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[Custodial Dad]: Why does the Child welfare group keep coming to your house? Do you have a contact person at that department? Will you please inform me. I am very concerned. You have mentioned this a few times already. What is the issue? Please call or pick up the phone tonight for [Daughter] to talk to me. It is court ordered. [The Ex]
From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com>; [The Ex]@[email].com; [Grandpa]@[email].com Sent: Fri, February 18, 2011 1:57:19 PM Subject: Re: Please allocate time for [Daughter] with Mom for February/ March easter. Re: January 2011
So sorry [Daughter] did not return your call(s) last night, but she was out with her girlfriends for a special cheer leading practice, I am sure [Daughter] told you this schedule change but perhaps (being 8) she did forget. I also informed Children and Youth as they stopped by at your behest (again.) Thank you so much. [Custodial Dad]
On Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 6:49 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
NO calls for [Daughter]. I reach your voicemail when I call. No call last night- no text- nothing.
I am very concerned with this lack of contact for my daughter. How do you explain to [Daughter] why she has no time with her Mom? Please detail - with facts- the reasons for keeping her away from her Mom. How do your think she feels? What will the court say about your actons?
Please allocate days for her to be with me and I will fly her down. I will pay for all expenses. Easter is a good time to make up for your refusal to allow [Daughter] time for Christmas.
At the very least of my interests is your email below: If it were true, you could have written: "Here IS some of her current school work." But, neither your grammar nor your statement is correct.
From: [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[Last Name] @[email].com>; [The Ex] <va[Last Name]@[The Ex's School].edu>; [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[The Ex][Last Name]@[email].com> Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 10:53:29 AM Subject: Re: January 2011
Some attachments did not connect. Here is the actual report card.
On Sat, Feb 5, 2011 at 10:49 AM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Attached is [Daughter]'s current report card. You may request a parent/teacher conference via telephone through her teacher. You said that [Daughter] did not send you work or there was some other issue with getting it. Here are some of her current school work. You can also request to have the school send you reports, work and other notices directly. She does make you artwork and will continue to send that to you directly, as she requested to continue to do so. She has her first cheer competition Sunday. She's very excited. Cheer Pictures are coming up... contact Bender Photography if you want pictures. Her school pictures are next month... you can purchase pictures through the school as well.
I am hoping my brevity will alleviate any perceived feelings of animosity or "harassment." [Custodial Dad]
On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 8:26 PM, [Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com> wrote: Yes, we get it. We all, including [Daughter], know you are upset and willing to do anything including lie, cheat and scheme to get her back. Whether it is your mental illness or just a stubborn refusal to accept reality, the fact that she is happy and healthy here. Children and Youth, her therapist, her Principal, her teachers and guidance counselors, [sibling]'s father and even the police have all mentioned/documented to you that [Daughter] has adjusted perfectly well to her family. She now has a better life, stability and reliability, home cooked meals, electricity, a family and a home without substance abuse, constant babysitters and a roundabout of people coming in and out of her life. (Those are solely my observations of what you yourself, [Daughter] and others have described your life as.)
As you know, [Daughter] has been in therapy since the week she moved back home. And if you actually listened to what [Daughter] is saying to you, you would realize that she does indeed tell her therapist or her family or her friends "all that is in her heart" and you are making her uncomfortable by consistently referring to the notion that she is somehow making the "best" of her life or that she is withholding her feelings in some manner from anyone, except of course you. [Daughter] DOES miss you however she also knows that your behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable thus preventing her from seeing you until we are best able to work out a healthy relationship between the two of you. Again, her therapist has instructed her to end the conversation when you make her uncomfortable and tonight was clearly one of those nights. Its sad that you can not control your language while conversing with my daughter.
[Custodial Dad]
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