No visit details, etc. Re: PA may be OK- Easter Still option for [Daughter] w Mom

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Fri, Apr 22, 2011 at 7:33 AM

To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

[Custodial Dad]:

These emails indicate a refusal to establish shared time for [Daughter].

You refused to communicate with your attorney about a court ordered mediation related to a fraud filing.

You violate the contact [Daughter] is ordered by phone each day and in person with her Mother.

Your actions render any communication with me to be futile.

Please communicate directly through the attorneys and the court.

This is out of my hands.

[The ex] 

From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Sent: Wed, April 20, 2011 8:54:07 PM

Subject: Re: PA may be OK- Easter Still option for [Daughter] w Mom

As you are the one traveling, I will work with your schedule however we do have a dinner planned Sunday night and an appointment for a few hours on Monday, otherwise [Daughter] will be made available to visit with you during her Easter break, as you requested. 

Instead of going back-and-forth, when you have confirmed your travel arrangements, we can then firm up specifics. I have no time to discuss "possibilities."

The "terms" as you phrased it remain consistent with my court filings and my offer to you this past [Custodial Dad]tmas. 

[Custodial Dad]

On Apr 20, 2011, at 18:57, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:

Hey, [Custodial Dad].

For possible PA visit with [Daughter]:  Set up the place and times and let me know your specific terms for drop off, meals, - all details.. 

I'm glad to work with you.  Will check email in AM.  Thanks, [Custodial Dad].

[The ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Sent: Wed, April 20, 2011 3:01:37 PM

Subject: Repeated Answer Re: Repeated request Re: Easter Still option for [Daughter] w Mom

[The ex];

I see that your answer is no, that you do not want to visit with [Daughter] in [Home State].  If you change your mind, please let me know at least 24 hours in advance.

[Custodial Dad]

On Apr 20, 2011, at 2:35 PM, [The Ex] wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:

I cannot bear the costs of staying away from home. 

I have home and car here and I can get [Daughter] from the airport in [Other State City].

Please let me know if you will send the child to [other state].  If not, then just say so- as you have already said no.

Thanks.

[The ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [email]@[The ex school].edu; [email]@[email].com; [The ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Sent: Wed, April 20, 2011 10:13:51 AM

Subject: Re: Easter Still option for [Daughter] w Mom

[The ex]

As you stated, you are available and willing to bear the burden of the costs, then perhaps you should consider the offer I have made. I will make appropriate arrangements for YOU to visit with our daughter here in [Home State] as airfare is no less expensive for an adult or child.

[Custodial Dad]

On Wed, Apr 20, 2011 at 9:17 AM, [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com> wrote:

[Custodial Dad];

As I have asked before, please send [Daughter] for time with Mom. 

I am off the whole holiday- all the days she is also off from school.

I asked and you declined for months.

But, if you change your mind, I will arrange w you for flights and travel. 

We can discuss all costs to me for her travel- if you want me to bear all costs.  No problem.

Please let me know.

[The Ex]

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[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

Fri, Apr 22, 2011 at 7:57 AM

To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>

Due to your inability to simply READ what is said to you, I will agree that communication with you is "futile."  

However, I see that you are unwilling to make any arrangements to see [Daughter] on any of the days I have outlined that she is free.  I am sorry to hear that.

Again, there will be days [Daughter] will be unavailable by telephone.  Interesting that you of all people can not realize that.

As usual, your change of behavior did not last very long at all and we are back to litigation... by your actions I do believe though that you have never intended to change your ways.  

[Custodial Dad]

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