Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Monday

Normal - what Respect? Re: April Update

[The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Mon, May 16, 2011 at 7:42 AM
To: [email] <[email]@[email].com>

[Custodial Dad]:
Please share on your email- normal month?
What about a child not being with her Mother is normal?
What about the denial of all time-share is normal?
What about recording phone calls and NOT calling is normal? 
What about  emails and textes from your household are Normal?
This is far from normal, by any guage.
What are your thoughts?




From: [email] <[email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[The ex school].edu>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, May 9, 2011 5:56:57 PM
Subject: April Update

[Daughter] had a very normal month: play days, parties, school, a school dance and her school photos.  She had a Cultural Day at school and made Irish Potato Bread and drew the Guyanese Flag.  She had a great easter finding easter eggs and enjoying her easter basket as well as the presents you sent her.  I had her wait to open it on the telephone with you, hope that was okay as she was really anxious to open it. 

She did fantastic at her choral concert which I may be able to send the video to you, if you would like to see it.  She had an awards dinner at the roller rink and received another trophy for cheerleading. She is doing much better in her adjustment to having Mrs. [Teacher] as her teacher again but is thrilled to be able to see Ms [Teacher] in the halls. It is nearly the end of the year and I am still uncertain as to whether or not you were able to get access to her school reports etc.  My assumption is that you have obtained the information to your specifications.  She is still currently sending you photos and emails.  She did have a school dance where she wore the dress you purchased her.  I think she sent you a picture of that.  She is really good at sharing photos and her day via email and during your calls.

She has her yearly physical and dental cleaning coming up this month.  She is still maintaining her palate extender with Dr. [Home state orthodontist] and her therapy sessions with Dr. [Home state therapist].

[Custodial Dad]

[email] <[email]@[email].com>
Mon, May 16, 2011 at 9:12 AM
To: [The Ex] <[email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad] <[email]@[email].com>

You are correct about one thing... this is NOT normal. I am trying to make [Daughter]'s life as normal as possible under the conditions you have created.

[Daughter] had a normal, uneventful month free from YOUR Children and Youth allegations as they have REFUSED to come out based on your lies and "mental instability."

Free from the Police showing up based again on your lies and the fact that you will fabricate anything to get your way.

[Daughter] has been shielded from your insane behavior including asking a Judge to recuse himself based on racism, a legal strategy so absurd that your FIFTH lawyer dropped you.

[Daughter] has been given the understanding for the reason the calls are being recorded from not only myself but Children and Youth agency workers, her therapist and the police.  All of which, by the way, have ENDORSED the call recordings based upon the CONTENT of said phone calls.

To point out the obvious, I went YEARS without speaking to [Daughter] or even knowing anything of her and you have an issue when she is out late ONE night and YOU choose not to call when I say that she is in.  Even in your state, I am certain you can see the hilarity in that one. 

And finally the reason why she has been unable to see you is based on YOUR actions, how about you take responsibility for your behavior for a change?  Look at your own behavior  and see for a second why NO ONE trusts you with [Daughter].  

You find issue with everything I say to you.  If I say too much, its unnecessary.  If I say to little, its not enough.  You will never be satisfied and communicating with you seems to serve no purpose other than to fuel your paranoid-driven obsession with my family and my life.  You don't want to deal with me, we get it that is the reason you hang up as soon as someone other than [Daughter] answers.  If you don't want to deal with me, spend the money and get the Parent Communication program so that all the information is entered and I won't have to e-mail you any further.  That would save us all grief and time replying to your non-sense.
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