Noted: Refusal to disclose Child Welfare Issue Re: Concerned Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 8:41 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
Noted: [Last Name]'s Refusal to disclose Child Welfare Issue [Last Name] Admitted "visit" today.:  From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>; va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu; [The Ex]@[email].com Sent: Fri, February 18, 2011 7:30:08 PM Subject: Re: Concerned Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011 You are simply ridiculous...  On Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 5:25 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: Why does the Child welfare group keep coming to your house?  Do you have a contact person at that department? Will you please inform me.  I am very concerned.  You have mentioned this a few times already. What is the issue? Please call or pick up the phone tonight for [Daughter] to talk to me.  It is court ordered. [The Ex] From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>; [The Ex]@[email].com; [Grandpa]@[email].com Sent: Fri, February 18, 2011 1:57:19 PM Subject: Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011 So sorry [Daughter] did not return your call(s) last night, but she was out with her girlfriends for a special cheer leading practice, I am sure [Daughter] told you this schedule change but perhaps (being 8) she did forget. I also informed Children and Youth as they stopped by at your behest (again.) Thank you so much. [Custodial Dad] On Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 6:49 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: NO calls for [Daughter]. I reach your voicemail when I call. No call last night- no text- nothing. I am very concerned with this lack of contact for my daughter. How do you explain to [Daughter] why she has no time with her Mom? Please detail - with facts- the reasons for keeping her away from her Mom. How do your think she feels? What will the court say about your actons? Please allocate days for her to be with me and I will fly her down.  I will pay for all expenses.  Easter is a good time to make up for your refusal to allow [Daughter] time for Christmas. At the very least of my interests is your email below:  If it were true, you could have written:  "Here IS some of her current school work." But, neither your grammar nor your statement is correct. From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 10:53:29 AM Subject: Re: January 2011 Some attachments did not connect. Here is the actual report card. On Sat, Feb 5, 2011 at 10:49 AM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Attached is [Daughter]'s current report card.  You may request a parent/teacher conference via telephone through her teacher. You said that [Daughter] did not send you work or there was some other issue with getting it.  Here are some of her current school work.   You can also request to have the school send you reports, work and other notices directly. She does make you artwork and will continue to send that to you directly, as she requested to continue to do so. She has her first cheer competition Sunday.  She's very excited.   Cheer Pictures are coming up... contact Bender Photography if you want pictures. Her school pictures are next month... you can purchase pictures through the school as well. I am hoping my brevity will alleviate any perceived feelings of animosity or "harassment."   [Custodial Dad]   On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 8:26 PM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Yes, we get it.  We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back.  Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family.  She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life.  (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)   As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home.  And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you.  Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights.   Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.   [Custodial Dad]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 9:00 PM
To: [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>
Noted: [Last Name] a.k.a [Last Name]  a.k.a [Last Name], et al Refusal to stop maliciously calling Children and Youth. Noted: [Last Name] a.k.a. [Last Name] a.k.a [Last Name], et al Refusal to undergo a psychiatric/psychological evaluation. [Quoted text hidden]

Concerned Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 5:25 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]: Why does the Child welfare group keep coming to your house?  Do you have a contact person at that department? Will you please inform me.  I am very concerned.  You have mentioned this a few times already. What is the issue? Please call or pick up the phone tonight for [Daughter] to talk to me.  It is court ordered. [The Ex] From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>; [The Ex]@[email].com; [Grandpa]@[email].com Sent: Fri, February 18, 2011 1:57:19 PM Subject: Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011 So sorry [Daughter] did not return your call(s) last night, but she was out with her girlfriends for a special cheer leading practice, I am sure [Daughter] told you this schedule change but perhaps (being 8) she did forget. I also informed Children and Youth as they stopped by at your behest (again.) Thank you so much. [Custodial Dad] On Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 6:49 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: NO calls for [Daughter]. I reach your voicemail when I call. No call last night- no text- nothing. I am very concerned with this lack of contact for my daughter. How do you explain to [Daughter] why she has no time with her Mom? Please detail - with facts- the reasons for keeping her away from her Mom. How do your think she feels? What will the court say about your actons? Please allocate days for her to be with me and I will fly her down.  I will pay for all expenses.  Easter is a good time to make up for your refusal to allow [Daughter] time for Christmas. At the very least of my interests is your email below:  If it were true, you could have written:  "Here IS some of her current school work." But, neither your grammar nor your statement is correct. From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 10:53:29 AM Subject: Re: January 2011 Some attachments did not connect. Here is the actual report card. On Sat, Feb 5, 2011 at 10:49 AM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Attached is [Daughter]'s current report card.  You may request a parent/teacher conference via telephone through her teacher. You said that [Daughter] did not send you work or there was some other issue with getting it.  Here are some of her current school work.   You can also request to have the school send you reports, work and other notices directly. She does make you artwork and will continue to send that to you directly, as she requested to continue to do so. She has her first cheer competition Sunday.  She's very excited.   Cheer Pictures are coming up... contact Bender Photography if you want pictures. Her school pictures are next month... you can purchase pictures through the school as well. I am hoping my brevity will alleviate any perceived feelings of animosity or "harassment."   [Custodial Dad]    On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 8:26 PM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Yes, we get it.  We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back.  Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family.  She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life.  (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)   As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home.  And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you.  Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights.   Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.   [Custodial Dad]

[Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>

Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 7:30 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>, [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>, va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu, [The Ex]@[email].com

Bcc:  [Last Name]s@[email].com

You are simply ridiculous... 

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Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 6:49 AM
To: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
NO calls for [Daughter]. I reach your voicemail when I call. No call last night- no text- nothing. I am very concerned with this lack of contact for my daughter. How do you explain to [Daughter] why she has no time with her Mom? Please detail - with facts- the reasons for keeping her away from her Mom. How do your think she feels? What will the court say about your actons? Please allocate days for her to be with me and I will fly her down.  I will pay for all expenses.  Easter is a good time to make up for your refusal to allow [Daughter] time for Christmas. At the very least of my interests is your email below:  If it were true, you could have written:  "Here IS some of her current school work." But, neither your grammar nor your statement is correct. From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 10:53:29 AM Subject: Re: January 2011 Some attachments did not connect. Here is the actual report card. On Sat, Feb 5, 2011 at 10:49 AM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Attached is [Daughter]'s current report card.  You may request a parent/teacher conference via telephone through her teacher. You said that [Daughter] did not send you work or there was some other issue with getting it.  Here are some of her current school work.   You can also request to have the school send you reports, work and other notices directly. She does make you artwork and will continue to send that to you directly, as she requested to continue to do so. She has her first cheer competition Sunday.  She's very excited.   Cheer Pictures are coming up... contact Bender Photography if you want pictures. Her school pictures are next month... you can purchase pictures through the school as well. I am hoping my brevity will alleviate any perceived feelings of animosity or "harassment."   [Custodial Dad]    On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 8:26 PM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Yes, we get it.  We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back.  Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family.  She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life.  (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)   As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home.  And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you.  Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights.   Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.   [Custodial Dad]

[Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 1:57 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu, [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>, [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>, [The Ex]@[email].com, [Grandpa]@[email].com Bcc:  [Last Name]s@[email].com
So sorry [Daughter] did not return your call(s) last night, but she was out with her girlfriends for a special cheer leading practice, I am sure [Daughter] told you this schedule change but perhaps (being 8) she did forget. I also informed Children and Youth as they stopped by at your behest (again.) Thank you so much. [Custodial Dad] [ Quoted text hidden] --  [Custodial Dad] L. [Last Name] [XXX]-[XXX]-0185 ~  “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.”    Harry S Truman  ~

NOted: refusal to cease neg email content Re: Please cease this email content. Re: Phone Calls

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:18 PM
To: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
Noted: Father's refusla to cease harassing content of emails. From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Sent: Fri, February 4, 2011 2:09:19 PM Subject: Re: Please cease this email content. Re: Phone Calls First, [Step Mom] is not writing to you.  I am. Second, your statements to my daughter are the cause for concern and reason for writing to you. Lastly, your behavior is the clear and concise definition of harassment.  Solely out of respect for our daughter is the ONLY reason I have not yet pressed charges against you. And clearly your email is for the purpose of creating chaos and documenting your case for some future litigation. Please cease your undermining of [Daughter]'s relationship with her family.  If you are indeed concerned, please find help for your issues. [Custodial Dad] On Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 1:06 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: Your messages and [Step Mother]'s are consistently disturbing. Please cease this content when writing me. It is harassing, at the least.  My email is not for that purpose. [The Ex] From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Wed, February 2, 2011 8:26:08 PM Subject: Phone Calls Yes, we get it.  We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back.  Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family.  She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life.  (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)   As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home.  And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you.  Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights.   Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.   [Custodial Dad]

[Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>

Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:32 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>

I am asking that you curb what you are saying to my daughter because you are making her uncomfortable, sad and confused.  I can not help that you are taking my correction to your language as harassment. However, as it was brought to your attention, if you can not curb yourself, [Daughter] has the ability to do so.  As I said before, if she "disconnects" or suddenly wants to go, she was instructed by her therapist that she is in complete control over the conversation and may end it at any time.

What you choose to do with the information presented to you is your business.

[Custodial Dad]

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Notes: Father's refusal of all fronts Re: Please respond about school meals and homework fir [Daughter]. & Februay/ March / Easter 2011 time-share

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:16 PM
To: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]: It is evident that you refuse to share [Daughter]'s time and you refuse to allow her an opportunity to benefit from school meals and homework time with her Mom. [The Ex] From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Sent: Fri, February 4, 2011 2:12:36 PM Subject: Re: Please respond about school meals and homework fir [Daughter]. & Februay/ March / Easter 2011 time-share In order to not redundantly repeat myself, please read the e-mails, all response(s) needed is there. Again, to save time, frustration and redundancy please sign up for the parent communication software as asked of you previously.  It will save this back and forth non-sense.  [Custodial Dad]  On Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 1:15 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: please specify time -share for February & March 2011.  You say the dates and times and I will arrange for [Daughter]'s flights and travel to airport.  Also, please yeild time for [Daughter] this Easter as you failed to send her for Christmas 2010. Please respond to the school meal and howework issues below. On Jan 3, 2011, at 7:36 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: What is the purpose of this email to me? Issues you have left unaddressed from my emails are important - more important than this message: 1.  Will you agree to me buying [Daughter]'s school breakfast/ lunch?  If no, why not?  Are you able to qualify for government aid for her school meals due to your unemployment? Why not allow her to be fed by the school as other families do in your financial situation? 2. Will you set up homework time for [Daughter] with me?  Can you send homework each week for me? Can you send some of [Daughter]'s schoolwork for me? 3. Can you send me pictures of her first day of school? 4.  Can I have a picture of [Daughter] in her glasses? 5.  What rules are you insisting that she follows about using her glasses? 6. Did you seek medical care for my child when she was sick in the last week of December?    What was the outcome? 7.  What time can you offer for future time share?  Will you share [Daughter]'s time at Easter- or anytime? 8.  Why won;t you cash the checks I sent for [Daughter]'s care?  Why won't you work with me to set up child support from me to [Daughter]- through payment to you? 9.  Why not settle the back support you owe [Daughter] from 2005 to 2010? Please- Can you take the time to address these points? Thank you for your consideration of this request. [The Ex]  From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Sent: Fri, December 31, 2010 11:05:05 PM Subject: Re: calls recorded and repeatedly interrupted- no answer on your line after calls cut for child and Mother One last note... Your inability to recognize that simple fact that [Daughter] is just as much my daughter as she is yours, shows that you have never had any intention of allowing me any chance to have a normal relationship with [Daughter].  Its very sad but also very telling to see that you can not bring yourself to even share the proper noun.... And she isn't "the child", or "child," nor am I "father." You are separating a very human aspect of this situation.  Just as you are 'mom,' I am simply her Da Da as I have always been and as I always will be.   Its the new year, lets work on changing our patterns of writing/speech and maybe the behaviors and attitudes will changes along side of them as well. On Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 10:13 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: Note: Last night's call- recording on/ off repeated and interrupted child sharing with Mom and Skye. Tonight's call- New Year's Eve- Call cut mid sentence - I tried to call back.  Voicemail only heard.  I tried later again- voicemail only. At least allow my child to talk without the interruption of your recording equiptment and allow her to have a chance to say goodbyes to her Mother.  Please facilitate adequate phone contact for my daughter's phone communication. (Please spare me your useless banter- you have the recorded calls and we all have phone logs.  All will be required in court at the right time.  No need to 'defend' with your version.   Just change these behaviors for the child's phone contact. ) Thanks. [The Ex] --  [Custodial Dad] L. [Last Name] [XXX]-[XXX]-0185 ~  “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.”    Harry S Truman  ~

[Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:27 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
What benefit are school meals to [Daughter] specifically?   As stated before, [Daughter] does her homework on her own. Why are you anticipating [Daughter] needing hands on homework help?   I have offered you time to see [Daughter], when you are in [home state]. IF YOU ARE IN [home state], I WILL ARRANGE TIME AND PLACE FOR [Daughter] TO SPEND WITH YOU. Again, to save time and frustration and your "notes" - there is a software program that will document any and all communication between us.  It is clearly worth the money. [Custodial Dad] [Quoted text hidden]

Please respond about school meals and homework fir [Daughter]. & Februay/ March / Easter 2011 time-share

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 1:15 PM
To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com Cc: [email]@[email].com
[Custodial Dad]: please specify time -share for February & March 2011.  You say the dates and times and I will arrange for [Daughter]'s flights and travel to airport.  Also, please yeild time for [Daughter] this Easter as you failed to send her for Christmas 2010. Please respond to the school meal and howework issues below. On Jan 3, 2011, at 7:36 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: What is the purpose of this email to me? Issues you have left unaddressed from my emails are important - more important than this message: 1.  Will you agree to me buying [Daughter]'s school breakfast/ lunch?  If no, why not?  Are you able to qualify for government aid for her school meals due to your unemployment? Why not allow her to be fed by the school as other families do in your financial situation? 2. Will you set up homework time for [Daughter] with me?  Can you send homework each week for me? Can you send some of [Daughter]'s schoolwork for me? 3. Can you send me pictures of her first day of school? 4.  Can I have a picture of [Daughter] in her glasses? 5.  What rules are you insisting that she follows about using her glasses? 6. Did you seek medical care for my child when she was sick in the last week of December?    What was the outcome? 7.  What time can you offer for future time share?  Will you share [Daughter]'s time at Easter- or anytime? 8.  Why won;t you cash the checks I sent for [Daughter]'s care?  Why won't you work with me to set up child support from me to [Daughter]- through payment to you? 9.  Why not settle the back support you owe [Daughter] from 2005 to 2010? Please- Can you take the time to address these points? Thank you for your consideration of this request. [The Ex]  From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Sent: Fri, December 31, 2010 11:05:05 PM Subject: Re: calls recorded and repeatedly interrupted- no answer on your line after calls cut for child and Mother One last note... Your inability to recognize that simple fact that [Daughter] is just as much my daughter as she is yours, shows that you have never had any intention of allowing me any chance to have a normal relationship with [Daughter].  Its very sad but also very telling to see that you can not bring yourself to even share the proper noun.... And she isn't "the child", or "child," nor am I "father." You are separating a very human aspect of this situation.  Just as you are 'mom,' I am simply her Da Da as I have always been and as I always will be.   Its the new year, lets work on changing our patterns of writing/speech and maybe the behaviors and attitudes will changes along side of them as well. On Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 10:13 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: Note: Last night's call- recording on/ off repeated and interrupted child sharing with Mom and Skye. Tonight's call- New Year's Eve- Call cut mid sentence - I tried to call back.  Voicemail only heard.  I tried later again- voicemail only. At least allow my child to talk without the interruption of your recording equiptment and allow her to have a chance to say goodbyes to her Mother.  Please facilitate adequate phone contact for my daughter's phone communication. (Please spare me your useless banter- you have the recorded calls and we all have phone logs.  All will be required in court at the right time.  No need to 'defend' with your version.   Just change these behaviors for the child's phone contact. ) Thanks. [The Ex]

[Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:12 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
In order to not redundantly repeat myself, please read the e-mails, all response(s) needed is there. Again, to save time, frustration and redundancy please sign up for the parent communication software as asked of you previously.  It will save this back and forth non-sense.  [Custodial Dad]  [Quoted text hidden]

Please cease this email content. Re: Phone Calls

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 1:06 PM
To: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]: Your messages and [Step Mother]'s are consistently disturbing. Please cease this content when writing me. It is harassing, at the least.  My email is not for that purpose. [The Ex] From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Wed, February 2, 2011 8:26:08 PM Subject: Phone Calls Yes, we get it.  We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back.  Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family.  She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life.  (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)   As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home.  And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you.  Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights.   Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.   [Custodial Dad]

[Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:09 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
First, [Step Mom] is not writing to you.  I am. Second, your statements to my daughter are the cause for concern and reason for writing to you. Lastly, your behavior is the clear and concise definition of harassment.  Solely out of respect for our daughter is the ONLY reason I have not yet pressed charges against you. And clearly your email is for the purpose of creating chaos and documenting your case for some future litigation. Please cease your undermining of [Daughter]'s relationship with her family.  If you are indeed concerned, please find help for your issues. [Custodial Dad] [Quoted text hidden]