[Custodial Dad]'s repeated Refusal to allow time -share for child with Mom Re: Send dates and times please. Re: January Febuary 2011 time share requests

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>  Mon, Jan 31, 2011 at 12:58 PM  
To: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>  

[Custodial Dad]:
Please clarify your claims in the email below.
[The Ex]




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From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Sat, January 29, 2011 5:13:09 PM
Subject: Re: Send dates and times please. Re: January

Febuary 2011 time share requests


I have reiterated and re-stated my "views" to you countless times about OUR daughter and yes, she is
OUR daughter. I have no wish nor want to "keep her away" from you or [Other State]. My job is to protect her from danger, mental and physical abuse at your hands.


Please undergo a psychological evaluation and agree to abide by their recommendations,  thus allowing us
all a chance to move forward. It's a simple and valid request. I can not understand your reluctance to do
anything that is asked of you or your refusal to actually answer any questions posed to you.


My statement about "ignoring" me was due to your statements to various individuals about my supposed
insignificance. I can assure you that with your frequent and harassing attention that you have paid
to me and my family this year, that is NOT what I want. However, I will again suggest the online parent
communication service that [Other State Lawyer] suggested to better keep tabs on these communications, eliminate the she said/he said, the redundancy and "notes."


[Custodial Dad]

On Jan 29, 2011, at 4:26 PM, [The Ex]
<[email]@[email].com> wrote:


Again, this is NOT about you and my attention to YOU-

BUT it is about my child's time with her Mom.
You have no court order to keep her away- no matter your views.

When will you plan to send [Daughter] to her [Other State] Home with her Mom?
Just say when and I will book the flight.

Thanks
[The Ex]




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From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother]
<[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, January 24, 2011 1:56:12 PM
Subject: Re: Send dates and times please. Re: January Febuary 2011 time share requests

Clearly there is a break down in communication (again.) You said you were traveling to [Home State] and I responded that I would make sure [Daughter] is available to see you outside of whatever time you have set aside for her at school.

Unless of course you are willing to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, as stated to you and your attorney(s) countless times; then we can revisit

[Daughter] traveling to [Other State] or seeing you without  supervision.

If my message in any way confused you, I apologize.

Maybe you should read what I write to you instead of  "ignoring" me.

Thanks
[Custodial Dad]

On Jan 24, 2011, at 1:35 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:


[Custodial Dad]:
As you offer time-share for [Daughter] with Mom, I will book her flight to [Other State], keep her here are home for the agreed period, and return her via plane to you- ALL as you let me know the dates and times.
I am able to take her for time-share ANYTIME you are offering.

Please designate weekend(s) in February 2010, to start and I will book the flight. I need your commitment to send [Daughter] before I can book the flights from and to [Home State].

Awaiting schedule- dates- times.  Please send.  I'LL take ANY and ALL dates you offer for [Daughter] to be with her Mom in her [Other State] home.

Thanks.
[The Ex]




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From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Cc: "[email]@[email].com" <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, January 24, 2011 6:27:44 AM
Subject: Re: January Febuary 2011 time share requests


Yes, I agree she needs time to spend with you. As I have offered, please let me know your schedule and I will have [Daughter] available for time with you outside of whatever time you have set aside for [Daughter] at her school. Again, please set aside time to meet with our daughters therapist.
Thanks.
[Custodial Dad]

On Jan 24, 2011, at 6:03 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:


[Custodial Dad]:
Please offer time-share for [Daughter] based on your family schedule and her school schedule for extended weekends or weekday times when I can care for her and keep her on her schedule.
I will be happy to have her overnight and weekends in [Home State] as you detail the schedule.She really needs time with her Momma.
Thanks.
[The Ex]



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[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>  
Mon, Jan 31, 2011 at 1:09 PM  
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>  

In order to not redundantly repeat myself, please read the e-mails, all response(s) needed is there.

[Quoted text hidden]
--
[Custodial Dad]
XXX-XXX-XXXX


~  “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.”    Harry S Truman  ~

Send dates and times please. Re: January Febuary 2011 time share requests

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>  Mon, Jan 24, 2011 at 1:35 PM  
To: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>

[Custodial Dad]:
As you offer time-share for [Daughter] with Mom, I will book her flight to [Other State], keep her here are home for the agreed period, and return her via plane to you- ALL as you let me know the dates and times.
I am able to take her for time-share ANYTIME you are offering.

Please designate weekend(s) in February 2010, to start and I will book the flight.
I need your commitment to send [Daughter] before I can book the flights from and to [Home State].

Awaiting schedule- dates- times.  Please send.  I'LL take ANY and ALL dates you offer for [Daughter] to be with her Mom in her [Other State] home.

Thanks.
[The Ex]




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From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Cc: "[email]@[email].com" <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, January 24, 2011 6:27:44 AM
Subject: Re: January Febuary 2011 time share requests


Yes, I agree she needs time to spend with you. As I have offered, please let me know your schedule and I will have [Daughter] available for time with you outside of whatever time you have set aside for [Daughter] at her school. Again, please set aside time to meet with our daughters therapist.
Thanks.
[Custodial Dad]

On Jan 24, 2011, at 6:03 AM, [The Ex]
<[email]@[email].com> wrote:


[Custodial Dad]:
Please offer time-share for [Daughter] based on your family schedule and her school schedule for extended
weekends or weekday times when I can care for her and keep her on her schedule.
I will be happy to have her overnight and weekends in [Home State] as you detail the schedule.
She really needs time with her Momma.
Thanks.
[The Ex]






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[Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>  Mon, Jan 24, 2011 at 1:56 PM  
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>  

Clearly there is a break down in communication (again.) You said you were traveling to [Home State] and I
responded that I would make sure [Daughter] is available to see you outside of whatever time you have set
aside for her at school.


Unless of course you are willing to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, as stated to you and your
attorney(s) countless times; then we can revisit [Daughter] traveling to [Other State] or seeing you without
supervision.


If my message in any way confused you, I apologize.

Maybe you should read what I write to you instead of "ignoring" me.


Thanks
[Custodial Dad]





On Jan 24, 2011, at 1:35 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:
As you offer time-share for [Daughter] with Mom, I will book her flight to [Other State], keep her here are home for the agreed period, and return her via plane to you- ALL as you let me know the dates and times.
I am able to take her for time-share ANYTIME you are offering.

Please designate weekend(s) in February 2010, to start and I will book the flight.
I need your commitment to send [Daughter] before I can book the flights from and to [Home State].

Awaiting schedule- dates- times.  Please send.  I'LL take ANY and ALL dates you offer for [Daughter] to be with her Mom in her [Other State] home.

Thanks.
[The Ex]




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From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother]

<[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Cc: "[email]@[email].com" <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, January 24, 2011 6:27:44 AM
Subject: Re: January Febuary 2011 time share requests


Yes, I agree she needs time to spend with you. As I have offered, please let me know your schedule and I will have [Daughter] available for time with you outside of whatever time you have set aside for [Daughter] at her school. Again, please set aside time to meet with our daughters therapist.
Thanks.
[Custodial Dad]

On Jan 24, 2011, at 6:03 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:


[Custodial Dad]:
Please offer time-share for [Daughter] based on your family schedule and her school schedule for extended
weekends or weekday times when I can care for her and keep her on her schedule.
I will be happy to have her overnight and weekends in [Home State] as you detail the schedule.
She really needs time with her Momma.
Thanks.
[The Ex]










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[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>  Sat, Jan 29, 2011 at 4:26 PM  
To: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>  

Again, this is NOT about you and my attention to YOU-

BUT it is about my child's time with her Mom.
You have no court order to keep her away- no matter your views.

When will you plan to send [Daughter] to her [Other State] Home with her Mom?
Just say when and I will book the flight.

Thanks
[The Ex]




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From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, January 24, 2011 1:56:12 PM
Subject: Re: Send dates and times please. Re: January Febuary 2011 time share requests

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[Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] 
<[email]@[email].com>  Sat, Jan 29, 2011 at 5:13 PM  
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>  

I have reiterated and re-stated my "views" to you countless times about OUR daughter and yes, she is OUR daughter. I have no wish nor want to "keep her away" from you or [Other State]. My job is to protect her from danger, mental and physical abuse at your hands.

Please undergo a psychological evaluation and agree to abide by their recommendations,  thus allowing us all a chance to move forward. It's a simple and valid request. I can not understand your reluctance to do anything that is asked of you or your refusal to actually answer any questions posed to you.

My statement about "ignoring" me was due to your statements to various individuals about my supposed insignificance. I can assure you that with your frequent and harassing attention that you have paid to me and my family this year, that is NOT what I want. However, I will again suggest the online parent communication service that [Other State Lawyer] suggested to better keep tabs on these communications, eliminate the she said/he said, the redundancy and "notes."


[Custodial Dad]
[Quoted text hidden]

January Febuary 2011 time share requests

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>  Mon, Jan 24, 2011 at 6:03 AM  
To: [email]@[email].com 
Cc: [email]@[email].com  

[Custodial Dad]:
Please offer time-share for [Daughter] based on your family schedule and her school schedule for extended weekends or weekday times when I can care for her and keep her on her schedule. I will be happy to have her overnight and weekends in [Home State] as you detail the schedule. She really needs time with her Momma.
Thanks.
[The Ex]




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[Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>  
Mon, Jan 24, 2011 at 6:27 AM  
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> 
Cc: "[email]@[email].com" <[email]@[email].com> 

Yes, I agree she needs time to spend with you. As I have offered, please let me know your schedule and I will have [Daughter] available for time with you outside of whatever time you have set aside for [Daughter] at her school. Again, please set aside time to meet with our daughters therapist.
Thanks.
[Custodial Dad]

[Quoted text hidden]

Time share please

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>  Sat, Jan 15, 2011 at 8:31 PM  
To: [email]@[email].com 
Cc: [email]@[email].com  

Please arrange time for [Daughter] with me.It is January 16, 2011.
She has not had time share since August 15th, 2010.
Please revise your decision and/ or provide a legal basis for withholding this child against the court

order.
[The Ex]

Mom's Comments on Update Re: December Update

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>  Tue, Jan 11, 2011 at 8:24 AM  
To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>  

[Custodial Dad];

Your 'facts' are incorrect and unverifiable.
In truth, the actual facts are verifaible.

Your 'update' contains accusations.
You seem to focus on speculations about me and my actions.

Please atrrange time for [Daughter] with me.

RE; Phone:
You do NOT even call me by simple telephone, as ordered- or as arranged by you.  I have to call and HOPE for an answer from my child.  Then she and I  struggle to hear each other over the announcements of call recording on/off, the  beeps and buzzes of the call recording you have in place.  But we do it , as it is all we have of contact you allow.

Re: Skype:  
Skype would be great, but I cannot rely on your internet working. Skype would be a daily option for [Daughter] with me and I would love for her to have that time with me. But, as we have experienced with you- the Skype video drops and then NO CALL back, so the contact is denied.

There was no call last night.  I called at 7pm, then 730pm - due to cheerleading schedule - 'travel time' to get home delays call- I was told.   But, you have a cell phone, no?  Then I called before 9pm.  YOu told us it was "10PM." I do not understand the distortions and lack of compliance.

So - please spare me the false 'offer' of skype.

(I will call now- to try to reach [Daughter] on the car line. --- The result: no answer- voicemail.  No contact.)








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From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>;
[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex]
[last name] <[email]@[the Ex's school].edu>; [The Ex]
<[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, January 10, 2011 7:46:10 PM
Subject: December Update

[Daughter] is doing remarkable, she is happy, healthy and enjoying time with her family.

Her school work is fantastic, as you know as Principal [Teacher] speaks with you weekly.

She is doing well with her palate extender and has been relatively healthy, but again you already know through your frequent calls to her providers.

Cheerleading is going well, she has opted to finish out the season and choose something else in the fall.

 FYI, you seem to have been confused - [Daughter] does

cheerleading  [days].  She has sessions with her therapist on Tuesday but not every week.  I know I emailed this to you and I know my wife had to explain this to you this evening but here it is again.

[Daughter] sent you pictures of her first snow day, some cheerleading photos and some every day stuff that she took pictures of.  She received a camera for Christmas and she will be taking her own pictures to share with you.


She sent you a package of pictures, a broken necklace and some school work that was delivered on Friday but she says you haven't picked it up as yet.  Please let me know if there is an issue using that address as I still have no idea where you may or may not be residing.

I know that [Daughter] keeps you well informed and that you are utilizing the contact information of all of her medical providers and teachers as provided to you.

Lastly, as always, if you can Skype, we are able to do so on Sundays.


Take Care;
[Custodial Dad]




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[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>  Tue, Jan 11, 2011 at 9:41 AM  
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> 
Bcc: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>  

I didn't "accuse" you of anything nor am I speculating.

I said it was almost 9PM and you muttered various digits to me and said "Oh" and hung up.  I knew what time it was, I assumed that you did not.

My internet connection has never dropped however when you are on a known free internet connection (i.e. Panara Bread) for hours, they do disconnect you at periodic times to free up bandwidth. However, I will point out that you have not even been logged in in weeks or months or even years depending on the multitude of Skype addresses you have listed. May I suggest that instead of being offended and repulsed by the idea that you TRY?


Again, you seem to be the only person with issue with our telephone line.  Perhaps, the issue is on your end? [Daughter] has not mentioned any issues with the calls except for your traveling and she can't hear you due to outside noises. For the last few weekends, you have been able to speak with [Daughter] between 30 minutes and an hour almost every night.  

And lastly, we did miss your call last night as [Daughter] ate dinner and went straight to bed.  This morning, as I texted you, we had a few minutes and you didn't call back.

My letter was to inform you but since you are taking it as confrontation or accusation, I will leave it as that.  Shall I end these monthly updates?


[Custodial Dad]
[Quoted text hidden]

December Update

[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>  Mon, Jan 10, 2011 at 7:46 PM  
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, 
[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@XX.edu>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> 
Bcc: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>  

[Daughter] is doing remarkable, she is happy, healthy and enjoying time with her family.

Her school work is fantastic, as you know as Principal [Teacher] speaks with you weekly.

She is doing well with her palate extender and has been relatively healthy, but again you already know through your frequent calls to her providers.

Cheerleading is going well, she has opted to finish out the season and choose something else in the fall.

 FYI, you seem to have been confused - [Daughter] does cheerleading  [days].  She has sessions with her therapist on Tuesday but not every week.  I know I emailed this to you and I know my wife had to explain this to you this evening but here it is again.

[Daughter] sent you pictures of her first snow day, some cheerleading photos and some every day stuff that she took pictures of.  She received a camera for Christmas and she will be taking her own pictures to share with you.

She sent you a package of pictures, a broken necklace and some school work that was delivered on Friday but she says you haven't picked it up as yet.  Please let me know if there is an issue using that address as I still have no idea where you may or may not be residing.

I know that [Daughter] keeps you well informed and that you are utilizing the contact information of all of her medical providers and teachers as provided to you.


Lastly, as always, if you can Skype, we are able to do so on Sundays.


Take Care;
[Custodial Dad]

Text Messages (1/2011)

 
Me to [The Ex] 1/31/11 7:54 PM 24 hours ago  
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:54 PM
  
[The Ex] 1/27/11 8:11 PM 5 days ago  Inbox
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. 7:38 PM
[The Ex]: No call. No answer. Second day. Please call w my girl. 8:11 PM
    
[The Ex]  1/26/11 8:50 PM 5 days ago  Inbox
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. 8:50 PM
Me: It's almost 9 pm. She is in bed. 10:16 PM

Me to [The Ex] 1/25/11 7:46 PM 7 days ago  
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:46 PM

 
Me to [The Ex] 1/24/11 7:51 PM 8 days ago  
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:51 PM

  
Me to [The Ex] 1/15/11 8:00 PM 2 weeks ago  Inbox
Me: Feel free to call our house line 7:12 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call back. Call dropped as I was loading [Daughter]s requested song. Waiting to say goodnight to my Girl. 8:00 PM
Me: Phone died - feel free to call back to say " good night." 8:03 PM
 

 Me to [The Ex] 1/14/11 7:27 PM 2 weeks ago  
 Me: I'm sure [Daughter] told you, tonight is her Winter Dance. If it's not too late tonight she will call, or call tomorrow after 8am 7:27 PM
Me: I'm sure [Daughter] told you, tonight is her Winter Dance. If it's not too late tonight she will call, or call tomorrow after 8am 7:40 PM
Me: I'm sure [Daughter] told you, tonight is her Winter  Dance. If it's not too late tonight she will call, or call tomorrow after 8am 7:49 PM

 Me to [The Ex] 1/11/11 8:21 AM 3 weeks ago  
 Me: Please call back 8:21 AM