[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Mon, Nov 17, 2008 at 12:46 PM
To:[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
FYI: Re: Alternate supervisor research by [The Ex] to accomodate your schedule on 11/19-20/08 visit with [daughter].
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From: [other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Friday, November 14, 2008 1:43:46 PM
Subject: Re: [last name] Case- Supervision of father-daughter vist request: [daughter] [last name] 11/19-11/20 visit dates
Ms. [last name], I will first need to see a court order or signed mediation agreement stating that Mr. [last name] is required to have supervised visitation. My fax is: 482-5[XXX].
[other state therapist]
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From: [The Ex] [last name]
To: [other state therapist] [therapist in other state]
Sent: Friday, November 14, 2008 8:14 AM
Subject: RE: [last name] Case- Supervision of father-daughter vist request: [daughter] [last name] 11/19-11/20 visit dates
Hi, Ms.[therapist in other state].
Can you be available to supervise visits on PM of 11/19 and 11/20AM to comply with custody order.
Will provide valid order and all consents which you may require ASAP, upon confirmation of your availability..
Please advise on:
1.your hourly fees
2.extended time fees
3. travel expenses
4. report preparation fees, etc.
Thanks for your time and kind consideration.
Please, issue an invoice for handling these emails and your time spent working with me to make these requested arrangements.
Email communication is most efficient for me, but feel free to call
Kind Regards.
[The Ex] [last name]
([XXX].[XXX].4665
From: [other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Thursday, November 13, 2008 2:55:55 PM
Subject: Re: [daughter] [last name]: Case Status
Thank you for the update, all the best. R-
----- Original Message -----
From: [The Ex] [last name]
To: [other state therapist] [therapist in other state]
Cc: [Ex’s first other state lawyer]@[email].com ; [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Sent: Tuesday, November 11, 2008 9:45 AM
Subject: [daughter] [last name]: Case Status
Ms. [therapist in other state],
Thanks for your follow-up.
Mediation results: [Custodial Dad] [last name] has agreed to a comprehensive psychological evaluation. Additionally, web cam and phone contact are in place weekly.
We will update you on the progress of the case when we are prepared to move forward with securing your professional service as a LCSW..
Hope you will be available to assist in the future to help our daughter, [daughter], enjoy a stable and healthy relationship with Dad.
You are the first choice for both sides. :)
Thank you for your work.
Kindly,
[The Ex] [last name]
([XXX]) [XXX]-4665
From: [other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Friday, November 7, 2008 8:40:10 AM
Subject: Status
Mr. and Mrs. [last name]:
I am wondering about the status of your case and would appreciate an update so that I can close out your file.
Thank you, [other state therapist]
[other state therapist] [therapist in other state], ACSW, LCSW
[XXX]-[XXX]-7066
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[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Mon, Nov 17, 2008 at 3:08 PM
To:[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Bcc:Wife <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>
[The Ex];
I believe we both received confirmation from [Second visitation Supervisor]??
X
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[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ Time is that quality of nature which keeps events from happening all at once. Lately it doesn’t seem to be working.
* Anonymous ~
[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Mon, Nov 17, 2008 at 3:09 PM
To:[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
Bcc:Wife <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com> Ms. [therapist in other state];
After corresponding with [The Ex] today, she expressed her want for your assistance in regards to her need for supervision, as well as your guidance as Parental Coordinator. I will be in [other state] on November 19 and 20th to meet with Dr. [Court Appointed Psychologist]. This forensic evaluation is to allay the fears of [The Ex] in regards to her demands of supervised visitation.
If we could use your assistance to maybe facilitate this last supervised visit by acting as an “parental evaluator” and supervisor. It is my understanding that you will need to witness and evaluate [daughter]’s and my interaction for your report when we all agree to your role in our case. I understand it is short notice but with [The Ex]’s forthcoming authorization, could we schedule something on November 20th which could ultimately settle two concerns at once? I will incur any charges for this specific meeting/evaluation.
[Custodial Dad]
Attached is [The Ex]’s email dated November 17, 2008 in regards to your assistance:
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
VISITS: WILL FOLLOW AS BELOW
1. Nov. 19th- [Second visitation Supervisor] will have [daughter] at 4PM and will return N when she needs to leave the [MALL].
2. Nov 20th- [Second visitation Supervisor] will have [daughter] at [restaurant]’s at 9AM and will return her after your 10PM end time.
Vehicular Transportation:
1. Request for staying at [MALL] suggested to allow time for activities at swings, playground, bookstore, ice-cream parlor. It is a normalized setting with which [daughter] is familiar and loves.
No affront to your records intended.
Sorry for your misinterpretation. Please pardon.
Dinner for [daughter] AT NO COST TO YOU:
1. I understand that you will meet at [restaurant], HOWEVER, I will send pasta and meatballs for you and [daughter], and [Second visitation Supervisor] to share for dinner at the playground/ covered dining pavilion.
2. Any decision to incur costs for dinner is entirely up to you. IT IS CERTAINLY NOT NECESSARY TO PURCHASE DINNER (or anything for [daughter]), as I will provide a nutritious meal I’m sure you will all enjoy.
Ms. [therapist in other state]’s Assistance:
1. I will be happy to work with you to financially secure her assistance.
From that point on, I understand that she will be able and willing to work with us with provision of all consents and valid legal documents.
2. Please, let me know what your results are after your follow-up with her.
3. Please advise me of the fees which you require of me to foster expedient counseling/ guidance.
4. Please let me know your available dates to be in town, or meet with Ms. [therapist in other state] via phone conference.
thanksgiving 2008
1. Would be happy to make this visit possible.
2. Let me know the follow-up with your [home state] attorney as to the lack of necessity for supervision.
3. At any time, I am prepared to book tickets to bring [daughter] for her visit with her [last name] family, especially you, [spelled incorrectly Step Mother] and her darling siblings.
4. Please advise me of the [THIRD STATE
[home state] Security:
I have Attorney [Ex’s third home state lawyer] in [home town]. We have no issue with [home state] courts.
However, feel free to provide any documents which you feel will allay any concerns you feel I may have.
Thanks.
[The Ex] [last name]
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[other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
Tue, Nov 18, 2008 at 9:07 AM
To:[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Mr. [last name],
I have requested to see an agreement or court order for this case. I am unable to provide any service unless I am specifically named in a mediated agreement or court order. My time on 11/20 is quite limited, I may be able to free up between 2-3. My fax # is: -[XXX].
[other state therapist]
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[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Tue, Nov 18, 2008 at 10:15 AM
To: [other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
Bcc: Wife <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>
Ms [therapist in other state],
My flight leaves at Noon, thank you for your time and response.
[Custodial Dad] [last name]
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[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Wed, Nov 19, 2008 at 8:39 AM
To:[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>, [other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
Cc: “[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]” <[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]@[Custodial Dad's Law Firm]>
Thanks, [Custodial Dad].
Ms. [therapist in other state], I am willing to arrange drop off of consent for evaluation of [daughter] and self.
What time is proposed for the Nov. 20th session?
Will accommodate your arrangements.
Please advise on availability and duration of need for [daughter].
Kindly,
[The Ex] [last name]
[XXX].[XXX].4665
From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
Sent: Monday, November 17, 2008 2:09:47 PM
Subject: Re: Fw: [last name] Case- Supervision of father-daughter vist request: [daughter] [last name] 11/19-11/20 visit dates
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[other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
Wed, Nov 19, 2008 at 8:52 AM
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Cc: “[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]” <[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]@[Custodial Dad's Law Firm]>
All:
I am not sure that I am making myself clear; I keep asking the same question. I need to see a legal document naming me to this case. In what capacity am I assigned to this case? Therapist, Facilitator Supervisor for Visitation? I would appreciate some clarification on this point. I need to see a court order or mediation agreement faxed to: [XXX]. If I am not named on a legal document, I am unable to work this case. Please advise.
Thank you, [other state therapist]
----- Original Message -----
From: [The Ex] [last name]
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[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] <[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]@[Custodial Dad's Law Firm]>
Wed, Nov 19, 2008 at 9:36 AM
To: [other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
Cc: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, “[last name] A. [Ex’s first other state lawyer]” <[Ex’s first other state lawyer]@[email].com>
[other state therapist],
There had been some dispute about what, if any, role you would play in this case, which is why there is no order yet. However, if I am reading the partie’ emails correctly, it appears that they are agreeing for you to be a parenting coordinator, and also to supervise a visitation today and tomorrow if you are available. The order for parenting coordination will need to be developed by [Ex’s first other state lawyer] and I, but if you are available for supervision then please work with the parties to coordinate. [Custodial Dad] is here today and tomorrow for a psych eval by [Court Appointed Psychologist], and wants to be able to spend time with his daughter. [Second visitation Supervisor] did one for them last month with no bad incidents.
[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]
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[other state therapist] [therapist in other state] <[email]96@[email].com>
Thu, Nov 20, 2008 at 7:57 AM
To: “[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]” <[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]@[Custodial Dad's Law Firm]>
Cc: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, “[last name] A. [Ex’s first other state lawyer]” <[Ex’s first other state lawyer]@[email].com>
All:
I appreciate the confidence of the parties, however it is my policy to only work these cases with the benefit of a court order. I hope the parties can agree on another supervisor, perhaps a friend or family member. I am not able to work this case under these circumstances.
All the best, [other state therapist]
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