[Daughter]'s "Living Situation"

[Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

Wed, Oct 26, 2011 at 10:40 AM

To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@gmail.com>, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[school].edu>, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>, [The Ex]@gmail.com

Bcc: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

Stop insinuating, insisting and discussing with [Daughter] your belief that her "living situation" is temporary.  Clearly, by your own bizarre behavior and the results of your consistent litigation, you have proven again and again that not only did [Other State Judge] make the correct decision but that you are in no way capable of raising [Daughter]. 

You will no longer have these conversations with my daughter.  This is your last warning because if I must sever all contact to protect [Daughter]'s mental health, I will do so effective immediately and most likely with the blessing of the courts.

[Custodial Dad]

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[Custodial Dad] 

[Custodial Dad]

[CD Phone number]

If two stand shoulder to shoulder against the gods,

Happy together, the gods themselves are helpless

Against them while they stand so.

~Maxwell Anderson

Statements to clarify Please Re: Time for [Daughter] Re: [Daughter]'s Outstanding Student Award.

[The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>

Wed, Oct 12, 2011 at 2:04 PM

To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

[Custodial Dad] or [Step Mom],

I would appreciate your direct explaination of the followng repeated statement you make:

"Please understand that until you can control yourself, we can not subject [Daughter] to you nor your abuse. "

What are you talking about?  What "abuse"?  What "control" of myself?  Please detail.

Thanks.

[The Ex]

--- On Fri, 10/7/11, [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com> wrote:

From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

Subject: Re: Time for [Daughter] Re: [Daughter]'s Outstanding Student Award.

To: "[The Ex]" <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>

Date: Friday, October 7, 2011, 6:15 AM

What is truly unfortunate for [Daughter] is your continued behavior.  Please understand that until you can control yourself, we can not subject [Daughter] to you nor your abuse.  Again, my reasonings have been explained and since you require additional explanations, please contact my attorney.

End of discussion.

[Custodial Dad]

On Oct 7, 2011, at 6:02 AM, [The Ex] wrote:

> Please understand that I am not requesting hours but days for [Daughter] with her mother. Costs for travel and housing are also best for [Daughter] to come home to [other state] for her time with me after more than a year away per your choices. You increase costs by refusing to allow [Daughter] time and by refusing to arrange with me. This is most unfortunate for [Daughter].

> 

> On Wed Oct 5th, 2011 7:23 PM EDT [Custodial Dad] wrote:

> 

>> Please consider visiting with [Daughter] in [home state] as you will be here shortly. I will not engage you in further dialog in regards to my reasonings, however I will direct you to contact my attorney(s) for further clarification.

>> [Custodial Dad]

>> 

>> On Oct 5, 2011, at 11:32, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com> wrote:

>> 

>>> I would like to give [Daughter] the opportunity to come home to [other state] for time here with her Mom and friends and family.  When would be good dates and times for fligt arrangements?  Please reply with details.  

>>> [The Ex]

>>> 

>>> --- On Sat, 10/1/11, [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com> wrote:

>>> 

>>> From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

>>> Subject: [Daughter]'s Outstanding Student Award.

>>> To: "[Step Mom] McCabe" <[email]@gmail.com>

>>> Date: Saturday, October 1, 2011, 11:19 AM

>>> 

>>> Thought you'd like to see this.  We are very proud of her.

>>> 

>>> [Custodial Dad]

>>> [Custodial Dad]

>>> [CD Phone number]

>>> 

>>> If two stand shoulder to shoulder against the gods,

>>> Happy together, the gods themselves are helpless

>>> Against them while they stand so.

>>> ~Maxwell Anderson

Time for [Daughter] Re: [Daughter]'s Outstanding Student Award.

[The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>

Wed, Oct 5, 2011 at 11:32 AM

To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

I would like to give [Daughter] the opportunity to come home to [other state] for time here with her Mom and friends and family.  When would be good dates and times for fligt arrangements?  Please reply with details.  

[The Ex]

--- On Sat, 10/1/11, [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com> wrote:

From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

Subject: [Daughter]'s Outstanding Student Award.

To: "[Step Mom] McCabe" <[email]@gmail.com>

Date: Saturday, October 1, 2011, 11:19 AM

Thought you'd like to see this.  We are very proud of her.

[Custodial Dad]

[Custodial Dad]

[CD Phone number]

If two stand shoulder to shoulder against the gods,

Happy together, the gods themselves are helpless

Against them while they stand so.

~Maxwell Anderson

[Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

Wed, Oct 5, 2011 at 7:23 PM

To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>

Please consider visiting with [Daughter] in [home state] as you will be here shortly. I will not engage you in further dialog in regards to my reasonings, however I will direct you to contact my attorney(s) for further clarification.

[Custodial Dad]

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[The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>

Fri, Oct 7, 2011 at 6:02 AM

To: [email]@gmail.com

Please understand that I am not requesting hours but days for [Daughter] with her mother. Costs for travel and housing are also best for [Daughter] to come home to [other state] for her time with me after more than a year away per your choices. You increase costs by refusing to allow [Daughter] time and by refusing to arrange with me. This is most unfortunate for [Daughter].

[Quoted text hidden]

[Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

Fri, Oct 7, 2011 at 6:15 AM

To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>

What is truly unfortunate for [Daughter] is your continued behavior.  Please understand that until you can control yourself, we can not subject [Daughter] to you nor your abuse.  Again, my reasonings have been explained and since you require additional explanations, please contact my attorney.

End of discussion.

[Custodial Dad]

[Quoted text hidden]

[Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

Fri, Oct 7, 2011 at 7:32 AM

To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@gmail.com>

Cc: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@yahoo.com>

To touch on one point in your message, what is and has been driving up costs is your consistent, continuing and  frivolous litigation.  If you would redirect your monies to [Daughter]'s care and normalizing a relationship between the two of you instead of your crusade, I would be more inclined to believe that you are concerned with [Daughter]'s best interests.  Again, I will direct you to contact my attorney for further clarification.

[Custodial Dad]

Text Messages: 09/2011

[The Ex]

9/2/11 10:07 PM 7 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Thanks. 8:29 PM

Me: Please call prior to [Daughter]'s bedtime. Thanks. 10:07 PM

[The Ex]

9/5/11 9:32 AM 7 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Please call back so [Daughter] can say goodnight. 8:09 PM

Me: Please call prior to [Daughter]'s bedtime. [Daughter] is home due to the holiday, please feel free to call any time prior to 8PM today. 9:32 AM

[The Ex]

9/11/11 5:27 PM 6 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Calling for [Daughter]. No answer. 5:27 PM

Me to [The Ex]

9/11/11 7:17 PM 6 weeks ago

Me: Just walked in, please feel free to call. 7:17 PM

[The Ex]

9/12/11 8:32 PM 6 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Cal cut. I will call back in ten minutes. 8:09 PM

Me: Its a school night and long after 8PM. Glad you got to say good night. 8:11 PM

Me: Its a school night and long after 8PM. Glad you got to say good night. 8:29 PM

Me: Its a school night and long after 8PM. Glad you got to say good night. 8:30 PM

Me: Its a school night and long after 8PM. Glad you got to say good night. 8:30 PM

[The Ex]: No answer. Tried to call to say goodnight. 8:30 PM

Me: Its a school night and long after 8PM. Glad you got to say good night. 8:30 PM

Me: There will not be an answer. If you wish to speak with [Daughter], please call during appropriate hours. 8:30 PM

Me: You have all day to call, choosing to call at 8PM is simply proof that you show no consideration to [Daughter] 8:32 PM

[The Ex]

9/13/11 8:09 PM 6 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Please answer for [Daughter]. No answer. 8:09 PM

[The Ex]

9/17/11 7:55 PM 5 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Please answer for [Daughter]. No answer. 7:52 PM

[The Ex]: Second call no answer. Pls call w [Daughter]. 7:55 PM

[The Ex]

9/18/11 8:13 PM 5 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Pls answer. Call cut. 8:00 PM

[The Ex]: Still no answer. Let [Daughter] say goodnight. She was in the middle of her food preferences. 8:13 PM

[The Ex]

9/19/11 7:50 PM 5 weeks ago

[The Ex]: No answer. Pls cal for [Daughter]. 7:50 PM

[The Ex]

9/20/11 8:15 PM 5 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Called for [Daughter]. Call cut Sunday night. No call or answer Monday night. Not good. 8:47 AM

Me: Perhaps you may wish to check the times of your calls in addition to the times [Daughter] is at school. -[Step Mom] 8:58 AM

Me: Calls after 8PM are routed to voice mail as to allow all of our children a good nights rest. Thanks! -[Step Mom] 8:59 AM

[The Ex]: You may say as u wish. I called before eight last night. My daughter is to be available for her call w me today. I need no further response. Thanks. 9:05 AM

Me: Perhaps you did call a minute or two to [Daughter]'s bedtime. If you want to speak with her, please do so PRIOR to her bedtime. 9:14 AM

Me: If you do not wish to have discourse, please refrain from texting. To do so is to invite a response. Have a good day. -[Step Mom] 9:15 AM

[The Ex]: Though it seems a compulsion to reply to me please control it. Save ur focus for my kids call. This is not a game.9:31 AM

Me: Cutting and pasting past replies is absurd. I could only wish your focus was your daughter's best interest. Have a good day. -[Step Mom]9:32 AM

[The Ex]: Yoir messages continue to be harassing to me. My phone is for my child to talk to her Mother. Stop at once [Step Mom].9:34 AM

Me: And you say it is me with the compulsion? Have a good day and please refrain from replying. -[Step Mom] 9:35 AM

[The Ex]: Yoir messages continue to be harassing to me. My phone is for my child to talk to her Mother. Stop at once [Step Mom].9:37 AM

Me: You are the one to continue texting. Please refrain from texting me if you do not wish to have a reply. Simple cause and effect. Good day to you. -[Step Mom] 9:39 AM

[The Ex]: Your messages continue to be harassing to me. My phone is for my child to talk to her Mother. Stop at once [Step Mom]. Third notice. 9:43 AM

Me: You are the one to continue texting. Please refrain from texting me if you do not wish to have a reply. Simple cause and effect. Good day to you. -[Step Mom] 9:43 AM

Me: Tried to reach you. Please call [Daughter] prior to 8PM. The next two nights, if you wish to speak to [Daughter] please call prior to 6PM as we will be out until bedtime 7:29 PM

[The Ex]: That's not going to work so easily so please do have [Daughter] getting ready for bed &her call when I call after work.Pls take a cell phone and use it for her call 8:06 PM

Me: I am sure you can arrange your schedule to speak with [Daughter]. You will need to call prior to 6PM. 8:07 PM

[The Ex]: That is not very cooperative now is it. Well no need to repeat. I get it. 8:09 PM

Me: Glad you can accomodate [Daughter]'s schedule. 8:10 PM

[The Ex]: Seems like usual u do not comprehend. All Done. Stop texting ur nonsense. 8:12 PM

Me: Please refrain from texting me nasty and snide remarks. Your behavior is becoming quite childish and aggressive. 8:13 PM

Me: If you do not wish receive texts from me, refrain from texting. I can assure you, I would rather not have to deal with you at all. 8:14 PM

Me: http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/ Seems like a worthy purchase. This will eliminate the back and forth once and for all. 8:15 PM

[The Ex]

9/21/11 9:18 PM 4 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Pls answer for [Daughter]. 7:54 PM

[The Ex]: No answer for [Daughter]s call. Again. Pls call w [Daughter]. 8:00 PM

Me: As stated to you yesterday, for the next two days please call prior to 6pm to accommodate her schedule. Thank you. 9:18 PM

Me to [The Ex]

9/25/11 12:12 AM 4 weeks ago

Me: You hung up. [Daughter] is out with her friend, will have her call when she gets in. 6:54 PM

[The Ex]: You didn't have my child available to talk.Use a cell phone and have her call me now please. You better make sure my kid is well. Do not text back. Call w [Daughter] 6:57 PM

Me: Stop acting like an aggressive fool. 6:58 PM

Me: She is out, she will call when she gets in. Point made, text unnecessary. 6:58 PM

Me: Tried your cell. If you are available, please call. 8:35 PM

[The Ex]: U did not call. I just called. The call was cut. 8:38 PM

Me: Actually I did call and it went straight to voicemail. You called at the same moment we were dialing, call was not "cut." Lets keep the facts straight. 8:39 PM

[The Ex]: You be careful how you treat my child and her heart. I do hope u can understand that. 9:08 PM

Me: Why don't you take your own advise? [Daughter] is well and happy in her home with her family unlike the life she had before. 9:09 PM

Me: She does not have people parading in and out of her life nor does she switch homes and phone numbers at the whim of an empty apartment. 9:10 PM

Me: If you cared at ALL about OUR daughter you would get the help that you so desperately need. 9:11 PM

[The Ex]: You got my message. That's all. 9:16 PM

Me: Get my message: You treated our daughter POORLY then and you are continuing to do it NOW with your mind games. 9:18 PM

Me: Try caring about [Daughter] for once because face reality she will not be living with you again. Get help so that we can all in good conscience move on without fear of you doing MORE damage. 9:20 PM

[The Ex]: We all get ur message Mccabe. 9:20 PM

Me: Good, glad your able to see reality for once. 9:21 PM

[The Ex]: Ah huh. Reality. 9:22 PM

[The Ex]: You got my message. That's all. 9:23 PM

Me: Yes, I got the message. You care nothing of [Daughter] and will do anything to sabotage her life. 9:29 PM

Me: Do yourself a favor and knock it off. Your petty and insolent behavior is breaking [Daughter]'s heart. 9:31 PM

Me: I will let the Judge handle you directly, clearly no one can talk sense into you, not even [Daughter]. 9:32 PM

[The Ex]: Please send an email on this ur texts are too long and not clear on my phone. 9:49 PM

Me: You don't read them, why bother? 9:50 PM

[The Ex]: This looks important to you. You seem to think I am a danger to [Daughter]? 9:51 PM

[The Ex]: Will you stop me from being with [Daughter] because you think I'm a danger to her? 11:48 PM

[The Ex]: Are you thinking that you are protecting her by not letting her be with me? 12:12 AM

[The Ex]: Why would you say she will never live with me? 12:12 AM

[The Ex]

9/30/11 6:37 PM 3 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Pl give [Daughter] a chance to talk tonight. I called. No answer. 6:37 PM

Text Messages: 08/2011

[The Ex]

8/1/11 8:27 PM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: Just done. Tried to call [Daughter]. Please answer. 8:25 PM

[The Ex]: No answer again. Pls have [Daughter] awailable for a few hours for our call tomorrow. 8:27 PM

[The Ex]

8/2/11 7:57 AM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: Pls have [Daughter] available to talk w me today for a few hours. I will call in the morning to reach her. If I don't reach her I will try again in early afternoon. 7:57 AM

[The Ex]

8/2/11 5:21 PM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: I have called throughout the day without any answer or call back for [Daughter] to talk to her Mom. Pls answer or call w my Girl. 5:21 PM

[The Ex]

8/5/11 8:06 PM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: [Custodial Dad]. You did not let [Daughter] talk again. Why? 8:04 PM

[The Ex]: I sent [Daughter] flowers today. I just want her to tell me if she liked the teddy bear and say goodnight. Also I called before eight. And u hung up then. 8:05 PM

[The Ex]: I'm waiting for her to call me back. She deserves a chance to talk to her Momma. 8:06 PM

[The Ex]

8/6/11 7:57 PM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: Pls answer. Calling for [Daughter]. Just done. 7:57 PM

[The Ex]

8/7/11 8:10 PM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: Pls answer. Calling for [Daughter]. Just done. 8:10 PM

Me to [The Ex]

8/9/11 7:36 PM 2 months ago

Me: We missed your calls, call now? 1:50 PM

[The Ex]: Pls answer. Calling for [Daughter]. Tried all day. No answer again. Day three of no call again. 7:36 PM

[The Ex]

8/13/11 11:35 AM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: No call w [Daughter] since wednesday. It is Saturday. Pls hv [Daughter] available at anytime for her call with her Mom. 8:48 AM

Me: Please call this morning if you are able. We will be out of cell phone range most of today. 10:35 AM

Me: We have not recieved a call from you since Wednesday either, excluding the call received long after acceptable times. 10:36 AM

[The Ex]: I will be calling My Girl later. See that she is available. Thanks. 11:25 AM

Me: Glad your schedule finally allowed you time to call our daughter. Have a pleasant day. 11:27 AM

[The Ex]: Esad. 11:27 AM

[The Ex]: Sad u can't make call a priority. 11:29 AM

Me: What does ESAD have to do with our daughter going camping? 11:31 AM

Me: As stated we will be out without cell phone signal. You wouldn't suggest I cancel our trip based on the fact that you finally decide to call [Daughter], right? 11:33 AM

[The Ex]: I will be calling My Girl later. See that she is available. Thanks. 11:35 AM

Me: Altering our planned trip in order to accommodate a second call is asinine. Glad you were finally available for [Daughter].. 11:41 AM

Me: Have a good day, I'm going to go and enjoy the weekend with my children. 11:41 AM

[The Ex]

8/15/11 8:08 PM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Or answer my call for [Daughter] 8:08 PM

[The Ex]

8/16/11 8:02 PM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Or answer my call for [Daughter] 8:01 PM

[The Ex]: I have tried to call w no answer again. What is the problem w ur phone? 8:02 PM

[The Ex]: Answer or call w my girl. 8:02 PM

Me to [The Ex]

8/17/11 12:35 PM 2 months ago

Me: Phone was off the hook, please call now. 12:35 PM

Me to [The Ex]

8/22/11 6:08 PM 2 months ago

Me: [Daughter] is out at an event with her girl friend, will text when she gets back in. 3:36 PM

Me: [Daughter] is out at an event with her girl friend, will text when she gets back in. 6:07 PM

Me: [Daughter] is out at an event with her girl friend, will text when she gets back in. 6:08 PM

Me to [The Ex]

8/23/11 5:19 PM 2 months ago 

Me: [Daughter] just walked in the door. 7:38 PM

Me: Just tried you. Please call prior to 8PM if you are able. If not, will will try you again in the AM. 7:55 PM

Me: Just tried you, please again. 5:19 PM

Me to [The Ex]

8/24/11 7:44 PM 2 months ago 

Me: Finished supper, just tried you. If available please try again prior to 8pm. 6:50 PM

Me: Finished supper, just tried you. If available please try again prior to 8pm. 6:52 PM

Me: Tried you again, voicemail is apparently full. Please call back prior to 8PM if you are available. 7:44 PM

Me to [The Ex]

8/24/11 7:56 PM 2 months ago 

Me: She was brushing her teeth... Be right there. 7:56 PM

Me to [The Ex]

8/29/11 9:45 AM 8 weeks ago 

Me: Saw you called at 8:30 last night. School was postponed a day, [Daughter] is home this morning if you would like to speak to her. 9:45 AM

[The Ex]

8/30/11 10:50 PM 8 weeks ago

[The Ex]: When I call answer the phone. Simple. Make it a priority for my child. Stop texting nonsense to my phone. Again no answer. How many days now? 7:55 PM

Me: Please make calling your priority. And for the record. It has been three days since you answered your telephone or returned a call during appropriate times. 10:50 PM

[The Ex]

8/31/11 8:16 PM 7 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Its eight o clock when u say it is I guess. Even when its not. Why u end this childs call is a wonder. 7:54 PM

Me: No one ended the call except "the child" herself. 8:14 PM

Me: The only wonder is how you justify your actions to yourself. 8:16 PM

Text messages from [StepMom] and my response

1 message

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[the ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Mon, Jul 18, 2011 at 6:21 AM
To: [email]@[email].com, [email]@[email].com Cc: [email]@[email].com
As you were served, the court date for July's lawsuit I filed against you is approaching. As you are required to show up in [Other State] for court, I ask that you bring [Daughter] to stay with me for the remainder of the summer here in her [Other State] home. She needs time with her Mom.  She has not seen her Mom in close to a year.  That is not fair to her. I can pay for her ticket to [Other State] and back up to [Home State]. I can fly her back before school begins in [Home State]n. Please respond promptly- before Wednesday of this week.  You failed to respond last week.  Will you even show up to court this week? Additionally, please email me the purpose and intent of the text messages from [StepMom] and your comments on my response. Also, please comply with filings in [OTHER STATE] for setting up child support- as the court needs your financial documents to set this up for [Daughter].  Additionally, any reason why you have not cashed the checks I have sent so far?  Do you still deny that you received those checks?  ----- Forwarded Message ---- From: [the ex] <[email]@[email].com> To: [email]@[email].com Cc: [email]@[email].com Sent: Thu, July 14, 2011 8:54:55 PM Subject: Fw: 2 Re: Lawsuit and Summer timeshare Third time sent.  Still no response. Please see message below. Also, please send me a copy of the recording of last night's phone call with [Daughter] as she sang so beautifully.  I would really appreciate a copy of the recorded phone call in full.  Thanks. Vin ----- Forwarded Message ---- From: [the ex] <[email]@[email].com> To: [email]@[email].com; [email]@[email].com Sent: Thu, July 14, 2011 6:09:28 AM Subject: 2 Re: Lawsuit and Summer timeshare Second time sent. From: [the ex] <[email]@[email].com> To: [email]@[email].com; [email]@[email].com Cc: [email]@[email].com Sent: Tue, July 12, 2011 3:19:20 PM Subject: Lawsuit and Summer timeshare [Custodial Dad]: As you were served, the court date for July's lawsuit I filed against you is approaching. As you are required to show up in [Other State] for court, I ask that you bring [Daughter] to stay with me for the remainder of the summer here in her [Other State] home.  I can pay for her ticket to [Other State] and back up to [HomeState]. I can fly her back before school begins in [Home State]n. As you will not cooperate, I will have to advance the Motion for Contempt as the Judge has enforced the validity of his March 2010 order.  Please respond promptly- before Friday of this week.

2 Re: Lawsuit and Summer timeshare

[the ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Thu, Jul 14, 2011 at 6:09 AM
To: [email]@[email].com, [email]@[email].com
Second time sent. From: [the ex] <[email]@[email].com> To: [email]@[email].com; [email]@[email].com Cc: [email]@[email].com Sent: Tue, July 12, 2011 3:19:20 PM Subject: Lawsuit and Summer timeshare [Custodial Dad]: As you were served, the court date for July's lawsuit I filed against you is approaching. As you are required to show up in [Other State] for court, I ask that you bring [Daughter] to stay with me for the remainder of the summer here in her [Other State] home.  I can pay for her ticket to [Other State] and back up to [Home State]. I can fly her back before school begins in [Home State]n. As you will not cooperate, I will have to advance the Motion for Contempt as the Judge has enforced the validity of his March 2010 order.  Please respond promptly- before Friday of this week.

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[the ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Thu, Jul 14, 2011 at 8:54 PM
To: [email]@[email].com Cc: [email]@[email].com
Third time sent.  Still no response. Please see message below. Also, please send me a copy of the recording of last night's phone call with [Daughter] as she sang so beautifully.  I would really appreciate a copy of the recorded phone call in full.  Thanks. Vin ----- Forwarded Message ---- From: [the ex] <[email]@[email].com> To: [email]@[email].com; [email]@[email].com [Quoted text hidden] [Quoted text hidden]

Lawsuit and Summer timeshare

[the ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Tue, Jul 12, 2011 at 3:19 PM
To: [email]@[email].com, [email]@[email].com Cc: [email]@[email].com
[Custodial Dad]: As you were served, the court date for July's lawsuit I filed against you is approaching. As you are required to show up in [Other State] for court, I ask that you bring [Daughter] to stay with me for the remainder of the summer here in her [Other State] home.  I can pay for her ticket to [Other State] and back up to [Home State]. I can fly her back before school begins in [Home State]n. As you will not cooperate, I will have to advance the Motion for Contempt as the Judge has enforced the validity of his March 2010 order.  Please respond promptly- before Friday of this week.

No need for glasses? Re: Eye Glasses

[the ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Thu, Jun 23, 2011 at 6:36 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] and [StepMom] McCabe <[email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]: Where do you gain the authority to determine what an eye doctor determines for a child? Please furnish me ASAP with the medical docs  or provider of eye care that verifies your statements below. Certainly, all of your claims about Dr. Walter's statements -including the one below- is false. What is your problem with the child's need for glasses?  Do you really believe she has benefited from NOT wearing glasses prescribed?  I am happy to pay for the new eye exam and frames, etc at any time as [Daughter] has coverage. Please advise. From: [Custodial Dad] and [StepMom] McCabe <[email]@[email].com> To: [the ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [the ex] <@[email].edu>; [the ex] <@[email].com>; [the ex] <@[email].com>; [the ex] <@[email].com> Sent: Sat, June 18, 2011 8:08:31 PM Subject: Re: Eye Glasses > I will strongly remind you that I am solely responsible for [Daughter]'s medical care and although [Daughter] has had her eye glasses in her possession for a year now, she has NEVER needed to wear them as Principal [Teacher], [Daughter] and I have relayed to you.  As per the our opthamologist, [Daughter] has hopefully corrected the induced astigmatism caused by wearing bifocals and there is a very good chance that she will no longer need to wear glasses. >  > Additionally, as I have requested: a nine year old girl does not need make up and no daughter of mine will be wearing it, especially at such a young age, regardless of whether or not she is visiting with you.  You may NOT simply disregard my wants and requests when it comes to my daughter as teaching her to disrespect me or ignore the rules of HER household will only serve to reveal the kind of parent you are and will further damage the relationship YOU have with our daughter. >  > Thank you for your prompt attention to this matter. >  > [Custodial Dad]

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[Custodial Dad] and [StepMom] McCabe <[email]@[email].com>	Thu, Jun 23, 2011 at 7:27 PM
To: [the ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Clearly you have harassed our eye doctor to the point they have refused all contact with you. I can not seem to get through to you that [Daughter], herself is and has been the sole determining factor in whether or not she needed to use the glasses in her possession. And contrary to your statement, [Daughter] indeed has utilized her glasses as prescribed by her eye doctor.  When she is due for her eye exam, as with ALL of her medical visits, I will take her. Is that clear enough? Your last eye exam/visit caused DAMAGE to her eyes as no child wears bifocals unless there is something inherently wrong, which of course is and never was the issue.  [Quoted text hidden]

Text Messages 07/2011

[the ex]7/2/11 9:24 AM 6 weeks ago


[the ex]: Tried to call [Daughter]. Noanswer. 9:24 AMMe: There is no excuse for bad phone manners. Sad you lack basic decency. [Daughter] is out with her father, I will have her call when she comes in. -[StepMom] 1:57 PM

Me to [the ex]7/2/11 6:29 PM 6 weeks ago

Me: All set for a call, if you are available. 6:29 PM

[the ex]7/3/11 9:44 AM 6 weeks ago


[the ex]: [StepMom]. Your words were clear. She is out. My word was clear as I said ok. Don't use my phone to make nasty comments to me. That is also stated clearly. 9:44 AMMe: I was in the middle of speaking to you. I was mid sentence actually. And for the record, phone etiquette states you should say hello and goodbye. 9:46 AMMe: I have taught all of my children those manners including [Daughter]. Not hard to do. Hanging up when you are done is simply rude -[StepMom] 9:47 AMMe: And my comment on your manners was not "nasty". I was bringing your uncooth behavior to your attention as every time I answer, you hang up on me. -[StepMom] 9:49 AM

[the ex]7/4/11 8:18 PM 5 weeks ago

[the ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. 8:18 PM

[the ex]7/6/11 2:33 PM 5 weeks ago

[the ex]: Please have [Daughter] available. I just called with no answer. Thanks. 2:33 PMMe: [Daughter] was wondering if you might be available to call her back? If you can please do so soon it is almost 8pm 7:42 PM

[the ex]7/8/11 8:35 PM 5 weeks ago


[the ex]: I would like to give [Daughter] to chat with me after her dinner. I am here for a return call. I will also call back before eight. Please give [Daughter] the phone. 5:32 PM[the ex]: These calls I place and my mobile phone service is to ensure my daughter's contact. Please cease using my phone for [StepMom]'s mockery of "pleasant conversation."5:36 PM[the ex]: I would like to give [Daughter] a chance to chat with me after her dinner. I am here for return call. I will also call back before 8. Please give [Daughter] the phone. 5:40 PMMe: If you believe "Hello, how are you?" is a mockery of polite conversation then clearly you need to revisit your telephone manners. 6:57 PMMe: [Daughter] spoke with you for over a half an hour and is in the middle of playing games with her siblings. 6:59 PM[the ex]: Again u text nonsense. Inappropriate use of my phone. I will call for [Daughter]. Or simply have her call me. 6:59 PMMe: I was attempting to speak to you and ask how you were as I waited for [Daughter] to come to the telephone. -[StepMom] 7:00 PMMe: I was surprised by your non-response. I am saddened to see you can not even manage to exchange pleasantries over the telephone. -[StepMom] 7:00 PMMe: Saying "hello" is just basic manners. As it bothers you so, I will refrain from doing so in the future. -[StepMom] 7:01 PM[the ex]: Please place a call so [Daughter] can say goodnight at least. Please stop communicating with me on your interests. I'd am here for my child's thoughts and words. Thx7:02 PMMe: You are the only one communicating "non-sense." 7:04 PMMe: Basic manners is not an interest. It is common courtesy to the woman who is helping to raise our daughter. But you are correct, you have no interest in raising [Daughter] to be a respectful young lady. 7:06 PMMe: [Daughter] spoke with you for over a half an hour and is in the middle of playing games with her siblings. 7:07 PMMe: You must not arrange contact with [Daughter] as she is a child. You must communicate with me and if you can not do so, then do not be surprised if we can not accommodate you.7:09 PM[the ex]: For the third time- stop communicating your thoughts and commentaries to me. Clearly I will not have a goodnight call from my child based on ur text. 7:10 PM[the ex]: Or should I call [Daughter] before eight? Please let me know. 7:12 PMMe: You are simply an absurd woman and you wonder why this situation is going the way it is. 7:13 PMMe: You will do whatever it is you wish to do regardless of what I or anyone else says. 7:13 PM[the ex]: I did not get a yes or no about calling back for [Daughter]. Please be clear in your text on that specific question. Thanks. 7:15 PMMe: You did get a response, please feel free to actually read what it is I am texting you. 7:17 PM[the ex]: I will leave it to you to allow [Daughter] a goodnight call when the time and events accommodate a call tonight. I'm here waiting. Thanks. 7:19 PMMe: You did get a response, please feel free to actually read what it is I am texting you. 7:21 PMMe: You did get a response, please feel free to actually read what it is I am texting you. 7:21 PMMe: You did get a response, please feel free to actually read what it is I am texting you. 7:21 PMMe: You did get a response, please feel free to actually read what it is I am texting you. 7:21 PMMe: You did get a response, please feel free to actually read what it is I am texting you. 7:21 PMMe: You did get a response, please feel free to actually read what it is I am texting you. 7:22 PMMe: You did get a response, please feel free to actually read what it is I am texting you. 7:22 PMMe: You did get a response, please feel free to actually read what it is I am texting you. 7:22 PM[the ex]: No goodnight call for [Daughter] was received from you. So sad. Pls tell [Daughter] that her Momma Ioves her. 8:12 PMMe: What does that statement even mean?No goodnight call for [Daughter] was received from you. 8:14 PMMe: [Daughter] is happily playing video games with her siblings, there is nothing sad about it. 8:14 PMMe: And she did get to speak with you for over a half hour this evening. 8:15 PMMe: Lastly, [Daughter] does know you love her. We ensure we tell her that daily as I am sure you do as well. 8:16 PM[the ex]: I'd really like a chance to say goodnight and give my little girl a kiss over the phone. Would u reconsider your restriction of her call time allotted tonight? 8:21 PMMe: Stop twisting my words. There is no "restriction." 8:24 PMMe: [Daughter] is in the middle of a game with her siblings. 8:24 PMMe: If you are done attempting to collect evidence, I would appreciate the opportunity to get back to my family. [Daughter] will speak with you at 7PM tomorrow. 8:25 PMMe: Thank you and good night. 8:26 PM[the ex]: So you will allow [Daughter] to call me back now or when she is done? Yes or no? Simple one word response will suffice. Tnx. 8:26 PM[the ex]: Oh. Just got ur text. That's a NO I see. So sad. 8:27 PMMe: No its not sad, [Daughter] is laughing up a storm at the moment. 8:27 PMMe: She is enjoying playing with her family. She'd rather speak with you tomorrow as she did already speak with you once today. 8:29 PMMe: I'm sure you understand, she is wrapped up in her game and having fun. She doesn't want to stop and would rather speak with you another time since she spoke with you this afternoon. 8:30 PMMe: Thanks and good night. 8:31 PM[the ex]: You just placed a call to my phone. Then you hung up. I redialed and the call was disconnected. Did u change ur mind to let [Daughter] call? 8:33 PMMe: No one called you and I am uncertain why you keep saying my line is disconnected as I am currently texting you. Sounds as if your phone has a glitch or something. 8:35 PMMe: I'm going to go play a game with my kids. Have a good night. 8:35 PM

[the ex]7/10/11 8:12 PM 5 weeks ago


[the ex]: Pls hv [Daughter] avail for my call. Tnx. 8:05 PM[the ex]: I just got done. Can u pls call with [Daughter] so she can say goodnight. 8:06 PM[the ex]: I will try again in a few minutes. 8:07 PM[the ex]: No answer twice. Really would like to hear [Daughter]s voice an give her a chance to say goodnight. Pls call w my little girl. 8:12 PM

[the ex]7/15/11 8:44 PM 4 weeks ago

[the ex]: Pls let [Daughter] say goodnight as the line dIed likely due to my battery as I said. 8:32 PM[the ex]: Ow charged. 8:32 PM[the ex]: That is NOW charged and waiting. Thx. 8:34 PM[the ex]: No response. No call. No response on the email re summer time w [Daughter] and travel on court date July 2o. So sad. 8:44 PM

[the ex]7/16/11 7:34 PM 4 weeks ago

[the ex]: Called for [Daughter] just now. No answer. Waiting for a call back if she can talk now. 11:34 AM[the ex]: Called for [Daughter] again just now. Still no answer. Pls find time to give my girl the opportunity to have a call w her Momma. I'm waiting. 6:47 PM[the ex]: Please call bk. Line disconnected. 7:20 PM[the ex]: Please answer my call for [Daughter]. 7:21 PM[the ex]: Please allow [Daughter] a chance to finish her call w her Mom tonight. I'm waiting. Tnx. 7:23 PM[the ex]: Clearly a refusal to answer the call for this child [Custodial Dad]? Simply answer the phone. 7:34 PM


[the ex]7/17/11 7:45 PM 4 weeks ago

[the ex]: Pls call if u will let [Daughter] say goodnight as she had to go for dinner. 7:43 PM[the ex]: Also pls check ur email. I asked u to bring [Daughter] for summer when u come for court on Wednesday for small claims suit I filed. 7:45 PM

[the ex]7/19/11 8:51 PM 3 weeks ago

[the ex]: Pls answer. I'm calling for [Daughter]. 7:42 PM[the ex]: You did not acccept my cals for [Daughter]. Did not call me. So sad. 8:51 PM

[the ex]7/20/11 8:13 PM 3 weeks ago

[the ex]: Pls answer. I'm calling for [Daughter]. 8:12 PM[the ex]: You did not acccept my cals for [Daughter]. Did not call me. So sad. 8:12 PM[the ex]: Called twice. This is the second day of this. So sad. 8:12 PM[the ex]: I'm waiting if u can text for me to call or for her to call. Tnx. 8:13 PM

[the ex]7/21/11 8:05 PM 3 weeks ago

[the ex]: Pls answer for [Daughter] to talk to her Mom. This is third without u answering. Will try again. Just getting out of work. 8:03 PM[the ex]: Again no answer tonight. Make certain that my child is well. And give her a chance to call her Mom. I'm waiting. 8:05 PM


[the ex]7/23/11 9:11 PM 3 weeks ago

[the ex]: Tried twice. No answer. Pls give [Daughter] a chance to call or answer my call just finishing work. 8:04 PM[the ex]: Please call w [Daughter]. 8:04 PM[the ex]: [Custodial Dad]. Why is it of any benefit to deny [Daughter] a chance to talk to her Mom? Pls answer via email. 9:01 PMMe: You have TWELVE hours to call. You CHOSE not to call until after 8PM. My phone is OFF at 8PM. We have children. She is asleep. Grow up. 9:04 PMMe: Also, as you stated to my wife, if your phone is to be used solely for calls, stop texting. 9:04 PM[the ex]: Do you not have an outgoing line? Is there a reason u can't place a call or allow her a chance to call me bk when I call at eight or close to eight? 9:06 PMMe: You have TWELVE hours to call. You CHOSE not to call until after 8PM. My phone is OFF at 8PM. We have children. She is asleep. Grow up. 9:06 PM[the ex]: [Custodial Dad]. U have all day to call. The schedule is not a restriction. Clearly u cannot call w [Daughter] for some reason. 9:08 PMMe: You have TWELVE hours to call. You CHOSE not to call until after 8PM. My phone is OFF at 8PM. We have children. She is asleep. Grow up. 9:09 PMMe: The restriction is in your lack of providing a schedule. If [Daughter] wants to call. We text, if you are available you call or you don't. 9:11 PM

Text Messages 06/2011

[the ex] 6/1/11 8:22 PM 2 months ago	Inbox
[the ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Waiting. 7:48 PM [the ex]: No answer ur line twice already. 7:48 PM [the ex]: No call. No answer. Pls have [Daughter] call her Mom. 8:22 PM

[the ex] 6/2/11 7:51 PM 2 months ago	Inbox
[the ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Waiting. 7:50 PM [the ex]: No answer ur line twice already. 7:50 PM [the ex]: Second day of these reindeer games. 7:51 PM

Me to [the ex] 6/3/11 8:37 PM 2 months ago

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Me: Not sure if you are available or not but it is getting close to [Daughter]'s bedtime. 8:23 PM Me: Please do not wait until the last minute to call, if you can help it. I am sure [Daughter] would like to spend time talking to you. 8:28 PM [the ex]: Don't front this interest in calls. You did not call or accept calls for two days. Send an email. Ur Text is not complete. 8:33 PM Me: "front" an interest... please speak so that I may understand you. 8:34 PM Me: We were unable to speak with you as we were out Wednesday and Thursday. This evening, I needed to prompt you to call. 8:35 PM Me: Point is: Call prior to [Daughter]'s bedtime OR please let me know how we can alter the schedule so that you are not calling minutes before he bedtime as I have been asking for WEEKS. 8:37 PM Me: Or just ignore my request as you have been. 8:37 PM

[the ex] 6/5/11 7:44 PM 2 months ago	Inbox
[the ex]: No answer ur line. Again. 7:44 PM Me: If you wish, now would be a good time to call [Daughter] 7:53 PM

[the ex] 6/6/11 7:59 PM 2 months ago	Inbox
[the ex]: No answer ur line. Again. 7:28 PM Me: If you wish, now would be a good time to call [Daughter] 7:45 PM [the ex]: Call cut. Pls call bk or answer my call so [Daughter] can say goodnight to her Mom. Thanks. In waiting. 7:59 PM

	Me to [the ex] 6/9/11 8:09 PM 2 months ago	Inbox
Me: It is a school night, please call before 8pm thank you. 8:01 PM [the ex]: Note the time of my call. 8:02 PM Me: It is a school night, please call before 8pm thank you. 8:07 PM [the ex]: Why don't u send me an email on that. 8:09 PM Me: I am settling my children please stop texting 8:10 PM

[the ex] 6/11/11 8:40 PM 2 months ago

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[the ex]: Won't be done until after eigtht. Its Saturday pls let [Daughter] answer my call. Tnx. 7:50 PM Me: We do have to be somewhere early tomorrow, so please call as soon as possible. Bedtime is the same. 7:52 PM Me: If your lifestyle or schedule has changed and you need to amend the time, please let me know. We can work with you ANYTIME BEFORE 8PM 7:54 PM Me: However you need to a. discuss this with me so that I can make [Daughter] available and b. do so prior to her bedtime 7:54 PM Me: Again anytime AFTER 9AM and BEFORE 8PM will work with notice. 7:57 PM Me: Or ignore my response and then get angry when we are unable to accommodate your schedule. 8:02 PM [the ex]: No call no answer. Saturday. Why not answer? Pls call with [Daughter]. 8:40 PM Me: I did respond however you chose not to reply until long after [Daughter]'s bedtime. I could not keep her up indefinitely. 8:48 PM

[the ex] 6/12/11 8:11 PM 2 months ago

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[the ex]: I just tried to call [Daughter] again. No answer again. No matter the time u fail to answer the phone. Please have my girl available when I call. Make it a priority. 12:00 PM Me: Missed your call please try again 12:00 PM Me: or myself before hand. -[StepMom] 12:03 PM Me: We were clear LAST NIGHT that we had an early morning event. Instead of being passive aggressive, make calling YOUR priority and discussing with either C 12:03 PM [the ex]: Pls have [Daughter] available to talk w her Mom. I will call when I am out in a few minutes before eight thirty. Tnx. 7:55 PM [the ex]: Pls have [Daughter] available to talk w her Mom. I will call when I am out in a few minutes before eight thirty. Tnx. 7:55 PM Me: It is a SCHOOL night. I did invite you to call back at noon when you called, and you choose not to. 8:30 is past bedtime, it is ASLEEP time. 7:56 PM Me: Again:If your lifestyle or schedule has changed and you need to amend the time, please let me know. We can work with you ANYTIME BEFORE 8PM 7:57 PM Me: However you need to a. discuss this with me so that I can make [Daughter] available and b. do so prior to her bedtime 7:57 PM Me: Or ignore my response and then get angry when we are unable to accommodate your schedule. 7:59 PM [the ex]: I just called. No audio from ur phone. I can. Just hear echo of my hello. Pls have [Daughter] come to the phone. 8:09 PM [the ex]: I will call again now. 8:09 PM Me: [StepMom] said, "Please hold on a second" and you hung up while we were getting the phone to [Daughter]. 8:11 PM

	[the ex] 6/14/11 7:20 PM 2 months ago	Inbox
[the ex]: Call dropped. Please call back w [Daughter]. You were saying something? 7:16 PM Me: As I was stating when you HUNG UP: [Daughter] is at the end of the year carnival with her girlfriend. 7:16 PM [the ex]: Speculation speculation. Call dropped. Pls have a parent caLl w mobile phone. 7:18 PM Me: You may want to look into why your calls ALWAYS drop when either myself of [StepMom] answer. Our home line can not disconnect. 7:18 PM Me: No speculation, as I wrote, you may want to look into why your calls ALWAYS drop when either [StepMom] or myself answer the phone. 7:19 PM Me: If it is not to late when she gets in, I will ensure she calls you. 7:20 PM

[the ex] 6/14/11 7:20 PM 2 months ago

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[the ex]: Call dropped. Please call back w [Daughter]. You were saying something? 7:16 PM Me: As I was stating when you HUNG UP: [Daughter] is at the end of the year carnival with her girlfriend. 7:16 PM [the ex]: Speculation speculation. Call dropped. Pls have a parent caLl w mobile phone. 7:18 PM Me: You may want to look into why your calls ALWAYS drop when either myself of [StepMom] answer. Our home line can not disconnect. 7:18 PM Me: No speculation, as I wrote, you may want to look into why your calls ALWAYS drop when either [StepMom] or myself answer the phone. 7:19 PM Me: If it is not to late when she gets in, I will ensure she calls you. 7:20 PM

	[the ex] 6/15/11 8:52 PM 8 weeks ago					Inbox
	[the ex]: No call yesterday. No answer today. Just a busy signal both times I call. 7:52 PM [the ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. 7:52 PM Me: We have call waiting, no chance of a busy signal. [Daughter] did answer your call. Please call back. 7:54 PM [the ex]: Just did. No answer. 7:55 PM Me: [Daughter] keeps answering, your line appears to have an issue connecting. 7:57 PM [the ex]: Just call me. I am waiting. Pls call w [Daughter]. 7:57 PM Me: [Daughter] keeps answering, your line appears to have an issue connecting 7:58 PM [the ex]: Pls give [Daughter] a chance to say goodnight. The call wa cut when she was talking. 8:40 PM [the ex]: No souNd after the call recording announcement. Pls answer w my girl. 8:41 PM Me: clearly, your phone is having issues. 8:42 PM Me: I will note its 8:43. This is a really late call, please call earlier if you can. 8:43 PM [the ex]: We will need ALL of your call recordings so we shall see the nature of your reindeer games with these phone calls. Goodnight. 8:46 PM Me: First, use the context of "reindeer games" appropriately. 8:47 PM [the ex]: Pls stop texting. Use this number to call w my child. 8:47 PM Me: Second, your call issues ALWAYS coordinate with court hearings. 8:47 PM Me: And lastly, you are calling a HOME line with no signals nor while driving etc. 8:48 PM Me: I am unsure of who YOUR child is, OUR child is getting ready for bed. 8:48 PM Me: As an FYI... effective immediately, our phones will no longer accept calls after 8PM. Your calls are simply disruptive and you have the ability to call at an earlier time. 8:49 PM Me: There will be no room for your tirades as you have been put on notice that: OUR PHONES WILL NO LONGER ACCEPT CALLS AFTER 8PM. 8:50 PM Me: OR BEFORE 9 AM. 8:51 PM Me: If this number is unsuitable for text, please forward me a means for contact and cease to communicate with me from an unacceptable phone number. That is all. 8:52 PM
[the ex] 6/16/11 9:04 PM 8 weeks ago					Inbox
[the ex]: Pls have [Daughter] available. I will be able to call before eight thirty. Thanks. 8:02 PM [the ex]: Pls text bk if u will take my call. 8:28 PM [the ex]: No text bk. No call from u for [Daughter] to speak w her mom. So sad. I will try tomorrow. 9:04 PM Me: Please call between the hours of 9AM and 8PM. You have refused to discuss anything with me in regards to [Daughter] so I will no longer request that you do so. 10:00 PM Me: I did state to you yesterday that phone calls past 8PM will no longer be accepted as the calls are disruptive to my household. 10:03 PM Me: There is an 11 hour window to utilize. Sad you are not making calls your priority. 10:04 PM
[the ex] 6/18/11 8:10 PM 8 weeks ago				Inbox
[the ex]: You are welcome to open dialog on call times u will accept. Today my child was not available early afternoon. Now there is no answer. 7:06 PM [the ex]: Third call to u only to get voicemail. 7:16 PM Me: If you wish, now would be a good time to call [Daughter] 7:27 PM Me: If your lifestyle or schedule has changed and you need to amend the time, please let me know. We can work with you anytime BEFORE 8PM and AFTER 9 AM. 7:44 PM Me: However you need to a. discuss this with me so that I can make [Daughter] available and b. do so prior to her bedtime as we are not sitting at home waiting for your call 7:45 PM Me: As [Daughter] mentioned, we had a "Daddy/Daughter morning" and then she went to her friends house for a swimming party. Had we have known you intended to call, we would have made proper arrangements. 7:48 PM Me: And lastly, calling three times in a row is simply unnecessary. When we are available, we will certainly call or text you. If we are not, the phone will go to voicemail, as it is supposed to do. 7:49 PM Me: [Daughter] WILL NOT be buying eye glasses with you as she has NEVER required glasses to begin with. Additionally, you will NOT be allowing my daughter to wear make up whether she is with you or not. 7:56 PM Me: I have specifically requested that you NOT buy a nine year old little girl eye shadow nor make up as it is unnecessary. 7:57 PM [the ex]: Pls email. Text is not clear. Tnx. 7:58 PM Me: Let this be clear: 8:09 PM Me: YOU HAVE NO AUTHORITY TO BUY GLASSES FOR MY DAUGHTER 8:09 PM Me: [DAUGHTER] WILL NOT BE WEARING MAKEUP whether she is visiting you or not. 8:09 PM Me: There is already an email, read it, understand it and respect it. Thank you. 8:10 PM
[the ex] 6/19/11 8:41 PM 8 weeks ago				Inbox
[the ex]: Pls answer call for [Daughter]. 7:46 PM [the ex]: No answer. No call back. Again. 8:41 PM Me: Thank you, I had a great Fathers Day. Glad we were home and able to take your call earlier in the day. 8:53 PM
[the ex] [the ex]: Pls call back w [Daughter] to say goodnight. 8:08 PM
		[the ex] 6/21/11 8:52 PM 7 weeks ago	Inbox
		[the ex]: Pls call back w [Daughter] to say goodnight. 7:17 PM [the ex]: No call back again. Tuesday night. 8:42 PM Me: We can not be available every day for multiple phone calls. [Daughter] had an extended call with you this afternoon. Glad you were able to do that this Tuesday afternoon. 8:50 PM Me: However is there a reason that you continue to text past 8PM or do you feel that there are no repercussions for your obscene behavior? 8:52 PM

[the ex] 6/23/11 5:17 PM 7 weeks ago

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[the ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. No answer this morning. Thursday. 10:31 AM [the ex]: I tried a few times to call [Daughter] today. No answer yet. Please call bk w [Daughter]. 1:08 PM [the ex]: I tried two numbers for contacting [Daughter]. No answer. Again. I hope she is allowed to talk between seven and eight. 5:17 PM Me: As [Daughter] mentioned, we were out all day. Caller ID showed SEVEN calls. 7:02 PM

[the ex] 6/24/11 9:16 PM 7 weeks ago	Inbox
[the ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. The message says ur number is disconnected. Is that right? 7:30 PM [the ex]: Now it went oit voicemail. Just want to give [Daughter] a chance to say goodnight. 7:34 PM Me: Not only did you speak to [Daughter] twice today but my response here ought to prove that my phone is not disconnected. 9:16 PM

[the ex] 6/25/11 8:36 PM 7 weeks ago

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[the ex]: Pls hv [Daughter] avail for goodnight. Will be done before eight thirty. 8:00 PM Me: You can not tell me at 8PM to alter the schedule, you need to do so PRIOR to the time designated. We had a very active day with more plans for the morning. 8:03 PM Me: In order to amend the current schedule set for 7PM, you will first need to discuss with me times and availability and do so PRIOR to 8PM. 8:07 PM Me: We do not sit at home waiting for your call however with NOTICE I can ensure [Daughter] has the time and the means to speak with you. 8:08 PM Me: But again, texting at 8PM will not work. 8:08 PM [the ex]: Simply ur answer is NO call w my child tonight. So sad. 8:10 PM Me: Simple answer is your passive aggressive behavior is not conducive for parenting. 8:10 PM Me: Again, if you want to alter the schedule, we are OPEN to your times however we will need to DISCUSS THIS PRIOR TO 8PM. 8:11 PM Me: However, if you refuse to even discuss with me acceptable times, [Daughter] may not always be available. 8:12 PM Me: Or you can ignore my attempt to work with you so you can gather evidence. Whats more important, [Daughter] or your case? 8:17 PM [the ex]: Enough texting. Point is clear. Repeatedly. Stop filling up my phone w excuses. 8:19 PM Me: Not one single excuse... maybe I am not being clear: 8:22 PM Me: I will work with YOUR schedule if you are able to discuss with me prior to 8PM. But YOU have to take some initiative to deviate from the schedule YOU set. 8:23 PM Me: Or again, you can be passive aggressive and continue compiling "evidence" at our daughter's detriment. 8:25 PM [the ex]: Stop texting on this same thing please 8:34 PM Me: So your answer is that you refuse to come to any resolution but will continue to complain when [Daughter] can not be made available outside of the schedule you set? 8:36 PM

[the ex] 6/26/11 8:35 PM 7 weeks ago

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[the ex]: Pls have [Daughter] available. I will call within a half hour. 8:07 PM Me: Again, if you want to alter the schedule, we are OPEN to your times however we will need to DISCUSS THIS PRIOR TO 8PM. 8:09 PM Me: However, if you refuse to even discuss with me acceptable times, [Daughter] may not always be available 8:10 PM [the ex]: This type of response is not helpful. So sorry for [Daughter]. 8:29 PM Me: My response to set up a time PRIOR to [Daughter]'s bedtime in the ELEVEN hour time span is unhelpful? 8:32 PM Me: Did we not just discuss this yesterday where I offered to ensure [Daughter] available for a call at a time mutually convenient and you failed to respond? 8:33 PM Me: But now you are upset because you failed to discuss a time with me and somehow this is my fault? 8:34 PM Me: And yes, sorry for [Daughter] that you are more interested in making a case than actually speaking to her. 8:35 PM Me: However, I will state AGAIN: I am more than willing to work with YOUR schedule if you discuss this with me BEFORE [Daughter]'s bedtime. 8:35 PM

[the ex] 6/28/11 10:30 AM 6 weeks ago	Inbox
[the ex]: Pls have [Daughter] available to talk. I just called. No answer. I will try again later. Tnx. 10:23 AM Me: Out for the day. Try around 5/6PM -[StepMom] 10:24 AM [the ex]: Great. Tnx. 10:25 AM [the ex]: Just call when she is able to talk to me. Appreciate it. 10:26 AM Me: How about you call between 5 & 6? Thanks -[StepMom] 10:30 AM [the ex]: Great. Tnx. 10:30 AM

[the ex] 6/29/11 12:22 PM 6 weeks ago

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[the ex]: Pls have [Daughter] available for phone call. Just called. No answer. 12:13 PM [the ex]: Is there a good time earlier than seven today? 12:13 PM Me: You can not call and demand [Daughter]. If the time you set does not work, we can move the time. 12:17 PM [the ex]: So seven is time today? 12:18 PM Me: [Daughter] is not at home but I believe 5PM would work. 12:18 PM [the ex]: Hey that's great. I really appreciate it. 12:19 PM Me: I just said that [Daughter] is not home but I believe 5 PM would work. FYI We do eat dinner at 6 PM, calling right at 6 will cut short the call. 12:21 PM [the ex]: Great. Will make it work. Five. 12:22 PM