Text Messages: 02/2011

[The Ex] 2/23/11 7:14 AM 4 weeks ago

[The Ex]: pls call w [Daughter] today. 7:14 AM
Me: As usual, [Daughter] will speak to you this evening. 9:25 AM

[The Ex] 2/22/11 9:05 PM 4 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Pls cal bk. 7:28 PM
Me: [Daughter] said she was done. Good night. 7:32 PM

[The Ex] 2/28/11 7:32 PM 3 weeks ago

[The Ex]: Pls cal w [Daughter]. No call tonight. 9:05 PM
Me: it's 9pm and [Daughter] is asleep and in bed for well over 1/2 an hour! You called while our fax was working why did you not leave a message and/or call right back? 9:29 PM


[The Ex] 2/20/11 7:36 PM 4 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pls call bk. 7:36 PM


[The Ex] 2/18/11 8:05 AM 5 weeks ago
[The Ex]: No call. Please call w [Daughter]. 8:05 AM


[The Ex] 2/17/11 8:30 PM 5 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Waiting tried ur phone. No answer. 7:44 PM
[The Ex]: No call. Please call w [Daughter]. 8:06 PM
[The Ex]: I am very concerned. No call from [Daughter]. No answer on ur phone. 8:30 PM



[The Ex] 2/15/11 8:06 PM 5 weeks ago Inbox
[The Ex]: Yeah. Did call and no answer. But thanks. Got ur voicemail. 7:39 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. I got ur voicemail. Waiting for [Daughter]. 7:41 PM
[The Ex]: Still waiting. 8:06 PM
Me: I did not leave you a voicemail. 8:26 PM
Me: We wereout, glad she had a chance to talk to you 8:27 PM



Me to [The Ex] 2/15/11 8:11 AM 5 weeks ago
Me: We are in car line for school, feel free to call 8:11 AM

[The Ex] 2/14/11 6:47 PM 5 weeks ago 
[The Ex]: Pls call w my girl 6:37 PM
[The Ex]: Got ur voicemail. Tnx. 6:38 PM
Me: A Its MONDAY, what happens on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays? And has for the past three months?! 6:45 PM
[The Ex]: Pardon me? 6:46 PM
Me: B you mean you left a voicemail - I did not leave a voicemail for you. 6:46 PM
[The Ex]: Pls caL as she is avail. 6:47 PM
Me: C OUR, OUR, OUR daughter 6:47 PM
Me: D She is eating dinner. We did not go to cheerleading but she'll be there Wednesday and Friday-- as well as mon, weds and fri of next week. 6:48 PM
Me: and finally; you have ONE child can you not even be bothered to remember her schedule!? 6:51 PM



Me to [The Ex] 2/11/11 7:32 PM 6 weeks ago
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:32 PM



[The Ex] 2/10/11 9:43 PM 6 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Got ur voicemail. 8:01 PM
[The Ex]: No call. Pls call in AM before school. 9:43 PM
Me: Call before 8, we have other children who are in bed. 10:40 PM
Me: Will text if she has time for call before school 10:41 PM
Me: Text came in @ 9:43 10:41 PM


[The Ex] 2/8/11 6:48 PM 6 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] when she can call. . I am waiting. Tnx. 4:59 PM
Me: Saw you called. We were at her therapist, feel free to call. 6:47 PM
[The Ex]: Ok. Tnx. 6:48 PM

[The Ex] 2/7/11 6:25 PM 6 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Lost the call. I heard N at cheerleading. Pls have her call when she is back. Tnx. 5:47 PM
[The Ex]: Did u just call. Pls call if N is available to talk to Mom. Tnx. 5:47 PM
[The Ex]: Missed ur call. [Daughter] available? Kindly cal. Back. Lost connection. 5:52 PM
Me: Left you a voice message, kindly listen 5:53 PM
[The Ex]: [Daughter] left a voicemail? 6:03 PM
Me: My point exactly 6:06 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] when she can call. . I am waiting. Tnx. 6:25 PM
Me: Good time to call 7:21 PM

Me to [The Ex] 2/6/11 7:13 PM 6 weeks ago
Me: Supper is all done,perfect time to call 7:13 PM

[The Ex] 2/5/11 4:42 PM 7 weeks ago 
[The Ex]: Please call w [Daughter]. 9:35 AM
[The Ex]: Just called. Got ur voicemail. 9:36 AM
Me: Good time to call 9:57 AM
Me: just finished breakfast. 10:02 AM
[The Ex]: [Other State Friend] here to talk to [Daughter]. 4:42 PM


Me to [The Ex] 2/4/11 7:03 PM 7 weeks ago
 Me: Cheerleading practice will be running late again tonight will text after we are home 5:22 PM
[The Ex]: Just call anytime when done. Or call before. 5:24 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME. 7:02 PM
Me: Cheerleading practice will be running late again tonight will text after we are home 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM
Me: [Daughter] has CHEERLEADING... its going to be a LATE NIGHT AGAIN. She will call AFTER SHE GETS HOME 7:03 PM


[The Ex] 2/3/11 9:13 PM 7 weeks ago
[The Ex]: Pl 7:43 PM
[The Ex]: No answer. Pls call w my girl. 8:05 PM
[The Ex]: No call. Again. Just call pls. Waiting. 8:22 PM
Me: Late night at cheerleading, [Daughter] is in bed. She will call you tomorrow. 9:13 PM

Me to [The Ex] 2/2/11 7:57 PM 7 weeks ago
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:09 PM
[The Ex]: No sound. Pllease call back 7:53 PM
Me: Busy, please call back, I assume [Daughter] still has telephone. 7:54 PM
Me: Busy, please call back, I assume [Daughter] still has telephone. 7:55 PM
[The Ex]: Got ur voicemail. Plsd call back. 7:56 PM
Me: Busy, please call back, I assume [Daughter] still has telephone. 7:57 PM

Me to [The Ex] 2/1/11 11:36 PM 7 weeks ago 
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:20 PM
Me: What would posess you to call at this hour? 11:34 PM
[The Ex]: Sorry. Pressed key to call accidentally when pluging in phone to charge. 11:36 PM

[Daughter]'s health insurance & information

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 2:03 PM
To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com Cc: [email]dad@[email].com
[Custodial Dad]: Please provide [Daughter]'s current and past health care information since March 2010.  I need it immediately to have her receive coverage from my plan and to set up the best complementary coverage for her needs. I need her eye health insurance and dental also. Please ensure all info is current and valid when you reply.  Please send documents as email attachments to this address. As you were fired from [past employer] in June 2009 the insurance cards I have on file from the medical offices in Penn are invalid to my best knowledge. Thank you. [The Ex]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>

Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 2:25 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Cc: [email]dad@[email].com

Your information is incorrect and I have addressed this issue many, many times. In addition, to obtain complementary coverage for [Daughter]'s policy not only do you NOT require her insurance information but any legitimate insurance  company would be able to do so on [Daughter]'s behalf.  As I have come to learn, my Aetna coverage has been the only coverage [Daughter] has ever had in her entire life.

I am curious to know why you are purchasing a family plan of insurance when you are "single" and with no dependents specifically when duplicate coverage from an out-of-state plan is not only redundant but unnecessary.  It just seems to me that you have money to throw around on lawyers, filings and proving a case but have no concern or care to help our daughter on a daily basis.

[Custodial Dad] & [Step Mom]

The [Last Name]s

([XXX]) [XXX] - 6052

If two stand shoulder to shoulder against the gods,

Happy together, the gods themselves are helpless

Against them while they stand so.

~Maxwell Anderson

Re: Summer / easter

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:30 PM
To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com, [email]@[email].com
No rsponse yet.   Please reply. From: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com; [email]@[email].com Sent: Mon, March 14, 2011 1:01:20 PM Subject: Summer / easter [Custodial Dad]: Please determine easter/. Summer 2011 schedule for [Daughter]'s time here in [other state]. Please send details via email. Thanks. [The Ex]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 2:27 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Cc: [email]@[email].com
Please see my previous responses to this very question. [Custodial Dad] & [Step Mom] The [Last Name]s ([XXX]) [XXX] - 6052 If two stand shoulder to shoulder against the gods, Happy together, the gods themselves are helpless Against them while they stand so. ~Maxwell Anderson

Summer / easter

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Mon, Mar 14, 2011 at 1:01 PM

To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com, [email]@[email].com

[Custodial Dad]:

Please determine easter/. Summer 2011 schedule for [Daughter]'s time here in [other state].

Please send details via email.

Thanks.

[The Ex]

Noted: Refusal to disclose Child Welfare Issue Re: Concerned Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 8:41 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
Noted: [Last Name]'s Refusal to disclose Child Welfare Issue [Last Name] Admitted "visit" today.:  From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>; va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu; [The Ex]@[email].com Sent: Fri, February 18, 2011 7:30:08 PM Subject: Re: Concerned Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011 You are simply ridiculous...  On Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 5:25 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: Why does the Child welfare group keep coming to your house?  Do you have a contact person at that department? Will you please inform me.  I am very concerned.  You have mentioned this a few times already. What is the issue? Please call or pick up the phone tonight for [Daughter] to talk to me.  It is court ordered. [The Ex] From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>; [The Ex]@[email].com; [Grandpa]@[email].com Sent: Fri, February 18, 2011 1:57:19 PM Subject: Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011 So sorry [Daughter] did not return your call(s) last night, but she was out with her girlfriends for a special cheer leading practice, I am sure [Daughter] told you this schedule change but perhaps (being 8) she did forget. I also informed Children and Youth as they stopped by at your behest (again.) Thank you so much. [Custodial Dad] On Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 6:49 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: NO calls for [Daughter]. I reach your voicemail when I call. No call last night- no text- nothing. I am very concerned with this lack of contact for my daughter. How do you explain to [Daughter] why she has no time with her Mom? Please detail - with facts- the reasons for keeping her away from her Mom. How do your think she feels? What will the court say about your actons? Please allocate days for her to be with me and I will fly her down.  I will pay for all expenses.  Easter is a good time to make up for your refusal to allow [Daughter] time for Christmas. At the very least of my interests is your email below:  If it were true, you could have written:  "Here IS some of her current school work." But, neither your grammar nor your statement is correct. From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 10:53:29 AM Subject: Re: January 2011 Some attachments did not connect. Here is the actual report card. On Sat, Feb 5, 2011 at 10:49 AM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Attached is [Daughter]'s current report card.  You may request a parent/teacher conference via telephone through her teacher. You said that [Daughter] did not send you work or there was some other issue with getting it.  Here are some of her current school work.   You can also request to have the school send you reports, work and other notices directly. She does make you artwork and will continue to send that to you directly, as she requested to continue to do so. She has her first cheer competition Sunday.  She's very excited.   Cheer Pictures are coming up... contact Bender Photography if you want pictures. Her school pictures are next month... you can purchase pictures through the school as well. I am hoping my brevity will alleviate any perceived feelings of animosity or "harassment."   [Custodial Dad]   On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 8:26 PM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Yes, we get it.  We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back.  Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family.  She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life.  (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)   As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home.  And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you.  Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights.   Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.   [Custodial Dad]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 9:00 PM
To: [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>
Noted: [Last Name] a.k.a [Last Name]  a.k.a [Last Name], et al Refusal to stop maliciously calling Children and Youth. Noted: [Last Name] a.k.a. [Last Name] a.k.a [Last Name], et al Refusal to undergo a psychiatric/psychological evaluation. [Quoted text hidden]

Concerned Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 5:25 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]: Why does the Child welfare group keep coming to your house?  Do you have a contact person at that department? Will you please inform me.  I am very concerned.  You have mentioned this a few times already. What is the issue? Please call or pick up the phone tonight for [Daughter] to talk to me.  It is court ordered. [The Ex] From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>; [The Ex]@[email].com; [Grandpa]@[email].com Sent: Fri, February 18, 2011 1:57:19 PM Subject: Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011 So sorry [Daughter] did not return your call(s) last night, but she was out with her girlfriends for a special cheer leading practice, I am sure [Daughter] told you this schedule change but perhaps (being 8) she did forget. I also informed Children and Youth as they stopped by at your behest (again.) Thank you so much. [Custodial Dad] On Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 6:49 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: NO calls for [Daughter]. I reach your voicemail when I call. No call last night- no text- nothing. I am very concerned with this lack of contact for my daughter. How do you explain to [Daughter] why she has no time with her Mom? Please detail - with facts- the reasons for keeping her away from her Mom. How do your think she feels? What will the court say about your actons? Please allocate days for her to be with me and I will fly her down.  I will pay for all expenses.  Easter is a good time to make up for your refusal to allow [Daughter] time for Christmas. At the very least of my interests is your email below:  If it were true, you could have written:  "Here IS some of her current school work." But, neither your grammar nor your statement is correct. From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 10:53:29 AM Subject: Re: January 2011 Some attachments did not connect. Here is the actual report card. On Sat, Feb 5, 2011 at 10:49 AM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Attached is [Daughter]'s current report card.  You may request a parent/teacher conference via telephone through her teacher. You said that [Daughter] did not send you work or there was some other issue with getting it.  Here are some of her current school work.   You can also request to have the school send you reports, work and other notices directly. She does make you artwork and will continue to send that to you directly, as she requested to continue to do so. She has her first cheer competition Sunday.  She's very excited.   Cheer Pictures are coming up... contact Bender Photography if you want pictures. Her school pictures are next month... you can purchase pictures through the school as well. I am hoping my brevity will alleviate any perceived feelings of animosity or "harassment."   [Custodial Dad]    On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 8:26 PM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Yes, we get it.  We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back.  Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family.  She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life.  (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)   As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home.  And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you.  Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights.   Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.   [Custodial Dad]

[Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>

Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 7:30 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>, [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>, va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu, [The Ex]@[email].com

Bcc:  [Last Name]s@[email].com

You are simply ridiculous... 

[Quoted text hidden]

Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 6:49 AM
To: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
NO calls for [Daughter]. I reach your voicemail when I call. No call last night- no text- nothing. I am very concerned with this lack of contact for my daughter. How do you explain to [Daughter] why she has no time with her Mom? Please detail - with facts- the reasons for keeping her away from her Mom. How do your think she feels? What will the court say about your actons? Please allocate days for her to be with me and I will fly her down.  I will pay for all expenses.  Easter is a good time to make up for your refusal to allow [Daughter] time for Christmas. At the very least of my interests is your email below:  If it were true, you could have written:  "Here IS some of her current school work." But, neither your grammar nor your statement is correct. From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 10:53:29 AM Subject: Re: January 2011 Some attachments did not connect. Here is the actual report card. On Sat, Feb 5, 2011 at 10:49 AM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Attached is [Daughter]'s current report card.  You may request a parent/teacher conference via telephone through her teacher. You said that [Daughter] did not send you work or there was some other issue with getting it.  Here are some of her current school work.   You can also request to have the school send you reports, work and other notices directly. She does make you artwork and will continue to send that to you directly, as she requested to continue to do so. She has her first cheer competition Sunday.  She's very excited.   Cheer Pictures are coming up... contact Bender Photography if you want pictures. Her school pictures are next month... you can purchase pictures through the school as well. I am hoping my brevity will alleviate any perceived feelings of animosity or "harassment."   [Custodial Dad]    On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 8:26 PM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Yes, we get it.  We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back.  Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family.  She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life.  (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)   As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home.  And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you.  Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights.   Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.   [Custodial Dad]

[Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 1:57 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>, va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu, [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>, [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>, [The Ex]@[email].com, [Grandpa]@[email].com Bcc:  [Last Name]s@[email].com
So sorry [Daughter] did not return your call(s) last night, but she was out with her girlfriends for a special cheer leading practice, I am sure [Daughter] told you this schedule change but perhaps (being 8) she did forget. I also informed Children and Youth as they stopped by at your behest (again.) Thank you so much. [Custodial Dad] [ Quoted text hidden] --  [Custodial Dad] L. [Last Name] [XXX]-[XXX]-0185 ~  “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.”    Harry S Truman  ~

NOted: refusal to cease neg email content Re: Please cease this email content. Re: Phone Calls

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:18 PM
To: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
Noted: Father's refusla to cease harassing content of emails. From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Sent: Fri, February 4, 2011 2:09:19 PM Subject: Re: Please cease this email content. Re: Phone Calls First, [Step Mom] is not writing to you.  I am. Second, your statements to my daughter are the cause for concern and reason for writing to you. Lastly, your behavior is the clear and concise definition of harassment.  Solely out of respect for our daughter is the ONLY reason I have not yet pressed charges against you. And clearly your email is for the purpose of creating chaos and documenting your case for some future litigation. Please cease your undermining of [Daughter]'s relationship with her family.  If you are indeed concerned, please find help for your issues. [Custodial Dad] On Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 1:06 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: Your messages and [Step Mother]'s are consistently disturbing. Please cease this content when writing me. It is harassing, at the least.  My email is not for that purpose. [The Ex] From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Wed, February 2, 2011 8:26:08 PM Subject: Phone Calls Yes, we get it.  We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back.  Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family.  She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life.  (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)   As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home.  And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you.  Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights.   Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.   [Custodial Dad]

[Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>

Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:32 PM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>

I am asking that you curb what you are saying to my daughter because you are making her uncomfortable, sad and confused.  I can not help that you are taking my correction to your language as harassment. However, as it was brought to your attention, if you can not curb yourself, [Daughter] has the ability to do so.  As I said before, if she "disconnects" or suddenly wants to go, she was instructed by her therapist that she is in complete control over the conversation and may end it at any time.

What you choose to do with the information presented to you is your business.

[Custodial Dad]

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Notes: Father's refusal of all fronts Re: Please respond about school meals and homework fir [Daughter]. & Februay/ March / Easter 2011 time-share

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:16 PM
To: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]: It is evident that you refuse to share [Daughter]'s time and you refuse to allow her an opportunity to benefit from school meals and homework time with her Mom. [The Ex] From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Sent: Fri, February 4, 2011 2:12:36 PM Subject: Re: Please respond about school meals and homework fir [Daughter]. & Februay/ March / Easter 2011 time-share In order to not redundantly repeat myself, please read the e-mails, all response(s) needed is there. Again, to save time, frustration and redundancy please sign up for the parent communication software as asked of you previously.  It will save this back and forth non-sense.  [Custodial Dad]  On Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 1:15 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: please specify time -share for February & March 2011.  You say the dates and times and I will arrange for [Daughter]'s flights and travel to airport.  Also, please yeild time for [Daughter] this Easter as you failed to send her for Christmas 2010. Please respond to the school meal and howework issues below. On Jan 3, 2011, at 7:36 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: What is the purpose of this email to me? Issues you have left unaddressed from my emails are important - more important than this message: 1.  Will you agree to me buying [Daughter]'s school breakfast/ lunch?  If no, why not?  Are you able to qualify for government aid for her school meals due to your unemployment? Why not allow her to be fed by the school as other families do in your financial situation? 2. Will you set up homework time for [Daughter] with me?  Can you send homework each week for me? Can you send some of [Daughter]'s schoolwork for me? 3. Can you send me pictures of her first day of school? 4.  Can I have a picture of [Daughter] in her glasses? 5.  What rules are you insisting that she follows about using her glasses? 6. Did you seek medical care for my child when she was sick in the last week of December?    What was the outcome? 7.  What time can you offer for future time share?  Will you share [Daughter]'s time at Easter- or anytime? 8.  Why won;t you cash the checks I sent for [Daughter]'s care?  Why won't you work with me to set up child support from me to [Daughter]- through payment to you? 9.  Why not settle the back support you owe [Daughter] from 2005 to 2010? Please- Can you take the time to address these points? Thank you for your consideration of this request. [The Ex]  From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Sent: Fri, December 31, 2010 11:05:05 PM Subject: Re: calls recorded and repeatedly interrupted- no answer on your line after calls cut for child and Mother One last note... Your inability to recognize that simple fact that [Daughter] is just as much my daughter as she is yours, shows that you have never had any intention of allowing me any chance to have a normal relationship with [Daughter].  Its very sad but also very telling to see that you can not bring yourself to even share the proper noun.... And she isn't "the child", or "child," nor am I "father." You are separating a very human aspect of this situation.  Just as you are 'mom,' I am simply her Da Da as I have always been and as I always will be.   Its the new year, lets work on changing our patterns of writing/speech and maybe the behaviors and attitudes will changes along side of them as well. On Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 10:13 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: Note: Last night's call- recording on/ off repeated and interrupted child sharing with Mom and Skye. Tonight's call- New Year's Eve- Call cut mid sentence - I tried to call back.  Voicemail only heard.  I tried later again- voicemail only. At least allow my child to talk without the interruption of your recording equiptment and allow her to have a chance to say goodbyes to her Mother.  Please facilitate adequate phone contact for my daughter's phone communication. (Please spare me your useless banter- you have the recorded calls and we all have phone logs.  All will be required in court at the right time.  No need to 'defend' with your version.   Just change these behaviors for the child's phone contact. ) Thanks. [The Ex] --  [Custodial Dad] L. [Last Name] [XXX]-[XXX]-0185 ~  “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.”    Harry S Truman  ~

[Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>	Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:27 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
What benefit are school meals to [Daughter] specifically?   As stated before, [Daughter] does her homework on her own. Why are you anticipating [Daughter] needing hands on homework help?   I have offered you time to see [Daughter], when you are in [home state]. IF YOU ARE IN [home state], I WILL ARRANGE TIME AND PLACE FOR [Daughter] TO SPEND WITH YOU. Again, to save time and frustration and your "notes" - there is a software program that will document any and all communication between us.  It is clearly worth the money. [Custodial Dad] [Quoted text hidden]