[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Wed, Nov 24, 2010 at 11:08 AM
To: [last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
While I am pleased to get your perspective on [Daughter]'s life,
I am again concerned about your presumptions and hostility in the text.
However, you will have to prove in court - foreign concept?
I still have no details/update on Christmas, as court ordered.
The plane seats are fewer and the rates are higher.
Please advise. I'll be happy to pay the travel expences to see my child.
[The Ex]
From: [last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Tue, November 23, 2010 5:43:01 PM
Subject: November Update
[The Ex]:
Brief update on [Daughter]...
School: She is doing fantastic. Her report card reflects that. The exam results where I believe you saw that she did average in certain areas were not a reflection on [Daughter] or her grades. It was an online exam given to gauge her abilities but as Ms. [Teacher] commented, one of those exams had ambiguous questions and several of her classmates had issues as well. We had a wonderful conference with Ms. [Teacher] and Principal [Teacher], as I believe you did as well. As I am sure you have heard multiple times, [Daughter] is a cheerful, friendly and extraordinary girl. She loves school and gets along very well with her peers. With your weekly conference with Principal [Teacher] and/or Ms [Teacher], I believe you are better informed than I am.
Cheerleading: She loves cheerleading! She comes home and practices her cheers and some days she makes up her own cheers and songs. She was fitted for her uniform and sneakers but they haven't come in as yet. She hasn't gone to her first game either. I will send pictures of that when it happens. On that note, I forwarded you all the pictures that [Daughter] sent you and I see that you received them, glad I was able to help.
Medical: [Daughter] is healthy as can be. Her orthodontist treatment is going smoothly and she is responding better to treatment than he expected. As I am aware you are REGULARLY calling [Daughter]'s providers. It would behoove you to be kinder to them as they are professional and courteous to you. [Daughter] is enjoying her sessions with Dr. [home state Therapist] and she is back to her old self - Progress is progress!
Skype: We are logged in every Sunday however, unless we know definitively that you are going to be present, we do not mention it to [Daughter] since your connections and ability to Skype are so irregular. If you can Skype, just log in and make the call as we will be online at 7PM on Sundays.
Photos: Were you able to locate ANY photos of [Daughter] from 2005 - 2009? I'd really love to see photos and [Daughter] has been asking for [Step Mother] to create a scrapbook for her as she has done for all of [Daughter]'s siblings.
Holidays: She had a phenomenal Halloween. She dressed up for the school parade and she carved two pumpkins by herself (for her and her american girl doll.) She went trick or treating with her siblings and several friends. She dressed up as a vampire/empress/witch and [Step Mother] did her makeup and hair. (You received pictures of that in a pervious email.) She received so much candy that she is still eating pieces of it for dessert at night.
[Daughter] is very happy and looking forward to the holidays with her family and friends. She is excited to help prepare our Thanksgiving feast and decorating, what she believes to be, her first real tree. She is also looking forward to seeing the ornaments we purchased for her all the past years we didn't see her (she was so happy to see that despite what was said in the past, we always thought of her and had included her in our traditions/rituals.) She is more excited to choose her first ornament herself this year!
[last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
Wed, Nov 24, 2010 at 1:34 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>, [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
[The Ex];
Any perceived hostility is probably a direct response to your combative communication. Look at this email where again you imply that I didn't prove any of my allegations at trial (I assume), which was not and is not the case. You need not look further than the court order for a clear picture of what actually transpired despite what you may or may not believe in that mind of yours.
It is not for me to prove your insanity, as it is plainly evident to ALL those that have come into contact with you for any length of time, it is for you to prove that your obsessional, paranoid, delusional behavior is somehow sane or healthy for our daughter or that she is not being continually harmed by your actions and words. Your behavior has not stopped nor has it improved. In addition, your paranoia is, once again, spilling over and affecting [Daughter]. I would strongly suggest that you come up to [Home State] and see [Daughter] for the allotted christmas-time-share (which will give you more time with her.) I can not trust that you will not harm [Daughter] physically or mentally (again) in some way and/or that you have any intention of returning her to her home.
Please note, as stated in the [Other State] filing for modification, if you are willing to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, by a doctor that Larry agrees with PRIOR to Christmas, based on those results and your commitment to follow those specific recommendations, I would then be willing to fly [Daughter] to [Other State] for this Christmas-time-share. In addition, as is required by the court, I would then request the proof of the physical address in which [Daughter] would be spending her time, unlike what transpired this summer.
Otherwise, I am willing to pay for one half of your plane ticket to [Home State] for this Christmas and I will set up acceptable accommodations for [Daughter] to share time with you. I hope that you will make an effort to see [Daughter] instead of cutting off your nose to spite your face as those are the only to options available to you at this time.
[Custodial Dad]
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