Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Sunday

Please respond about school meals and homework fir [Daughter]. & Februay/ March / Easter 2011 time-share


[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 1:15 PM
To:  [Last Name]s@[email].com
Cc: [email]@[email].com


[Custodial Dad]: please specify time -share for February & March 2011.  You say the dates and times and I will arrange for [Daughter]'s flights and travel to airport. 
Also, please yeild time for [Daughter] this Easter as you failed to send her for Christmas 2010.
Please respond to the school meal and howework issues below.

On Jan 3, 2011, at 7:36 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:


[Custodial Dad]:
What is the purpose of this email to me?
Issues you have left unaddressed from my emails are important - more important than this message:
1.  Will you agree to me buying [Daughter]'s school breakfast/ lunch?  If no, why not?  Are you able to qualify for government aid for her school meals due to your unemployment? Why not allow her to be fed by the school as other families do in your financial situation?

2. Will you set up homework time for [Daughter] with me?  Can you send homework each week for me? Can you send some of [Daughter]'s schoolwork for me?

3. Can you send me pictures of her first day of school?
4.  Can I have a picture of [Daughter] in her glasses?
5.  What rules are you insisting that she follows about using her glasses?

6. Did you seek medical care for my child when she was sick in the last week of December?    What was the outcome?

7.  What time can you offer for future time share?  Will you share [Daughter]'s time at Easter- or anytime?
8.  Why won;t you cash the checks I sent for [Daughter]'s care?  Why won't you work with me to set up child support from me to [Daughter]- through payment to you?

9.  Why not settle the back support you owe [Daughter] from 2005 to 2010?
Please- Can you take the time to address these points?

Thank you for your consideration of this request.
[The Ex] 

From: [Custodial Dad] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Fri, December 31, 2010 11:05:05 PM
Subject: Re: calls recorded and repeatedly interrupted- no answer on your line after calls cut for child and Mother

One last note... Your inability to recognize that simple fact that [Daughter] is just as much my daughter as she is yours, shows that you have never had any intention of allowing me any chance to have a normal relationship with [Daughter].  Its very sad but also very telling to see that you can not bring yourself to even share the proper noun....

And she isn't "the child", or "child," nor am I "father." You are separating a very human aspect of this situation.  Just as you are 'mom,' I am simply her Da Da as I have always been and as I always will be.  

Its the new year, lets work on changing our patterns of writing/speech and maybe the behaviors and attitudes will changes along side of them as well.

On Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 10:13 PM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:
Note:
Last night's call- recording on/ off repeated and interrupted child sharing with Mom and Skye.

Tonight's call- New Year's Eve- Call cut mid sentence - I tried to call back.  Voicemail only heard.  I tried later again- voicemail only.

At least allow my child to talk without the interruption of your recording equiptment and allow her to have a chance to say goodbyes to her Mother. 

Please facilitate adequate phone contact for my daughter's phone communication.

(Please spare me your useless banter- you have the recorded calls and we all have phone logs.  All will be required in court at the right time.  No need to 'defend' with your version.   Just change these behaviors for the child's phone contact. )
Thanks.
[The Ex]






[Last Name]s < [Last Name]s@[email].com>
Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 2:12 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mom] [Last Name] < [Last Name]s@[email].com>

In order to not redundantly repeat myself, please read the e-mails, all response(s) needed is there.

Again, to save time, frustration and redundancy please sign up for the parent communication software as asked of you previously.  It will save this back and forth non-sense. 

[Custodial Dad] 
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