please call back 2:06 PM
Me: Please call back 2:07 PM
[The Ex]: you line died again. [daughter] keeps saying hello. I can hear her. But she does not respond.My mute is NOT on. Please correct.As you have recorded the call check it 2:14 PM
[The Ex]: Please call back. Now or anytime is great. 2:14 PM
Me: my phone works fine 2:15 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] keeps saying hello and is unable to hear me talking to her. WHY? Now your line has gone dead again. 2:26 PM
[The Ex]: Please call. 2:26 PM
Me: [daughter] says your phone keeps dying 2:35 PM
[The Ex]: Hey there was a bawling child on the first call this series. There was a screaming child this call. Constantly [daughter] is not able to hear Mom. My kid can call me 2:36 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] can call back. Please put the call in for her. Please check your reception. Use one of the other two lines you have. Anything. Just make a real phone call 2:38 PM
[The Ex]: Thanks. 2:38 PM
Me: Your phone is having issues, [webcam] tonight instead? 3:26 PM
[The Ex]: You never called me back to have [daughter] talk with Mom. 9:11 PM
Me: You are right. I didn't You could have called & [webcam] was offered as an alternative. Good night 9:14 PM
[The Ex]: Start small [Custodial Dad]. With a phone call. When we can do a call that has my daughter hearing me we can move on to video cam. Keep it simple and successful. 9:39 PM
Me: [daughter] was on a HOME phone. Problems were on your end. Simple enough. 9:41 PM
Me: What is odd is your sudden urge to text long after acceptable call/[webcam] times. Next time set an alarm and we'll happily accomodate you 9:43 PM
[The Ex]: Accomodate me? The call is for [daughter]. 10:50 PM
Me: It's 11pm [daughter] has been asleep for almost THREE hours, do you expect me to place/accept a call NOW? 10:55 PM
[The Ex]: [Custodial Dad]. When you have an order you follow it. When do you think you should call for [daughter] to talk to Mom? Its simple. Thanks. 6:32 AM
Me: Please start addressing these issues via email, as I have explained previously texting at 'odd' hours is disturbing. I have sleeping family. Thank you 6:34 AM
[The Ex]: Issues? Hey start with call for [daughter] accd rules. Simple. 6:40 AM
Me: Please start addressing these issues via email, as I have explained previously texting at 'odd' hours is disturbing. I have sleeping family. Thank you 6:42 AM
Me: Please start addressing these issues via email, as I have explained previously texting at 'odd' hours is disturbing. I have sleeping family. Thank you 6:42 AM
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[The Ex] 9/18/10 8:00 PM 5 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Please please call with my daughter. Oh please. I am begging you. 12:47 PM
[The Ex]: Can you imagine how her heart hurts from being away from her Momma and not being able to talk even on the phone? This is day six of this no contact by you. 12:49 PM
[The Ex]: How do you justify this action? 12:49 PM
Me: A) What "action"? and B) imagine over five years of not knowing. we are Enjoying my birthday weekend thanks and we'll text when it's a good time to call 12:53 PM
Me: this evening.... unless [daughter] requests to call earlier 12:53 PM
Me: Additionally, she spent lunch with you two days this week so there has been contact. Dramatics are unnecessary. 12:54 PM
[The Ex]: Do you think its good for [daughter] to not have a call to me for six days? Is there a daily call order in place? Did [therapist home state] say don't call [daughter]'s Mom? 12:58 PM
[The Ex]: Why did you send a smiley face symbol? Error or does that mean something? Will I have time with [daughter] next week or anytime this weekend? 12:59 PM
[The Ex]: No need to text first. Please just call. [webcam] sunday? 1:00 PM
[The Ex]: What does your claim of five years of no contact have to do with no call allowed for [daughter] with her Mom now? 1:01 PM
[The Ex]: Please help me to understand. 1:01 PM
Me: Have a great day, will call later at a better time as we are celebrating. 1:01 PM
Me: Have a great day, will call later at a better time as we are celebrating. 1:01 PM
Me: Simple: you don't talk to [daughter] for 12 hours and call the police and C&Y. I don't talk to her for five years and your response is "she's fine." 2:30 PM
[The Ex]: What year are you living in? Whose reality does your statement reflect? What are you talking about? Are we governed by a call order each day? 2:32 PM
[The Ex]: Are you violating the call order for five days? You fail to answer my calls. 2:34 PM
Me: Huh, having trouble with the year? Its 2010. Like I said: we are celebrating my birthday weekend, will call or [webcam] later. Your texts are simply disruptive. 2:35 PM
[The Ex]: You fail to call me with [daughter]. Dcf is investigating you. You don't share why. I understand there are multiple reports. What is going on there? Why no calls? 2:35 PM
Me: I have IRREFUTABLE evidence that YOU made the reports in writing which will be presented as evidence. 2:38 PM
Me: Your faxes are revealing. The frequency of your calls to the authorities are telling of your obsessive behavior... Again, you need mental help. 2:39 PM
[The Ex]: All this texting and no call? 2:39 PM
Me: I am off to Enjoy my birthday with my children. Enjoy your day, we sure are. Take care! 2:39 PM
[The Ex]: We all know about your 'evidence'. Let's get my daughter on the phone. 2:39 PM
Me: I am off to Enjoy my birthday with my children. Enjoy your day, we sure are. Take care! 2:40 PM
Me: Your behavior is not that of a sane person and that sentiment seems to transcend the various authorities interacting with you. Trust that your accusations will no longer be tolerated. 2:41 PM
Me: To clear up: Mon we were out late and the officer assured you of her safety and discovered it was you calling C&Y; Tuesday and Wednesday I texted for you to call w/no response. Thursday and Friday you were at school with [daughter]. Tonight, [webcam] or call this evening. 2:52 PM
Me: Off to celebrate some more with my children.... 2:52 PM
Me: Just missed your call ..., please call back 7:59 PM
[The Ex]: No call. No answering your phones. No text. No arrangement for time for [daughter] with Mom. 8:00 PM
Me: Again, please call back 8:01 PM
Me: We're still up so a call is fine 8:04 PM
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[The Ex] 9/17/10 9:40 PM 5 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call. Tried u many times. No call four nights. 7:47 PM
Me: At open house @ school. Texted you to call with no response last few days 7:51 PM
[The Ex]: You please call. U do not answer. Four days. 7:52 PM
[The Ex]: You better keep my daughter safe from anyone hurting her body. You keep your kids off of her. Keep your hands to yourselves. It is abuse. It is not a joke. Seis 9:39 PM
[The Ex]: It is disgusting and of grave concern that you think physical abuse of my daughter is funny. This is not keeping her safe. She is a child. 9:42 PM
[The Ex]: No call four days. No visit? Why keep her unsafe and away from Mom? 9:43 PM
Me: You need to get profesional help 11:31 PM
[The Ex]: Disregard noted. 8:02 AM
Me: Your accusations were deemed unfounded and baseless by not only the police but by children and youth and will be dealt with accordingly. Their refusal to even answer to your claims speaks volumes. 8:09 AM
Me: Please note this: your egregious behavior is a danger to [daughter] and my other children. You are in need of serious mental help. 8:10 AM
Me: It is clear that you are the SOLE one abusing [daughter] and her mental well being with these codes and lies. 8:11 AM
Me: If you care AT ALL about [daughter], you would stop this nonsense immediately. 8:12 AM
[The Ex]: I asked for [daughter] to have time with me this weekend. No response but you text on other topics. Please set up time for pick up today or any time for [daughter] w Mom. 10:46 AM
Me: No 10:47 AM
[The Ex]: Is that your final answer? 11:59 AM
[The Ex]: Can I have her for time slots on the weekend for lunch maybe dinner? We can arrange pick up drop off? 12:00 PM
[The Ex]: Can [daughter] have time with Mom anytime next week? 12:01 PM
[The Ex]: Are you going to put [daughter] on the phone for call with Mom? 12:05 PM
Me: Mom who? Are you speaking in the third person? 12:06 PM
[The Ex]: Will there be a call today? Will you answer my call today? 12:07 PM
[The Ex]: Place the word her in front of Mom. Will [daughter] be able to have calls or time with Mom? 12:08 PM
Me: Please call when [daughter] is home. I will text reminder. 12:08 PM
[The Ex]: Her Mom. [daughter]'s Mom. Her Mom. 12:08 PM
Me: Again in the third person? Or are you refering to your mother? 12:09 PM
Me: Please speak clearly, sorry. 12:09 PM
[The Ex]: I have continued to call. You do not answer. So please place the call. Please answer re time for [daughter] with her mom [The Ex]. Can also set time for grandmom. 12:11 PM
Me: Are you planning on having lunch with [daughter] again today? 12:11 PM
[The Ex]: No call again. Fifth day no call. I tried two of ur phone lines. No answer. Is my daughter there and ok? Will you call or [webcam]? 9:11 PM
Me: You had time with [daughter] both yesterday and today. [daughter] didn't ask to speak with you either night 9:13 PM
[The Ex]: Call order? 9:15 PM
[The Ex]: Do we have a call order? 9:15 PM
Me: Hope you Enjoyed your time spent with [daughter] Good night. 9:17 PM
[The Ex]: Ignoring. Noted. 9:39 PM
[The Ex]: Ignoring order. Noted. 9:40 PM
[The Ex]: Ignoring childs right to contact. Noted. 9:40 PM
Me: Please note that your behavior is unhealthy for all involved. Please stop this nonsense. Glad you had a nice visit. Good night. 9:42 PM
Me: Do not text again as [daughter] clearly already in bed and asleep. 9:43 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/15/10 7:23 PM 5 weeks ago
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Me: Are you calling tonight? 7:21 PM
[The Ex]: Are you kidding? Text me but no call. Noted. My daughter better be unharmed. 10:27 PM
[The Ex]: God help you all. 10:28 PM
Me: Is that a threat? 10:33 PM
[The Ex]: Here is the point. My daughter better be unharmed. God help you all. Is that a threat for a child to be safe and for God to help you all? Check email? 10:51 PM
[The Ex]: You are responsible for [daughter]. How responsible? Responsible. Responsible??? I need my Mom to get [daughter] from school Friday. We will take her to school Monday. 11:28 PM
[The Ex]: Your email accoint to thebrad etc blocked. Why ? No response to time share arrangement details. Dcf. Big big concerns. Alarming. 11:31 PM
[The Ex]: No call Saturday. Cut call Sunday. No call Monday. No call Tuesday. No response for child with Mom. 11:33 PM
Me: Please call at your convenience -- [daughter] is having dessert. 7:20 PM
Me: Was that your call? If it was, please try again. 7:23 PM
[The Ex] 9/13/10 7:43 PM 6 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: You have until eight. That's all. You do not answer. I've been trying no call Saturday. No reason. Why? No call all day today. 7:43 PM
Me to [The Ex] 9/12/10 6:15 PM 6 weeks ago
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Me: Something came up. Can not [webcam] tonight but we will coordinate another night for [webcam] since you were able to talk with [daughter] this am Thanks 5:57 PM
[The Ex]: Sorry for [daughter] as her call was cut as you would not answer my callback after call cut off. Figured no [webcam]. Happy birthday to your son. 5:59 PM
Me: [daughter] said she was all done, didn't know call was cut short. Set up [webcam] for another night. Thanks! 6:08 PM
[The Ex]: Untrue and so sad. She was singing. Let's discuss via email. 6:09 PM
Me: Nothing to discuss, I trust [daughter]s statement she was done Email me regarding alternate days for [webcam]. Good evening. 6:14 PM
[The Ex]: Hey wanna let [daughter] on [webcam] since you have such time to text. Call is great too. 6:15 PM
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[The Ex] 9/9/10 8:02 PM 6 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Again if there is no call before eight I am sincerely concerned. Put my child on the phone. I only get ur vpoicemail. 7:28 PM
Me: Almost always a call before 8 7:29 PM
[The Ex]: Write it. Prove it. AL done. No need to text before u place call. My daughter could use the extra minute with Mom on call. 8:02 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/1/10 10:35 PM 7 weeks ago
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Me: [daughter] is @ Grandma's... Feel free to call her there. 6:12 PM
[The Ex]: Please provide number? Have ur mother call my phone. Use your options. Its easy. 6:17 PM
Me: According to your testimony @ court, you have the number since you "maintained contact" and she's had the same number 15+ years 6:19 PM
[The Ex]: You have HOURS to call. You make no effort to make it happen. Frustration? 6:19 PM
Me: But here it is anyway: (XXX)XXX-5726 6:21 PM
[The Ex]: You are responsible for contact. Not ur mother. With all that texting you can give number. You got that in print 6:21 PM
Me: I am making it happen, are you paying attention? 6:21 PM
Me: Is your text malfunctioning? 2nd time: (XXX)XXX-5726 if you do not feel like calling [daughter]'s grandmother, if we are back in time we will call... If not 6:23 PM
[The Ex]: Call with [daughter] when you get her. Thanks. 7:31 PM
[The Ex]: Hostility noted. 7:31 PM
[The Ex]: Will u call? I am concerned for [daughter]. 8:37 PM
Me: Why are you concerned this time? 9:03 PM
[The Ex]: invalidation noted. 10:05 PM
Me: Question not answered. 10:05 PM
[The Ex]: Lots of time on your hands.goodnoght. 10:06 PM
Me: If you are concerned... state it so that I can either address it or dismiss it accordingly. If not we will chalk this up to more theatrics. 10:08 PM
[The Ex]: Dcf is not a stage show. Answer ur emails. I'm off to bed. 10:25 PM
Me: Correct and they do not take false allegations likely. Emails are answered and re-answered as appropriate... 10:27 PM
Me: By your lack of response, you are clearly not concerned about [daughter]. Thanks and good night. 10:27 PM
[The Ex]: ? 10:35 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/1/10 12:52 AM 8 weeks ago
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Me: Its a school night, she's in bed and its 8:40. She called, sorry you were unavailable. 8:37 PM
[The Ex]: Call w [daughter].tried u earlier. No answer. 8:38 PM
[The Ex]: Call or answer anytime after school let's out at three? See how easy to male contact? You set up failure. 8:39 PM
Me: School doesn't let out at 3PM. I was in the pick up line at the time you called. Again, sorry you were unavailable for [daughter]'s call at 7:30. Kids are sleeping... Good Night. 8:42 PM
Me: Order states 9AM to 8PM... will mention to [daughter] that she has option to call prior to school. Good Night 8:45 PM
[The Ex]: What else does order state? Hum? Tisk tisk. This is over. 9:00 PM
Me: It states that all telephone contact or computer contact is to take place before ***8PM and after 9AM.*** The child shall be entitled to speak on the telephone with the Father ONCE each day during any time sharing with the Mother, likewise, every day the child shall be entitled to speak to the Mother when with the Father. Either the parent or the child may place the call. 9:07 PM
Me: And thats a direct quote. Did you lose your copy? 9:08 PM
[The Ex]: Copy? What copy? Did you loose your copy? I don't understand the question. And not a word about my visit. 12:52 AM
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Me to [The Ex]
8/29/10 7:08 PM 8 weeks ago
Me: [webcam]? 7:08 PM
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8/29/10 1:28 PM 8 weeks ago
Me: I'm sorry we're finishing lunch, right after then. 1:28 PM
Me to [The Ex] 8/23/10 7:39 PM 2 months ago
Me: Would you like to [webcam] with [daughter] this evening... we had a long/fun dinner and lost track of time. My apologies. 7:39 PM
Me: [daughter] told me your "phone died." [webcam] later this week perhaps? As a side note, you may NOT mix mom dad discussion and [daughter] discussion via 'Chat' as she 8:16 PM
Me: was witness to ALL dialog. You must refrain from mixing your communication with me and [daughter] as I kept trying to explain to you over [webcam] 8:16 PM
[The Ex] 8/22/10 8:30 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Call with [daughter] before seven. Don't continue to violate. 3:03 PM
Me: We are out... Will call later. No one is violating anything, please stop threatening and creating hostile communication. It is unnecessary. 3:05 PM
Me: Later night than expected [webcam] tomm evening? 7:55 PM
[The Ex]: Violating. Harsh for child. Not about you. You are in contempt and you have to call me today still. Anytime. You are not above the law. 8:00 PM
Me: [Step Mother] is texting, [Custodial Dad] is driving... We are long way from home if she's awake, we'll have her call. If not she'll call in the am. No need for ani 8:10 PM
Me: mosity, nothing is intentional or a personal assault. Night just ended much later than anticipated as I'm sure you understand since it occured will [daughter] 8:10 PM
Me: was in [other state] with you a few weeks ago. 8:11 PM
[The Ex]: Point is you have phone in hand. Use it to call now. 8:30 PM
Me: Point is we have a four row van.. Not getting out of my seat nor throwing a phone towards the back. Sorry. There is also no where to pull over... Will ca 8:34 PM
Me: ll either when we get home or in the am. 8:34 PM
Me: Also, children are sleeping, calling and texting repeatidly is simply disruptive and achieving nothing. 8:35 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 8/21/10 10:28 AM 2 months ago
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Me: Saw you called. [daughter] is in the shower, busy morning .... I'll have her try in a few 9:31 AM
[The Ex]: [daughter] disconnected in mid conversation. Pls have her call back. 10:24 AM
[The Ex]: Pls call back. [daughter] said u took her to the eye dr. Why does she have to go back to choose glass frames? 10:28 AM
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[The Ex] 8/19/10 7:02 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call. Getting late. You hung up twice. Your voice mail on twice. [Other State friend] and I are waiting. 7:02 PM
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[The Ex]
8/18/10 12:24 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Call w [daughter]. Pls do not wait for lastest time and shorten call when she is on. This is cause for contempt. 9:31 AM
Me: [daughter] is playing with friends right now ... she can call at alotted time 11:45 AM
[The Ex]: Anytime for call and I can call her too. You wait past time or too late to allow for meaningful contact with Mom. That's witholding. 11:47 AM
Me: Have a nice day 11:47 AM
[The Ex]: Fact is that your failures in this for over five months are against custody laws. Oh my. Pls call before seven. Will try later to call. 11:48 AM
[The Ex]: Did [daughter] go to orthodontist for extender pain? Did she go for throat and cough. The cough is thick. 12:22 PM
[The Ex]: I am making the outfts for [daughter]. What is her height from head to foot. The veil has to fall correctly. 12:24 PM
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[The Ex] 8/17/10 10:50 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Plsa call with [daughter]. 7:29 PM
[The Ex]: Why doies [daughter] have to go when she does not want to go? What is the problem with her talking 9:16 PM
Me: Text not for in depth communication - all issues, please email me. Please refrain from texting and calling after 8 pm as it is disruptive and contrary to the order. 9:22 PM
[The Ex]: Ud 10:50 PM
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[The Ex] 8/16/10 8:07 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls [webcam] w [daughter] as you were able to do with [Step Mother] s help mid day. I am$ here. 11:33 AM
[The Ex]: Pls [webcam] with me. 2:07 PM
[The Ex]: [Custodial Dad] do you want us to go to same or different open house for [daughter] on tuesday. 2:07 PM
[The Ex]: Will you and [Step Mother] be at seven or two pm session. 2:08 PM
[The Ex]: Call at seven. Ready. 6:56 PM
[The Ex]: Got ur voicemail. Pls call. 7:29 PM
Me: Finishing dinner/clean up will call or [webcam] in a few minutes 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] tonight? 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] please. 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] tonight? 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] was promised. 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: Waiting. 7:36 PM
Me: Finishing dinner/clean up will call or [webcam] in a few minutes 7:37 PM
[The Ex]: Got that message. Made request. 7:38 PM
Me: Please refrain from texting or calling after 8 pm except in the event of an emergency. Will set her up on [webcam] as soon as we are done. 7:39 PM
[The Ex]: Check that you have followed the same for me. 7:41 PM
Me: [daughter] is online 7:49 PM
[The Ex]: So am I can't see you. Call me on [webcam]. 8:03 PM
[The Ex]: Will call. 8:05 PM
[The Ex]: Not so hard. Please call. 8:07 PM
Me: Tried to call you several times, [daughter] was logged in and waiting. Will call now. I am showering kids and can not assist further. Sorry. 8:18 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 8/16/10 12:29 AM 2 months ago
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Me: [daughter] landed. On our way home. 3:33 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] at seven. See her then. Thx. 3:34 PM
[The Ex]: Pls hv [daughter] call me now or before [webcam]. 5:32 PM
[The Ex]: When will u be on? 6:45 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call ur phone goes to voicemail. 7:01 PM
Me: Just walked into the door. Will have her call in a few minutes. 7:13 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] tonight as arranged? 7:14 PM
[The Ex]: I am on [webcam]. Ready when she is. 7:15 PM
Me: Call will have to suffice.. [daughter] is getting changed, will call when she's done. 7:15 PM
[The Ex]: If u are home as u said why can't u [webcam]? Do u have internet? 7:16 PM
[The Ex]: It seems unreasonable to not turn on a webcam with the click of a mouse. 7:17 PM
[The Ex]: To see Mom would be important as she was here hours ago. 7:17 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] saya [Step Mother] offered [webcam] for tomorrow. 8:00 PM
[The Ex]: Is there any open house info u want to share. Should I just go to website? 12:22 AM
Me: Please understand .... Texting causes my phone to chirp loudly.... and any communication between us should be via email (as I've pointed out numerous tim 12:24 AM
Me: es) .... Thank you 12:24 AM
[The Ex]: That was longer text than an answer. How is [daughter]? 12:27 AM
Me: Stop now 12:27 AM
[The Ex]: Ok 12:28 AM
[The Ex]: I will look to email to get school notice info. 12:29 AM
[The Ex]: Thanks 12:29 AM
Me: I have small children sleeping ... Stop this now! 12:30 AM
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[The Ex] 8/15/10 8:07 AM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: If you don't let us know where you are how can we meet you? Think about how simple that is. Wherever u meant by gate- find it and let me know. We are not going 8:01 AM
[The Ex]: We are not going on a goose chase. Text your three o'clock location. If we have to notify security that you did not show as arranged then we will. 8:03 AM
[The Ex]: Stop filling up my text box. Please. 8:06 AM
[The Ex]: Pease come to get [daughter] with a focus on her comfort and not on engaging in your dramatic troublemaking. 8:07 AM
Me: If you are refrencing this explosion of overly dramatic texts FROM you ... Then I agree ... There should be no troiblemaking .... I will be at the area d 8:42 AM
Me: esignated for pick for [daughter]s particular gate before her plane lands ... and perhaps you can review how YOU are fueling yet another dramatic exchange 8:42 AM
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[The Ex] 8/14/10 11:48 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] is aware u will get her at gate. Will you wait for baggage claim? [webcam] at seven PM or earlier tomorrow? 8:38 PM
[The Ex]: Please reply. Will you pick up baggage claim. If no response then I may not pack stiuff. 9:36 PM
Me: Of course, if she has baggage, we will get her bags. Can meet her at baggage claim with her grandmother. 9:38 PM
[The Ex]: Meet at gate as per attorney agreement. I may not send baggage. Very unlikely I may send. [daughter] will see you at gate. 9:42 PM
Me: Send or don't send, your choice. 9:43 PM
Me: Fine, however, per airplane policy, I will be OUTSIDE the gate in the departure area where non ticketed people are authorized to stand. 9:45 PM
Me: Can not be at the plane departure area but as close as I can be, I will be there. Didn't realize I needed to spell that out. 9:45 PM
Me: Also please remind [daughter] to bring home her build a bear teddy 9:47 PM
[The Ex]: Email changes. 10:00 PM
Me: No changes... please refer to airline/port policies. 10:01 PM
[The Ex]: Gate pick up set. U are set to get [daughter] at aRival. After three PM you are late to pick up. So text if you are to be late. Verify flight arrival schedule. 11:07 PM
[The Ex]: Late then my Mom is responsible to transport [daughter] to her home. So communicate with me if u are late. Don't curcumvent ur timed pickup. Just notify me. Tnx? 11:26 PM
[The Ex]: Airport policy? Are you selectivew in adhering to airport poiicy. You wanted three o'clock. Be there. At three. 11:48 PM
Me: Must be confusion.... I am picking up [daughter] at the airport as close to the gate as is allowable per federal laws. I will of course be there at 3 pm. 7:29 AM
Me: No idea where you are going with all of this... we are all looking forward to seeing [daughter] at 3 as arranged. 7:29 AM
Me: Any questions on where a non ticketed person is allowed to pick up passengers arriving, please contact [city in third state] or Jet Blue. 7:32 AM
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[The Ex] 8/13/10 11:01 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Late birthday. Here is call. 10:59 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] left message. 11:00 PM
Me: Please call in morning at a more appropriate time 11:01 PM
[The Ex]: Sure. Girls off to bed. 11:01 PM
[The Ex] 8/12/10 5:40 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Talked to my lawyer about [daughter]s foot. Would u be on speaker with the walk in clinic staff at urgent care of your choice in [city in other state] and decide what to do about 2:26 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter]s swollen foot? I would just facilitate getting her there and following the medical orders if any. You could make decisions with medical staff. Want this 2:28 PM
[The Ex]: Option for [daughter]s care. The swelling has extended to toes and is warmer. What to do? 2:30 PM
Me: EMAIL me a picture of [daughter]'s foot please. I am not taking medical advise from an attorney, sorry. 2:36 PM
[The Ex]: Will email pic. 2:37 PM
Me: Waiting on call back from pediatrician and will send the pic once its recv'd to them directly. 2:39 PM
[The Ex]: Pls send me a phone number that gets pics as I can send from phone. Off computer is not option as its not working. Have sent u pic earlier if u can download. 2:54 PM
[The Ex]: I can send to pediaterician phone. 2:54 PM
Me: No phone can receive pics. Downloading is NOT an option 2:55 PM
Me: Please input [Custodial Dad home email]@gmail.com into phone number field 2:56 PM
[The Ex]: Can the pediatric office offer a cell that gets pics. Please call them. 2:56 PM
Me: Can not receive text pics. Input email address in to field to achieve same goals 2:58 PM
Me: No [The Ex]... please send me a photo of [daughter]'s foot. Thanks 2:58 PM
Me: [Step Mother] is at home, you can [webcam] with her and she canget a photo of [daughter]'s foot and forward a picture to the pediatricians office. 3:03 PM
Me: Text me so I can let her know to log in... 3:03 PM
[The Ex]: Ok. Great. 3:04 PM
Me: Let me know when so I can let [Step Mother] know. 3:06 PM
[The Ex]: No answer. Please get on [webcam]. [daughter] is waiting to show foot. 3:07 PM
Me: I am not home, give me a second to notify [Step Mother]. 3:08 PM
[The Ex]: Ok tell when we should get on. Don't want it to get later on this. We will be happy to know it is nothing to be concerned over. Tnx for ur help. 3:10 PM
Me: [Step Mother] tried you. [webcam] says "not online." She's logged in. 3:14 PM
[The Ex]: Ok great. 3:14 PM
[The Ex]: Done. Please frws a copy of picture that was sent. 3:25 PM
Me: Spoke with pediatrician's office will email exact instructions also, 3:54 PM
Me: Urgent call/ER NOT necessary. 3:54 PM
Me: Soak in warm water (as I suggested.) Make sure are remains clean. 3:54 PM
Me: Can apply otc hydrocortisone cream for three days ONLY... do not apply for longer three days. 3:55 PM
Me: If its very itchy/uncomfortable you can give her benedryl otc according to her exact weight and package instructions. 3:56 PM
Me: Medicine for throat and cough is as needed.. typically if its keeping her up at night 3:58 PM
[The Ex]: Ok. Great. Will u pdate. 3:59 PM
Me: Sent email as well. Thanks for keeping me informed. Have a good day. 4:34 PM
[The Ex]: Wow. That was nice. Let's keep that going. I appreciate it. She is resting well with me here. 4:54 PM
[The Ex]: [Step Mother] was also very smooth w [daughter] on [webcam]. The kids can come on [webcam] with her to connect w [daughter] as you wish. Just let me know. 4:57 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] reports throat is fine right now. Hurts when cough only. I am much better so I hope her cold symtoms improve. She eats well. 5:40 PM
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[The Ex] 8/11/10 9:36 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] has eaten and still has throat pain when she coughs. Couging is not all the time but you cqn hear the moist cough. Her left foot and ankle is really 8:56 PM
[The Ex]: Left foot and ankle really swollen and warm. Complained last night of itch there but swelling today is obvious. 8:58 PM
[The Ex]: I will keep an eye on it. She is playing fine. Just wsa upset about your statements to her about her date of return. Please think about her view. She is again 9:00 PM
[The Ex]: She is again leaving her home here. Just pls be nice to her about being here and let it be about her return to ur home. Her foot hurts. She has sore throat. 9:02 PM
[The Ex]: She just needs kindness and comfort. 9:03 PM
Me: A. [daughter] stated that both you and [The Ex current husband] smoke... could that be the cause of her throat and cough? 9:06 PM
Me: B. Foot was result of mosquito bite? Maybe soak it in warm water or put calamine lotion on it. 9:06 PM
Me: C. No one is counting down her return home, she was looking at calendar to determine which day it was. We are all excited for [daughter] to come home and its important she knows this. 9:07 PM
Me: I was not unkind to [daughter], don't appreciate the inference. What child is not saddened by an ending vacation? 9:08 PM
Me: Best I can do to understand, will not have a barrage of texts again this evening as I am shutting off my text alert until morning. Feel free to email me. Good night. 9:09 PM
[The Ex]: Got ur text and your treatment for foot. All else is interesting insight into ur mangment of my message to you about [daughter].I understand not to text further this 9:36 PM
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[The Ex] 8/11/10 1:23 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hey dad. My phone as blank screen yesterday and we were out. Wanted to text u and send pics. Sorry could not. Got late to call you by ten. Here [daughter] is now. 10:00 AM
[The Ex]: Please send ur concerns about perfume play and ur issues on call interruption in email. 10:14 AM
[The Ex]: Niam has told you her throat hurts and her palate extender discomfort on her tongue. You replied she will get medical care on return home because "it might just 10:17 AM
[The Ex]: "It might just be an allergy and your tongue is swollen. That's all. " How do you know she does not have a cold and how did you evaluate a possible swollen 10:19 AM
Me: I stated that I would take her to the doctor upon her return. No one is diagnosing [daughter] 10:21 AM
[The Ex]: How did you evaluate a swollen tongue as an insignificant issue? Please email. I'd be happy to bring her to provider of your choice for her comfort &health. . 10:21 AM
Me: As you heard, I stated I could not diagnose her long distance and would take her to see her pediatrician and Dr. [orthodontist] if necessary. 10:21 AM
Me: I heard many sneezes in the background and was trying to see if there were others who were sick around her or if the change in environment was cause for her discomfort. 10:22 AM
Me: I do not feel as though she needs immediate attention and again after hearing the multitude of sneezes in the background. 10:24 AM
[The Ex]: Want her to deal with a sore throat and cough and pain on her tongue until Monday of next week at earliest? That's five days. And throat and cough complaints 10:24 AM
[The Ex]: Complaints on and off since Monday. 10:24 AM
[The Ex]: She told you sneeze was mine. [daughter] did not sneeze. 10:25 AM
Me: Hence the phrase, "many sneezes in the BACKGROUND." 10:26 AM
Me: You do NOT have my permission to take [daughter] to a doctor... she at WORSE case has a cold and does not need to be seen. 10:27 AM
[The Ex]: Hey [Custodial Dad]. Up to you. You are responsible for her medical and dental. You let me know what you want me to do and Ill be happy to bring her where you decide. 10:27 AM
Me: No more texts unless [daughter] needs me... otherwise have a great day making clothes with our daughter. 10:27 AM
[The Ex]: Please calm down with ur responses. Just simply let me know how to attend to [daughter]s tongue discomfort and throat and cough. 10:28 AM
Me: No one is excited and I believe you understand what my stance is on this situation. No further discussion is necessary. Again, have a great day! 10:30 AM
[The Ex]: Want to ask her dentist about the tongue discomfort and let me know what the advice is? Is that normal according to the dentist? Want throat swab? 10:31 AM
Me: No, you are NOT a doctor please do not stick anything down [daughter]'s throat. 10:32 AM
[The Ex]: Oh just saw your responses. Sorry that you are so controlling about [daughter]s care. I never restricted you taking to providers last year on her visit. This is sad 10:33 AM
[The Ex]: Sad to leave her in discomfort as she expresses because of your decision. Just seems unfair to her. Clearly your control is highest priority and not her comfort 10:34 AM
Me: No however you ensured I had no access to her medical and school records 10:34 AM
Me: I am on the line with her orthodontist now. Please stop texting so I can converse with his office. 10:35 AM
Me: Please stop. I am on the phone with the orthodontist. Clearly I am taking action. 10:36 AM
[The Ex]: Ah I see your thinking process. And I would like you to clarify your caution to me to perform aauthorization required lab test on this child. Is this ur fear? 10:37 AM
Me: Per Dr. [orthodontist], he is comfortable waiting to see her until she is home. If she has any discomfort use a salt water rinse which could help her throat as well. 10:39 AM
[The Ex]: Maybe want to call her pediatrician while you are addressing and ask about pain in throat with cough? 10:39 AM
Me: Please ensure that [daughter] is brushing her palate extender and that she is not eating sticky, gummy or hard foods such as popcorn/nuts as I stated to you previously. 10:40 AM
Me: Your texts are incoherent to me, maybe you can write an email instead. 10:41 AM
[The Ex]: Please help her have advice on cough and throat pain as she says it feels bumpy when she swallows. Implant care is done as per your orders and food is appropria 10:42 AM
[The Ex]: Will you call pediatrician too please so I can have specific direction? 10:42 AM
Me: [daughter] never complained about a cough, exact words were "slight sore throat too." 10:42 AM
[The Ex]: Cold medicine or analgesia? 10:43 AM
[The Ex]: Don't take my word for coughing. Here she is. Ask her. 10:44 AM
Me: Palate extender is NOT an implant... being a nurse I would assume you know proper terminology. 10:44 AM
[The Ex]: Hostility noted. [daughter] never said the word slight but I can see ur interpretation. Ask her. 10:45 AM
Me: Not putting [daughter] in the middle of your issues here. She should not be privy to these discussions as per the order. 10:46 AM
Me: Lets move on with the day... this is getting ridiculous and asinine. No hostility, making a big issue over a cold. A cold does not require treatment or even call to pediatrician. 10:51 AM
Me: If you need [daughter] to come home early to seek medical attention, I can make those arrangements. Otherwise, I am sure a salt water rinse can assist [daughter]'s tongue and throat issues until Monday. 10:52 AM
[The Ex]: Please don't keep tellinng [daughter] on calls to tell me to write emails to you. Just tell me directly please. 10:53 AM
Me: And worse case, our pediatrician can see us on Sunday upon [daughter]'s arrival. Again, have a good day. Suggested [daughter] stay in if she is that uncomfortable, maybe let her rest and drink juice. 10:53 AM
[The Ex]: Issue was [daughter]s complaints. Just wanted to know what you wanted me to do for her care. Got your advice. Will do as stated. Simple. That's all. 10:55 AM
Me: Please refrain from putting [daughter] in the middle then I wouldn't need to deflect and tell you to email me instead. She should not be privy to such dramatics. 10:55 AM
[The Ex]: Understand dental visit on Monday. Did you call her pedic doctor about throat and cough? Do you want me to give her otc meds? Just let me know. Thanks. 10:56 AM
Me: If you need [daughter] to come home early to seek medical attention, I can make those arrangements. Otherwise, I am sure a salt water rinse can assist [daughter]'s tongue and throat issues until Monday. 10:58 AM
[The Ex]: Its your call so keep it simple when giving me direction. Her care is your call. Its ok. You just tell me what you want to have me do for [daughter].I'm here to help 10:59 AM
[The Ex]: [Custodial Dad]. I read your text and find it disturbing that you blame me for your actions in telling [daughter] in call after call that she should tell Mom to email you. 11:01 AM
[The Ex]: You control ur mouth and your words. Your interpretations and hostility are noted. Please address ur issues so we can best care for [daughter]. Thanks. Kindly. [The Ex] 11:04 AM
Me: You insisted [daughter] telephone again after the barrage of texts that I am sure she was privy to. She wanted me to tell her how she felt which indicates the lack of severity of the situation. 11:05 AM
Me: There is no hostility only what you are imaging. I am sure [daughter] would love your attention. AGAIN, Please have a good day with [daughter]... I have other things to attend to. 11:07 AM
[The Ex]: Let's address your perceptions of me and my thinking in email. I would appreciate if you stopped floodign my text with abusive comments. [daughter] is playing 11:24 AM
[The Ex]: And she has eaten. Will update. 11:24 AM
[The Ex]: Oh my. I missed your text of having [daughter] come back early. Please explain how and why you would do that. 12:02 PM
[The Ex]: Maybe in your judgement it is a good option. I'd like to understand your proposal. Tnx. Which day for return. I just want her to be comfortable. 12:03 PM
Me: Simply an option for you since you appear to be overwhelmed by her cold or allergy symptoms. 12:05 PM
Me: I will leave that option open to your discretion... let me know if I need to make arrangements. Thanks. 12:06 PM
[The Ex]: Send your views and your flight arrangements to my attorney please. We should make your options for managing [daughter]s complaints formal. 12:08 PM
[The Ex]: Send the details of your proposal. Let me understand. 12:10 PM
[The Ex]: Send the details of your proposal. Let me understand. 12:10 PM
Me: No, if you feel [daughter] needs to come home early, we will arrange that. I will defer to you to make that decision. 12:10 PM
[The Ex]: Let [the ex fourth other state lawyer] move on your requests.Have follow through. Don't put the decission on me. You are in charge. 12:10 PM
Me: Her orthodontist suggested salt water gargle for both issues and stated he is fine to wait until she is home. If *you* feel that is not sufficient, we will be happy to have her home early. 12:12 PM
Me: choice is yours to make. 12:12 PM
[The Ex]: To attorney pls. Ur in charge. Let [the ex fourth other state lawyer] know. 12:25 PM
Me: You contact your attorney if you want her to come home early. Its simple. Do I think its necessary? No. If you feel its necessary and you can not manage her care as suggested, let me know. 12:28 PM
Me: Your complaints of my "control" are met by your inability to make a decision. I am not there and as suggested by the doctor, he thinks a salt water gargle would suffice. 12:30 PM
[The Ex]: You propose earlu return option. It is your call [Custodial Dad]. You are in charge. You just tell [the ex fourth other state lawyer] through ur guy [Custodial dad other state lawyer]. You determine if she stays or returns. You. 12:31 PM
Me: Two hours of back and forth texts, where is [daughter]? 12:31 PM
[The Ex]: Playing w tape and paper flowers earlier and set up for later. She continues to play. Let me know your decission. You tell me. 12:33 PM
[The Ex]: Why not make finall set of instructions as they are rather simple and you keep repeating as though it is hard to do gargle. Pleas sum and [the ex fourth other state lawyer] 12:35 PM
[The Ex]: [the ex fourth other state lawyer] will call if you take action to fly [daughter] home. That easy [Custodial Dad]. 12:35 PM
Me: Simple... if you do not state unequivocally that she needs to come home, I will assume she is fine and comfortable. The option is yours. Discussion is over unless you make a decision. 12:36 PM
Me: He needs to speak with [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] as you know however, choice to send [daughter] home was an option for you to exercise. Good day. 12:37 PM
[The Ex]: I've got a happy kid playing with throat pain and cough. You make whatever issue you want of it. Let me know. I'm here to help [daughter]s comfort. 12:45 PM
[The Ex]: Please refrain from personally attacking and criticizing me. 12:46 PM
Me: No one has attacked nor criticized you. Your choice to send her home or let her gargle with salt water as recommended by doctor. 12:50 PM
[The Ex]: Hey [Custodial Dad]. Calm down please. At the end of the day you are responisible for your actions. I see a child gargling as she is asked. 1:05 PM
[The Ex]: Pls stop with text as you are clear. I'm sure Ill be contacted if [daughter] is to go on an airplane anytime soon. 1:05 PM
Me: [The Ex] you are being purposely obtuse and I think you are the only one who needs to calm down. Let me know how [daughter] is feeling. That is all Have a good day. 1:17 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] is resting on couch lakeside. Please refrain on sharing your criticisms of me. 1:23 PM
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[The Ex] 8/9/10 9:05 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Check ur email pls. 9:04 PM
[The Ex]: Goodnight. 9:05 PM
[The Ex]: Off to bed. 9:05 PM
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Me to [Custodial Dad] (Husband) [Custodial dad last name] 8/9/10 8:35 PM 2 months ago
Me: That was very inappropriate... all I said was that I was sure you were keeping an eye on things re: perfume. Subject was changed and I obviously do not require your supervision when speaking with our daughter. Me: Please refrain from orchestrating, dictating and interfering with my conversations with [daughter] as the same courtesy is extended towards you. 8:35 PM
Me: hey... um bring in starburst. please. 8:44 PM
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[The Ex] 8/8/10 11:12 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hey [Custodial Dad]. Will try to [webcam] tonight. Will give you half hour notice if we can. Will be for a fifteen minute or so session as it is public wifi. Will also call. 6:38 PM
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Me: Subject was changed and I obviously do not require your supervision when speaking with our daughter. 8:31 PM
Me: Please refrain from orchestrating, dictating and interfering with my conversations with [daughter] as the same courtesy is extended towards you. 8:32 PM
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Me to [Custodial Dad] (Husband) [Custodial dad last name] 8/8/10 11:01 PM 2 months ago
Me: more OJ please 11:01 PM
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[The Ex] 8/7/10 4:15 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hey [Custodial Dad]. Please accept a direct phone call on your designated email days and a direct call on Sunday. I will try to get to [webcam] Sunday. But will call surely. 3:00 PM
[The Ex]: Heard your questions to [daughter] and ask you to check ur email since I wrote you on this already. Thanks. 3:01 PM
Me: I'm sorry, what did you write me on already? The photos? 3:02 PM
[The Ex]: Reread pls. Written. Here's another photo. 3:03 PM
Me: If you've been texting photos that explains why I'm NOT recorvibg then, I have no media allowed via text 3:05 PM
Me: I have an IPhone and there is no media text on an IPhone 3:06 PM
[The Ex]: Hey that's ok. Do your best. 4:15 PM
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[The Ex]
8/7/10 7:25 AM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Kids got ice cream on return home trip and got into sleep pjs past nine. Will call early Saturday. 7:25 AM
[The Ex] 8/6/10 4:24 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Please let me know how many uniforms and what supplies you still need for [daughter] as I'm sure you have already gotten her things. Please let me know what she 2:47 PM
[The Ex]: Please let me know what she still needs. I want to help to make sure she has all she needs as required and enough uniforms to make her week smooth. 2:49 PM
[The Ex]: Shoes update too please. Don't want her to be in one sneaker from [other state] like last year. 2:50 PM
[The Ex]: Need status on glasses please. She will need new eye exam because you fail to provide her with her glasses for five months. Please let me kw cost so I cn help. 2:51 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] off to beach. Will send postcard. Shell call ltr. 4:24 PM
[The Ex] 8/5/10 2:08 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: We will be at Alishas for play this pm. Will call probably before six but will try again if u can't answer. Brooke may be over also so pls prepare for short cal 2:02 PM
[The Ex]: If you could text about ur lunch break time we could have call option then too 2:06 PM
[The Ex]: Just let me know please. 2:07 PM
[The Ex]: Also see ur emails for travel bill and don't make my repayment difficult. I already had to give that iissue to [the ex fourth other state lawyer]. Requested time. Pls respond. 2:08 PM
[The Ex] 8/4/10 10:02 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] and friends called you. No answer. They lkeft voivemail with favored kids bop song to share w [Custodial dad last name] crew. Enjoy. We ll call ltr. 4:36 PM
[The Ex]: Hi Dad. [daughter] tried u again before bed. Left voicemail. Wished you were available to answer her second call today. Will have her try you again tomorrow. Tnx. 9:48 PM
[The Ex]: Pls let me know how you like the picture we have sent so far. Good night. Off to bed. 9:49 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] off to bed. Please check text. 9:50 PM
[The Ex]: Hey let me give her phone to say goodnight to you Dad. 9:52 PM
[The Ex]: Glad you were able to talk with [daughter] for love yous and goodnight. Will have her call again tomorrow. Goodnight dad. 9:55 PM
Me: Middle of the day calls are not always feasible as I am at work. Please try calling later in the day, specifically after 6 pm. 9:58 PM
Me: Thanks for the late call. 9:58 PM
[The Ex]: No problem. But please try to respect when I text u that I'm off to bed because I have to get up to answer the text alert when you text after I've gone to bed. 10:02 PM
[The Ex] 8/3/10 7:06 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Take it easy. No need to be victimized. It was a folder search. That's all 7:05 PM
[The Ex]: Sent photos of [daughter] and friends circa her call today. Enjoy. 7:06 PM
[The Ex] 8/2/10 6:54 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] spoke w u earlier and that. Was good u could pick up phone. Please send the blue folder [daughter] prepared for me that she put with her stuff for u to pk. 6:41 PM
[The Ex]: I am sure you can appreciate how upset she is that the things she wrote and kept and made for her Mom were not sent w her. 6:42 PM
[The Ex]: She made sure she placed all her things together and only some are here. Pls don't make any excuses to put responsibility on her. She did her part to prepare. 6:43 PM
[The Ex]: You claimed you would pack things she set aside. Please send folder via mail asap so she can share on her creations and writings to Mom. 6:45 PM
Me: [daughter] and I packed her bags together. When I speak to [daughter] next, I will ask specifically where it was placed. 6:46 PM
[The Ex]: Some are attermpted mailings to me she wants me to have of her work and art etc. Kindly. [The Ex]. 6:46 PM
Me: Accusations are getting tiresome [The Ex], no one is out to get you. 6:46 PM
[The Ex]: No claim made. Just send folder. Simple Dad. [daughter]s request. Your response is rather hostile. Please just send the folder via mail asap. 6:48 PM
Me: There was one envelope missing that [Step Mother] gave her, I do not know about the folder. [daughter] can tell me where she left it and I will mail it to the Leeland address ASAP 6:49 PM
Me: I will speak to [daughter] directly for clarification as she and I packed her bag together. 6:50 PM
[The Ex]: ah I have one place left to look. Great it s here. Thanks for responding. 6:54 PM
Me: So your accusations were prior to actually looking for it? Apology accepted. 6:56 PM
[The Ex] 8/1/10 9:45 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] called. Left message. Gd nt. 9:43 PM
Me: Calling back, missed the call. thanks, 9:44 PM
[The Ex]: Off to bed. Will call tomorrow. Check ur message for N voicemail. 9:45 PM
Me: Voicemail was less than 10 seconds and I called less than a minute later. 9:52 PM
[The Ex] 8/1/10 12:19 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] sould be in soon Dad. Please get glasses for remainder of summer since she has summer books to read. Please check Sears for discount on glasses as in ad. 12:10 PM
Me: Looking forward to speaking with [daughter] tonight... she has a card with log in information for email. Thanks. 12:12 PM
[The Ex]: Call every night to you. Please address getting glasses for [daughter] ASAP. This is a very overdue child care issue. Please don't leave attorneys to resolve. 12:16 PM
Me: Did she land yet? 12:17 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] has just landed. This is how we transport children between parents. Address glasses in email please. 12:19 PM
[The Ex]: Bye for now. Thanks. 12:19 PM
Me: Glad to know she arrived safely. Thanks for keeping me informed. Enjoy your day with [daughter]. 12:20 PM
Me: don't want to get too far passed [daughter] bedtime, when should we expect her call? 7:39 PM
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[The Ex]: I will wait for call from [daughter]. No sound though ringing stopped. All I need is a call. No text. Call or don't. Don't text. 7:25 PM
Me: Call back I'm upstairs settling children 7:27 PM
Me: Call back I'm upstairs settling children ... [daughter] will answer directly 7:40 PM
Me: Heading down since you're not calling I'll try you 7:50 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] sweeping. Its almost eight. Call died. Why is a schooll age child sweeping At eight pm? Are u kidding? Is she cinderella? 7:55 PM
Me: Goodnight 7:56 PM
[The Ex]: Let's address this list of chores in email. Start writing [Custodial Dad]. Other children her age are reading at this time. 7:56 PM
Me: Thank you for suggesting tonight bedtime fairy tale 7:57 PM
Me: I'm certain you'll be passing this on to Children and Youth tomorrow.. write to your hearts content. 7:59 PM
[The Ex]: It is unfortunate that you believe I am suggesting a bedtime story. I am very concerned. 8:00 PM
Me: Its 8PM stop texting me. 8:01 PM
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[The Ex] 9/29/10 7:45 PM 3 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: no answer. Want to call or too busy? 7:18 PM
[The Ex]: Call w [daughter]. 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: No response. Pls resolve and call. 7:37 PM
Me: We keep answering, no one on your end 7:42 PM
Me: Please try again 7:42 PM
[The Ex]: Ah huh. you are the only one with this deficiency. Call w my child now. 7:43 PM
Me: Call or not stop playing games 7:45 PM
[The Ex]: Are u kidding? 7:45 PM
Me: Call or not stop playing games 7:47 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/28/10 7:51 PM 4 weeks ago
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Me: Missed call please call back 7:51 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call. No call yet. 7:51 PM
Me: Missed call please call back 7:59 PM
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[The Ex] 9/26/10 9:00 PM 4 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Please provide a good protein for my child at lunch. Jam and bread is not gonna do.No way. As usual both lines go to voicemail. More than 2 weeks of this. 7:32 PM
Me: Excuse me? 7:33 PM
[The Ex]: Call me with my child. Ensure you connection. Find time to place the call. You are responsible for that simple action for [daughter]. 7:33 PM
[The Ex]: You text long messages but no time for call. 7:34 PM
Me: We're eating 7:34 PM
[The Ex]: Can [daughter] have time with her Mom on Sunday? 7:34 PM
[The Ex]: You got the messages. You decide your actions. 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: I do not need texts. My child needs a call to her Mom. 7:35 PM
Me: We are done eating. I also told [daughter] what YOU said about lunch, she laughed since she eats a broad variety of foods all week. 8:13 PM
[The Ex]: What does that mean you told [daughter]? 8:14 PM
[The Ex]: Please call me when you have verified your phone can have audio both ways. I am waiting. 8:15 PM
Me: Call or not ... it's bedtime Sion 8:15 PM
Me: Soon 8:16 PM
Me: [daughter] cannot wait up all night for your call. Please call ASAP. I receive multiple phone calls each day, I know my phone works just fine. 8:29 PM
[The Ex]: Hey no sound Past the first sentence. What a way to go out. 8:35 PM
Me: Curious this only happens with your calls and [daughter] states she can hear you just fine. I welcome you to call back again. 8:45 PM
Me: And refrain from threatening me... No one is going "out" regardless of how you meant that statement. 8:48 PM
Me: You are welcomed to call until 9 pm this evening ONLY. Although [daughter] said she was done, she is waiting to say good night to you. 8:50 PM
[The Ex]: That is what we call an empty offer. I called. No answer and voicemail. Why don't you set up the conditions for reall phone contact for [daughter]. Send me an email. 8:59 PM
[The Ex]: Good night. Let me know about time tommow with [daughter]. 9:00 PM
Me: Out phones are fine, [daughter] will be on [webcam] at 7 tomorrow 9:02 PM
[The Ex]: No in person time with [daughter]? 9:03 PM
Me: No 9:04 PM
Me: I do not think your behavior is healthy for [daughter]. You have caused [daughter] unwarranted confusion and sadness since August. [daughter] will see you at Dr. [therapist home state] 9:04 PM
Me: Meter on Thursday, as scheduled. 9:04 PM
[The Ex]: Really? Now that needs an email. Will ya? 1:54 AM
Me: Where do you find it even remotely acceptable to text at 2am? If you continue to use texts inappropriately, I will BLOCK all incoming texts from you. Fee 9:44 AM
Me: l free to email me or take note of this 9:44 AM
[The Ex]: Hey I guess u got the text. So did not mean to have it sent at that time. Well just let me know about [daughter] having time with us today.tnx. 10:28 AM
Me: [webcam] at 7 10:34 AM
[The Ex]: Hey looks like a no and ignoring request of time. My oh my. 10:41 AM
Me: It should be no surprise to you and your "request(s)" have been answered a multiple of times 10:43 AM
Me: Hey looks like you have many issues sending texts at inappropriate times. Glad you are able to curb your behavior, hate to remove this avenue of communication. 10:46 AM
[The Ex]: Yeah. I know. Sad. 10:47 AM
Me: [daughter] is logged onto dadaseeyou the [webcam] account associated with [Custodial Dad email]@gmail.com 7:17 PM
[The Ex]: Ah huh sure. You have to accept me on [webcam] or no contact can be made. You know that. Stop with this keep away game?Don't let the child sit for your mean act. 7:24 PM
Me: The dadaseeyou account is the only account I've used ever the Bradley[Custodial dad last name]s account is the ONLY home account we've ever used, your dozen or more account 7:26 PM
Me: s tell a tale 7:27 PM
[The Ex]: Can't see her liive. Just a picture still. No audio. Just cracking noises intermittently. Just call. 7:40 PM
[The Ex]: You get on [webcam] to log time. You pick up phone to log time. Go to bed. This is over. I will make sure [daughter] has contact me. Don't keep this up. 7:44 PM
Me: What? 7:45 PM
[The Ex]: Please call with my child tonight for my child to talk with Mom? 7:52 PM
Me: We went MONTHS without issue and suddlenly you start attempting to build a case, we have a ton of issues. Wonder who is actually playing the games? 7:59 PM
[The Ex]: Oops. Stop txt on nonsense tnx. 9:00 PM
Me: Correct this is nonsense, please go on about your evening. 9:03 PM
Me: [daughter] is not a possession or a prize won She is OUR daughter Maybe correcting your language would also correct your behavior. 9:08 PM
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[The Ex] 9/24/10 8:40 PM 4 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: There was no call today again. There was no answer on any of your phones. All go to voicemail. So sad for [daughter]. 8:11 PM
[The Ex]: Can [daughter] have time with her Mom tomorrow? Saturday I can come get her and bring her back to you. 8:12 PM
Me: What would be sad? You and your Mother saw her at lunch again today. 8:14 PM
Me: No 8:14 PM
Me: I do not think your behavior is healthy for [daughter]. You have caused [daughter] unwarranted confusion and sadness since August. [daughter] will see you at Dr. [therapist home state] Me 8:17 PM
Me: ter on Thursday, as scheduled. 8:17 PM
[The Ex]: Please let me have time with [daughter] this Saturday. Maybe a restaurant meal of her choice? Breakfast? Lunch? Dinner? 8:32 PM
Me: I do not think your behavior is healthy for [daughter]. You have caused [daughter] unwarranted confusion and sadness since August. [daughter] will see you at Dr. [therapist home state] 8:33 PM
Me: Meter on Thursday, as scheduled. 8:33 PM
[The Ex]: Is that a no for any meal with [daughter] for tomorrow? 8:35 PM
Me: I do not think your behavior is healthy for [daughter]. You have caused [daughter] unwarranted confusion and sadness since August. [daughter] will see you at Dr. [therapist home state] 8:35 PM
Me: Meter on Thursday, as scheduled. 8:35 PM
[The Ex]: If you refuse to let her eat with us then~Can we take her to the park or to a kiddie movie Saturday? 8:38 PM
Me: Are you reading my response? 8:38 PM
[The Ex]: Yes. I read it. I see that you decided to refuse time for [daughter] with Mom for Saturday. 8:40 PM
Me: This is precisely the behavior that concerns me. I hope this time you actually show up for Dr. [therapist home state]. Good night, Its late and I have children that a 8:42 PM
Me: re sleeping. 8:42 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/23/10 8:00 PM 4 weeks ago
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Me: Supper is finished please feel free to call 7:19 PM
Me: Just missed it please call back 7:31 PM
[The Ex]: Two lines go to voicemail. 7:32 PM
[The Ex]: You answer. Call recording on heard. No child there. 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: Call back with child please. 7:35 PM
Me: [daughter] said she heard you clear as a bell, try again if you want 7:38 PM
[The Ex]: Call back with child please. 7:54 PM
Me: I am busy, if you want To speak to [daughter] call directly 7:57 PM
[The Ex]: If there is no call from my child by eight o clock I will call the police for a welfare check. 8:00 PM
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[The Ex] 9/22/10 9:12 PM 4 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: No answer. No call. Please call. 5:08 PM
Me: Supper is finished please feel free to call 6:26 PM
[The Ex]: No answer. No call. Please call. 7:05 PM
Me: Supper is finished please feel free to call 7:15 PM
Me: [daughter] was in the shower when you called previously, please call as soon as you can. Bedtime in 25 mins. 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: Ah huh. 7:48 PM
Me: Disconnected 7:50 PM
[The Ex]: Nah. Your sound is off. Child cannot hear me. 7:52 PM
Me: No 7:52 PM
[The Ex]: Please call. Why is call recording on and text working but child canot hear Mom? 7:52 PM
Me: Phone is working fine, heard you disconnect. 7:56 PM
[The Ex]: False claims noted. 9:12 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/21/10 10:25 PM 5 weeks ago
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Me: Out @ school event. Will try later if we are not in too late 6:58 PM
[The Ex]: No call to Mom. No answer of your three phone lines. You text when out. But no call from same phones. Poor [daughter]. Why? Again. Six days no calls. 9:58 PM
[The Ex]: Two days Sunday and Monday call cut off. Why is that? 9:59 PM
Me: STOP TEXTING 10:05 PM
[The Ex]: Texting? What? Why will you not let my daughter talk to me again? Just let her call. Please. Please. Please. I'm begging. Be sure my child is unharmed. 10:25 PM
Me: She's in bed you are texting at OUTRAGEOUS times! Stop this nonsense immediately. 10:54 PM
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[The Ex] 9/21/10 6:40 AM 5 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: [webcam] tonight? 11:03 AM
[The Ex]: Hello? [webcam] or call today? 11:15 AM
[The Ex]: Can I have [daughter] this week? I am in town and can care for her and get her to school etc. Can I please offer [daughter] this time with Mom? 11:17 AM
[The Ex]: Can [daughter] have this chance to share her time as I am here in [home state]? 11:17 AM
Me: [webcam] tonight as agreed upon 11:18 AM
Me: No 11:18 AM
[The Ex]: Time? 11:19 AM
[The Ex]: Time for [webcam]? 11:20 AM
[The Ex]: What is no for? 11:20 AM
[The Ex]: What does your accusation of me calling dcf or child welfare have to do with the call schedule and contact with [daughter]? 11:23 AM
[The Ex]: Why deny [daughter]'s contact with her Mom? I am right here in town and I have come to spend time with [daughter]. 11:24 AM
Me: Will text when [webcam] is available 11:26 AM
[The Ex]: Need to set up at wireless spot so need a time frame please. 12:32 PM
[The Ex]: Need to set up at wireless spot so need a time frame please. 3:44 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter]. No answer both lines. One line is forwarded. 5:09 PM
Me: Call instead of [webcam]? 5:12 PM
[The Ex]: Any conact is good. Call is fine. Just answer your phoneS please. 5:29 PM
Me: Call @ 7... great. Text if you want to [webcam]. 5:45 PM
Me: Logged in... call or [webcam] at your convenience. 7:16 PM
Me: Logged in... call or [webcam] at your convenience. 7:24 PM
[The Ex]: Cannot log in. No internet aS you did not schedule in time. You do not answer your phones. 7:37 PM
Me: Schedule was set months ago.... anyway... please call at your convenience. 7:38 PM
[The Ex]: Really? And [daughter] is off tomorrow. Why noT share her time since I'm here to see her? Let's set up with [therapist home state] as you have communicated. This week. Huh?Good? 7:46 PM
Me: Thought you had a copy of the school calendar? 7:47 PM
Me: You need to schedule with Dr. [therapist home state] directly... sure he will try to accommodate you. 7:48 PM
[The Ex]: Thought you had a copy of the calendar. Need to have [daughter] present for [therapist home state] meet and greet and some session time with her and doctor. I or Dr will call u. 8:38 PM
[The Ex]: Still can have time Monday tomorrow with [daughter]? Can keep her for week and take to school and care for her. Ok? Set pick up and drop off please. Thanks. 8:40 PM
Me: Message unclear... please email for clarity. 8:40 PM
[The Ex]: I can even take her to [therapist home state] as I schedule it. And cheerleading or any activites. I'd love to share [daughter]s time as I am here in [home state]. 8:42 PM
Me: No. 8:42 PM
[The Ex]: See email previously sent. Same requests. Email uses letters and words too. Just like text. See texts above? 8:43 PM
[The Ex]: Denial noted. 8:43 PM
[The Ex]: See email previously sent. Same requests. Email uses letters and words too. Just like text. See texts above? 8:43 PM
Me: You need professional help. 8:43 PM
Me: Its late, please stop. 8:43 PM
[The Ex]: Please please please. Please please I'm begging you reconsider. [daughter] needs time with her Mom too. I am right here in town this week. Please share her time. 8:44 PM
[The Ex]: I ask for [daughter] to have time with her Mom. You respond with NO and referral for me to get what? 8:47 PM
[The Ex]: Oh just got that. Sleep tight. 8:47 PM
Me: Is that a threat? You make these ambiguous threats so I suggest you either cut it out or just say it for the record. I'm getting really tired of your insanity. 8:48 PM
[The Ex]: Hey let's be fruitful if your texting- so how about time Tuesday with [daughter]? Say what? Saying I want to see my child and keep her for dinner&take her to school 9:14 PM
[The Ex]: Why is it threatening to you to have [daughter] spend time with her Mom? Why is child services at your door? Again? Why? 9:16 PM
[The Ex]: Why not let my daughter have her time with her mom? Is my daughter on your child services list? Is that what is going on there? Please please please tell me. 9:18 PM
[The Ex]: I'm begging you. Pleasr let me know what is going on. My concern has brought me to town. Is that why you are keeping [daughter] away from her Mom? 9:20 PM
[The Ex]: CnY has confidential reports so you know issues so please tell me? Is my child involved? My daughter better be unharmed. I will find out the truth. 9:23 PM
[The Ex]: You are responsible for [daughter]. Be responsible. Be open and honest. It helps me to see that things are ok. This keep away game is of concern. Severe concern. 9:24 PM
[The Ex]: I'm sure I would have known if something was wrong. So what is it that I do not knoew that puts your house under Child welfare investigation? Concern valid? 9:27 PM
Me: Your faxes and calls were documented, I am sure they will give you copies if you need them. Understand that we ALL know it was you. [town in home state] police, the lawyers, the judge.. we all know its you. Please stop this nonsense. You are making a fool of yourself. 9:28 PM
Me: For the record and to state it again... YOU ARE IN SERIOUS NEED OF MENTAL HELP. Your behavior is not that of sane person. You are a danger to ALL of the children in my home and most specifically [daughter]. 9:30 PM
[The Ex]: Ah avoidance. Bad indicator. Maybe everything is just fine. Ill say a prayer for you all. Make sure my child is unharmed. 9:31 PM
[The Ex]: Still you do not share the issues. Why would I ask if I could get a copy? 9:32 PM
Me: Everything is and will be fine. I can certainly make that assurance. Good night. 9:32 PM
[The Ex]: Sleep tight. 9:33 PM
[The Ex]: Your assurance is what counts. Thanks. 9:34 PM
[The Ex]: Let me know about tuesday for [daughter]s time with Mom. 9:34 PM
Me: My assurance would not be necessary had you not have called multiple times and faxed them on "BASELESS" claims. 9:39 PM
[The Ex]: Why are you sending me these texts? I am concerned about investigation but you refuse to share. So let's just set up time share as we can both do that for [daughter] 9:47 PM
[The Ex]: Let's give her time with her Mom. I don't see that you are concerned. So let's move on. Wish I could know more but [daughter] is my only concern. Time share? 9:49 PM
Me: I'm not sending you texts, I am responding to your texts. I am concerned about what your intentions are while you are in the area. I am concerned about how your mental defects affect [daughter]. I am concerned about your false allegations and what you may be capable of doing. 9:52 PM
Me: Now stop texting me. 9:53 PM
[The Ex]: What are you doing sending me texts of this content? What is going on with you? Why are you texting me this but not a single visit schedule? 9:55 PM
[The Ex]: Pleasr don't try to involve me in your household issues. I just want to see my child. That is why I texted. Please limit your responses to time share for [daughter] 9:57 PM
Me: Stop texting me. Good night. 9:58 PM
[The Ex]: It Momday and I'd like to ask you to reconsider and allow us to take [daughter] out for a meal at least. Or have her overnight. I will get her to school Tuesday. 9:22 AM
[The Ex]: Please please please. I am begging that you allow time for [daughter] to share with her Mom. Please. 9:24 AM
Me: Please call back 2:06 PM
Me: Please call back 2:07 PM
[The Ex]: you line died again. [daughter] keeps saying hello. I can hear her. But she does not respond.My mute is NOT on. Please correct.As you have recorded the call check it 2:14 PM
[The Ex]: Please call back. Now or anytime is great. 2:14 PM
Me: my phone works fine 2:15 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] keeps saying hello and is unable to hear me talking to her. WHY? Now your line has gone dead again. 2:26 PM
[The Ex]: Please call. 2:26 PM
Me: [daughter] says your phone keeps dying 2:35 PM
[The Ex]: Hey there was a bawling child on the first call this series. There was a screaming child this call. Constantly [daughter] is not able to hear Mom. My kid can call me 2:36 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] can call back. Please put the call in for her. Please check your reception. Use one of the other two lines you have. Anything. Just make a real phone call 2:38 PM
[The Ex]: Thanks. 2:38 PM
Me: Your phone is having issues, [webcam] tonight instead? 3:26 PM
[The Ex]: You never called me back to have [daughter] talk with Mom. 9:11 PM
Me: You are right. I didn't You could have called & [webcam] was offered as an alternative. Good night 9:14 PM
[The Ex]: Start small [Custodial Dad]. With a phone call. When we can do a call that has my daughter hearing me we can move on to video cam. Keep it simple and successful. 9:39 PM
Me: [daughter] was on a HOME phone. Problems were on your end. Simple enough. 9:41 PM
Me: What is odd is your sudden urge to text long after acceptable call/[webcam] times. Next time set an alarm and we'll happily accomodate you 9:43 PM
[The Ex]: Accomodate me? The call is for [daughter]. 10:50 PM
Me: It's 11pm [daughter] has been asleep for almost THREE hours, do you expect me to place/accept a call NOW? 10:55 PM
[The Ex]: [Custodial Dad]. When you have an order you follow it. When do you think you should call for [daughter] to talk to Mom? Its simple. Thanks. 6:32 AM
Me: Please start addressing these issues via email, as I have explained previously texting at 'odd' hours is disturbing. I have sleeping family. Thank you 6:34 AM
[The Ex]: Issues? Hey start with call for [daughter] accd rules. Simple. 6:40 AM
Me: Please start addressing these issues via email, as I have explained previously texting at 'odd' hours is disturbing. I have sleeping family. Thank you 6:42 AM
Me: Please start addressing these issues via email, as I have explained previously texting at 'odd' hours is disturbing. I have sleeping family. Thank you 6:42 AM
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[The Ex] 9/18/10 8:00 PM 5 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Please please call with my daughter. Oh please. I am begging you. 12:47 PM
[The Ex]: Can you imagine how her heart hurts from being away from her Momma and not being able to talk even on the phone? This is day six of this no contact by you. 12:49 PM
[The Ex]: How do you justify this action? 12:49 PM
Me: A) What "action"? and B) imagine over five years of not knowing. we are Enjoying my birthday weekend thanks and we'll text when it's a good time to call 12:53 PM
Me: this evening.... unless [daughter] requests to call earlier 12:53 PM
Me: Additionally, she spent lunch with you two days this week so there has been contact. Dramatics are unnecessary. 12:54 PM
[The Ex]: Do you think its good for [daughter] to not have a call to me for six days? Is there a daily call order in place? Did [therapist home state] say don't call [daughter]'s Mom? 12:58 PM
[The Ex]: Why did you send a smiley face symbol? Error or does that mean something? Will I have time with [daughter] next week or anytime this weekend? 12:59 PM
[The Ex]: No need to text first. Please just call. [webcam] sunday? 1:00 PM
[The Ex]: What does your claim of five years of no contact have to do with no call allowed for [daughter] with her Mom now? 1:01 PM
[The Ex]: Please help me to understand. 1:01 PM
Me: Have a great day, will call later at a better time as we are celebrating. 1:01 PM
Me: Have a great day, will call later at a better time as we are celebrating. 1:01 PM
Me: Simple: you don't talk to [daughter] for 12 hours and call the police and C&Y. I don't talk to her for five years and your response is "she's fine." 2:30 PM
[The Ex]: What year are you living in? Whose reality does your statement reflect? What are you talking about? Are we governed by a call order each day? 2:32 PM
[The Ex]: Are you violating the call order for five days? You fail to answer my calls. 2:34 PM
Me: Huh, having trouble with the year? Its 2010. Like I said: we are celebrating my birthday weekend, will call or [webcam] later. Your texts are simply disruptive. 2:35 PM
[The Ex]: You fail to call me with [daughter]. Dcf is investigating you. You don't share why. I understand there are multiple reports. What is going on there? Why no calls? 2:35 PM
Me: I have IRREFUTABLE evidence that YOU made the reports in writing which will be presented as evidence. 2:38 PM
Me: Your faxes are revealing. The frequency of your calls to the authorities are telling of your obsessive behavior... Again, you need mental help. 2:39 PM
[The Ex]: All this texting and no call? 2:39 PM
Me: I am off to Enjoy my birthday with my children. Enjoy your day, we sure are. Take care! 2:39 PM
[The Ex]: We all know about your 'evidence'. Let's get my daughter on the phone. 2:39 PM
Me: I am off to Enjoy my birthday with my children. Enjoy your day, we sure are. Take care! 2:40 PM
Me: Your behavior is not that of a sane person and that sentiment seems to transcend the various authorities interacting with you. Trust that your accusations will no longer be tolerated. 2:41 PM
Me: To clear up: Mon we were out late and the officer assured you of her safety and discovered it was you calling C&Y; Tuesday and Wednesday I texted for you to call w/no response. Thursday and Friday you were at school with [daughter]. Tonight, [webcam] or call this evening. 2:52 PM
Me: Off to celebrate some more with my children.... 2:52 PM
Me: Just missed your call ..., please call back 7:59 PM
[The Ex]: No call. No answering your phones. No text. No arrangement for time for [daughter] with Mom. 8:00 PM
Me: Again, please call back 8:01 PM
Me: We're still up so a call is fine 8:04 PM
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[The Ex] 9/17/10 9:40 PM 5 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call. Tried u many times. No call four nights. 7:47 PM
Me: At open house @ school. Texted you to call with no response last few days 7:51 PM
[The Ex]: You please call. U do not answer. Four days. 7:52 PM
[The Ex]: You better keep my daughter safe from anyone hurting her body. You keep your kids off of her. Keep your hands to yourselves. It is abuse. It is not a joke. Seis 9:39 PM
[The Ex]: It is disgusting and of grave concern that you think physical abuse of my daughter is funny. This is not keeping her safe. She is a child. 9:42 PM
[The Ex]: No call four days. No visit? Why keep her unsafe and away from Mom? 9:43 PM
Me: You need to get profesional help 11:31 PM
[The Ex]: Disregard noted. 8:02 AM
Me: Your accusations were deemed unfounded and baseless by not only the police but by children and youth and will be dealt with accordingly. Their refusal to even answer to your claims speaks volumes. 8:09 AM
Me: Please note this: your egregious behavior is a danger to [daughter] and my other children. You are in need of serious mental help. 8:10 AM
Me: It is clear that you are the SOLE one abusing [daughter] and her mental well being with these codes and lies. 8:11 AM
Me: If you care AT ALL about [daughter], you would stop this nonsense immediately. 8:12 AM
[The Ex]: I asked for [daughter] to have time with me this weekend. No response but you text on other topics. Please set up time for pick up today or any time for [daughter] w Mom. 10:46 AM
Me: No 10:47 AM
[The Ex]: Is that your final answer? 11:59 AM
[The Ex]: Can I have her for time slots on the weekend for lunch maybe dinner? We can arrange pick up drop off? 12:00 PM
[The Ex]: Can [daughter] have time with Mom anytime next week? 12:01 PM
[The Ex]: Are you going to put [daughter] on the phone for call with Mom? 12:05 PM
Me: Mom who? Are you speaking in the third person? 12:06 PM
[The Ex]: Will there be a call today? Will you answer my call today? 12:07 PM
[The Ex]: Place the word her in front of Mom. Will [daughter] be able to have calls or time with Mom? 12:08 PM
Me: Please call when [daughter] is home. I will text reminder. 12:08 PM
[The Ex]: Her Mom. [daughter]'s Mom. Her Mom. 12:08 PM
Me: Again in the third person? Or are you refering to your mother? 12:09 PM
Me: Please speak clearly, sorry. 12:09 PM
[The Ex]: I have continued to call. You do not answer. So please place the call. Please answer re time for [daughter] with her mom [The Ex]. Can also set time for grandmom. 12:11 PM
Me: Are you planning on having lunch with [daughter] again today? 12:11 PM
[The Ex]: No call again. Fifth day no call. I tried two of ur phone lines. No answer. Is my daughter there and ok? Will you call or [webcam]? 9:11 PM
Me: You had time with [daughter] both yesterday and today. [daughter] didn't ask to speak with you either night 9:13 PM
[The Ex]: Call order? 9:15 PM
[The Ex]: Do we have a call order? 9:15 PM
Me: Hope you Enjoyed your time spent with [daughter] Good night. 9:17 PM
[The Ex]: Ignoring. Noted. 9:39 PM
[The Ex]: Ignoring order. Noted. 9:40 PM
[The Ex]: Ignoring childs right to contact. Noted. 9:40 PM
Me: Please note that your behavior is unhealthy for all involved. Please stop this nonsense. Glad you had a nice visit. Good night. 9:42 PM
Me: Do not text again as [daughter] clearly already in bed and asleep. 9:43 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/15/10 7:23 PM 5 weeks ago
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Me: Are you calling tonight? 7:21 PM
[The Ex]: Are you kidding? Text me but no call. Noted. My daughter better be unharmed. 10:27 PM
[The Ex]: God help you all. 10:28 PM
Me: Is that a threat? 10:33 PM
[The Ex]: Here is the point. My daughter better be unharmed. God help you all. Is that a threat for a child to be safe and for God to help you all? Check email? 10:51 PM
[The Ex]: You are responsible for [daughter]. How responsible? Responsible. Responsible??? I need my Mom to get [daughter] from school Friday. We will take her to school Monday. 11:28 PM
[The Ex]: Your email accoint to thebrad etc blocked. Why ? No response to time share arrangement details. Dcf. Big big concerns. Alarming. 11:31 PM
[The Ex]: No call Saturday. Cut call Sunday. No call Monday. No call Tuesday. No response for child with Mom. 11:33 PM
Me: Please call at your convenience -- [daughter] is having dessert. 7:20 PM
Me: Was that your call? If it was, please try again. 7:23 PM
[The Ex] 9/13/10 7:43 PM 6 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: You have until eight. That's all. You do not answer. I've been trying no call Saturday. No reason. Why? No call all day today. 7:43 PM
Me to [The Ex] 9/12/10 6:15 PM 6 weeks ago
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Me: Something came up. Can not [webcam] tonight but we will coordinate another night for [webcam] since you were able to talk with [daughter] this am Thanks 5:57 PM
[The Ex]: Sorry for [daughter] as her call was cut as you would not answer my callback after call cut off. Figured no [webcam]. Happy birthday to your son. 5:59 PM
Me: [daughter] said she was all done, didn't know call was cut short. Set up [webcam] for another night. Thanks! 6:08 PM
[The Ex]: Untrue and so sad. She was singing. Let's discuss via email. 6:09 PM
Me: Nothing to discuss, I trust [daughter]s statement she was done Email me regarding alternate days for [webcam]. Good evening. 6:14 PM
[The Ex]: Hey wanna let [daughter] on [webcam] since you have such time to text. Call is great too. 6:15 PM
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[The Ex] 9/9/10 8:02 PM 6 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Again if there is no call before eight I am sincerely concerned. Put my child on the phone. I only get ur vpoicemail. 7:28 PM
Me: Almost always a call before 8 7:29 PM
[The Ex]: Write it. Prove it. AL done. No need to text before u place call. My daughter could use the extra minute with Mom on call. 8:02 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/1/10 10:35 PM 7 weeks ago
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Me: [daughter] is @ Grandma's... Feel free to call her there. 6:12 PM
[The Ex]: Please provide number? Have ur mother call my phone. Use your options. Its easy. 6:17 PM
Me: According to your testimony @ court, you have the number since you "maintained contact" and she's had the same number 15+ years 6:19 PM
[The Ex]: You have HOURS to call. You make no effort to make it happen. Frustration? 6:19 PM
Me: But here it is anyway: (XXX)XXX-5726 6:21 PM
[The Ex]: You are responsible for contact. Not ur mother. With all that texting you can give number. You got that in print 6:21 PM
Me: I am making it happen, are you paying attention? 6:21 PM
Me: Is your text malfunctioning? 2nd time: (XXX)XXX-5726 if you do not feel like calling [daughter]'s grandmother, if we are back in time we will call... If not 6:23 PM
[The Ex]: Call with [daughter] when you get her. Thanks. 7:31 PM
[The Ex]: Hostility noted. 7:31 PM
[The Ex]: Will u call? I am concerned for [daughter]. 8:37 PM
Me: Why are you concerned this time? 9:03 PM
[The Ex]: invalidation noted. 10:05 PM
Me: Question not answered. 10:05 PM
[The Ex]: Lots of time on your hands.goodnoght. 10:06 PM
Me: If you are concerned... state it so that I can either address it or dismiss it accordingly. If not we will chalk this up to more theatrics. 10:08 PM
[The Ex]: Dcf is not a stage show. Answer ur emails. I'm off to bed. 10:25 PM
Me: Correct and they do not take false allegations likely. Emails are answered and re-answered as appropriate... 10:27 PM
Me: By your lack of response, you are clearly not concerned about [daughter]. Thanks and good night. 10:27 PM
[The Ex]: ? 10:35 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 9/1/10 12:52 AM 8 weeks ago
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Me: Its a school night, she's in bed and its 8:40. She called, sorry you were unavailable. 8:37 PM
[The Ex]: Call w [daughter].tried u earlier. No answer. 8:38 PM
[The Ex]: Call or answer anytime after school let's out at three? See how easy to male contact? You set up failure. 8:39 PM
Me: School doesn't let out at 3PM. I was in the pick up line at the time you called. Again, sorry you were unavailable for [daughter]'s call at 7:30. Kids are sleeping... Good Night. 8:42 PM
Me: Order states 9AM to 8PM... will mention to [daughter] that she has option to call prior to school. Good Night 8:45 PM
[The Ex]: What else does order state? Hum? Tisk tisk. This is over. 9:00 PM
Me: It states that all telephone contact or computer contact is to take place before ***8PM and after 9AM.*** The child shall be entitled to speak on the telephone with the Father ONCE each day during any time sharing with the Mother, likewise, every day the child shall be entitled to speak to the Mother when with the Father. Either the parent or the child may place the call. 9:07 PM
Me: And thats a direct quote. Did you lose your copy? 9:08 PM
[The Ex]: Copy? What copy? Did you loose your copy? I don't understand the question. And not a word about my visit. 12:52 AM
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Me to [The Ex]
8/29/10 7:08 PM 8 weeks ago
Me: [webcam]? 7:08 PM
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Me to [The Ex]
8/29/10 1:28 PM 8 weeks ago
Me: I'm sorry we're finishing lunch, right after then. 1:28 PM
Me to [The Ex] 8/23/10 7:39 PM 2 months ago
Me: Would you like to [webcam] with [daughter] this evening... we had a long/fun dinner and lost track of time. My apologies. 7:39 PM
Me: [daughter] told me your "phone died." [webcam] later this week perhaps? As a side note, you may NOT mix mom dad discussion and [daughter] discussion via 'Chat' as she 8:16 PM
Me: was witness to ALL dialog. You must refrain from mixing your communication with me and [daughter] as I kept trying to explain to you over [webcam] 8:16 PM
[The Ex] 8/22/10 8:30 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Call with [daughter] before seven. Don't continue to violate. 3:03 PM
Me: We are out... Will call later. No one is violating anything, please stop threatening and creating hostile communication. It is unnecessary. 3:05 PM
Me: Later night than expected [webcam] tomm evening? 7:55 PM
[The Ex]: Violating. Harsh for child. Not about you. You are in contempt and you have to call me today still. Anytime. You are not above the law. 8:00 PM
Me: [Step Mother] is texting, [Custodial Dad] is driving... We are long way from home if she's awake, we'll have her call. If not she'll call in the am. No need for ani 8:10 PM
Me: mosity, nothing is intentional or a personal assault. Night just ended much later than anticipated as I'm sure you understand since it occured will [daughter] 8:10 PM
Me: was in [other state] with you a few weeks ago. 8:11 PM
[The Ex]: Point is you have phone in hand. Use it to call now. 8:30 PM
Me: Point is we have a four row van.. Not getting out of my seat nor throwing a phone towards the back. Sorry. There is also no where to pull over... Will ca 8:34 PM
Me: ll either when we get home or in the am. 8:34 PM
Me: Also, children are sleeping, calling and texting repeatidly is simply disruptive and achieving nothing. 8:35 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 8/21/10 10:28 AM 2 months ago
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Me: Saw you called. [daughter] is in the shower, busy morning .... I'll have her try in a few 9:31 AM
[The Ex]: [daughter] disconnected in mid conversation. Pls have her call back. 10:24 AM
[The Ex]: Pls call back. [daughter] said u took her to the eye dr. Why does she have to go back to choose glass frames? 10:28 AM
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[The Ex] 8/19/10 7:02 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call. Getting late. You hung up twice. Your voice mail on twice. [Other State friend] and I are waiting. 7:02 PM
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[The Ex]
8/18/10 12:24 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Call w [daughter]. Pls do not wait for lastest time and shorten call when she is on. This is cause for contempt. 9:31 AM
Me: [daughter] is playing with friends right now ... she can call at alotted time 11:45 AM
[The Ex]: Anytime for call and I can call her too. You wait past time or too late to allow for meaningful contact with Mom. That's witholding. 11:47 AM
Me: Have a nice day 11:47 AM
[The Ex]: Fact is that your failures in this for over five months are against custody laws. Oh my. Pls call before seven. Will try later to call. 11:48 AM
[The Ex]: Did [daughter] go to orthodontist for extender pain? Did she go for throat and cough. The cough is thick. 12:22 PM
[The Ex]: I am making the outfts for [daughter]. What is her height from head to foot. The veil has to fall correctly. 12:24 PM
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[The Ex] 8/17/10 10:50 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Plsa call with [daughter]. 7:29 PM
[The Ex]: Why doies [daughter] have to go when she does not want to go? What is the problem with her talking 9:16 PM
Me: Text not for in depth communication - all issues, please email me. Please refrain from texting and calling after 8 pm as it is disruptive and contrary to the order. 9:22 PM
[The Ex]: Ud 10:50 PM
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[The Ex] 8/16/10 8:07 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls [webcam] w [daughter] as you were able to do with [Step Mother] s help mid day. I am$ here. 11:33 AM
[The Ex]: Pls [webcam] with me. 2:07 PM
[The Ex]: [Custodial Dad] do you want us to go to same or different open house for [daughter] on tuesday. 2:07 PM
[The Ex]: Will you and [Step Mother] be at seven or two pm session. 2:08 PM
[The Ex]: Call at seven. Ready. 6:56 PM
[The Ex]: Got ur voicemail. Pls call. 7:29 PM
Me: Finishing dinner/clean up will call or [webcam] in a few minutes 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] tonight? 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] please. 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] tonight? 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] was promised. 7:36 PM
[The Ex]: Waiting. 7:36 PM
Me: Finishing dinner/clean up will call or [webcam] in a few minutes 7:37 PM
[The Ex]: Got that message. Made request. 7:38 PM
Me: Please refrain from texting or calling after 8 pm except in the event of an emergency. Will set her up on [webcam] as soon as we are done. 7:39 PM
[The Ex]: Check that you have followed the same for me. 7:41 PM
Me: [daughter] is online 7:49 PM
[The Ex]: So am I can't see you. Call me on [webcam]. 8:03 PM
[The Ex]: Will call. 8:05 PM
[The Ex]: Not so hard. Please call. 8:07 PM
Me: Tried to call you several times, [daughter] was logged in and waiting. Will call now. I am showering kids and can not assist further. Sorry. 8:18 PM
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Me to [The Ex] 8/16/10 12:29 AM 2 months ago
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Me: [daughter] landed. On our way home. 3:33 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] at seven. See her then. Thx. 3:34 PM
[The Ex]: Pls hv [daughter] call me now or before [webcam]. 5:32 PM
[The Ex]: When will u be on? 6:45 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call ur phone goes to voicemail. 7:01 PM
Me: Just walked into the door. Will have her call in a few minutes. 7:13 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] tonight as arranged? 7:14 PM
[The Ex]: I am on [webcam]. Ready when she is. 7:15 PM
Me: Call will have to suffice.. [daughter] is getting changed, will call when she's done. 7:15 PM
[The Ex]: If u are home as u said why can't u [webcam]? Do u have internet? 7:16 PM
[The Ex]: It seems unreasonable to not turn on a webcam with the click of a mouse. 7:17 PM
[The Ex]: To see Mom would be important as she was here hours ago. 7:17 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] saya [Step Mother] offered [webcam] for tomorrow. 8:00 PM
[The Ex]: Is there any open house info u want to share. Should I just go to website? 12:22 AM
Me: Please understand .... Texting causes my phone to chirp loudly.... and any communication between us should be via email (as I've pointed out numerous tim 12:24 AM
Me: es) .... Thank you 12:24 AM
[The Ex]: That was longer text than an answer. How is [daughter]? 12:27 AM
Me: Stop now 12:27 AM
[The Ex]: Ok 12:28 AM
[The Ex]: I will look to email to get school notice info. 12:29 AM
[The Ex]: Thanks 12:29 AM
Me: I have small children sleeping ... Stop this now! 12:30 AM
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[The Ex] 8/15/10 8:07 AM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: If you don't let us know where you are how can we meet you? Think about how simple that is. Wherever u meant by gate- find it and let me know. We are not going 8:01 AM
[The Ex]: We are not going on a goose chase. Text your three o'clock location. If we have to notify security that you did not show as arranged then we will. 8:03 AM
[The Ex]: Stop filling up my text box. Please. 8:06 AM
[The Ex]: Pease come to get [daughter] with a focus on her comfort and not on engaging in your dramatic troublemaking. 8:07 AM
Me: If you are refrencing this explosion of overly dramatic texts FROM you ... Then I agree ... There should be no troiblemaking .... I will be at the area d 8:42 AM
Me: esignated for pick for [daughter]s particular gate before her plane lands ... and perhaps you can review how YOU are fueling yet another dramatic exchange 8:42 AM
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[The Ex] 8/14/10 11:48 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] is aware u will get her at gate. Will you wait for baggage claim? [webcam] at seven PM or earlier tomorrow? 8:38 PM
[The Ex]: Please reply. Will you pick up baggage claim. If no response then I may not pack stiuff. 9:36 PM
Me: Of course, if she has baggage, we will get her bags. Can meet her at baggage claim with her grandmother. 9:38 PM
[The Ex]: Meet at gate as per attorney agreement. I may not send baggage. Very unlikely I may send. [daughter] will see you at gate. 9:42 PM
Me: Send or don't send, your choice. 9:43 PM
Me: Fine, however, per airplane policy, I will be OUTSIDE the gate in the departure area where non ticketed people are authorized to stand. 9:45 PM
Me: Can not be at the plane departure area but as close as I can be, I will be there. Didn't realize I needed to spell that out. 9:45 PM
Me: Also please remind [daughter] to bring home her build a bear teddy 9:47 PM
[The Ex]: Email changes. 10:00 PM
Me: No changes... please refer to airline/port policies. 10:01 PM
[The Ex]: Gate pick up set. U are set to get [daughter] at aRival. After three PM you are late to pick up. So text if you are to be late. Verify flight arrival schedule. 11:07 PM
[The Ex]: Late then my Mom is responsible to transport [daughter] to her home. So communicate with me if u are late. Don't curcumvent ur timed pickup. Just notify me. Tnx? 11:26 PM
[The Ex]: Airport policy? Are you selectivew in adhering to airport poiicy. You wanted three o'clock. Be there. At three. 11:48 PM
Me: Must be confusion.... I am picking up [daughter] at the airport as close to the gate as is allowable per federal laws. I will of course be there at 3 pm. 7:29 AM
Me: No idea where you are going with all of this... we are all looking forward to seeing [daughter] at 3 as arranged. 7:29 AM
Me: Any questions on where a non ticketed person is allowed to pick up passengers arriving, please contact [city in third state] or Jet Blue. 7:32 AM
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[The Ex] 8/13/10 11:01 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Late birthday. Here is call. 10:59 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] left message. 11:00 PM
Me: Please call in morning at a more appropriate time 11:01 PM
[The Ex]: Sure. Girls off to bed. 11:01 PM
[The Ex] 8/12/10 5:40 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Talked to my lawyer about [daughter]s foot. Would u be on speaker with the walk in clinic staff at urgent care of your choice in [city in other state] and decide what to do about 2:26 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter]s swollen foot? I would just facilitate getting her there and following the medical orders if any. You could make decisions with medical staff. Want this 2:28 PM
[The Ex]: Option for [daughter]s care. The swelling has extended to toes and is warmer. What to do? 2:30 PM
Me: EMAIL me a picture of [daughter]'s foot please. I am not taking medical advise from an attorney, sorry. 2:36 PM
[The Ex]: Will email pic. 2:37 PM
Me: Waiting on call back from pediatrician and will send the pic once its recv'd to them directly. 2:39 PM
[The Ex]: Pls send me a phone number that gets pics as I can send from phone. Off computer is not option as its not working. Have sent u pic earlier if u can download. 2:54 PM
[The Ex]: I can send to pediaterician phone. 2:54 PM
Me: No phone can receive pics. Downloading is NOT an option 2:55 PM
Me: Please input [Custodial Dad home email]@gmail.com into phone number field 2:56 PM
[The Ex]: Can the pediatric office offer a cell that gets pics. Please call them. 2:56 PM
Me: Can not receive text pics. Input email address in to field to achieve same goals 2:58 PM
Me: No [The Ex]... please send me a photo of [daughter]'s foot. Thanks 2:58 PM
Me: [Step Mother] is at home, you can [webcam] with her and she canget a photo of [daughter]'s foot and forward a picture to the pediatricians office. 3:03 PM
Me: Text me so I can let her know to log in... 3:03 PM
[The Ex]: Ok. Great. 3:04 PM
Me: Let me know when so I can let [Step Mother] know. 3:06 PM
[The Ex]: No answer. Please get on [webcam]. [daughter] is waiting to show foot. 3:07 PM
Me: I am not home, give me a second to notify [Step Mother]. 3:08 PM
[The Ex]: Ok tell when we should get on. Don't want it to get later on this. We will be happy to know it is nothing to be concerned over. Tnx for ur help. 3:10 PM
Me: [Step Mother] tried you. [webcam] says "not online." She's logged in. 3:14 PM
[The Ex]: Ok great. 3:14 PM
[The Ex]: Done. Please frws a copy of picture that was sent. 3:25 PM
Me: Spoke with pediatrician's office will email exact instructions also, 3:54 PM
Me: Urgent call/ER NOT necessary. 3:54 PM
Me: Soak in warm water (as I suggested.) Make sure are remains clean. 3:54 PM
Me: Can apply otc hydrocortisone cream for three days ONLY... do not apply for longer three days. 3:55 PM
Me: If its very itchy/uncomfortable you can give her benedryl otc according to her exact weight and package instructions. 3:56 PM
Me: Medicine for throat and cough is as needed.. typically if its keeping her up at night 3:58 PM
[The Ex]: Ok. Great. Will u pdate. 3:59 PM
Me: Sent email as well. Thanks for keeping me informed. Have a good day. 4:34 PM
[The Ex]: Wow. That was nice. Let's keep that going. I appreciate it. She is resting well with me here. 4:54 PM
[The Ex]: [Step Mother] was also very smooth w [daughter] on [webcam]. The kids can come on [webcam] with her to connect w [daughter] as you wish. Just let me know. 4:57 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] reports throat is fine right now. Hurts when cough only. I am much better so I hope her cold symtoms improve. She eats well. 5:40 PM
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[The Ex] 8/11/10 9:36 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] has eaten and still has throat pain when she coughs. Couging is not all the time but you cqn hear the moist cough. Her left foot and ankle is really 8:56 PM
[The Ex]: Left foot and ankle really swollen and warm. Complained last night of itch there but swelling today is obvious. 8:58 PM
[The Ex]: I will keep an eye on it. She is playing fine. Just wsa upset about your statements to her about her date of return. Please think about her view. She is again 9:00 PM
[The Ex]: She is again leaving her home here. Just pls be nice to her about being here and let it be about her return to ur home. Her foot hurts. She has sore throat. 9:02 PM
[The Ex]: She just needs kindness and comfort. 9:03 PM
Me: A. [daughter] stated that both you and [The Ex current husband] smoke... could that be the cause of her throat and cough? 9:06 PM
Me: B. Foot was result of mosquito bite? Maybe soak it in warm water or put calamine lotion on it. 9:06 PM
Me: C. No one is counting down her return home, she was looking at calendar to determine which day it was. We are all excited for [daughter] to come home and its important she knows this. 9:07 PM
Me: I was not unkind to [daughter], don't appreciate the inference. What child is not saddened by an ending vacation? 9:08 PM
Me: Best I can do to understand, will not have a barrage of texts again this evening as I am shutting off my text alert until morning. Feel free to email me. Good night. 9:09 PM
[The Ex]: Got ur text and your treatment for foot. All else is interesting insight into ur mangment of my message to you about [daughter].I understand not to text further this 9:36 PM
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[The Ex] 8/11/10 1:23 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hey dad. My phone as blank screen yesterday and we were out. Wanted to text u and send pics. Sorry could not. Got late to call you by ten. Here [daughter] is now. 10:00 AM
[The Ex]: Please send ur concerns about perfume play and ur issues on call interruption in email. 10:14 AM
[The Ex]: Niam has told you her throat hurts and her palate extender discomfort on her tongue. You replied she will get medical care on return home because "it might just 10:17 AM
[The Ex]: "It might just be an allergy and your tongue is swollen. That's all. " How do you know she does not have a cold and how did you evaluate a possible swollen 10:19 AM
Me: I stated that I would take her to the doctor upon her return. No one is diagnosing [daughter] 10:21 AM
[The Ex]: How did you evaluate a swollen tongue as an insignificant issue? Please email. I'd be happy to bring her to provider of your choice for her comfort &health. . 10:21 AM
Me: As you heard, I stated I could not diagnose her long distance and would take her to see her pediatrician and Dr. [orthodontist] if necessary. 10:21 AM
Me: I heard many sneezes in the background and was trying to see if there were others who were sick around her or if the change in environment was cause for her discomfort. 10:22 AM
Me: I do not feel as though she needs immediate attention and again after hearing the multitude of sneezes in the background. 10:24 AM
[The Ex]: Want her to deal with a sore throat and cough and pain on her tongue until Monday of next week at earliest? That's five days. And throat and cough complaints 10:24 AM
[The Ex]: Complaints on and off since Monday. 10:24 AM
[The Ex]: She told you sneeze was mine. [daughter] did not sneeze. 10:25 AM
Me: Hence the phrase, "many sneezes in the BACKGROUND." 10:26 AM
Me: You do NOT have my permission to take [daughter] to a doctor... she at WORSE case has a cold and does not need to be seen. 10:27 AM
[The Ex]: Hey [Custodial Dad]. Up to you. You are responsible for her medical and dental. You let me know what you want me to do and Ill be happy to bring her where you decide. 10:27 AM
Me: No more texts unless [daughter] needs me... otherwise have a great day making clothes with our daughter. 10:27 AM
[The Ex]: Please calm down with ur responses. Just simply let me know how to attend to [daughter]s tongue discomfort and throat and cough. 10:28 AM
Me: No one is excited and I believe you understand what my stance is on this situation. No further discussion is necessary. Again, have a great day! 10:30 AM
[The Ex]: Want to ask her dentist about the tongue discomfort and let me know what the advice is? Is that normal according to the dentist? Want throat swab? 10:31 AM
Me: No, you are NOT a doctor please do not stick anything down [daughter]'s throat. 10:32 AM
[The Ex]: Oh just saw your responses. Sorry that you are so controlling about [daughter]s care. I never restricted you taking to providers last year on her visit. This is sad 10:33 AM
[The Ex]: Sad to leave her in discomfort as she expresses because of your decision. Just seems unfair to her. Clearly your control is highest priority and not her comfort 10:34 AM
Me: No however you ensured I had no access to her medical and school records 10:34 AM
Me: I am on the line with her orthodontist now. Please stop texting so I can converse with his office. 10:35 AM
Me: Please stop. I am on the phone with the orthodontist. Clearly I am taking action. 10:36 AM
[The Ex]: Ah I see your thinking process. And I would like you to clarify your caution to me to perform aauthorization required lab test on this child. Is this ur fear? 10:37 AM
Me: Per Dr. [orthodontist], he is comfortable waiting to see her until she is home. If she has any discomfort use a salt water rinse which could help her throat as well. 10:39 AM
[The Ex]: Maybe want to call her pediatrician while you are addressing and ask about pain in throat with cough? 10:39 AM
Me: Please ensure that [daughter] is brushing her palate extender and that she is not eating sticky, gummy or hard foods such as popcorn/nuts as I stated to you previously. 10:40 AM
Me: Your texts are incoherent to me, maybe you can write an email instead. 10:41 AM
[The Ex]: Please help her have advice on cough and throat pain as she says it feels bumpy when she swallows. Implant care is done as per your orders and food is appropria 10:42 AM
[The Ex]: Will you call pediatrician too please so I can have specific direction? 10:42 AM
Me: [daughter] never complained about a cough, exact words were "slight sore throat too." 10:42 AM
[The Ex]: Cold medicine or analgesia? 10:43 AM
[The Ex]: Don't take my word for coughing. Here she is. Ask her. 10:44 AM
Me: Palate extender is NOT an implant... being a nurse I would assume you know proper terminology. 10:44 AM
[The Ex]: Hostility noted. [daughter] never said the word slight but I can see ur interpretation. Ask her. 10:45 AM
Me: Not putting [daughter] in the middle of your issues here. She should not be privy to these discussions as per the order. 10:46 AM
Me: Lets move on with the day... this is getting ridiculous and asinine. No hostility, making a big issue over a cold. A cold does not require treatment or even call to pediatrician. 10:51 AM
Me: If you need [daughter] to come home early to seek medical attention, I can make those arrangements. Otherwise, I am sure a salt water rinse can assist [daughter]'s tongue and throat issues until Monday. 10:52 AM
[The Ex]: Please don't keep tellinng [daughter] on calls to tell me to write emails to you. Just tell me directly please. 10:53 AM
Me: And worse case, our pediatrician can see us on Sunday upon [daughter]'s arrival. Again, have a good day. Suggested [daughter] stay in if she is that uncomfortable, maybe let her rest and drink juice. 10:53 AM
[The Ex]: Issue was [daughter]s complaints. Just wanted to know what you wanted me to do for her care. Got your advice. Will do as stated. Simple. That's all. 10:55 AM
Me: Please refrain from putting [daughter] in the middle then I wouldn't need to deflect and tell you to email me instead. She should not be privy to such dramatics. 10:55 AM
[The Ex]: Understand dental visit on Monday. Did you call her pedic doctor about throat and cough? Do you want me to give her otc meds? Just let me know. Thanks. 10:56 AM
Me: If you need [daughter] to come home early to seek medical attention, I can make those arrangements. Otherwise, I am sure a salt water rinse can assist [daughter]'s tongue and throat issues until Monday. 10:58 AM
[The Ex]: Its your call so keep it simple when giving me direction. Her care is your call. Its ok. You just tell me what you want to have me do for [daughter].I'm here to help 10:59 AM
[The Ex]: [Custodial Dad]. I read your text and find it disturbing that you blame me for your actions in telling [daughter] in call after call that she should tell Mom to email you. 11:01 AM
[The Ex]: You control ur mouth and your words. Your interpretations and hostility are noted. Please address ur issues so we can best care for [daughter]. Thanks. Kindly. [The Ex] 11:04 AM
Me: You insisted [daughter] telephone again after the barrage of texts that I am sure she was privy to. She wanted me to tell her how she felt which indicates the lack of severity of the situation. 11:05 AM
Me: There is no hostility only what you are imaging. I am sure [daughter] would love your attention. AGAIN, Please have a good day with [daughter]... I have other things to attend to. 11:07 AM
[The Ex]: Let's address your perceptions of me and my thinking in email. I would appreciate if you stopped floodign my text with abusive comments. [daughter] is playing 11:24 AM
[The Ex]: And she has eaten. Will update. 11:24 AM
[The Ex]: Oh my. I missed your text of having [daughter] come back early. Please explain how and why you would do that. 12:02 PM
[The Ex]: Maybe in your judgement it is a good option. I'd like to understand your proposal. Tnx. Which day for return. I just want her to be comfortable. 12:03 PM
Me: Simply an option for you since you appear to be overwhelmed by her cold or allergy symptoms. 12:05 PM
Me: I will leave that option open to your discretion... let me know if I need to make arrangements. Thanks. 12:06 PM
[The Ex]: Send your views and your flight arrangements to my attorney please. We should make your options for managing [daughter]s complaints formal. 12:08 PM
[The Ex]: Send the details of your proposal. Let me understand. 12:10 PM
[The Ex]: Send the details of your proposal. Let me understand. 12:10 PM
Me: No, if you feel [daughter] needs to come home early, we will arrange that. I will defer to you to make that decision. 12:10 PM
[The Ex]: Let [the ex fourth other state lawyer] move on your requests.Have follow through. Don't put the decission on me. You are in charge. 12:10 PM
Me: Her orthodontist suggested salt water gargle for both issues and stated he is fine to wait until she is home. If *you* feel that is not sufficient, we will be happy to have her home early. 12:12 PM
Me: choice is yours to make. 12:12 PM
[The Ex]: To attorney pls. Ur in charge. Let [the ex fourth other state lawyer] know. 12:25 PM
Me: You contact your attorney if you want her to come home early. Its simple. Do I think its necessary? No. If you feel its necessary and you can not manage her care as suggested, let me know. 12:28 PM
Me: Your complaints of my "control" are met by your inability to make a decision. I am not there and as suggested by the doctor, he thinks a salt water gargle would suffice. 12:30 PM
[The Ex]: You propose earlu return option. It is your call [Custodial Dad]. You are in charge. You just tell [the ex fourth other state lawyer] through ur guy [Custodial dad other state lawyer]. You determine if she stays or returns. You. 12:31 PM
Me: Two hours of back and forth texts, where is [daughter]? 12:31 PM
[The Ex]: Playing w tape and paper flowers earlier and set up for later. She continues to play. Let me know your decission. You tell me. 12:33 PM
[The Ex]: Why not make finall set of instructions as they are rather simple and you keep repeating as though it is hard to do gargle. Pleas sum and [the ex fourth other state lawyer] 12:35 PM
[The Ex]: [the ex fourth other state lawyer] will call if you take action to fly [daughter] home. That easy [Custodial Dad]. 12:35 PM
Me: Simple... if you do not state unequivocally that she needs to come home, I will assume she is fine and comfortable. The option is yours. Discussion is over unless you make a decision. 12:36 PM
Me: He needs to speak with [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] as you know however, choice to send [daughter] home was an option for you to exercise. Good day. 12:37 PM
[The Ex]: I've got a happy kid playing with throat pain and cough. You make whatever issue you want of it. Let me know. I'm here to help [daughter]s comfort. 12:45 PM
[The Ex]: Please refrain from personally attacking and criticizing me. 12:46 PM
Me: No one has attacked nor criticized you. Your choice to send her home or let her gargle with salt water as recommended by doctor. 12:50 PM
[The Ex]: Hey [Custodial Dad]. Calm down please. At the end of the day you are responisible for your actions. I see a child gargling as she is asked. 1:05 PM
[The Ex]: Pls stop with text as you are clear. I'm sure Ill be contacted if [daughter] is to go on an airplane anytime soon. 1:05 PM
Me: [The Ex] you are being purposely obtuse and I think you are the only one who needs to calm down. Let me know how [daughter] is feeling. That is all Have a good day. 1:17 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] is resting on couch lakeside. Please refrain on sharing your criticisms of me. 1:23 PM
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[The Ex] 8/9/10 9:05 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Check ur email pls. 9:04 PM
[The Ex]: Goodnight. 9:05 PM
[The Ex]: Off to bed. 9:05 PM
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Me to [Custodial Dad] (Husband) [Custodial dad last name] 8/9/10 8:35 PM 2 months ago
Me: That was very inappropriate... all I said was that I was sure you were keeping an eye on things re: perfume. Subject was changed and I obviously do not require your supervision when speaking with our daughter. Me: Please refrain from orchestrating, dictating and interfering with my conversations with [daughter] as the same courtesy is extended towards you. 8:35 PM
Me: hey... um bring in starburst. please. 8:44 PM
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[The Ex] 8/8/10 11:12 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hey [Custodial Dad]. Will try to [webcam] tonight. Will give you half hour notice if we can. Will be for a fifteen minute or so session as it is public wifi. Will also call. 6:38 PM
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Me: Subject was changed and I obviously do not require your supervision when speaking with our daughter. 8:31 PM
Me: Please refrain from orchestrating, dictating and interfering with my conversations with [daughter] as the same courtesy is extended towards you. 8:32 PM
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Me to [Custodial Dad] (Husband) [Custodial dad last name] 8/8/10 11:01 PM 2 months ago
Me: more OJ please 11:01 PM
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[The Ex] 8/7/10 4:15 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hey [Custodial Dad]. Please accept a direct phone call on your designated email days and a direct call on Sunday. I will try to get to [webcam] Sunday. But will call surely. 3:00 PM
[The Ex]: Heard your questions to [daughter] and ask you to check ur email since I wrote you on this already. Thanks. 3:01 PM
Me: I'm sorry, what did you write me on already? The photos? 3:02 PM
[The Ex]: Reread pls. Written. Here's another photo. 3:03 PM
Me: If you've been texting photos that explains why I'm NOT recorvibg then, I have no media allowed via text 3:05 PM
Me: I have an IPhone and there is no media text on an IPhone 3:06 PM
[The Ex]: Hey that's ok. Do your best. 4:15 PM
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[The Ex]
8/7/10 7:25 AM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Kids got ice cream on return home trip and got into sleep pjs past nine. Will call early Saturday. 7:25 AM
[The Ex] 8/6/10 4:24 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Please let me know how many uniforms and what supplies you still need for [daughter] as I'm sure you have already gotten her things. Please let me know what she 2:47 PM
[The Ex]: Please let me know what she still needs. I want to help to make sure she has all she needs as required and enough uniforms to make her week smooth. 2:49 PM
[The Ex]: Shoes update too please. Don't want her to be in one sneaker from [other state] like last year. 2:50 PM
[The Ex]: Need status on glasses please. She will need new eye exam because you fail to provide her with her glasses for five months. Please let me kw cost so I cn help. 2:51 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] off to beach. Will send postcard. Shell call ltr. 4:24 PM
[The Ex] 8/5/10 2:08 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: We will be at Alishas for play this pm. Will call probably before six but will try again if u can't answer. Brooke may be over also so pls prepare for short cal 2:02 PM
[The Ex]: If you could text about ur lunch break time we could have call option then too 2:06 PM
[The Ex]: Just let me know please. 2:07 PM
[The Ex]: Also see ur emails for travel bill and don't make my repayment difficult. I already had to give that iissue to [the ex fourth other state lawyer]. Requested time. Pls respond. 2:08 PM
[The Ex] 8/4/10 10:02 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] and friends called you. No answer. They lkeft voivemail with favored kids bop song to share w [Custodial dad last name] crew. Enjoy. We ll call ltr. 4:36 PM
[The Ex]: Hi Dad. [daughter] tried u again before bed. Left voicemail. Wished you were available to answer her second call today. Will have her try you again tomorrow. Tnx. 9:48 PM
[The Ex]: Pls let me know how you like the picture we have sent so far. Good night. Off to bed. 9:49 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] off to bed. Please check text. 9:50 PM
[The Ex]: Hey let me give her phone to say goodnight to you Dad. 9:52 PM
[The Ex]: Glad you were able to talk with [daughter] for love yous and goodnight. Will have her call again tomorrow. Goodnight dad. 9:55 PM
Me: Middle of the day calls are not always feasible as I am at work. Please try calling later in the day, specifically after 6 pm. 9:58 PM
Me: Thanks for the late call. 9:58 PM
[The Ex]: No problem. But please try to respect when I text u that I'm off to bed because I have to get up to answer the text alert when you text after I've gone to bed. 10:02 PM
[The Ex] 8/3/10 7:06 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Take it easy. No need to be victimized. It was a folder search. That's all 7:05 PM
[The Ex]: Sent photos of [daughter] and friends circa her call today. Enjoy. 7:06 PM
[The Ex] 8/2/10 6:54 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] spoke w u earlier and that. Was good u could pick up phone. Please send the blue folder [daughter] prepared for me that she put with her stuff for u to pk. 6:41 PM
[The Ex]: I am sure you can appreciate how upset she is that the things she wrote and kept and made for her Mom were not sent w her. 6:42 PM
[The Ex]: She made sure she placed all her things together and only some are here. Pls don't make any excuses to put responsibility on her. She did her part to prepare. 6:43 PM
[The Ex]: You claimed you would pack things she set aside. Please send folder via mail asap so she can share on her creations and writings to Mom. 6:45 PM
Me: [daughter] and I packed her bags together. When I speak to [daughter] next, I will ask specifically where it was placed. 6:46 PM
[The Ex]: Some are attermpted mailings to me she wants me to have of her work and art etc. Kindly. [The Ex]. 6:46 PM
Me: Accusations are getting tiresome [The Ex], no one is out to get you. 6:46 PM
[The Ex]: No claim made. Just send folder. Simple Dad. [daughter]s request. Your response is rather hostile. Please just send the folder via mail asap. 6:48 PM
Me: There was one envelope missing that [Step Mother] gave her, I do not know about the folder. [daughter] can tell me where she left it and I will mail it to the Leeland address ASAP 6:49 PM
Me: I will speak to [daughter] directly for clarification as she and I packed her bag together. 6:50 PM
[The Ex]: ah I have one place left to look. Great it s here. Thanks for responding. 6:54 PM
Me: So your accusations were prior to actually looking for it? Apology accepted. 6:56 PM
[The Ex] 8/1/10 9:45 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] called. Left message. Gd nt. 9:43 PM
Me: Calling back, missed the call. thanks, 9:44 PM
[The Ex]: Off to bed. Will call tomorrow. Check ur message for N voicemail. 9:45 PM
Me: Voicemail was less than 10 seconds and I called less than a minute later. 9:52 PM
[The Ex] 8/1/10 12:19 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: [daughter] sould be in soon Dad. Please get glasses for remainder of summer since she has summer books to read. Please check Sears for discount on glasses as in ad. 12:10 PM
Me: Looking forward to speaking with [daughter] tonight... she has a card with log in information for email. Thanks. 12:12 PM
[The Ex]: Call every night to you. Please address getting glasses for [daughter] ASAP. This is a very overdue child care issue. Please don't leave attorneys to resolve. 12:16 PM
Me: Did she land yet? 12:17 PM
[The Ex]: [daughter] has just landed. This is how we transport children between parents. Address glasses in email please. 12:19 PM
[The Ex]: Bye for now. Thanks. 12:19 PM
Me: Glad to know she arrived safely. Thanks for keeping me informed. Enjoy your day with [daughter]. 12:20 PM
Me: don't want to get too far passed [daughter] bedtime, when should we expect her call? 7:39 PM
Text Messages (6/2010 - 7/2010)
[The Ex] 7/31/10 10:16 AM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hey. [Custodial Dad]. Pls see ur email for [street in home town] police station cusody transfer. I called dispatcher. Granny will be there for three PM transfer. 9:27 AM
[The Ex]: Note that there is no ststion at ninth street. Officer ststed that [street in home town] is station so that is the transfer spot. Pls respond. We will not go lookin for u 9:29 AM
[The Ex]: We will simply note u did not bring child for transfer so pls be attentive to the. [street in home town] police station transfer address. 9:31 AM
[The Ex]: I have verified that this texting is relaible. 9:31 AM
Me: Not sure what you are trying to say in these texts. Responded to your email last night. 9:56 AM
Me: We've always known where the sole police station is. They also have the order on file. 9:58 AM
[The Ex]: Great. Granny will see u there on time. 10:16 AM
[The Ex] 7/30/10 8:12 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Phone call with [daughter] please. Please have your part of travel available. Please call me with my girl. 8:11 PM
[The Ex]: No voicemail or anything. Why? 8:12 PM
Me: Very late dinner, call as soon as we're done 8:48 PM
[The Ex] 7/29/10 8:32 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter]. 7:24 PM
[The Ex]: Phone died. 8:32 PM
[The Ex] 7/28/10 11:59 AM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: You have [daughter]. Please call me. Have my phone. Call anytime. 9:38 AM
Me: [daughter] called and left a message this AM. 10:02 AM
Me: Will have her call either tomorrow right after camp or at 7 PM. Your choice. 10:02 AM
Me: She is unavailable until then. Thanks. 10:02 AM
[The Ex]: Let her call and talk to me today please after camp. Not so hard to know voicemail is NOT a contact with Mom. Look it up. 10:46 AM
[The Ex]: I am done with this lack of compliance. You are forcing me to address phone contact in a seperate court filing. Enough already. Dad. Please. 10:47 AM
Me: She is going to a sleep over hence my attempt to text last night and call you this am. 10:54 AM
Me: Feel free to address whatever it is you need to. Have a great day! 10:56 AM
[The Ex]: You are failing miserably to adhere to ensure [daughter] has call with Mom. This is me addressing this issue with you. When you continue to disregard the order, 11:16 AM
[The Ex]: And to disregard my request, you frustrate contact which goes to [the ex fourth other state lawyer] to manage through court. It is your bill to pay. Because your failure to act under law 11:18 AM
[The Ex]: Your failure to act under the law is contempt and illegal. I don't know maybe Rosen and Reosen is it for reference 11:20 AM
[The Ex]: Please see to it that [daughter] has my number with her to call me wherever she is. And where is she as you said she would only be with you and [Step Mother]9 11:22 AM
Me: [daughter] is entitled to a sleep over and to visit with friends. I will ensure she calls you either right after camp or at 7PM to compensate. 11:23 AM
Me: Please stop, nothing can be done until [daughter] is home tomm afternoon. Will have her call you then. 11:24 AM
[The Ex]: You will please provide th family she is with my phone number and have her call Mom. It is ordered. Make it happen please. I'm sure they have phones. 11:27 AM
[The Ex]: Please provide me with the first and last names of the family [daughter] will be with. I'm sure she will be fine. Just parent request. 11:28 AM
Me: Absolutely not [The Ex], I will not provide you with their information. 11:30 AM
Me: Please stop, nothing can be done until [daughter] is home tomm afternoon. Will have her call you then. 11:30 AM
[The Ex]: Refusal noted. Please give them my number to call with [daughter]. They will have my child and they are welcome to use public phone or conceal their numbers. Please. 11:32 AM
[The Ex]: Are you saying you are not able to communicate with the family who has my child? This is not sounding good. Please resolve this. You are resposible for contact 11:34 AM
[The Ex]: You are reponsibl for contact with her care providers whether it is a sleepover or not. 11:35 AM
[The Ex]: Hey you know what [Custodial Dad]? [daughter] may miss a call with Mom and I might be sad for that failure on your part. But the consequence through the court is yours Dad. 11:38 AM
[The Ex]: So do what you want and see if judges like to be ignored when they believe you and hand you custody. 11:39 AM
[The Ex]: And let's see how the court feels when they see the records and hear the testimonies of ALL you lied about under oath. IT is a crime what you did. 11:41 AM
[The Ex]: Your actions are punishable by law. Challenge me to show you how its done. Please. Please. Courts disdain LIARS with a paper trail of LIES. I'm ready. Anytime 11:44 AM
Me: No one lied.. your ranting is getting tiresome. Please stop or find a better audience. 11:46 AM
[The Ex]: Sudden amnesia won't excuse you. You submitted files and documents for trial. Your admission to lies is not needed. Please check your email. This is over. 11:51 AM
Me: No one lied.. your ranting is getting tiresome. Please stop or find a better audience. 11:54 AM
[The Ex]: I said this is OVER. Get it [Custodial Dad]? OVER. DONE. Please stop resending texts. Check your email. I will need prompt responses please. Thanks. 11:59 AM
[The Ex] 7/27/10 4:51 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Please use the word" please" when addressing me. I expect it as I do say please to you. Thanks Dad. 10:49 AM
[The Ex]: Pls have [daughter] call me tonight. 4:18 PM
[The Ex]: Call ur attorney. You are violating daily calls. 4:21 PM
[The Ex]: Unfortunately if I have to have [the ex fourth other state lawyer] help me to get [daughter] her daily calls with Mom. It is YOUR bill to pay. PLEASE work with me Dad. 4:24 PM
[The Ex]: Please respond on request to comply with call tonight per order. 4:51 PM
Me: [daughter] will be unavailable for Wednesday night call. 8:04 PM
Me: Can you call prior to 8:15 or we'll have her available on Thursday? 8:05 PM
Me: Sorry 8:15AM Wednesday morning or regular time Thurs (7PM) 8:05 PM
[The Ex] 7/26/10 9:15 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Check again later for email. 9:15 PM
[The Ex]n 7/26/10 1:23 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Can't read your message. It is fragmented. Pls emaiL. And pls work w me to get N here as in my email to you. Pls see email. 1:23 PM
Me: No email from you. 9:14 PM
Me: Please have your mother provide a booster seat for [daughter] 9:14 PM
Me: Waiting on response from your lawyer... 9:15 PM
Me: Your mother may pick up [daughter] on August 1st earlier than 6 am. 9:15 PM
Me: Give your mother the documents she may need for travel. 9:15 PM
Me: Do not send msgs via [webcam] as it is not always on. 9:16 PM
[The Ex] 7/25/10 8:04 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hi [Custodial Dad]. For [daughter]s fight, please have appropriate state issued identification as MAY be required by [city in third state] airport and or jet blue policy. 6:36 PM
[The Ex]: Please finalize plans for [daughter]s departing flight on Sundat am. Please give Granny time to pick up Saturday to have [daughter] travel with ease. 6:36 PM
[The Ex]: Please provide car booster seat. To Granny for [daughter]s safe car transport. 6:36 PM
[The Ex]: Please send [daughter] with appropriate identification as airline and airport may require. Please let me or attorney know the final plans for Saturday evening pickup 6:39 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] at seven? 6:40 PM
[The Ex]: It is sunday. [webcam] at seven? I have to be at wifi site. So pls let me know prior to seven. 6:42 PM
Me: Having dinner, will [webcam] as soon as we're done. 7:17 PM
[The Ex]: Ok. TNks. 7:17 PM
Me: Logging into [webcam] now, sorry for the delay. 8:03 PM
[The Ex]: Ok no problem. Thx. 8:04 PM
Me: Please have your mother provide a booster seat for [daughter] as there will be no way to retrieve it when she returns. My lawyer spoke with yours last week, he has yet to respond however your mother may pick up [daughter] August 1st.. I would suggest you supply your mother with any needed documents prior to [daughter]'s flight. Please do not communicate via [webcam] as it is not always on and may take days before I see your messages. 8:02 AM
[The Ex] 7/24/10 6:13 AM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hi [Custodial Dad]. For [daughter]s fight, please have appropriate state issued identification as MAY be required by [city in third state] airport and or jet blue policy. 6:10 AM
[The Ex]: Please provide car booster seat. To Granny for [daughter]s safe car transport. 6:11 AM
[The Ex]: Please finalize plans for [daughter]s departing flight on Sundat am. Please give Granny time to pick up Saturday to have [daughter] travel with ease. 6:13 AM
[The Ex] 7/22/10 5:41 AM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Not an issue if you can just relax and place a simple phone call. Texting was helpful to let me know to call again. I'm fine with it. Glad for the call. Thanks. 5:41 AM
[The Ex] 7/21/10 7:01 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls answer my call to [daughter]. 6:57 PM
[The Ex]: Just tried twice. No games Dad. Can u call me now? 7:01 PM
Me: No games dialing at the same time... emailed about this very issue. 7:58 PM
[The Ex] 7/21/10 8:30 AM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Safety for children is NOT dictated by Parents and surely not from me in these messages. Just simply heed the internet sites inform on NOT dog walking for child 8:30 AM
Me: You have failed to address how specifically [daughter] is unsafe specifically when you lack the understanding and the logistics of the situation. 12:24 PM
Me: [daughter] is safe and I do not put her in jeopardy at all. Had you have asked, I could explain the situation better to you. 12:25 PM
[The Ex]
7/20/10 9:23 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Please do not put [daughter] in the dangerous position of dog walking. We adressed this last summer. Please refrain from putting her in that danger. Please email re. 8:05 PM
Me: What are you talking about? What danger? 8:09 PM
Me: Please email me: No discussion via text. Thanks 8:09 PM
[The Ex]: Dog walking is dangerous for an eight year old little girl. Look up on national child welfare websites. It is a parental caution. Please take notice and 8:31 PM
[The Ex]: Act with caution with our daughter. She has a right to safety. Dog walking is not safe for her. We have discussed this in past. 8:32 PM
Me: Not discussing this via text... I have our daughters safety close to heart. Any concerns email me otherwise goodnight. 8:33 PM
[The Ex]: This is legal communication. Not discussion. Parent to parent. Be careful with my baby girl. Clearly you would agree. 8:47 PM
Me: This is NOT legal communication but rather discussion... genuine concern find an acceptable means to communicate with me. I will not have this DISCUSSION via text. Good night [The Ex]. 8:50 PM
[The Ex]: Legal To all. Let eVerynight be a good night dad. 8:51 PM
Me: You can not base any opinion on [daughter]'s lifestyle or the choices I make for our daughter without communicating with me... you have no idea what is going on and are basing your statements on that of a child. 8:51 PM
[The Ex]: Discrediting [daughter] is not good. She was with you when she shared on phone. [Step Mother] verified already. Why do you say I have no idea what is going on? 9:03 PM
Me: No one's discrediting [daughter]. You are warping everything the child states to you for some imagined trial. You do not know what is going on because you fail to communicate via acceptable means. 9:08 PM
Me: Text is not a form of civil discussion and I would suggest you re-read the order to better understand how to communicate effectively with me. 9:09 PM
Me: If you have QUESTIONS with what I have decided to do or not do with our daughter, please email me a succinct and cohesive SINGLE email and await my reply. This is childish and petty and no way to raise our daughter. 9:10 PM
[The Ex]: Careful discrediting [daughter]. You clearly received this notice. Please act with this in mind. Goodnight. 9:23 PM
Me: If you have QUESTIONS with what I have decided to do or not do with our daughter, please email me a succinct and cohesive SINGLE email and await my reply. This is childish and petty and no way to raise our daughter. 9:36 PM
Me: Please have your attorney explain the order as you have no authority to put anyone on notice regarding [daughter]. Discussion is welcome, dictation is not. Good Night. 9:36 PM
[The Ex] 7/19/10 6:51 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter] anytime. 6:50 PM
[The Ex]: Can she [webcam] tonite? 6:51 PM
[The Ex] 7/18/10 5:43 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Please listen to whole converations if you want to comment. See my emails to clarify this topic. 5:28 PM
[The Ex]: See [daughter] on [webcam] tonight at seven. I am out to get internet for our video chat so please put [daughter] on tonight. I also have my phone and can use both or [Other State friend] 5:30 PM
[The Ex]: Thanks. Enjoy your dinnertime. 5:31 PM
Me: Not sure what you mean by the above comments. [daughter] will have phone and [webcam] on at 7pm. 5:34 PM
[The Ex]: That's fine. Let's go from there. Wasn't sure of what you meant either so its fine. 5:36 PM
Me: I understand... you stated to [daughter] that she had an attorney and that she was going for blood work. That message was a week old and since addressed through the attorneys. 5:38 PM
[The Ex]: Hey let's move on. I'm testing and I am interrupted by ur messages cause I am anticipating that you might text with info relevant to tonights viedo chat. 5:42 PM
[The Ex]: So let all else go. See [daughter] at seven. Thanks. 5:43 PM
Me to [The Ex] 7/11/10 8:07 PM 3 months ago
Me: Tried you at 7:01 and 7:37... [daughter] has an early morning. Please call prior to 8 pm! 8:07 PM
Me: Will have to be a fast call, bedtime is at 8:30, she does have a very early morning. 8:16 PM
Me: Says your mailbox is full. Will try again in one minute. 8:17 PM
Me: Please call prior to 8 pm per the order and please refrain from discussing legal issues with [daughter]. You told her she needs "bloodwork" and she has her own attorney this evening. 8:32 PM
Me to [The Ex] 7/4/10 9:53 PM 3 months ago
Me: @ Fireworks, [daughter] will call tomm! Guess she left voicemail, didn't know she didn't reach you before we left. 9:53 PM
Me: Running behind schedule - [daughter] will call later tonight. 7:29 PM
Me to [The Ex] 7/2/10 7:08 PM 3 months ago
Me: [daughter] is in the shower after a day in the creek. She will return your call as soon as she is out. 7:08 PM
[The Ex] 6/21/10 7:50 PM 4 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls take my call later. Just briefly spoke to [daughter] and phone disconnected. 7:50 PM
Me: Please call her prior to 8 pm like the order states. [daughter] has early morning for summer camp like she mentioned. 7:52 PM
Me: calling you back now 7:53 PM
Me: [daughter] said your mailbox is full. Tried to call you back. If you are able [webcam] or email tomorrow. Otherwise, good night. 7:55 P
Me to [The Ex] 6/11/10 3:14 PM 4 months ago
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Me: Please check and respond to the several email messages that are over a week old. I am requesting a copy or fax or [daughter]'s birth certificate and social security card since you are unwilling to forward me the actual documents. 10:30 AM
[The Ex]: Previously answered. Refresher is No copies lawful. I do not have for you. See january national rules on identification for all Americans. Just call State. 3:14 PM
Me: Copies WILL suffice until originals are obtained. I need ACCURATE social security number for [daughter]. No need to be combatitive, just fax or mail copy. 3:22 PM
Me to [The Ex] 6/3/10 9:12 AM 4 months ago
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Me: Please send me [daughter]'s social security card and birth certificate ASAP. Third request. Thanks 9:05 AM
[The Ex]: Please get from the state or ss office. This is the first request I have gotten. You have all the authorization to get the originals. Thanks. 9:09 AM
[The Ex]: Please respond to my requests for more time sharing and June holiday ti{ 9:10 AM
[The Ex]: June holiday time with [daughter] is approaching. Please respond to request from lawyers so we can share more time with [daughter]. 9:12 AM
Me: I do not have her accurate social security number, please provide. 10:21 AM
Me: I have received nothing from you nor your attorney regarding anything of substance. Requests of this nature must be done in writing and/or through [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] [Custodial dad other state lawyer]. 10:22 AM
Me: I do not have her accurate social security number, please provide. I was hoping to have you forward me [daughter]'s birth certificate so that I can enroll her in summer camp. No time to wait for a state request. Forms need to be finalized June 18 or she will be unable to attend. 10:24 AM