Re:[daughter]:)- Plan for vist to North :) & your request for information

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 
Tue, Aug 12, 2008 at 1:51 AM 
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> 

Hey, [Custodial Dad],
Great!
Will let you know.   Please look up fares and send a bank check ASAP to cover a round trip ticket for her in the next week or two.  We pay by credit card for a Jet Blue/ Delta/ USA3000 tickets.
Kindly,
[The Ex]


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From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Monday, August 11, 2008 9:21:28 AM
Subject: Re: [daughter]:)- Plan for vist to North :) & your request for information

[The Ex]
Just recieved your phone message in regards to [daughter] coming up before the start of school. The week of the 25th would be ideal but any time she can come up would be perfect.
[Custodial Dad]
On Sun, Aug 10, 2008 at 7:31 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
Glad you appreciated last week’s update. She is such a sweet child.  We are very blessed parents!
Please give me the reference to the [other  state] law/ statute to which you refer and I will gladly comply with my legal obligation.
I want us to come to a resolution of this discord. 
[daughter] and all the children deserve a peaceful relationship with all their parental figures.  It is good and healthy for us all.
Please let me know when you want to have [daughter] visit and I will gladly arrange for her to be up North
to have time with all of you. 
Presents for the children are prepared and waiting here in our [other state] home just for her bothers and sister. 
(please let me know if you are expecting or have another (re: your email of “5 children”).  We would like to have gifts for all of [daughter]’s siblings... it would be important to her, even if you are still expecting.   She grasps enutero life as real and would want to have a present waiting for her sibling’s arrival!)
So, please let me know of [daughter]’s siblings count at present, including expectations!  :) How delightful!
I will be glad to bring [daughter] to visit you all up North.  Just give me good days/ dates and times.
I will make sure it happens! :)
I respect your request to have [daughter] with her [last name] family.  It is important for [daughter] and thus for all of us.
Let us coordinate dates for [daughter] to come up North, and work to fulfill your request of having her in your home.
In summary:
Please send me dates/times for [daughter]’s visit to you all.
Please let us know how many “[daughter] 2007-2008 creations” we can bring as gifts.
Please send the [other  state] statute and law... or even a web site... I will comply with the responsibility to provide you with all the information you request. 
Please, no more lawyer to lawyer, costly processes.  I am not able to finance it. 
I am doing my best to provide for [daughter]’s needs.  I beg of you not to cost me money for information getting...
I respect the law... let me know what things I am required to share with you and the legal reference for me to read on-line/ in the courthouse library. 
This is a plea for alow cost process.  I will give you all the information which you are legally entitled to have for [daughter].
Give me a chance and my exact legal obligation/ responsibilities please. 
Thanks, [Custodial Dad].
I beg of you to try to work with me... it is not a fight.  I have taken care of our daughter, with your eyes and thick beautiful hair- and an Irish smile that melts your heart! 
Let us work through this kindly.
It is a long road ahead to continue to raise [daughter] and her sibblings.  Let’s make it all peaceful and joyful! :)
God Bless, on this bright Sunday morning.
I will have [daughter] call as soon as she requests/ agrees to speak with you all.
Enjoy your coffee.
Kindly,
[The Ex] [last name]
[XXX]. [XXX]. 4665


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From: [Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Friday, August 8, 2008 10:38:12 PM
Subject: Re: The Darling [daughter]:)



Thank you for addressing several questions I had but I assume you have no intention of allowing me the most fundamental knowledge of [daughter].  I will address this further with my attorney since you have no legal basis of restricting such information and it is in direct opposition of [other state] law.
Again, I would love if you would allow [daughter] to visit her siblings and I in [home state].  I have been requesting such visits since February and would be happy to secure [daughter] a plane ticket ASAP!

From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Date: Fri, Aug 8, 2008 at 8:47 AM
Subject: The Darling [daughter]:)
To: [Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>

Hi, [Custodial Dad].
[daughter]’s overall health is wonderful, thank goodness for us all.
She is so excited about attending first grade!
[daughter] is active in rollerblading, ice-skating lessons, and swimming lessons.
She is lovin care of babies born this summer and is “big Sissy” with pride.  We are very close with a number of secure and established families in town. 
[daughter] delights in participating in as a family friend/ sister/ “daughter” with teachers, classmates and neighbors’ socially- formally in extracurricular programs and informally in our homes. 
[daughter] is told each day that you all love her and want to be a part of her life.
I look forward to being more effective to move your contact forward with your “Perfect GirX”
I’m actively working on readily available options based on your assertions expressed in e-mails.
I am hopeful that you will visit her soon. 
Let me know what kind of arrangements you would like to make, [other  state], [home state], [THIRD STATE] - all are options for us at your request.
Kind regards to Mrs.[last name] and all your “[siblings]’s”!
God Bless.
[The Ex] [last name]




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From: [Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wednesday, August 6, 2008 8:18:50 AM
Subject: Re: Update on [daughter]:)


Thank you for the update!  I do have several questions...  
Where will she be attending first grade?  (Is she excited?) 
Doe she participate in any activities regularly?  You stated she was looking into ice skating and I believe Karate.  Does she take swim lessons?
Her love of chewing gum reminded me that [daughter] mentioned some dental problems—I also carry dental coverage for [daughter] through [dental company].
X


Please excuse spelling or grammatical errors
Sent from my iPhone
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com



From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Date: Tue, Aug 5, 2008 at 10:10 PM
Subject: Update on [daughter]:)
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Cc: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com

E-mail update on [daughter] [last name]- August 5th, 2008
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
Hope all is well.
[daughter] is delightfully enjoying all the joys of babies and toddlers in her life as many of our friends have had newborns and growing toddlers in the last year/ months.
She gets to hold babies and put them to bed and she just loves it all!
[daughter] defeated me terribly at air hokey- she is quite a player!
She is reading chapter books- prefers books on magical flower faries- of her own kind:)
She is preping for first grade with mastering time-telling, learning new vocabulary and writing complete sentences which she composes independently.
[daughter] loves to swim and she is now able to do handstands in the pool!
She wears her glitter shoes at any chance and enjoys rollerblading in full gear when not in “fancy shoes.”
Hanna Montana is still the favored pop star, for many her age!
Loves her classic pasta, broccoli and steak.  Sushi is well integrated into her diet and she loves the dining experience.
She delights in chewing gum and blowing bubbles!
[daughter] says that she is happy with her summer.  As always, she is active and healthy.
And I think we have an attorney in bloom when she speaks!  Must be genetic!
She is the best of both of us and all those around her.
Take care.
(Congrats !!!  on your new child, as I got a message from you that you are parenting 5(five) children.
Pardon me if I am incorrect.   Send pictures for [daughter]’s family album if I am correct!)
Kind Regards,
[The Ex] [last name]
([XXX]) [XXX]-4665


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From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Tuesday, August 5, 2008 10:59:50 AM
Subject: Re: Parenting Communication emails.

[The Ex],
Although, I have confirmation of your receipt of this email, I wanted to remind you that updates re: [daughter] can be sent at any time.  I am anxiously awaiting an update, at your earliest convenience of course.
Please tell [daughter] I love her as it has been quite a few days since she and I last spoke.
[Custodial Dad]


On Fri, Aug 1, 2008 at 4:28 PM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:

Hi, [Custodial Dad].
I will be happy to email you with updates on [daughter].
[The Ex]

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From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Cc: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
Sent: Wednesday, July 30, 2008 6:51:25 PM
Subject: [The Ex] [last name]’s Final request for Parenting IM Communication.

Hi, [Custodial Dad].

This is my final request for you to reconsider the 4-5:45AM window.

I have a very strict schedule dictated by single-parenting/ guiding [daughter]’s development, enrichment, care and my school responsibilities.

I am doing my best to set a schedule with you which will not change for a year as to ensure consistent parenting contact between us.

I respect your request of a co-parenting option.

Please, reconsider.  Wake up 20 minutes earlier one day in the week, please.

Email is not IM.  Weekly inquiries can be immediately responses on IM,
as it is instant message option, by definition. 

It is efficient and well utilized by many in our situation.

Thank you for your consideration.
Kindly,
[The Ex]


----- Original Message ----
From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wednesday, July 30, 2008 3:53:58 PM
Subject: Re: [Custodial Dad] [last name]’s response to [The Ex] [last name]’s Re-stated responses to satisfy [Custodial Dad] [last name]’s questions as he requires to authorize LCSW’s work with [daughter]

[The Ex];
Suffice to say that at this juncture, I am completely UNAVAILABLE.  I am uncomfortable givin you the intimate details of my schedule.  I wish for you to reconsider your own schedule at this time.  I have evening hours available that we can accomplish your requested IM session after [daughter] is in bed or my best suggestion; simply email me an update. Looking at today’s back and forth, I could have been updated three times over.  Since you will include what it is yo


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[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
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[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>  Tue, Aug 12, 2008 at 9:21 AM 
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Step Mother] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com> 
 [The Ex]

 when you have flights/times set I will re-imburse for [daughter] if this is an issue, please let me know your travel plans and I will then book a flight/seat/etc concurrent with your schedule
 X

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[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> 
Fri, Aug 15, 2008 at 7:24 AM 
To: [The Ex] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Step Mother] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com> 


 I know you received this already but here it is again, jut in case.  We are all very much looking forward to seeing [daughter]!

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Date: Tue, Aug 12, 2008 at 9:21 AM
Subject: Re: [daughter]:)- Plan for vist to North :) & your request for informatio
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