[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Wed, Dec 1, 2010 at 6:31 PM
To: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]:
I reside in [other state] -- you know-- in [Daughter]'s home. I will not travel to [home state] for obvious reasons. I will be here waiting for my child's flight information.
OR... Let me know the tiems and dates agreeable and I will book her airfare.
OK? Please. Please. Please. Let her come home for Christmas.
[The Ex]
From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Cc: "[email]@[email].com" <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wed, December 1, 2010 8:53:32 AM
Subject: Re: PLEASE, PLEASE PLEASE let [Daughter] come for Christmas
I do want [Daughter] to have the ability to visit with you for Christmas but it is my job to keep her safe and mentally/physically unharmed. By your past and current actions, I do not believe she will be safe with you.
I gave you two viable alternatives to ensure [Daughter] spends time with you. For [Daughter]'s sake, I hope you at the very least come visit her here OR to allow us all a chance to move forward, you get a psychological evaluation.
The ball is in your court as I am not budging on my requirements and I can assure you the court will agree.
[Custodial Dad]
On Dec 1, 2010, at 8:04 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
I am pleading with you to PLEASE let [Daughter] come for Chirstmas.
This has been her Home for 6 years.
It is important for her to be in her home and see her mother.
It's Christmas. Her friends are all waiting for her.
Please let her come home to [other state] for Christmas. Please.
I'm begging.
[The Ex]
[Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>
Wed, Dec 1, 2010 at 6:53 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
I gave you two viable alternatives to ensure [Daughter] spends time with you. For [Daughter]'s sake, I hope you at the very least come visit her here OR to allow us all a chance to move forward, you get a psychological evaluation.
I am unsure what "obvious reasons" prohibit you from traveling to [home state] but you still have another alternative (i.e. Psychological Evaluation.) Your actions are unhealthy and damaging to our daughter and I will not compromise to allow her to be further hurt by you.
And for the record, [Daughter]'s "home" is in [home state] as it was and as it will be. Which residence you currently reside in is left open for speculation.
[Custodial Dad]
On Dec 1, 2010, at 6:31 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
I reside in [other state] -- you know-- in [Daughter]'s home. I will not travel to [home state] for obvious reasons. I will be here waiting for my child's flight information.
OR... Let me know the tiems and dates agreeable and I will book her airfare.
OK? Please. Please. Please. Let her come home for Christmas.
[The Ex]
From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Cc: "[email]@[email].com" <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wed, December 1, 2010 8:53:32 AM
Subject: Re: PLEASE, PLEASE PLEASE let [Daughter] come for Christmas
I do want [Daughter] to have the ability to visit with you for Christmas but it is my job to keep her safe and mentally/physically unharmed. By your past and current actions, I do not believe she will be safe with you.
I gave you two viable alternatives to ensure [Daughter] spends time with you. For [Daughter]'s sake, I hope you at the very least come visit her here OR to allow us all a chance to move forward, you get a psychological evaluation.
The ball is in your court as I am not budging on my requirements and I can assure you the court will agree.
[Custodial Dad]
On Dec 1, 2010, at 8:04 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
I am pleading with you to PLEASE let [Daughter] come for Chirstmas.
This has been her Home for 6 years.
It is important for her to be in her home and see her mother.
It's Christmas. Her friends are all waiting for her.
Please let her come home to [other state] for Christmas. Please.
I'm begging.
[The Ex]
Wednesday
PLEASE, PLEASE PLEASE let [daughter] come for Christmas
[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Wed, Dec 1, 2010 at 8:04 AM
To: [email]@[email].com, [email]@[email].com
[Custodial Dad]:
I am pleading with you to PLEASE let [daughter] come for Chirstmas.
This has been her Home for 6 years.
It is important for her to be in her home and see her mother.
It's Christmas. Her friends are all waiting for her.
Please let her come home to [other state] for Christmas. Please.
I'm begging.
[The Ex]
________________________________________
[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
Wed, Dec 1, 2010 at 8:53 AM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Cc: "[email]@[email].com" <[email]@[email].com>
I do want [daughter] to have the ability to visit with you for Christmas but it is my job to keep her safe and mentally/physically unharmed. By your past and current actions, I do not believe she will be safe with you.
I gave you two viable alternatives to ensure [daughter] spends time with you. For [daughter]'s sake, I hope you at the very least come visit her here OR to allow us all a chance to move forward, you get a psychological evaluation.
The ball is in your court as I am not budging on my requirements and I can assure you the court will agree.
[Custodial Dad]
[Quoted text hidden]
Wed, Dec 1, 2010 at 8:04 AM
To: [email]@[email].com, [email]@[email].com
[Custodial Dad]:
I am pleading with you to PLEASE let [daughter] come for Chirstmas.
This has been her Home for 6 years.
It is important for her to be in her home and see her mother.
It's Christmas. Her friends are all waiting for her.
Please let her come home to [other state] for Christmas. Please.
I'm begging.
[The Ex]
________________________________________
[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
Wed, Dec 1, 2010 at 8:53 AM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Cc: "[email]@[email].com" <[email]@[email].com>
I do want [daughter] to have the ability to visit with you for Christmas but it is my job to keep her safe and mentally/physically unharmed. By your past and current actions, I do not believe she will be safe with you.
I gave you two viable alternatives to ensure [daughter] spends time with you. For [daughter]'s sake, I hope you at the very least come visit her here OR to allow us all a chance to move forward, you get a psychological evaluation.
The ball is in your court as I am not budging on my requirements and I can assure you the court will agree.
[Custodial Dad]
[Quoted text hidden]
nO CALL TONIGHT - per text record
[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 8:22 PM
To: [email]@[email].com
Again- [Custodial Dad]- you fail to comply with the court order.
"No call because [daughter] is out with friends at 8PM on a school night" per your text.
You can have her call when she returns- no matter the time- as I texted.
Also, I DO NOT understand lack of adherence to a court order.
It is interesting you would assume- interesting.
My phone is on and I await [daughter]'s call.
Please provide my phone number to any person with her so they may find a cell phone or pay- phone.
That is respect and compliance of the contact order.
Please make it happen.
[The Ex]
________________________________________
[last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 9:34 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[ex wife’s school].edu>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
You want me to give you the information of her friends so that you can look up their address, where they work and harass them too?
Please quote the entire message or at least use the correct context as that was not what was said.
[daughter] was out UNTIL 8PM and was sent to bed to get ready for school after the holiday.
Try being reasonable, it is rare that she misses a call.
Thanks.
[Quoted text hidden]
Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 8:22 PM
To: [email]@[email].com
Again- [Custodial Dad]- you fail to comply with the court order.
"No call because [daughter] is out with friends at 8PM on a school night" per your text.
You can have her call when she returns- no matter the time- as I texted.
Also, I DO NOT understand lack of adherence to a court order.
It is interesting you would assume- interesting.
My phone is on and I await [daughter]'s call.
Please provide my phone number to any person with her so they may find a cell phone or pay- phone.
That is respect and compliance of the contact order.
Please make it happen.
[The Ex]
________________________________________
[last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 9:34 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[ex wife’s school].edu>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
You want me to give you the information of her friends so that you can look up their address, where they work and harass them too?
Please quote the entire message or at least use the correct context as that was not what was said.
[daughter] was out UNTIL 8PM and was sent to bed to get ready for school after the holiday.
Try being reasonable, it is rare that she misses a call.
Thanks.
[Quoted text hidden]
The scales are tipped? Re: Clarify your Two Options for Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 6:52 PM
To: [last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]:
Weigh these: The COURT ORDER vs. your FILING.
Let me know th eplans for [daughter]'s Chrstmas here in [other state].
Thanks.
________________________________________
From: [last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Thu, November 25, 2010 9:50:23 PM
Subject: Re: Clarify your Two Options for Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
Cut/pasted and bolded for your convenience:
Please note, as stated in the [other state] filing for modification, if you are willing to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, by a doctor that [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] agrees with PRIOR to Christmas, based on those results and your commitment to follow those specific recommendations, I would then be willing to fly [daughter] to [other state] for this Christmas-time-share. In addition, as is required by the court, I would then request the proof of the physical address in which [daughter] would be spending her time, unlike what transpired this summer.
Otherwise, I am willing to pay for one half of your plane ticket to [home state] for this Christmas and I will set up acceptable accommodations for [daughter] to share time with you. I hope that you will make an effort to see [daughter] instead of cutting off your nose to spite your face as those are the only to options available to you at this time.
I am unsure how or why you failed to understand my statements.
[Custodial Dad]
On Thu, Nov 25, 2010 at 3:11 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
Please simplify [daughter]'s only two options for Christmas time- share.
I am unable to extract the conditions for time-share in your email below.
Thanks.
[The Ex]
________________________________________
From: [last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wed, November 24, 2010 1:34:26 PM
Subject: Re: Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
[The Ex];
Any perceived hostility is probably a direct response to your combative communication. Look at this email where again you imply that I didn't prove any of my allegations at trial (I assume), which was not and is not the case. You need not look further than the court order for a clear picture of what actually transpired despite what you may or may not believe in that mind of yours.
It is not for me to prove your insanity, as it is plainly evident to ALL those that have come into contact with you for any length of time, it is for you to prove that your obsessional, paranoid, delusional behavior is somehow sane or healthy for our daughter or that she is not being continually harmed by your actions and words. Your behavior has not stopped nor has it improved. In addition, your paranoia is, once again, spilling over and affecting [daughter]. I would strongly suggest that you come up to [home state] and see [daughter] for the allotted christmas-time-share (which will give you more time with her.) I can not trust that you will not harm [daughter] physically or mentally (again) in some way and/or that you have any intention of returning her to her home.
Please note, as stated in the [other state] filing for modification, if you are willing to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, by a doctor that [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] agrees with PRIOR to Christmas, based on those results and your commitment to follow those specific recommendations, I would then be willing to fly [daughter] to [other state] for this Christmas-time-share. In addition, as is required by the court, I would then request the proof of the physical address in which [daughter] would be spending her time, unlike what transpired this summer.
Otherwise, I am willing to pay for one half of your plane ticket to [home state] for this Christmas and I will set up acceptable accommodations for [daughter] to share time with you. I hope that you will make an effort to see [daughter] instead of cutting off your nose to spite your face as those are the only to options available to you at this time.
[Custodial Dad]
________________________________________
[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[email]@[email].com> Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 7:19 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [THE EX] [LAST NAME] <[email]@[email].com>, [email]@[ex wife’s school].edu, [email]@[email].com, chan[last name]@aol.com
Correct, your behavior has long tipped the scales and it is now my job to protect [daughter] from you and further phsyical and mental harm.
It is apparent that you have no interest in my offer to either GET A PSYCHOLOGICAL EVALUATION or VISIT [DAUGHTER] IN [HOME STATE] until you are ordered to undergo such an evaluation.
If you change your mind, let me know. [daughter], I am sure, would love to visit with you this Christmas.
Any further questions or clarifications, have your lawyer contact my lawyer.
Thanks.
PS Attached for your review:
It has come to my attention that you are, again, digging through my past in hopes to find something, I am unsure as to what. Trial is over and you are solidifying the fact that you will lose ALL contact with [daughter] by your unhealthy and crazy behavior.
Please know that all of your calls, faxes and "anonymous contacts" have been thoroughly documented by ALL parties and steps taken to ensure you are not privy to my personal information.
This is the EXACT behavior that concerns me - this is stalking behavior and is illegal. Your interest into my and my family's life is NOT about [daughter] but about some paranoid delusion to further your agenda. Clearly, this is not the first time your behavior has reached this escalation, you once sought help for this, I hope you do so again.
I am putting you on notice, this behavior will no longer be tolerated. I am taking steps to prohibit your insane behavior immediately.
Please do yourself a favor and get the help you so need.
[Custodial Dad]
[Quoted text hidden]
________________________________________
[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 8:02 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
PLEASE DO NOT SEND EMAILS TO MY PROFESSIONAL EMAIL ADDRESSES.
THANK YOU.
DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS MESSAGE.
________________________________________
From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 7:25:27 PM
Subject: Re: The scales are tipped? Re: Clarify your Two Options for Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
Correct, your behavior has long tipped the scales and it is now my job to protect [daughter] from you and further phsyical and mental harm.
It is apparent that you have no interest in my offer to either GET A PSYCHOLOGICAL EVALUATION or VISIT [DAUGHTER] IN [HOME STATE] until you are ordered to undergo such an evaluation.
If you change your mind, let me know. [daughter], I am sure, would love to visit with you this Christmas.
Any further questions or clarifications, have your lawyer contact my lawyer.
Thanks.
PS Attached for your review:
It has come to my attention that you are, again, digging through my past in hopes to find something, I am unsure as to what. Trial is over and you are solidifying the fact that you will lose ALL contact with [daughter] by your unhealthy and crazy behavior.
Please know that all of your calls, faxes and "anonymous contacts" have been thoroughly documented by ALL parties and steps taken to ensure you are not privy to my personal information.
This is the EXACT behavior that concerns me - this is stalking behavior and is illegal. Your interest into my and my family's life is NOT about [daughter] but about some paranoid delusion to further your agenda. Clearly, this is not the first time your behavior has reached this escalation, you once sought help for this, I hope you do so again.
I am putting you on notice, this behavior will no longer be tolerated. I am taking steps to prohibit your insane behavior immediately.
Please do yourself a favor and get the help you so need.
[Custodial Dad]
[Quoted text hidden]
--
[Custodial Dad] L. [last name]
[XXX]-[XXX]-0185
~ “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.” Harry S Truman ~
________________________________________
[last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com> Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 9:37 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[ex wife’s school].edu>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
Glad you received the message. Read the message in its entirety.
Which is the address administered by the company of your employ?
Thanks.
[Quoted text hidden]
Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 6:52 PM
To: [last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]:
Weigh these: The COURT ORDER vs. your FILING.
Let me know th eplans for [daughter]'s Chrstmas here in [other state].
Thanks.
________________________________________
From: [last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Thu, November 25, 2010 9:50:23 PM
Subject: Re: Clarify your Two Options for Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
Cut/pasted and bolded for your convenience:
Please note, as stated in the [other state] filing for modification, if you are willing to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, by a doctor that [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] agrees with PRIOR to Christmas, based on those results and your commitment to follow those specific recommendations, I would then be willing to fly [daughter] to [other state] for this Christmas-time-share. In addition, as is required by the court, I would then request the proof of the physical address in which [daughter] would be spending her time, unlike what transpired this summer.
Otherwise, I am willing to pay for one half of your plane ticket to [home state] for this Christmas and I will set up acceptable accommodations for [daughter] to share time with you. I hope that you will make an effort to see [daughter] instead of cutting off your nose to spite your face as those are the only to options available to you at this time.
I am unsure how or why you failed to understand my statements.
[Custodial Dad]
On Thu, Nov 25, 2010 at 3:11 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
Please simplify [daughter]'s only two options for Christmas time- share.
I am unable to extract the conditions for time-share in your email below.
Thanks.
[The Ex]
________________________________________
From: [last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wed, November 24, 2010 1:34:26 PM
Subject: Re: Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
[The Ex];
Any perceived hostility is probably a direct response to your combative communication. Look at this email where again you imply that I didn't prove any of my allegations at trial (I assume), which was not and is not the case. You need not look further than the court order for a clear picture of what actually transpired despite what you may or may not believe in that mind of yours.
It is not for me to prove your insanity, as it is plainly evident to ALL those that have come into contact with you for any length of time, it is for you to prove that your obsessional, paranoid, delusional behavior is somehow sane or healthy for our daughter or that she is not being continually harmed by your actions and words. Your behavior has not stopped nor has it improved. In addition, your paranoia is, once again, spilling over and affecting [daughter]. I would strongly suggest that you come up to [home state] and see [daughter] for the allotted christmas-time-share (which will give you more time with her.) I can not trust that you will not harm [daughter] physically or mentally (again) in some way and/or that you have any intention of returning her to her home.
Please note, as stated in the [other state] filing for modification, if you are willing to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, by a doctor that [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] agrees with PRIOR to Christmas, based on those results and your commitment to follow those specific recommendations, I would then be willing to fly [daughter] to [other state] for this Christmas-time-share. In addition, as is required by the court, I would then request the proof of the physical address in which [daughter] would be spending her time, unlike what transpired this summer.
Otherwise, I am willing to pay for one half of your plane ticket to [home state] for this Christmas and I will set up acceptable accommodations for [daughter] to share time with you. I hope that you will make an effort to see [daughter] instead of cutting off your nose to spite your face as those are the only to options available to you at this time.
[Custodial Dad]
________________________________________
[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[email]@[email].com> Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 7:19 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [THE EX] [LAST NAME] <[email]@[email].com>, [email]@[ex wife’s school].edu, [email]@[email].com, chan[last name]@aol.com
Correct, your behavior has long tipped the scales and it is now my job to protect [daughter] from you and further phsyical and mental harm.
It is apparent that you have no interest in my offer to either GET A PSYCHOLOGICAL EVALUATION or VISIT [DAUGHTER] IN [HOME STATE] until you are ordered to undergo such an evaluation.
If you change your mind, let me know. [daughter], I am sure, would love to visit with you this Christmas.
Any further questions or clarifications, have your lawyer contact my lawyer.
Thanks.
PS Attached for your review:
It has come to my attention that you are, again, digging through my past in hopes to find something, I am unsure as to what. Trial is over and you are solidifying the fact that you will lose ALL contact with [daughter] by your unhealthy and crazy behavior.
Please know that all of your calls, faxes and "anonymous contacts" have been thoroughly documented by ALL parties and steps taken to ensure you are not privy to my personal information.
This is the EXACT behavior that concerns me - this is stalking behavior and is illegal. Your interest into my and my family's life is NOT about [daughter] but about some paranoid delusion to further your agenda. Clearly, this is not the first time your behavior has reached this escalation, you once sought help for this, I hope you do so again.
I am putting you on notice, this behavior will no longer be tolerated. I am taking steps to prohibit your insane behavior immediately.
Please do yourself a favor and get the help you so need.
[Custodial Dad]
[Quoted text hidden]
________________________________________
[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 8:02 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
PLEASE DO NOT SEND EMAILS TO MY PROFESSIONAL EMAIL ADDRESSES.
THANK YOU.
DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS MESSAGE.
________________________________________
From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 7:25:27 PM
Subject: Re: The scales are tipped? Re: Clarify your Two Options for Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
Correct, your behavior has long tipped the scales and it is now my job to protect [daughter] from you and further phsyical and mental harm.
It is apparent that you have no interest in my offer to either GET A PSYCHOLOGICAL EVALUATION or VISIT [DAUGHTER] IN [HOME STATE] until you are ordered to undergo such an evaluation.
If you change your mind, let me know. [daughter], I am sure, would love to visit with you this Christmas.
Any further questions or clarifications, have your lawyer contact my lawyer.
Thanks.
PS Attached for your review:
It has come to my attention that you are, again, digging through my past in hopes to find something, I am unsure as to what. Trial is over and you are solidifying the fact that you will lose ALL contact with [daughter] by your unhealthy and crazy behavior.
Please know that all of your calls, faxes and "anonymous contacts" have been thoroughly documented by ALL parties and steps taken to ensure you are not privy to my personal information.
This is the EXACT behavior that concerns me - this is stalking behavior and is illegal. Your interest into my and my family's life is NOT about [daughter] but about some paranoid delusion to further your agenda. Clearly, this is not the first time your behavior has reached this escalation, you once sought help for this, I hope you do so again.
I am putting you on notice, this behavior will no longer be tolerated. I am taking steps to prohibit your insane behavior immediately.
Please do yourself a favor and get the help you so need.
[Custodial Dad]
[Quoted text hidden]
--
[Custodial Dad] L. [last name]
[XXX]-[XXX]-0185
~ “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.” Harry S Truman ~
________________________________________
[last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com> Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 9:37 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[ex wife’s school].edu>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
Glad you received the message. Read the message in its entirety.
Which is the address administered by the company of your employ?
Thanks.
[Quoted text hidden]
Clarify your Two Options for Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
[The Ex]<[email]@[email].com>
Thu, Nov 25, 2010 at 3:11 PM
To: <[email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]:
Please simplify [daughter]'s only two options for Christmas time- share.
I am unable to extract the conditions for time-share in your email below.
Thanks.
[The Ex]
_____________________________________
From: [last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wed, November 24, 2010 1:34:26 PM
Subject: Re: Christmas and Concerns Re:November Update
[The Ex];
Any perceived hostility is probably a direct response to your combative communication. Look at this email where again you imply that I didn't prove any of my allegations at trial (I assume), which was not and is not the case. You need not look further than the court order for a clear picture of what actually transpired despite what you may or may not believe in that mind of yours.
It is not for me to prove your insanity, as it is plainly evident to ALL those that have come into contact with you for any length of time, it is for you to prove that your obsessional, paranoid, delusional behavior is somehow sane or healthy for our daughter or that she is not being continually harmed by your actions and words. Your behavior has not stopped nor has it improved. In addition, your paranoia is, once again, spilling over and affecting [daughter]. I would strongly suggest that you come up to [home state] and see [daughter] for the allotted christmas-time-share (which will give you more time with her.) I can not trust that you will not harm [daughter] physically or mentally (again) in some way and/or that you have any intention of returning her to her home.
Please note, as stated in the [other state] filing for modification, if you are willing to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, by a doctor that [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] agrees with PRIOR to Christmas,based on those results and your commitment to follow those specific
recommendations, I would then be willing to fly [daughter] to [other state] for this Christmas-time-share. In addition, as is required by the court, I would then request the proof of the physical address in which[daughter] would be spending her time, unlike what transpired this summer.
Otherwise, I am willing to pay for one half of your plane ticket to [home state] for this Christmas and I will set up acceptable accommodations for [daughter] to share time with you. I hope that you will make an effort to see [daughter] instead of cutting off your nose to spite your face as those are the only to options available to you at this time.
[Custodial Dad]
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[last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com>
Thu, Nov 25, 2010 at 9:50 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]<[email]@[email].com>, [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
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Please note, as stated in the [other state] filing for modification, if you are willing to
undergo a psychiatric evaluation, by a doctor that [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] agrees with PRIOR to Christmas, based on those results and your commitment to follow those specific recommendations, I would then be willing to fly [daughter] to [other state] for this Christmas-time-share. In addition, as is required by the court, I would then request the proof of the physical address in which [daughter] would be spending her time, unlike what transpired this summer.
Otherwise, I am willing to pay for one half of your plane ticket to [home state] for this Christmas and I will set up acceptable accommodations for [daughter] to share time with you. I hope that you will make an effort to see [daughter] instead of cutting off your nose to spite your face as those are the only to options available to you at this time.
I am unsure how or why you failed to understand my statements.
[Custodial Dad]
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[last name] & [last name]s <[email]@[email].com> Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 11:40 AM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[ex wife’s school].edu>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[email]@[email].com>
It has come to my attention that you are, again, digging through my past in hopes to find something, I am unsure as to what. Trial is over and you are solidifying the fact that you will lose ALL contact with [daughter] by your unhealthy and crazy behavior.
Please know that all of your calls, faxes and "anonymous contacts" have been thoroughly documented by ALL parties and steps taken to ensure you are not privy to my personal information.
This is the EXACT behavior that concerns me - this is stalking behavior and is illegal. Your interest into my and my family's life is NOT about [daughter] but about some paranoid delusion to further your agenda. Clearly, this is not the first time your behavior has reached this escalation, you once sought help for this, I hope you do so again.
I am putting you on notice, this behavior will no longer be tolerated. I am taking steps to prohibit your insane behavior immediately.
Please do yourself a favor and get the help you so need.
[Custodial Dad]
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