Mom asks: What permits Father's authority to act? Re: Father denies make-up time for non-compliance with Christmas time share order Re: Reasons for Denail of Christmas for [daughter]? - Mom's inquiry

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[The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Mon, Jan 3, 2011 at 7:45 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>


[Custodial Dad]:
What are your newfound credentials to make these statements?
What do you believe qualifies you to determine any other person's mental health?
What gives you such authority to 'prescribe' a mental health evaluation for anyone?
What basis do you have to determine the 'abuse' allegations you made in these emailed messages over the months regarding my care of my daughter?
What allows you to defy the court order- all on your own decision?
What makes you believe you have such authority to refuse to comply with a COURT order from a JUDGE?

Please, share on your thought processes and your facts.
I am very curious to read your response.
[The Ex]



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From: [Custodial Dad] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Sent: Fri, December 31, 2010 5:27:21 PM
Subject: Re: Father denies make-up time for non-compliance with Christmas time share order Re: Reasons for Denail of Christmas for [daughter]? - Mom's inquiry

I have done nothing BUT cooperate.  And your refusal to compromise is based on ...?? ... These are the crossroads we are at and have been since her birth.

What is apparent is that you will not even entertain the idea to seek a SIMPLE evaluation and/or the help you so desperately need (again.)

[daughter] needs you in her life, but she needs you mentally healthy and whole. I will not put [daughter]'s safety at risk as she still bears the PHYSICAL and EMOTIONAL scars from her last visit with you.

I have given you viable alternatives.  We can move forward but as I said, the ball is in your court.  If you do not want to get an evaluation, I have offered to host time-share outside of school at a PUBLIC location while you are in the area.

And I have suggested that you take the time to visit with [daughter]'s therapist at a SCHEDULED appointment time (please do not barge in on him unannounced) so that he can better aid OUR daughter in her adjustment, and maybe a professional can point out the damage that you are doing to OUR daughter... whether unintentional or not.

I am trying my best to be clear with you.  Please read the words that are written and do not assume what it is you THINK I mean.
On Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 3:53 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
Again, I see your answer is "NO."
It is clear you will not cooperate for [daughter] to have time with her Mom.
[The Ex]

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From: [Last name] & [Last name]s <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Cc: [Custodial Dad]@[email].com
Sent: Thu, December 30, 2010 6:51:36 PM
Subject: Re: Reasons for Denail of Christmas for [daughter]? - Mom's inquiry

I did email you several times and in detail.  You emailed me with the subject line
"Restated request to cease eamils [sic] on Father's "position"
What specifically are you asking for at this juncture?  I am certain your inbox will be able to answer any and all questions you may have on my "position."  Further, the motion that my attorney had filed was explained in detail to your latest two attorneys, they may be able to better clarify any ambiguities.
[Custodial Dad]

On Thu, Dec 30, 2010 at 6:38 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
 Please detail your reasons for denial of Christmas for [daughter] with her mother.

The house awaits her with Christmas still alive here.

Care to arrange the next long weekend per school schedule for me to fly her to her [other state] home for a belated Christmas?

I am prepared to have my daughter at any time.

This time is seperate from any time I request in the months to come.
Thanks.
[The Ex]
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[Custodial Dad]
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~  “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.”    Harry S Truman  ~


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[Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
Mon, Jan 3, 2011 at 8:22 PM
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>


I am not the only one questioning your sanity, in actuality the general consensus is in agreement with me.

Your diagnosis is not new, as you and I both know as you did leave many records in my possession.

You tell me me I'm being redundant but you ask the same questions and I give you the same answers. You do know what the "definition of insanity is," right?

And lastly, where are you residing? Where do you say [daughter] spent her time in [other state]? How often do you call per day? Do you schedule visitation with [daughter] directly? Do you have your family scheduling visits with [daughter]? Are you still bad-mouthing me and her family? What precisely have you said to Principal [teacher] and [daughter]'s medical/dental providers or children & youth or the police? Have you scheduled any time with our daughters therapist?  Do you answer any questions directly posed to you?

My statements are well documented and with the proper authorities.

Have a good night.
[Custodial Dad]
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[The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Tue, Jan 4, 2011 at 10:06 AM
To: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>


"General consensus"?

I knew your response would be interesting.
Thanks.
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From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, January 3, 2011 8:22:16 PM
Subject: Re: Mom asks: What permits Father's authority to act? Re: Father denies make-up time for non-compliance with Christmas time share order Re: Reasons for Denail of Christmas for [daughter]? - Mom's inquiry

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[Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
Tue, Jan 4, 2011 at 10:23 AM
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>


Need me to define general consensus or will google suffice?

Care to address the questions asked or will you choose to dodge and evade as usual? Where are you squatting these days?
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