[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Tue, Jan 11, 2011 at 8:24 AM
To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad];
Your 'facts' are incorrect and unverifiable.
In truth, the actual facts are verifaible.
Your 'update' contains accusations.
You seem to focus on speculations about me and my actions.
Please atrrange time for [Daughter] with me.
RE; Phone:
You do NOT even call me by simple telephone, as ordered- or as arranged by you. I have to call and HOPE for an answer from my child. Then she and I struggle to hear each other over the announcements of call recording on/off, the beeps and buzzes of the call recording you have in place. But we do it , as it is all we have of contact you allow.
Re: Skype:
Skype would be great, but I cannot rely on your internet working. Skype would be a daily option for [Daughter] with me and I would love for her to have that time with me. But, as we have experienced with you- the Skype video drops and then NO CALL back, so the contact is denied.
There was no call last night. I called at 7pm, then 730pm - due to cheerleading schedule - 'travel time' to get home delays call- I was told. But, you have a cell phone, no? Then I called before 9pm. YOu told us it was "10PM." I do not understand the distortions and lack of compliance.
So - please spare me the false 'offer' of skype.
(I will call now- to try to reach [Daughter] on the car line. --- The result: no answer- voicemail. No contact.)
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From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>;
[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex]
[last name] <[email]@[the Ex's school].edu>; [The Ex]
<[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, January 10, 2011 7:46:10 PM
Subject: December Update
[Daughter] is doing remarkable, she is happy, healthy and enjoying time with her family.
Her school work is fantastic, as you know as Principal [Teacher] speaks with you weekly.
She is doing well with her palate extender and has been relatively healthy, but again you already know through your frequent calls to her providers.
Cheerleading is going well, she has opted to finish out the season and choose something else in the fall.
FYI, you seem to have been confused - [Daughter] does
cheerleading [days]. She has sessions with her therapist on Tuesday but not every week. I know I emailed this to you and I know my wife had to explain this to you this evening but here it is again.
[Daughter] sent you pictures of her first snow day, some cheerleading photos and some every day stuff that she took pictures of. She received a camera for Christmas and she will be taking her own pictures to share with you.
She sent you a package of pictures, a broken necklace and some school work that was delivered on Friday but she says you haven't picked it up as yet. Please let me know if there is an issue using that address as I still have no idea where you may or may not be residing.
I know that [Daughter] keeps you well informed and that you are utilizing the contact information of all of her medical providers and teachers as provided to you.
Lastly, as always, if you can Skype, we are able to do so on Sundays.
Take Care;
[Custodial Dad]
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[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com> Tue, Jan 11, 2011 at 9:41 AM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>
I didn't "accuse" you of anything nor am I speculating.
I said it was almost 9PM and you muttered various digits to me and said "Oh" and hung up. I knew what time it was, I assumed that you did not.
My internet connection has never dropped however when you are on a known free internet connection (i.e. Panara Bread) for hours, they do disconnect you at periodic times to free up bandwidth. However, I will point out that you have not even been logged in in weeks or months or even years depending on the multitude of Skype addresses you have listed. May I suggest that instead of being offended and repulsed by the idea that you TRY?
Again, you seem to be the only person with issue with our telephone line. Perhaps, the issue is on your end? [Daughter] has not mentioned any issues with the calls except for your traveling and she can't hear you due to outside noises. For the last few weekends, you have been able to speak with [Daughter] between 30 minutes and an hour almost every night.
And lastly, we did miss your call last night as [Daughter] ate dinner and went straight to bed. This morning, as I texted you, we had a few minutes and you didn't call back.
My letter was to inform you but since you are taking it as confrontation or accusation, I will leave it as that. Shall I end these monthly updates?
[Custodial Dad]
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