No need for glasses? Re: Eye Glasses

[the ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Thu, Jun 23, 2011 at 6:36 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] and [StepMom] McCabe <[email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]: Where do you gain the authority to determine what an eye doctor determines for a child? Please furnish me ASAP with the medical docs  or provider of eye care that verifies your statements below. Certainly, all of your claims about Dr. Walter's statements -including the one below- is false. What is your problem with the child's need for glasses?  Do you really believe she has benefited from NOT wearing glasses prescribed?  I am happy to pay for the new eye exam and frames, etc at any time as [Daughter] has coverage. Please advise. From: [Custodial Dad] and [StepMom] McCabe <[email]@[email].com> To: [the ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [the ex] <@[email].edu>; [the ex] <@[email].com>; [the ex] <@[email].com>; [the ex] <@[email].com> Sent: Sat, June 18, 2011 8:08:31 PM Subject: Re: Eye Glasses > I will strongly remind you that I am solely responsible for [Daughter]'s medical care and although [Daughter] has had her eye glasses in her possession for a year now, she has NEVER needed to wear them as Principal [Teacher], [Daughter] and I have relayed to you.  As per the our opthamologist, [Daughter] has hopefully corrected the induced astigmatism caused by wearing bifocals and there is a very good chance that she will no longer need to wear glasses. >  > Additionally, as I have requested: a nine year old girl does not need make up and no daughter of mine will be wearing it, especially at such a young age, regardless of whether or not she is visiting with you.  You may NOT simply disregard my wants and requests when it comes to my daughter as teaching her to disrespect me or ignore the rules of HER household will only serve to reveal the kind of parent you are and will further damage the relationship YOU have with our daughter. >  > Thank you for your prompt attention to this matter. >  > [Custodial Dad]

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[Custodial Dad] and [StepMom] McCabe <[email]@[email].com>	Thu, Jun 23, 2011 at 7:27 PM
To: [the ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Clearly you have harassed our eye doctor to the point they have refused all contact with you. I can not seem to get through to you that [Daughter], herself is and has been the sole determining factor in whether or not she needed to use the glasses in her possession. And contrary to your statement, [Daughter] indeed has utilized her glasses as prescribed by her eye doctor.  When she is due for her eye exam, as with ALL of her medical visits, I will take her. Is that clear enough? Your last eye exam/visit caused DAMAGE to her eyes as no child wears bifocals unless there is something inherently wrong, which of course is and never was the issue.  [Quoted text hidden]