[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Wed, Apr 6, 2011 at 3:34 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]:
I wrote you last week to discuss options for time-share/ parenting. I even tried to 'clear the slate' with forgiveness to move on, despite our clear and mutual distrust of each other, to say the least. All of this- for [Daughter]'s equal time with both of her parents.
Unfortunately, I received emails from you that do not offer discussion of or actual dates/ times/ parenting responsibility. No Easter. No summer. In fact., no time- share for [Daughter] with her Mom is on the horizon for the duration of your current custody/ parenting authority- until she is eighteen. Is that correct?
Your messages express a rejection of my offer to come to resolution pre/ in mediation.
Is this correct?: You want to go to court/ in front of authorities, etc. and have a third party make a decision about the previous litigation you brought in [other state] and [Daughter]'s current time without her Mother.
If you do not want to mediate for a solution, please say so. If you do not want to share [Daughter]'s time because you feel you are protecting her from me, then say so. If you are only wanting a judge to make decisions for this child's life, please just say so.
I wrote you because I needed to know if you were open for discussion on custody. Court ordered mediation is scheduled. Please let us know if we are wasting time. I will plan accordingly. Thanks for your resonses to date.
Kind Regards,
[The ex]
P.S . Please feel free to forward your documents of the allegations you continue to make about me in your emails. I can receive the documents as attachments if you are willing to share so I can make sense of your claims. Thanks.
[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>
Wed, Apr 6, 2011 at 5:23 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
You have chosen to involve my attorney and will not engage in simultaneous "discussions" so as to simplify the situation.
You have decided to have a "third party" make decisions regarding [Daughter]'s time sharing. Clearly you are having second thoughts and "buyers remorse." I am uncertain as to what your position may or may not be after dragging this matter through six years of continuous litigation.
If there will be mediation, I will remind you that I have always gone into mediation with an open mind, I do hope that at this juncture you are willing to do the same. Again, my position is not ever-evolving, self-serving or out of any hate or aggression.
Any "evidence" I have cannot be compelled by you, it has and will be presented to the appropriate authorities and at the appropriate times.
[Custodial Dad]
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[Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>
Fri, Apr 8, 2011 at 1:02 PM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Cc: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>
[The ex]:
I understand that you are wanting to start off on a "clean slate" and in that vein, I will bring to your attention a few facts that [Daughter] discussed with me in regards to last night's phone call. These are not criticisms but simply bringing to your attention a few issues for you to address.
a. I stated to you that I did not want our daughter to wear make up. Your response was to tell her that it was "Okay for her to wear it in [other state]." For the record, she is allowed to wear chap stick and lip gloss but EYE SHADOW and BLUSH are not appropriate for little girls in my household. I will let you know when I believe it is appropriate for her to wear make up.
b. [Daughter] asked you to send something up for her and your response was no because she will be "in [other state] when she will be in that size." The inference [Daughter] understood was that she will be living in [other state] soon. [Daughter] has long come to the realization that there will hopefully come a time that she can resume VISITING with you in [other state] but PA is her home.
c. The "t-shirts" you sent to [Daughter] were training bras. Did you read the label because it clearly states on the label that they are training bras. [Daughter] is not going through puberty and I can assure you that we will take [Daughter] shopping for proper undergarments when the time comes. Because you embroidered the other bras, I allowed [Daughter] to have them but she is only allowed to wear undershirts/camisoles.
For reference:
Training bra: http://www.myfirstbra.us/bra_buying_guide.htm
Camisole/undershirt: http://www.kidbean.com/lapsaky-girls-organic-cotton-undershirt-camisole.html
I am hoping that by addressing this with you, you are able to see my point clearly. It is important that regardless of how you feel that you learn to not only respect my authority but do not continue to undermine me to [Daughter].
[Custodial Dad]
On Apr 6, 2011, at 5:23 PM, [Custodial Dad] wrote:
You have chosen to involve my attorney and I will not engage in simultaneous "discussions" so as to simplify the situation.
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