[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Mon, Oct 4, 2010 at 11:05 AM
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
[Custodial Dad]:
Please see the bill below. Total $754.80. It is easy math for you and [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]- Divide by FOUR and pay that amount- $188.70 -Your half of [daughter]’s fare. Call the airline. Your choice.
Please see your email for July 12, 2010. I asked to send payment via certified mail to me.
Please stop harrassing me on this issue. Again, I have saved you a mouse-click to find emails previously sent.
Move on with christmas arrangements, please.
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From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com; [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com; [Step Mother] [last name] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>
Sent: Fri, July 9, 2010 6:28:32 PM
Subject: flight has been BOOKED and [home state]ID for [daughter]’s Summer Fw: flight info- third email- adter 4 text messages in two days to review - Plea for ordered daily calls Re: Time request for [daughter] and Mom this summer
Please see attached for flight details as the flight has been booked. Even got one better rate on return.
I will send you information to deposit your half of [daughter]’s fare and half of taxes to my account.
Please respond either through attorneys or this email.
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From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com; [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com; [Step Mother] [last name] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>
Sent: Fri, July 9, 2010 5:53:54 PM
Subject: flight info- third email- adter 4 text messages in two days to review - Plea for ordered daily calls Re: Time request for [daughter] and Mom this summer
[Custodial Dad]:
Please send confirmation on flight details. The time for drop off will have to be at 6am at the airport to get [daughter] on the plane incase you want to use the one hour window for drop off in the order. Otherwise drop [daughter] to my mother on Saturday night as detailed below.
Also, please start calling me daily as per the order. Detailed below. Attorney consulted. Order is specific to daily phone contact- talking for [daughter] with Mom- not voicemail, email etc. [webcam software] is optional and not possible for me right now. We both have phones. Please place the calls daily for [daughter] to talk with Mom.
Exerpt in Final Order for Sup petition: page 19, number 4.
Point made in other parts of documemts also.
I beg you to comply. I am available anytime for [daughter]’s calls. We have a 9am to 8 pm window. Please use these eleven hours well to promote and make contact for [daughter] with Mom.
Kindly,
[The Ex]
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From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Sent: Thu, July 8, 2010 5:33:53 PM
Subject: Dad denies time for child to Mom Re: Time request for [daughter] and Mom this summer
[Custodial Dad]:
Extended time with Mom denied: I understand that you will not extend time.
Please work with me to have [daughter] be able to have her time with me. My family will loan the flight costs initially to allow me to book on the credit card. My mother will be responsible to travel with [daughter] to [other state] and is able to allow us the option of transferring [daughter] to her care to accommodate the flight schedule. She has adjusted her work schedule to help us with getting [daughter] to [other state] on the days you have decided. Please read the details below and promptly send back the final decisions so I can book without loosing the flight rates attached. Thanks for your cooperation, [Custodial Dad].
flight Finalization- Arrangements and we pay costs up-front: I am prepared to book the flight and I want to have your decision on drop off. Please work with us as my family will be paying for all costs up front and my mother will pay her own fare to escort [daughter] to [other state] to be with me for her [other state] summer time with Mom.
flight Reimbursement for half of [daughter]’s costs in two weeks: The fares are attached with the flight times. I will send you the total and will send you my account deposit slip to pay your half of [daughter]’s fare within two weeks so I can put that toward the credit card bill for August. Is that ok?
Holiday address to locate home: [daughter] will be spending two weeks with me and my family, as previously stated, at [other state address] Court, [town in other state], [other state] in the gated community of [community]. Here is the google site for our home : http://maps.google.com/maps?map_medium=ha&utm_source=en-ha-na-us-bk-3dmfe&utm_term=googlemaps
Drop off options: My mother will be traveling with [daughter] to [other state] and will travel with her back North to you.
The flight information is attached from Jet Blue below for both departure and arrival.
Please decide if you want to bring [daughter] for check in at the [city third state] Airport, Jet Blue counter at seven (7am) in the morning on August first(1st) to my mother who will be awaiting [daughter] there...
OR
do you want to meet my mother half way between [town in third state] and [town in home state] on Saturday afternoon, July 31st, so that she can be responsible for [daughter]’s travel to the airport in the morning? Granny is at the home you picked up at last summer and that is where [daughter] will stay before the flight out : [third state address] St, [town in third state] , [zip] in the privae, gated community of [community].
Pick up options: For pick up on August 15th, you can come to the airport and meet them at the gate if you want [daughter] back immedately. Otherwise, you can get her from my mother’s upon their return to [third state address] St on Sunday evening or Monday morning. It is flexible for us. Let me know what works for you all. We can arrange drivng half way to meet you on Monday if you want. Just let me know your decisions and I will book the tickets.
I have texted you to please open this email.
Thanks.
[The Ex]
From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Fri, July 2, 2010 7:35:39 PM
Subject: Re: Time request for [daughter] and Mom this summer
[The Ex]:
[daughter] is in Summer Camp from June 21 - August 15, which is giving her an opportunity to get to know her peers and students that will be attending her new school. She is already missing two weeks of summer camp due to her visit with you and she is none to please but it is the best we could arrange I think. With the exclusion of one week, we have successfully equally divided [daughter]’s free summer vacation schedule. FYI, I intend to take [daughter] on vacation the week she returns and that gives her a week prior to school to prepare and attend orientation.
Further, as I have stated to you previously, I have reserved judgement on extending contact until after her first visit with you on August 1 - 15 depending upon [daughter]’s reaction and/or regression during her time with you. I am awaiting Dr. [home town therapist]’s advice on how to proceed. I am already uncomfortable as it took THREE certified letters to get you to address your change in living arrangements and mailing address. If this goes well, we can certainly address future visitation.
I have no intention of driving to and from [third state] to drop off and pick up [daughter]. That is simply unfair to ask that I do that. Will her Grandmother be transporting [daughter]? If so, we will need to arrange a meeting area that is mutually acceptable with each of us driving ½ of the distance. I will ask that you secure plane tickets and finalize the plans immediately.
Thanks Again;
[Custodial Dad]
On Jul 2, 2010, at 6:54 PM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
Can we agree to give [daughter] a chance to have more time with me this summer?
As I have notified you, I have been available full time for June 2010, and will be for July 2010, and possibly for August 2010. My parents are also available to be with [daughter] full time.
I can get the school supply list and send [daughter] with all her supplies and purchase uniforms for her school year to save you prep-time in late August.
[daughter] can be dropped off to her Granny’s in [third state] and Granny will fly with her to [other state] and back to [third state]. We can set a time for drop off and pick up with final flight schedule and what works for your family.
I will make the flight arrangements. Please indicate what can be offered to [daughter]:
Since you have failed to respond to my requests in June, lets start with mid July.
Option 1: July 17 start date to extend through five days before school begins
Option 2. July 24 start date to extend through five days before school begins
Option 3: August first start date to extend through five days before school begins
Please feel free to offer another option that extends the August 1st to 15th trip so [daughter]’s stay is continious to reduce flight time.
Thanks for your kind consideration, [Custodial Dad].
Please reply via email promptly so we can purchase tickets and plan for [daughter].
Kind Regards,
[The Ex] [last name]
From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, June 28, 2010 3:42:37 PM
Subject: June Update: Requests for Responses
CERTIFIED MAIL RETURN RECEIPT
ELECTRONIC MAIL
[The Ex] [last name]
[street address in other state] [third state] Road
[town in other state], [other state] [zip]
Dear [The Ex]:
I am still awaiting a response to the many, many unanswered questions. I have attached the last two letters that went unanswered.
There are two pressing issues that need to be resolved ASAP:
1. I do NOT have an accurate social security number for [daughter]. I have asked repeatedly for a copy of her card for my records/ to update [insurance company] as they require a fax to update their records and the number so I may obtain a card for [daughter]. I was able to utilize the copy of the birth certificate that was in her [school] folder until the certified copy came in.
2. It has been brought to my attention through several verifiable sources that you do NOT reside at the [street in other state] home. Unless you provide me with an accurate and verifiable address, [daughter] will NOT be traveling to [other state] until this has been cleared up. I have given you ample notice and if you refuse to comply then I will have no choice other than to restrict your visitation with [daughter]. Further, we need to finalize the visitation schedule in regards to drop off, pick up and flight information which should have been finalized months ago per the order which specifies April 15. As this is the first of hopefully many vacations, I am allowing this to drag out however next year I will demand a formal and finalized plan by the date given.
As for [daughter]’s update:
A. School and Summer Camp:
1. She had a fantastic end of school and will be going to third grade at [home town] Intermediate Elementary along with her classmates. She has already toured the school and has met the principal and vice principal socially last summer. She is very excited to be going to the third grade. She starts school the last week in August and will be in uniform per the [home town] School District Requirements. [daughter] mentioned that you wanted to purchase some items for her. If that is the case, please visit this website: http://www.[newspaper in home state].com/assets/pdf/PR435515.PDF to confirm what is and is not acceptable.
2. Summer Camp: She had a fantastic week of summer camp and is already making friends. I believe she already knows several girls in her group from school and from her other siblings. She is doing an excellent job of communicating what is going on there and I think I will let her fill you in on the details of camp herself.
B. Medical/Dental: She has been very diligent with maintaining her palate extender and her speech is about 80 - 90% back to normal. She is a model patient for [orthodontist]. Her sessions with Dr. [home town therapist] are going well. We are all amazed at how wonderful her adjustment has been. He has reserved a session prior to her departure and upon her arrival home to ensure that progress is not lost during her vacation and time with you.
C. [daughter]’s Mailings: [daughter] has had several letters returned to us as address unknown or recipient unknown. I know that in my last message I requested an updated mailing address and also requested that you acknowledge her mailings to [daughter] directly. It is important for [daughter] to know that you are receiving the items she is sending to you. She is very gracious to say thank you to the sticker mailings and it would only be polite to return the favor to her. I am sure to give [daughter] her mailing’s that are returned so that she may hand deliver them to you directly.
D. Communication: [daughter] is still asking to [webcam software] with you. I have offered a multitude of times and find it hard to imagine that you do not want face to face interaction with [daughter]. I am again, throwing that out there in case you have somehow changed your mind. To remind you, there are several web cafes in the [town in other state] area that able to allow you a chance to [webcam software] with [daughter] for low cost, if you no longer have access to a computer.
Again, you really need to comply and respond to my requests for information. You are barely acknowledging anything being said to you however, [daughter] mentions you are directly mentioning certain things to her that should be directed through me. I am attempting to co-parent with you, despite the order, however you are making this beyond difficult. Please take a few moments to respond to the messages, letters and text messages sent to you.
Take good care;
[Custodial Dad] [last name]
[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> Mon, Oct 4, 2010 at 12:13 PM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
This is a screen shot, not a bill. Please send a RECEIPT or actual bill of funds paid.
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