Mediation for resolution Re: Response / Open door for [Daughter]

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Fri, Apr 8, 2011 at 1:12 PM

To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

March on, [Custodial Dad].  See you at mediation.  Open minded approach will bring this to a better place. 

Thanks.

From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Sent: Wed, April 6, 2011 5:23:21 PM

Subject: Re: Response / Open door for [Daughter]

You have chosen to involve my attorney and will not engage in simultaneous "discussions" so as to simplify the situation. 

You have decided to have a "third party" make decisions regarding [Daughter]'s time sharing. Clearly you are having second thoughts and "buyers remorse." I am uncertain as to what your position may or may not be after dragging this matter through six years of continuous litigation. 

If there will be mediation, I will remind you that I have always gone into mediation with an open mind, I do hope that at this juncture you are willing to do the same. Again, my position is not ever-evolving, self-serving or out of any hate or aggression. 

Any "evidence" I have cannot be compelled by you, it has and will be presented to the appropriate authorities and at the appropriate times.  

[Custodial Dad]

On Apr 6, 2011, at 15:34, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:

I wrote you last week to discuss options for time-share/ parenting.  I even tried to 'clear the slate' with forgiveness to move on, despite our clear and mutual distrust of each other, to say the least.  All of this-  for [Daughter]'s equal time with both of her parents.

Unfortunately, I received emails from you that do not offer discussion of  or actual dates/ times/ parenting responsibility. No Easter.  No summer.  In fact., no time- share for [Daughter] with her Mom is on the horizon for the duration of your current custody/ parenting authority- until she is eighteen. Is that correct?

Your messages express a rejection of my offer to come to resolution pre/ in mediation.

Is this correct?:  You want to go to court/ in front of authorities, etc. and have a third party make a decision about  the previous litigation you brought in [other state] and [Daughter]'s  current time without her Mother.

If you do not want to mediate for a solution, please say so.  If you do not want to share [Daughter]'s time because you feel you are protecting her from me, then say so.  If you are only wanting a judge to make decisions for this child's life, please just say so. 

I wrote you because I needed to know if you were open for discussion on custody.  Court ordered mediation is scheduled.  Please let us know if we are wasting time.  I will plan accordingly.  Thanks for your resonses to date. 

Kind Regards,

[The ex]

P.S . Please feel free to forward your documents of the allegations you continue to make about me in your emails.  I can receive the documents as attachments if you are willing to share so I can make sense of your claims. Thanks.