[daughter] for January 2011 time-share- Mom's request

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[The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Thu, Dec 30, 2010 at 6:35 PM
To: the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com
Cc: [Custodial Dad]@[email].com

[Custodial Dad]:

Request: Please let me know if I can have [daughter] for the first week of school, as you determine dates and times.
Time:  I can keep her throughout the first weekend after school resumes, returning her to school on Monday, for you to resume your pick up on Monday afterschool.
Written Verification: Please provide written authorizations to the school and to me- as notarized letters to confirm these arrangements- as you decide the details.

I have accomodations in [home  state] and I can transport her to and from school for the week.
Please understand that her time with Mom is important for her.
I will carry all her expences, including all meals and accomodations for her for the week- in full- no costs to you.

Thanks for your consideration.
[The Ex]


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[Custodial Dad] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
Thu, Dec 30, 2010 at 7:28 PM
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>

ANSWER: No, I find your behavior and actions to be a DANGER to [daughter].  At one point you tell me I am redundant and alternatively, you are asking for clarification. Location does not change my fear for [daughter]'s safety...

TIME: If you would like to see [daughter], outside of the time I am sure you are planning to see her in school, I will happily make accommodations to allow you the opportunity to see you, with supervision as is spelled out in the motion and in the emails and letters written to you.

REQUEST: Please make time to see Dr. [home state therapist] while you are here, I am sure with ample time, he can make arrangements to meet with you at a SCHEDULED appointment with or without [daughter]. If you arrange a time with him specifically, I will ensure that our daughter can be available.

COUNTER OFFER: Again, if you can afford a flight and accommodations in [HOME  STATE], I would suggest you use your resources to find an acceptable psychologist to evaluate your mental stability. Upon that evaluation and your acceptance of any or all of those recommendations, my requirements are sure to change or not, as the situation/recommendations warrants. If you would prefer to do it up here, I can provide you a doctor or possibly two that does the evaluations in [HOME  STATE] that are court appointed/approved. I believe even Dr. [home state therapist] can point to a psychologist who is able to do an evaluation.

QUALIFICATION: Lastly, your demands of police escorts/police station exchanges and notarized statements are absurd.  I have no intentions of indulging your paranoid behavior. The school is aware of the requirements as they have not only dealt with you in the past but have a copy of the FULL order on file.

INFORMATIONAL REQUEST: And as a PS.  Where are you residing these days? This concerns me as it is clear you have no 'roots' in any particular locale and are, again, trying to remain off the grid for some particular reason.

[Custodial Dad]
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