Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Tuesday

calls recorded and repeatedly interrupted- no answer on your line after calls cut for child and Mothere

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[The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 10:13 PM
To: the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com
Cc: [Custodial Dad]@[email].com

Note:
Last night's call- recording on/ off repeated and interrupted child sharing with Mom and [other state friend].

Tonight's call- New Year's Eve- Call cut mid sentence - I tried to call back.  Voicemail only heard.  I tried later again- voicemail only.

At least allow my child to talk without the interruption of your recording equiptment and allow her to have a chance to say goodbyes to her Mother.

Please facilitate adequate phone contact for my daughter's phone communication.

(Please spare me your useless banter- you have the recorded calls and we all have phone logs.  All will be required in court at the right time.  No need to 'defend' with your version.   Just change these behaviors for the child's phone contact. )
Thanks.
[The Ex]


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[Custodial Dad] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 10:45 PM
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>

Why are you noting these things to me? Like you said, the phone logs will reflect the true and actual record as it has done so in the past.

Why are you bothering to email we when you you do not want to hear any response?

Yes, I can see that you called EIGHT times today. Why can't you leave a voicemail and wait for a call back?  If we are available, we accept the call.  If we are not, we will call you back or text as we always do. Eight times is excessive, don't you agree?

And since you are noting things, please note that our phone line died after [daughter] spent nearly an hour on the telephone. Actually, never mind, you will believe whatever it is you want to.  You are right this is useless because you will believe whatever it is you wish with no regard to reality. If you don't want a response, note it on your own accord or otherwise expect my reiteration of reality.

Have a good night.
[Custodial Dad]
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[Custodial Dad]
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~  “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.”    Harry S Truman  ~


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[Custodial Dad] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 11:05 PM
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>

One last note... Your inability to recognize that simple fact that [daughter] is just as much my daughter as she is yours, shows that you have never had any intention of allowing me any chance to have a normal relationship with [daughter].  Its very sad but also very telling to see that you can not bring yourself to even share the proper noun....

And she isn't "the child", or "child," nor am I "father." You are separating a very human aspect of this situation.  Just as you are 'mom,' I am simply her Da Da as I have always been and as I always will be.

Its the new year, lets work on changing our patterns of writing/speech and maybe the behaviors and attitudes will changes along side of them as well.

On Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 10:13 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:
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[Custodial Dad]
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~  “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.”    Harry S Truman  ~

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