| Noted: Father's refusla to cease harassing content of emails.
From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> Sent: Fri, February 4, 2011 2:09:19 PM Subject: Re: Please cease this email content. Re: Phone Calls
First, [Step Mom] is not writing to you. I am.
Second, your statements to my daughter are the cause for concern and reason for writing to you.
Lastly, your behavior is the clear and concise definition of harassment. Solely out of respect for our daughter is the ONLY reason I have not yet pressed charges against you. And clearly your email is for the purpose of creating chaos and documenting your case for some future litigation.
Please cease your undermining of [Daughter]'s relationship with her family. If you are indeed concerned, please find help for your issues.
[Custodial Dad]
On Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 1:06 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote: [Custodial Dad]: Your messages and [Step Mother]'s are consistently disturbing. Please cease this content when writing me. It is harassing, at the least. My email is not for that purpose. [The Ex]
From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Wed, February 2, 2011 8:26:08 PM Subject: Phone Calls
Yes, we get it. We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back. Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family. She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life. (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)
As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home. And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you. Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights. Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.
[Custodial Dad]
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