Response / Open door for [Daughter]

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Wed, Apr 6, 2011 at 3:34 PM

To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

[Custodial Dad]:

I wrote you last week to discuss options for time-share/ parenting.  I even tried to 'clear the slate' with forgiveness to move on, despite our clear and mutual distrust of each other, to say the least.  All of this-  for [Daughter]'s equal time with both of her parents.

Unfortunately, I received emails from you that do not offer discussion of  or actual dates/ times/ parenting responsibility. No Easter.  No summer.  In fact., no time- share for [Daughter] with her Mom is on the horizon for the duration of your current custody/ parenting authority- until she is eighteen. Is that correct?

Your messages express a rejection of my offer to come to resolution pre/ in mediation.

Is this correct?:  You want to go to court/ in front of authorities, etc. and have a third party make a decision about  the previous litigation you brought in [other state] and [Daughter]'s  current time without her Mother.

If you do not want to mediate for a solution, please say so.  If you do not want to share [Daughter]'s time because you feel you are protecting her from me, then say so.  If you are only wanting a judge to make decisions for this child's life, please just say so. 

I wrote you because I needed to know if you were open for discussion on custody.  Court ordered mediation is scheduled.  Please let us know if we are wasting time.  I will plan accordingly.  Thanks for your resonses to date. 

Kind Regards,

[The ex]

P.S . Please feel free to forward your documents of the allegations you continue to make about me in your emails.  I can receive the documents as attachments if you are willing to share so I can make sense of your claims. Thanks.

[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

Wed, Apr 6, 2011 at 5:23 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

You have chosen to involve my attorney and will not engage in simultaneous "discussions" so as to simplify the situation. 

You have decided to have a "third party" make decisions regarding [Daughter]'s time sharing. Clearly you are having second thoughts and "buyers remorse." I am uncertain as to what your position may or may not be after dragging this matter through six years of continuous litigation. 

If there will be mediation, I will remind you that I have always gone into mediation with an open mind, I do hope that at this juncture you are willing to do the same. Again, my position is not ever-evolving, self-serving or out of any hate or aggression. 

Any "evidence" I have cannot be compelled by you, it has and will be presented to the appropriate authorities and at the appropriate times.  

[Custodial Dad]

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[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

Fri, Apr 8, 2011 at 1:02 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Cc: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

[The ex]:

I understand that you are wanting to start off on a "clean slate" and in that vein,  I will bring to your attention a few facts that [Daughter] discussed with me in regards to last night's phone call.  These are not criticisms but simply bringing to your attention a few issues for you to address.

a. I stated to you that I did not want our daughter to wear make up.  Your response was to tell her that it was "Okay for her to wear it in [other state]." For the record, she is allowed to wear chap stick and lip gloss but EYE SHADOW and BLUSH are not appropriate for little girls in my household.  I will let you know when I believe it is appropriate for her to wear make up.

b. [Daughter] asked you to send something up for her and your response was no because she will be "in [other state] when she will be in that size."  The inference [Daughter] understood was that she will be living in [other state] soon.  [Daughter] has long come to the realization that there will hopefully come a time that she can resume VISITING with you in [other state] but PA is her home.

c.  The "t-shirts" you sent to [Daughter] were training bras.  Did you read the label because it clearly states on the label that they are training bras.  [Daughter] is not going through puberty and I can assure you that we will take [Daughter] shopping for proper undergarments when the time comes. Because you embroidered the other bras, I allowed [Daughter] to have them but she is only allowed to wear undershirts/camisoles.

For reference:

Training bra: http://www.myfirstbra.us/bra_buying_guide.htm

Camisole/undershirt:  http://www.kidbean.com/lapsaky-girls-organic-cotton-undershirt-camisole.html

I am hoping that by addressing this with you, you are able to see my point clearly.  It is important that regardless of how you feel that you learn to not only respect my authority but do not continue to undermine me to [Daughter]. 

[Custodial Dad]

On Apr 6, 2011, at 5:23 PM, [Custodial Dad] wrote:

You have chosen to involve my attorney and I will not engage in simultaneous "discussions" so as to simplify the situation. 

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3v Open door for [Daughter]

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Fri, Apr 1, 2011 at 6:43 PM

To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

[Custodial Dad]:

I just read your email.  Did [Other State Lawyer] talk to you yet? 

I can see that you are mad and I'm sure you  are justified in your feelings/ findings/ facts. 

But, this offer to heal [Daughter]'s life and advance starts with putting the anger and hate aside for a moment.

This is an open door for a resolution.  I was thinking more of an open door to the future - not to the past year of greviances.  To be stuck in the 'issues' we have simply wastes time.  Here is a starting point: We can say that we are both wrong and we are both right. If you want to be right, then- fine - you are right.

If you want to say I'm crazy, then no doctor is going to change your mind or your opinion - even with a clean bill of mental health for me- which I have.  Even if we were both certifiably crazy, [Daughter] would have a right to equal time with us.  Most divorced people think the other parent is nuts- they still have to raise their kids as a team.  We both have time to share with [Daughter] and so let's open the door to success for her.

Are you interested in any discussion on the time share and parenting? Will you share your thoughts with me to start? 

Even if you have all the undisputed proof for your statements, just maybe think for a moment that I am not guilty of the things you think I did and I will think that you are not guilty for what I think you did.  So we 'forgive" the other person because no one of us has all the facts, and even if we did- no one cares. I do not want to be in "control" so you take the lead- if you want to inform me of what you will mediate .   I do beleive we can take turns to care for [Daughter] and ensure her healthcare and expences.  She wants to be with her Dad and with her Mom. 

Even if you hate me- can you open a discussion on a different plan for [Daughter] to be in both our homes?

i have my thoughs on how she can have both of us and I am happy to share.

Thanks for sharing your feelings. 

[The ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[The ex school].edu>

Cc: [email]@[email].com

Sent: Fri, April 1, 2011 1:01:54 PM

Subject: Re: Open door for [Daughter]

[The ex];

Whatever your thoughts are, I have moved on from the past and certainly what I may or may not have thought of you.  My only obligation towards you is ensuring our daughter has a healthy and nurturing relationship with BOTH of her parents. 

This past year, you have instructed our daughter to lie not only on me but her brother as well which caused her serious mental and emotional anguish.

This past year you have told [Daughter]'s principal, children & youth, the police, her doctors and medical providers and even the parents of her friends that I and/or the rest of her family are in some way abusing our daughter which not only embarrassed her but caused her to feel vulnerable and put upon.

This past year, you have and continue to abuse the various [Home State] agencies based on blatant lies, not facts, not "wrong or right" not even opinion but out-and-out LIES.

You continue to DAILY tell [Daughter] to make the "best" of her life here as if you are changing the circumstances.

You continue to DAILY cost me thousands upon thousands of dollars based on your lies and refusal to even attempt to co-parent or be a responsible human being who cares about her daughter.

This past year, we have no less than thirteen (13) e-mails regarding your "kind resolution on our daughter's life" only to end in more legal fees and more accusations. 

You have had no less than five attorney's attempt to make you aware of your detrimental behavior. 

Understand that my want to move on will not be clouded by your frequent and re-occuring requests of a "truce."  We have attempted resolution many, may times and I can not see that in the past few days that your behavior has changed so drastically to warrant a re-consideration.  Realize that I am not fighting you now nor have I ever made this about you, my concerns solely side with our daughter.  If [Daughter] were truly your focus as she has always been mine, this year would have been managed much, much differently.  

It is clear as it has always has been that there will be no other resolution besides a judge ordering you to undergo a mental evaluation and treatment.  The only thing I am certain of is that I do not know what compels you to behave in the manner that you continue to behave in. Unless you have suddenly voluntarily chosen to undergo a psychiatric evaluation by a provider approved by either [Other State Lawyer] or Judge [Other State Judge], I can assure you that my position is to remain unchanged and THAT is in [Daughter]'s best interest.

[Custodial Dad]

On Apr 1, 2011, at 12:23 PM, [The Ex] wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:

I am interested in your thoughts on a kind resolution on our daughter's life.

At one point in time we thought well enough of each other to conceive a child. 

The fighting match needs to be over. Here is my truce.  No parent will ever be "right" in their "facts" - and nobody cares- when the child is pulled in the middle. 

Maybe I'm wrong about you.  Maybe you are wrong about me.  And I'm sure [Daughter] only cares about "Dad" and "Mom"- not our thoughts on each other as parents. 

The one thing we have always agreed on is that SHE IS A GREAT KID and we both love her dearly.  She is part of both of us caring enough about each other at one time to bring her into the world.  Whatever the outcome of our time together and our concerns about the other parent, the objective expectation is that [Daughter] will do best knowing both of her parents, her other siblings and loving her step-Mom.

I was pleased to hear that our attorneys shared the same view when they had a child focused meeting yesterday and I hope you are considering the alternatives they discussed.

If [Other State Lawyer] has not yet spoken with you, just let me know your thoughts when he has.

I see some positive steps in you allowing [Daughter] a chance to open her box with me on the phone call yesterday.  I appreciate the contribution [StepMom] has made to [Daughter]'s diet and her time-management.  I have no problem financing -in full- the changes that we can make for [Daughter] as I believe we can move forward with kindness and cooperation. Let's make this better for [Daughter]'s heart. 

Kind Regards,

[The ex]

Open door for [Daughter]

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Fri, Apr 1, 2011 at 12:23 PM

To: [email]@[email].com, [email]@[email].com

[Custodial Dad]:

I am interested in your thoughts on a kind resolution on our daughter's life.

At one point in time we thought well enough of each other to conceive a child. 

The fighting match needs to be over. Here is my truce.  No parent will ever be "right" in their "facts" - and nobody cares- when the child is pulled in the middle. 

Maybe I'm wrong about you.  Maybe you are wrong about me.  And I'm sure [Daughter] only cares about "Dad" and "Mom"- not our thoughts on each other as parents. 

The one thing we have always agreed on is that SHE IS A GREAT KID and we both love her dearly.  She is part of both of us caring enough about each other at one time to bring her into the world.  Whatever the outcome of our time together and our concerns about the other parent, the objective expectation is that [Daughter] will do best knowing both of her parents, her other siblings and loving her step-Mom.

I was pleased to hear that our attorneys shared the same view when they had a child focused meeting yesterday and I hope you are considering the alternatives they discussed.

If [Other State Lawyer] has not yet spoken with you, just let me know your thoughts when he has.

I see some positive steps in you allowing [Daughter] a chance to open her box with me on the phone call yesterday.  I appreciate the contribution [StepMom] has made to [Daughter]'s diet and her time-management.  I have no problem financing -in full- the changes that we can make for [Daughter] as I believe we can move forward with kindness and cooperation. Let's make this better for [Daughter]'s heart. 

Kind Regards,

[The ex]

[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

Fri, Apr 1, 2011 at 1:01 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[The ex school].edu>

Cc: [email]@[email].com

[The ex];

Whatever your thoughts are, I have moved on from the past and certainly what I may or may not have thought of you.  My only obligation towards you is ensuring our daughter has a healthy and nurturing relationship with BOTH of her parents. 

This past year, you have instructed our daughter to lie not only on me but her brother as well which caused her serious mental and emotional anguish.

This past year you have told [Daughter]'s principal, children & youth, the police, her doctors and medical providers and even the parents of her friends that I and/or the rest of her family are in some way abusing our daughter which not only embarrassed her but caused her to feel vulnerable and put upon.

This past year, you have and continue to abuse the various [Home State] agencies based on blatant lies, not facts, not "wrong or right" not even opinion but out-and-out LIES.

You continue to DAILY tell [Daughter] to make the "best" of her life here as if you are changing the circumstances.

You continue to DAILY cost me thousands upon thousands of dollars based on your lies and refusal to even attempt to co-parent or be a responsible human being who cares about her daughter.

This past year, we have no less than thirteen (13) e-mails regarding your "kind resolution on our daughter's life" only to end in more legal fees and more accusations. 

You have had no less than five attorney's attempt to make you aware of your detrimental behavior. 

Understand that my want to move on will not be clouded by your frequent and re-occuring requests of a "truce."  We have attempted resolution many, may times and I can not see that in the past few days that your behavior has changed so drastically to warrant a re-consideration.  Realize that I am not fighting you now nor have I ever made this about you, my concerns solely side with our daughter.  If [Daughter] were truly your focus as she has always been mine, this year would have been managed much, much differently.  

It is clear as it has always has been that there will be no other resolution besides a judge ordering you to undergo a mental evaluation and treatment.  The only thing I am certain of is that I do not know what compels you to behave in the manner that you continue to behave in. Unless you have suddenly voluntarily chosen to undergo a psychiatric evaluation by a provider approved by either [Other State Lawyer] or Judge [other state judge], I can assure you that my position is to remain unchanged and THAT is in [Daughter]'s best interest.

[Custodial Dad]

Verified Re: [Daughter]'s health insurance & information

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Mon, Mar 28, 2011 at 7:47 PM

To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

I understand that you are claiming that the [Custodial Dad Employer] Atena policy is up to date and valid.

I understand that you are claiming employment with [Custodial Dad Employer].

From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Cc: [email]@[email].com

Sent: Fri, March 25, 2011 2:25:13 PM

Subject: Re: [Daughter]'s health insurance & information

Your information is incorrect and I have addressed this issue many, many times. In addition, to obtain complementary coverage for [Daughter]'s policy not only do you NOT require her insurance information but any legitimate insurance  company would be able to do so on [Daughter]'s behalf.  As I have come to learn, my Aetna coverage has been the only coverage [Daughter] has ever had in her entire life.

I am curious to know why you are purchasing a family plan of insurance when you are "single" and with no dependents specifically when duplicate coverage from an out-of-state plan is not only redundant but unnecessary.  It just seems to me that you have money to throw around on lawyers, filings and proving a case but have no concern or care to help our daughter on a daily basis.

[Custodial Dad] & [StepMom]

[email]

(XXX XXX) XXX XXX - 6052

If two stand shoulder to shoulder against the gods,

Happy together, the gods themselves are helpless

Against them while they stand so.

~Maxwell Anderson

On Mar 25, 2011, at 2:03 PM, [The Ex] wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:

Please provide [Daughter]'s current and past health care information since March 2010.  I need it immediately to have her receive coverage from my plan and to set up the best complementary coverage for her needs.

I need her eye health insurance and dental also.

Please ensure all info is current and valid when you reply.  Please send documents as email attachments to this address.

As you were fired from [Custodial Dad employer] in June 2009 the insurance cards I have on file from the medical offices in [home state] are invalid to my best knowledge.

Thank you.

[The ex]

[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

Mon, Mar 28, 2011 at 7:53 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

I am not "claiming" anything.  Can you simply READ what is in front of you?

I understand that you are trying to make a case but all that you are proving is that you are a sick person.  Your attempts are petty, useless and very honestly tiresome to EVERYONE you are dealing with.

You are a very sad and disturbed individual.  Please get the help that you very clearly need.  

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[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

Mon, Mar 28, 2011 at 8:07 PM

To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

Cc: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

As I texted, instead of wasting your time emailing me petty and ridiculous things, why not spend the time speaking to our daughter before her bedtime?

Never mind, don't bother answering that question as Its clear this is and has been all about you and has nothing to do with [Daughter].

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Text Messages 4/2011

[The Ex]

4/30/11 7:55 PM 2 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Ps have [Daughter] call or answer phone. Tnx. 7:45 PM

[The Ex]: I have trierd three times. No answer. 7:55 PM

Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 8:17 PM

[The Ex]

4/30/11 6:38 AM 2 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] tonight. No call yesterday. Tnx. 6:38 AM

Me: And you needed to text this at 6:30 am? Do you really think [Daughter] is even awake at this time on a Saturday? 6:41 AM

[The Ex]

4/29/11 9:39 PM 2 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: No answer ur line. Pls call w [Daughter] when she is available. Tnx. 7:24 PM

[The Ex]: No call. Pls have [Daughter] available tomorrow. 9:39 PM

[The Ex]

4/24/11 12:57 PM 3 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] when she is free. 12:57 PM

[The Ex]

4/22/11 8:02 PM 3 weeks ago

Inbox

[The Ex]: Call anytime w my girl. No answer on your line. I'm here waiting. 7:15 PM

[The Ex]: No response. Second day. No call. 7:32 PM

Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:41 PM

Me: Were you disconnected? 7:45 PM

[The Ex]: Great. Call dropped. Pl call bk. 7:45 PM

[The Ex]: Pls call bk. Or answer. Tn. 7:46 PM

Me: You are attempting to have [Daughter] speak to you in code. Call is done for this evening. We will call you tomorrow however, I will no longer tolerate you trying to speak in code. 7:46 PM

[The Ex]: Can't grasp ur text. Pls have her call bk. Its easter weekend. Pls be nice. 7:48 PM

Me: Not about nice, its about you and your codes. Please stop. She will call again tomorrow. Will not tolerate your feathers, colors, mood rings or scrambled eggs any longer 7:49 PM

[The Ex]: This is bazarre. But please email me on this. I really would like to explore ur thoughts w this. Will call tomorrow. Tnx. 7:50 PM

Me: You are correct, your behavior is "Bazarre." Please stop with the codes and enjoy your "scrambled eggs." 7:51 PM

Me: No longer will we tolerate this behavior, you are upsetting our daughter and I will no longer stand for it. 7:52 PM

[The Ex]: You are restricting my childs phone conTact. You are out of your league in managing the legal battle ahead u created. At least let her talk to her Mom? 7:57 PM

[The Ex]: Or just stop texting and send me an email w your concerns about my communication codes as u say. 7:58 PM

Me: I am restricting your ability to harm my daughter. 7:59 PM

Me: You are continuing to text me after calling EIGHT times in an hour 8:00 PM

Me: "Out of my league?" Maybe you want to re-think that with lawyer number 5 or 6. You are running out of attorneys who are buying into your nonsense. 8:00 PM

Me: No sense in going back and forth with you. I am well within my legal right to protect my daughter from your mental illness specifically when you are using her to further the case that is no longer. 8:01 PM

Me: She will call you tomorrow and if she feels you are continuing to speak in code to her, she will disconnect the call as is HER right. 8:02 PM

[The Ex]

4/22/11 7:06 AM 3 weeks ago

Inbox

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. As soon as she is awake. No call yesterday. 7:06 AM

[The Ex]

4/21/11 8:06 PM 3 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. 8:04 PM

[The Ex]: Call anytime w my girl. No answer on your line. I'm here waiting. 8:06 PM

[The Ex]

4/18/11 9:19 AM 4 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Just fi nished at work. Thx. 8:13 PM

Me: Let us know ur sched ahead of time & we can make sure [Daughter] is avail Had a busy day yest and it was shower and bed by the time u called -[StepMom] 9:19 AM

Me to [The Ex]

4/15/11 6:54 PM 4 weeks ago

Inbox 

Me: [The ex] as you know from the multiple times you have called Children and Youth - and they have informed you - [Daughter] has a well balanced wholesome diet. W 6:50 PM

Me: [The ex] as you know from the multiple times you have called Children and Youth - and they have informed you - [Daughter] has a well balanced wholesome diet. W 6:50 PM

Me: hy do you keep harassing her by asking for a detailed catalogue of all her meals? 6:50 PM

[The Ex]: Pls don't read in to anything I am tinking of dinner and going to the grocery store. Thanks for the tip. But jsut glad to talk to her about anything in fact. 6:53 PM

[The Ex]: Enjoy ur time. 6:54 PM

[The Ex]

4/12/11 8:12 PM 4 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. I just tried ur phone. No answer. Tnx. 7:51 PM

[The Ex]: Tried ur phone three times. No answer. Pls call bk w [Daughter]. Anytime tonight. I'm waiting. Tnx. 8:12 PM

Me: Actually you called SIX times. [Daughter] had a concert at school and we came in late. 9:56 PM

[The Ex]

4/10/11 9:30 AM 5 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Goodmorning. If [Daughter] can be available before two PM for an extended call I would appreciate if u can let me know the window. I will call then. Thx. 9:23 AM

Me: I don't know what "extended" means by your definition, however; [Daughter] is about to have a bath and we have plans from Noon on. So if you wish to try her l 9:28 AM

Me: ater this morning? I think [Daughter] would live that. 9:28 AM

Me: ^love 9:29 AM

[The Ex]: Pls let me know when bath is done. Will call then. 9:30 AM

Me: OK 9:36 AM

Me: She's out now 10:42 AM

[The Ex]

4/9/11 8:25 PM 5 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Pls call if [Daughter] is available. 8:25 PM

[The Ex]

4/9/11 11:48 AM 5 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Good to talk to [Daughter] this AM Thx. Pls send a phone photo of her in her outfit I sent that she's wearing today. I'd love to put it on my screen on phone. Thx. 11:44 AM

Me: Will email it to you. 11:47 AM

[The Ex]: Hey thanx. Great. I'm glad it fits and she likes it. 11:48 AM

Me to [The Ex]

4/8/11 8:47 PM 5 weeks ago

Inbox 

Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:22 PM

[The Ex]: Pls call bk w [Daughter]. The line died a number of times as we spoke. 8:46 PM

[The Ex]: Just want to tell her goodnight and give her kisses. 8:47 PM

Me: Do you realize what time it is? -[StepMom] 8:47 PM

Me: Perhaps U should have called 1 hr ago. Will have her call u tomm, too late now -[StepMom] 8:50 PM

Me to [The Ex]

4/4/11 7:33 PM 6 weeks ago 

Me: @ roller rink. Very loud here and [Daughter] is skating w friends 7:33 PM

Me: Awards ceremony 4 cheer -[StepMom] 7:45 PM

[The Ex]

4/1/11 2:16 PM 6 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Sent u an email today. Pls reply. Tx. 1:11 PM

Me: I replied already 1:12 PM

[The Ex]: I hope it was positive. Thanks. 1:15 PM

Me: It was a real response. Hopefully you will actually read what was written. 1:16 PM

[The Ex]: I hope u accept my offer as a genuine offer to move forward. I mean it. I'm off to work and will ck later. I will read it. Thanks [Custodial Dad]. 1:19 PM

Me: You frequently have offers to move forward. I hold no hope that in days you are suddenly putting our daughter first. 1:22 PM

Me: Glad to see that "you mean it" this time as opposed to the multitude of other times. We have had many offers of truce but zero follow through. 1:26 PM

[The Ex]: Well I try to improve over time. Tnx for an open heart from both u and [StepMom]. I knew we could get to this better place. 2:16 PM

Me: Let's start with reading my response first. 2:18 PM

Text Message 3/2011

Me to [The Ex]

3/31/11 1:35 PM 6 weeks ago

Me: At circa one - thirty pm today [Daughter]s package was delivered to our house. I will give her the package after school -[StepMom] 1:35 PM

[The Ex]

3/30/11 7:58 PM 6 weeks ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Pls answer or call bk. 7:47 PM

[The Ex]: At circa two pm today [Daughter]s package was delivered to ur house. Please give her the package. Pls follow up w email. 7:58 PM

[The Ex]: Pls call back as call was cut. 7:58 PM

Me to [The Ex]

3/29/11 7:24 PM 6 weeks ago 

Me: Did you promise [Daughter] you would have made arrangements with her school so she could buy a book? 7:24 PM

Me: Tomorrow is the deadline and [Daughter] is getting upset, I suggest you call tomorrow and find out what your options might be 7:25 PM

Me to [The Ex]

3/28/11 8:08 PM 7 weeks ago

Inbox 

Me: Instead of sending petty emails why not call our daughter BEFORE her bedtime? 7:51 PM

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. 7:58 PM

Me: Call back 7:59 PM

[The Ex]: Tnx 8:04 PM

Me: Glad you had a chance to speak with her despite your best intentions. 8:08 PM

Me to [The Ex]

3/25/11 4:09 PM 7 weeks ago 

Me: [Daughter] is publishing a book through school and it costs $7.50. Do you want to order one? Its a one time only deal, so please let me know by Monday. -[StepMom] 4:06 PM

Me: Actually by Sunday or you can probably contact Mrs. [Teacher] directly. [Daughter] will ask you herself this evening. -[StepMom] 4:09 PM

Me to [The Ex]

3/24/11 6:46 PM 7 weeks ago 

Me: Got all three of your calls. We were eating dinner. If you do not mind talking to [Daughter] while she does her chores, you can call now. 6:46 PM

Me: We set 7pm so that she could be totally available. If that time does not work, let me know and we can set another time. 6:48 PM

[The Ex]

3/20/11 8:27 PM 8 weeks ago

Inbox

[The Ex]: Pls cal w Noamh. 8:24 PM

Me: It is already her bedtime and she has school in the morning. 8:26 PM

Me: If 7:00 does not work let me know and we can arrange something. 8:27 PM

[The Ex]

3/19/11 7:58 PM 8 weeks ago

Inbox

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] if she is avail again Tnx 7:58 PM

Me: Realize that I got your 8pm call/text and your call at 8:35. One call will suffice as voice mail and caller id do work. 8:39 PM

[The Ex]

3/16/11 6:21 PM 2 months ago

Inbox

[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. I just tried to call. No answer. Waiting for return call. Tnx. 5:05 PM

[The Ex]: Or let me know good call ttime. Tnx. 5:05 PM

Me: I asked yesterday what time you intended to call and I would make her available. -[StepMom] 6:16 PM

Me: Since you did not reply, I assumed 7PM today. If that doesn't work, let me know your time schedule. -[StepMom] 6:16 PM

[The Ex]: Seven is great. Pls call anytime before if it works for you all. Tnx. 6:21 PM

Me: [Daughter] is finishing up her chores. If u r avail, please call. 7:17 PM

Me: -[StepMom] 7:18 PM

[The Ex]

3/15/11 8:47 PM 2 months ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: Just out of work. Pls answer. Or cal w [Daughter] even for a minute. 8:41 PM

Me: Sorry she missed you, it is bedtime and she is in the middle of [State Test] testing as Principal [Teacher] told you last week. - [StepMom] 8:44 PM

Me: It is WAY past her bedtime, I will not wake her for a phone call. Please call prior to 8! I can work with your work sched. if u need me to. - [StepMom] 8:46 PM

[The Ex]: Thx 8:46 PM

Me: No problem. Just text or email the home email address ur sched and I'll make sure she reaches you. Have a good night - [StepMom] 8:47 PM

Me to [The Ex]

3/15/11 8:43 PM 2 months ago

Me: This is [StepMom]... it is WAY past bedtime. I will ensure she calls you tomorrow or please call prior to 8PM. 8:43 PM

[The Ex]

3/14/11 8:20 PM 2 months ago

x

[The Ex]: Pls call back. The line died. 8:07 PM

[The Ex]: would like to say goodnight and share I love you's w [Daughter]. Thanks. 8:09 PM

Me: Guess she thought you were done. 8:10 PM

Me: She is in the shower, will give her the option of calling back. 8:10 PM

Me: when she is out. 8:12 PM

[The Ex]: Pls place the call when she is done for a second of kisses and goodnight wishes. 8:12 PM

Me: As explained, [Daughter] has the OPTION of calling you back. As explained, if she is uncomfortable, she may end call at any time. 8:14 PM

[The Ex]: Tnx. 8:20 PM

[The Ex]

3/13/11 9:31 PM 2 months ago

Inbox

[The Ex]: Please call w [Daughter] when available. 7:54 PM

[The Ex]: No answer. Pls call w [Daughter]. 8:32 PM

Me: We had a late dinner out and she was fast asleep when we came in. Your phone "disconnected" while [StepMom] was speaking. Wanted to make sure you heard what she said to you. 9:31 PM

[The Ex]

3/12/11 10:59 AM 2 months ago

Inbox

[The Ex]: Plas call w [Daughter]. No answer this AM. 10:59 AM

Me: No answer because we are out. 11:02 AM

[The Ex]

3/11/11 9:41 PM 2 months ago

Inbox

[The Ex]: Pls take [Daughter]s temperature. Sure u have an easy thermometer to place in the ear. They have at CVS. Motrin available to bring her temp down if she has fever 7:45 PM

[The Ex]: Please take her to the ER if she is not well tonight. And please take her to the peds doctor for a strep test and for her congestion. 7:47 PM

[The Ex]: Telling me about her headache has nothing to do w her temp. Also a fever results in seizures as I'm sure u know by now. 7:48 PM

Me: What makes you think [Daughter] has a fever? [Daughter] does not have a fever-she's not even warm today and as explained to you, we have a good handle on [Daughter]'s m 8:04 PM

Me: edical well being. If we do need to take her to the doctor, we will be sure to let you know.Thank you for your concern and have a good night. 8:04 PM

[The Ex]: If u do not have a working thermometer or Motrin then let me know and I will find a way to buy it at CVS in [Home Town] [home state] and u can just pick it up for [Daughter]. 8:32 PM

[The Ex]: Did u take her temperature? I cannot know if she has a fever. How do know she does not have a fever? 8:33 PM

Me: Good night, it's late and we have a big day planned 8:34 PM

[The Ex]: You are being negligent of my childs health. It is unacceptable. 8:36 PM

Me: Good night, it's late and we have a big day planned 8:36 PM

Me: You are a ridiculous person! I have children SLEEPING! 8:50 PM

Me: Based on your allegations children and youth came on our daughters birthday-eve and woke her to take her temp which was 98 degrees. 9:32 PM

Me: They also reviewed this evenings phone call in which you badgered a little girl about her cold 9:34 PM

Me: The pivotal point was [Daughter] stating unequivocally that she did NOT have a fever 9:35 PM

[The Ex]: Great. Now we know her temp. And hope u take her for that strep swab asap. Also an assessment is what a person does to see how someone feels. Not badger. 9:36 PM

[The Ex]: Goodnight. Thanks for the update. 9:36 PM

Me: Understand that now you have caused your daughter embarassement and sadness on her birthday which will be forever tainted with your insanity 9:36 PM

Me: Six months of having an Rn license with NO practice does not make you an expert Your telephone assesment skills need work. Additionally children and you 9:39 PM

Me: th used the term " badger" 9:39 PM

Me: I use the term " interrogate" 9:39 PM

[The Ex]: You make sure she is happy for her birthday. The only embarassing thing is that the State has to nake u take a temp of a sick child. 9:41 PM

Me: And as C&Y will explain to you AGAIN, [Daughter] is NOT being medically neglected you really can't diagnosis a child over the phone or without an MD license 9:41 PM

Me: And as C&Y will explain to you AGAIN, [Daughter] is NOT being medically neglected you really can't diagnosis a child over the phone or without an MD license 9:42 PM

Me: And lastly keep sending those packets using those keywords: it's building a solid case against you. You do realize that what you are doing is against the 9:44 PM

Me: law, right? Or maybe you don't either way, your actions will come back to bite you 9:44 PM

Me: The embarassing thing was her temperature. Hey Nurse [The ex] when did 98 become a fever or do you randomly take temperatures? 9:45 PM

Me: Also what part of [Daughter] saying I DO NOT have a fever constitute or translate in that mind of yours that she actually has a fever? Maybe you ought to list 9:47 PM

Me: en to what she says instead of listening to the paranoid voices in your head. 9:47 PM

Me: And no one had to "nake" me do anything [Daughter] was cuddled with me and fell asleep. It was clear she did not have a tempertature since she was so close t 9:53 PM

Me: o me. You do realize people actually emit heat when they have a fever or did you miss that in nursing school? 9:53 PM

Me to [The Ex]

3/10/11 7:53 PM 2 months ago

Inbox 

Me: [Daughter] came home early from school with a headache, if you can I suggest you call soon as she is already laying down 7:19 PM

[The Ex]: Pls fpllow up w her temp and meds u gave her on email. 7:53 PM

Me: Simple response is; no medication(s) and her headache (as she explained to you) is/has been gone 7:55 PM

[The Ex]

3/9/11 8:07 PM 2 months ago

[The Ex]: Called earlier. N was cheerleading. No call from you. Just tried again. No answer. Guess she is not home yet. I'm here. Pls call w [Daughter] when she gets in. Thx. 8:06 PM

Me: Just missed your call, please call back 8:07 PM

[The Ex]: Tnx. 8:07 PM

[The Ex]

3/8/11 9:06 PM 2 months ago

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[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] tonight. Anytime. 7:35 PM

[The Ex]: No call. And u do not answer. I tried a few times since before eight. Call w my girl. 8:19 PM

[The Ex]: I am concerned for my child. Call so she can talk to her Mom. I am waiting. 8:19 PM

[The Ex]: If you have problems w phone service then pleaser pay ur bills or ask me to provide a phone for [Daughter]. 8:20 PM

[The Ex]: The beeping sound you all say u hear on calls is an indicator on some phone plans that signals you to pay your phone bill. 8:21 PM

[The Ex]: All I need is a way to contact my girl until this is all fixed. 8:23 PM

[The Ex]: Do u even still have text? 8:25 PM

[The Ex]: Please call w my Little [Daughter]. 8:25 PM

Me: A. The beeping sound is your phone. [Daughter] nor does anyone in my household get that sound except during your calls. 9:00 PM

Me: You may want to check with whomever is paying your bills this month. 9:00 PM

[The Ex]: A call from my daughter? 9:01 PM

Me: C. If you are so concerned for my financial status, feel free to start paying of that judgement against you. It's accusing interest daily. 9:01 PM

[The Ex]: Pls call w m daughter. All else is harassing. Please cease 9:02 PM

Me: And lastly, I pay my bills. You haven't paid a bill since [Daughter]'s birth. Better check with your Father to ensure your phone bill was paid. 9:04 PM

Me: Answering your text is not harassing. 9:05 PM

[The Ex]: Fact is u are not addressing Ns lack of chance to call her Mom. 9:06 PM

Me: She is asleep and has been as it is a school night. I am just catching up to your barrage of texts as my phone was not charged. 9:07 PM

Me: Fact is she speaks with you 99% of the time and she didn't ask to call you this evening and my phone was dead. Thanks for being so understanding 9:15 PM

[The Ex]

3/2/11 7:30 PM 2 months ago

Inbox 

[The Ex]: pls call w [Daughter] today. 7:30 PM

Me: Just missed your call, please call back 7:30 PM

Text Messages: 02/2011

[The Ex] 2/23/11 7:14 AM 4 weeks ago

[The Ex]: pls call w [Daughter] today. 7:14 AM
Me: As usual, [Daughter] will speak to you this evening. 9:25 AM

[The Ex] 2/22/11 9:05 PM 4 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Pls cal bk. 7:28 PM
Me: [Daughter] said she was done. Good night. 7:32 PM

[The Ex] 2/28/11 7:32 PM 3 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Pls cal w [Daughter]. No call tonight. 9:05 PM
Me: it's 9pm and [Daughter] is asleep and in bed for well over 1/2 an hour! You called while our fax was working why did you not leave a message and/or call right back? 9:29 PM


[The Ex] 2/20/11 7:36 PM 4 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pls call bk. 7:36 PM


[The Ex] 2/18/11 8:05 AM 5 weeks ago
[The Ex]: No call. Please call w [Daughter]. 8:05 AM


[The Ex] 2/17/11 8:30 PM 5 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Waiting tried ur phone. No answer. 7:44 PM
[The Ex]: No call. Please call w [Daughter]. 8:06 PM
[The Ex]: I am very concerned. No call from [Daughter]. No answer on ur phone. 8:30 PM



[The Ex] 2/15/11 8:06 PM 5 weeks ago Inbox
[The Ex]: Yeah. Did call and no answer. But thanks. Got ur voicemail. 7:39 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. I got ur voicemail. Waiting for [Daughter]. 7:41 PM
[The Ex]: Still waiting. 8:06 PM
Me: I did not leave you a voicemail. 8:26 PM
Me: We wereout, glad she had a chance to talk to you 8:27 PM



Me to [The Ex] 2/15/11 8:11 AM 5 weeks ago
Me: We are in car line for school, feel free to call 8:11 AM

[The Ex] 2/14/11 6:47 PM 5 weeks ago 
[The Ex]: Pls call w my girl 6:37 PM
[The Ex]: Got ur voicemail. Tnx. 6:38 PM
Me: A Its MONDAY, what happens on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays? And has for the past three months?! 6:45 PM
[The Ex]: Pardon me? 6:46 PM
Me: B you mean you left a voicemail - I did not leave a voicemail for you. 6:46 PM
[The Ex]: Pls caL as she is avail. 6:47 PM
Me: C OUR, OUR, OUR daughter 6:47 PM
Me: D She is eating dinner. We did not go to cheerleading but she'll be there Wednesday and Friday-- as well as mon, weds and fri of next week. 6:48 PM
Me: and finally; you have ONE child can you not even be bothered to remember her schedule!? 6:51 PM



Me to [The Ex] 2/11/11 7:32 PM 6 weeks ago
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:32 PM



[The Ex] 2/10/11 9:43 PM 6 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Got ur voicemail. 8:01 PM
[The Ex]: No call. Pls call in AM before school. 9:43 PM
Me: Call before 8, we have other children who are in bed. 10:40 PM
Me: Will text if she has time for call before school 10:41 PM
Me: Text came in @ 9:43 10:41 PM


[The Ex] 2/8/11 6:48 PM 6 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] when she can call. . I am waiting. Tnx. 4:59 PM
Me: Saw you called. We were at her therapist, feel free to call. 6:47 PM
[The Ex]: Ok. Tnx. 6:48 PM

[The Ex] 2/7/11 6:25 PM 6 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Lost the call. I heard N at cheerleading. Pls have her call when she is back. Tnx. 5:47 PM
[The Ex]: Did u just call. Pls call if N is available to talk to Mom. Tnx. 5:47 PM
[The Ex]: Missed ur call. [Daughter] available? Kindly cal. Back. Lost connection. 5:52 PM
Me: Left you a voice message, kindly listen 5:53 PM
[The Ex]: [Daughter] left a voicemail? 6:03 PM
Me: My point exactly 6:06 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] when she can call. . I am waiting. Tnx. 6:25 PM
Me: Good time to call 7:21 PM

Me to [The Ex] 2/6/11 7:13 PM 6 weeks ago
Me: Supper is all done,perfect time to call 7:13 PM

[The Ex] 2/5/11 4:42 PM 7 weeks ago 
[The Ex]: Please call w [Daughter]. 9:35 AM
[The Ex]: Just called. Got ur voicemail. 9:36 AM
Me: Good time to call 9:57 AM
Me: just finished breakfast. 10:02 AM
[The Ex]: [Other State Friend] here to talk to [Daughter]. 4:42 PM


Me to [The Ex] 2/4/11 7:03 PM 7 weeks ago
 Me: Cheerleading practice will be running late again tonight will text after we are home 5:22 PM
[The Ex]: Just call anytime when done. Or call before. 5:24 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME. 7:02 PM
Me: Cheerleading practice will be running late again tonight will text after we are home 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM


[The Ex] 2/3/11 9:13 PM 7 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pl 7:43 PM
[The Ex]: No answer. Pls call w my girl. 8:05 PM
[The Ex]: No call. Again. Just call pls. Waiting. 8:22 PM
Me: Late night at cheerleading, [Daughter] is in bed. She will call you tomorrow. 9:13 PM

Me to [The Ex] 2/2/11 7:57 PM 7 weeks ago
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:09 PM
[The Ex]: No sound. Pllease call back 7:53 PM
Me: Busy, please call back, I assume [Daughter] still has telephone. 7:54 PM
Me: Busy, please call back, I assume [Daughter] still has telephone. 7:55 PM
[The Ex]: Got ur voicemail. Plsd call back. 7:56 PM
Me: Busy, please call back, I assume [Daughter] still has telephone. 7:57 PM

Me to [The Ex] 2/1/11 11:36 PM 7 weeks ago 
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:20 PM
Me: What would posess you to call at this hour? 11:34 PM
[The Ex]: Sorry. Pressed key to call accidentally when pluging in phone to charge. 11:36 PM

[Daughter]'s health insurance & information

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 2:03 PM
To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com Cc: [email]dad@[email].com
[Custodial Dad]: Please provide [Daughter]'s current and past health care information since March 2010.  I need it immediately to have her receive coverage from my plan and to set up the best complementary coverage for her needs. I need her eye health insurance and dental also. Please ensure all info is current and valid when you reply.  Please send documents as email attachments to this address. As you were fired from [past employer] in June 2009 the insurance cards I have on file from the medical offices in Penn are invalid to my best knowledge. Thank you. [The Ex]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>

Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 2:25 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Cc: [email]dad@[email].com

Your information is incorrect and I have addressed this issue many, many times. In addition, to obtain complementary coverage for [Daughter]'s policy not only do you NOT require her insurance information but any legitimate insurance  company would be able to do so on [Daughter]'s behalf.  As I have come to learn, my Aetna coverage has been the only coverage [Daughter] has ever had in her entire life.

I am curious to know why you are purchasing a family plan of insurance when you are "single" and with no dependents specifically when duplicate coverage from an out-of-state plan is not only redundant but unnecessary.  It just seems to me that you have money to throw around on lawyers, filings and proving a case but have no concern or care to help our daughter on a daily basis.

[Custodial Dad] & [Step Mom]

The [Last Name]s

([XXX]) [XXX] - 6052

If two stand shoulder to shoulder against the gods,

Happy together, the gods themselves are helpless

Against them while they stand so.

~Maxwell Anderson

Re: Summer / easter

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:30 PM
To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com, [email]@[email].com
No rsponse yet.   Please reply. From: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com; [email]@[email].com Sent: Mon, March 14, 2011 1:01:20 PM Subject: Summer / easter [Custodial Dad]: Please determine easter/. Summer 2011 schedule for [Daughter]'s time here in [other state]. Please send details via email. Thanks. [The Ex]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 2:27 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Cc: [email]@[email].com
Please see my previous responses to this very question. [Custodial Dad] & [Step Mom] The [Last Name]s ([XXX]) [XXX] - 6052 If two stand shoulder to shoulder against the gods, Happy together, the gods themselves are helpless Against them while they stand so. ~Maxwell Anderson

Summer / easter

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Mon, Mar 14, 2011 at 1:01 PM

To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com, [email]@[email].com

[Custodial Dad]:

Please determine easter/. Summer 2011 schedule for [Daughter]'s time here in [other state].

Please send details via email.

Thanks.

[The Ex]