Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Monday

Text Messages 4/2011

[The Ex]
4/30/11 7:55 PM 2 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Ps have [Daughter] call or answer phone. Tnx. 7:45 PM
[The Ex]: I have trierd three times. No answer. 7:55 PM
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 8:17 PM

[The Ex]
4/30/11 6:38 AM 2 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] tonight. No call yesterday. Tnx. 6:38 AM
Me: And you needed to text this at 6:30 am? Do you really think [Daughter] is even awake at this time on a Saturday? 6:41 AM

[The Ex]
4/29/11 9:39 PM 2 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: No answer ur line. Pls call w [Daughter] when she is available. Tnx. 7:24 PM
[The Ex]: No call. Pls have [Daughter] available tomorrow. 9:39 PM

[The Ex]
4/24/11 12:57 PM 3 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter] when she is free. 12:57 PM

[The Ex]
4/22/11 8:02 PM 3 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Call anytime w my girl. No answer on your line. I'm here waiting. 7:15 PM
[The Ex]: No response. Second day. No call. 7:32 PM
Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:41 PM
Me: Were you disconnected? 7:45 PM
[The Ex]: Great. Call dropped. Pl call bk. 7:45 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call bk. Or answer. Tn. 7:46 PM
Me: You are attempting to have [Daughter] speak to you in code. Call is done for this evening. We will call you tomorrow however, I will no longer tolerate you trying to speak in code. 7:46 PM
[The Ex]: Can't grasp ur text. Pls have her call bk. Its easter weekend. Pls be nice. 7:48 PM
Me: Not about nice, its about you and your codes. Please stop. She will call again tomorrow. Will not tolerate your feathers, colors, mood rings or scrambled eggs any longer 7:49 PM
[The Ex]: This is bazarre. But please email me on this. I really would like to explore ur thoughts w this. Will call tomorrow. Tnx. 7:50 PM
Me: You are correct, your behavior is "Bazarre." Please stop with the codes and enjoy your "scrambled eggs." 7:51 PM
Me: No longer will we tolerate this behavior, you are upsetting our daughter and I will no longer stand for it. 7:52 PM
[The Ex]: You are restricting my childs phone conTact. You are out of your league in managing the legal battle ahead u created. At least let her talk to her Mom? 7:57 PM
[The Ex]: Or just stop texting and send me an email w your concerns about my communication codes as u say. 7:58 PM
Me: I am restricting your ability to harm my daughter. 7:59 PM
Me: You are continuing to text me after calling EIGHT times in an hour 8:00 PM
Me: "Out of my league?" Maybe you want to re-think that with lawyer number 5 or 6. You are running out of attorneys who are buying into your nonsense. 8:00 PM
Me: No sense in going back and forth with you. I am well within my legal right to protect my daughter from your mental illness specifically when you are using her to further the case that is no longer. 8:01 PM
Me: She will call you tomorrow and if she feels you are continuing to speak in code to her, she will disconnect the call as is HER right. 8:02 PM


[The Ex]
4/22/11 7:06 AM 3 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. As soon as she is awake. No call yesterday. 7:06 AM


[The Ex]
4/21/11 8:06 PM 3 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. 8:04 PM
[The Ex]: Call anytime w my girl. No answer on your line. I'm here waiting. 8:06 PM

[The Ex]
4/18/11 9:19 AM 4 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. Just fi nished at work. Thx. 8:13 PM
Me: Let us know ur sched ahead of time & we can make sure [Daughter] is avail Had a busy day yest and it was shower and bed by the time u called -[StepMom] 9:19 AM



Me to [The Ex]
4/15/11 6:54 PM 4 weeks ago
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Me: [The ex] as you know from the multiple times you have called Children and Youth - and they have informed you - [Daughter] has a well balanced wholesome diet. W 6:50 PM
Me: [The ex] as you know from the multiple times you have called Children and Youth - and they have informed you - [Daughter] has a well balanced wholesome diet. W 6:50 PM
Me: hy do you keep harassing her by asking for a detailed catalogue of all her meals? 6:50 PM
[The Ex]: Pls don't read in to anything I am tinking of dinner and going to the grocery store. Thanks for the tip. But jsut glad to talk to her about anything in fact. 6:53 PM
[The Ex]: Enjoy ur time. 6:54 PM

[The Ex]
4/12/11 8:12 PM 4 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [Daughter]. I just tried ur phone. No answer. Tnx. 7:51 PM
[The Ex]: Tried ur phone three times. No answer. Pls call bk w [Daughter]. Anytime tonight. I'm waiting. Tnx. 8:12 PM
Me: Actually you called SIX times. [Daughter] had a concert at school and we came in late. 9:56 PM


[The Ex]
4/10/11 9:30 AM 5 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Goodmorning. If [Daughter] can be available before two PM for an extended call I would appreciate if u can let me know the window. I will call then. Thx. 9:23 AM
Me: I don't know what "extended" means by your definition, however; [Daughter] is about to have a bath and we have plans from Noon on. So if you wish to try her l 9:28 AM
Me: ater this morning? I think [Daughter] would live that. 9:28 AM
Me: ^love 9:29 AM
[The Ex]: Pls let me know when bath is done. Will call then. 9:30 AM
Me: OK 9:36 AM
Me: She's out now 10:42 AM

[The Ex]
4/9/11 8:25 PM 5 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call if [Daughter] is available. 8:25 PM

[The Ex]
4/9/11 11:48 AM 5 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Good to talk to [Daughter] this AM Thx. Pls send a phone photo of her in her outfit I sent that she's wearing today. I'd love to put it on my screen on phone. Thx. 11:44 AM
Me: Will email it to you. 11:47 AM
[The Ex]: Hey thanx. Great. I'm glad it fits and she likes it. 11:48 AM

Me to [The Ex]
4/8/11 8:47 PM 5 weeks ago
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Me: Supper is all done, perfect time to call 7:22 PM
[The Ex]: Pls call bk w [Daughter]. The line died a number of times as we spoke. 8:46 PM
[The Ex]: Just want to tell her goodnight and give her kisses. 8:47 PM
Me: Do you realize what time it is? -[StepMom] 8:47 PM
Me: Perhaps U should have called 1 hr ago. Will have her call u tomm, too late now -[StepMom] 8:50 PM

Me to [The Ex]
4/4/11 7:33 PM 6 weeks ago 
Me: @ roller rink. Very loud here and [Daughter] is skating w friends 7:33 PM
Me: Awards ceremony 4 cheer -[StepMom] 7:45 PM



[The Ex]
4/1/11 2:16 PM 6 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Sent u an email today. Pls reply. Tx. 1:11 PM
Me: I replied already 1:12 PM
[The Ex]: I hope it was positive. Thanks. 1:15 PM
Me: It was a real response. Hopefully you will actually read what was written. 1:16 PM
[The Ex]: I hope u accept my offer as a genuine offer to move forward. I mean it. I'm off to work and will ck later. I will read it. Thanks [Custodial Dad]. 1:19 PM
Me: You frequently have offers to move forward. I hold no hope that in days you are suddenly putting our daughter first. 1:22 PM
Me: Glad to see that "you mean it" this time as opposed to the multitude of other times. We have had many offers of truce but zero follow through. 1:26 PM
[The Ex]: Well I try to improve over time. Tnx for an open heart from both u and [StepMom]. I knew we could get to this better place. 2:16 PM
Me: Let's start with reading my response first. 2:18 PM

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