[Last name] & [Last name]s <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
Sun, Dec 12, 2010 at 1:27 PM
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
I have not "refused" payment for any travel "expences" for [daughter]. I have offered to pay for HALF of your travel expenses to [HOME STATE] to allow you a visit with our daughter.
I do indeed comply with the court order in regards to telephone and [webcam], however, there are and will be times that [daughter] will be unable to get to the phone. Again, I direct you to [daughter]'s two weeks in [other state] where she was unable, for whatever reason, to reach me.
The recording of the calls are in the best interest of [daughter] as the psychological and emotional pressure in which you subject [daughter] to is akin to emotional and psychological abuse. When [daughter] returned speaking in code, we were ALL very concerned about her behavior. Additionally, your attempts to lure [daughter] to areas that she is not allowed to travel to, make me fear for her safety and whether you may or may not attempt to kidnap her again. Recordings were and are shared with Children and Youth; the local police department; [daughter]'s therapist as necessary. Not every call is recorded. The calls, when they are recorded announce it at the beginning and ending of a call of any such recording. You were also notified via email and registered letter when [daughter] first came to live at her home. For the record, [daughter] is well aware that the calls are being recorded as it has been discussed, at length, with her therapist. You may want to review the law in that regard because your interpretation, as you have relayed to me, is incorrect.
My refusal to send [daughter] to [other state] is based on your inability to behave in a manner which I feel is healthy or acceptable for our daughter. Your statements to [daughter], again, are emotional and psychological abuse. Sending [daughter] to you while you are in this mindset, whether mental illness or not, would be detrimental and harmful to [daughter].
And lastly, my redundancy in asking a receipt has gotten tiresome. If you would like to be reimbursed, please forward an actual receipt and not a screen shot of a proposal. I will not be asking again.
I would suggest your next letter be to your attorney as my attorneys are well aware what is occurring in this situation. If this email was intended for the courts, why are you emailing me?
We were in very late last night and slept in this morning. [daughter] will be returning your call shortly, she is working on a christmas present which I believe is for you, first. We will be leaving shortly to visit with Grandma, feel free to try again or we will see you on [webcam] at 7pm/or a telephone call (whichever you are able.)
[Custodial Dad]
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[The Ex]
<[The Ex]@[email].com>
Sun, Dec 12, 2010 at 11:04 AMTo: [Custodial
Dad] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]:
You refuse my PAYMENT for all the child's
travel expences for Christmas visit with Mom.
You do not comply with the call schedule/
order.
When you do call or answer, you RECORD the
calls- a felony- repeated.
Each call recorded is a felony- You get
it? Why do this?
You are refusing to pay your portion of Summer
travel fees.
You are refusing to ensure [daughter]'s visit
for Christmas- against Court order.
You are in violation of [other state] Law- at
minimum.
Please cease the repetitive emails restating:
1. the same excused for "no
receipt" for travel fares
2. psych eval requirement for child's time
share at Christmas
3. excuses for lack of call compliance.
Let your next message be to your attorney- as
communication with you and [Step Mother] is futile in it's
redundancy.
These issues I raise are questions for the
courts- You are in blatant contempt of the "order."
[The Ex]
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From: [Custodial Dad] <the[Last
name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010
7:25:27 PM
Subject: Re: The scales are
tipped? Re: Clarify your Two Options for Christmas and Concerns Re:
November Update
Correct, your behavior has long tipped the scales and it
is now my job to protect [daughter] from you and further phsyical and
mental harm.
It is apparent that you have no interest in my offer to either GET A
PSYCHOLOGICAL EVALUATION or VISIT [DAUGHTER] IN [HOME STATE] until you are ordered to
undergo such an evaluation.
If you change your mind, let me know. [daughter], I am sure, would
love to visit with you this Christmas.
Any further questions or clarifications, have your lawyer contact my
lawyer.
Thanks.
PS Attached for your review:
It has come to my attention that you are, again, digging
through my past in hopes to find something, I am unsure as to what.
Trial is over and you are solidifying the fact that you will lose ALL
contact with [daughter] by your unhealthy and crazy behavior.
Please know that all of your calls, faxes and "anonymous
contacts" have been thoroughly documented by ALL parties and steps
taken to ensure you are not privy to my personal information.
This is the EXACT behavior that concerns me - this is stalking behavior and
is illegal. Your interest into my and my family's life is NOT about [daughter]
but about some paranoid delusion to further your agenda. Clearly,
this is not the first time your behavior has reached this escalation, you
once sought help for this, I hope you do so again.
I am putting you on notice, this behavior will no longer be
tolerated. I am taking steps to prohibit your insane behavior
immediately.
Please do yourself a favor and get the help you so need.
[Custodial Dad]
On Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 6:52 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial
Dad]:
Weigh
these: The COURT ORDER vs. your FILING.
Let
me know th eplans for [daughter]'s Chrstmas here in [other state].
Thanks.
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From: [Last name] & [Last name]s
<the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Sent: Thu, November 25, 2010
9:50:23 PM
Subject: Re: Clarify your Two
Options for Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
Cut/pasted and bolded for your convenience:
Please
note, as stated in the [other state] filing for modification, if you are willing to
undergo a psychiatric evaluation, by a doctor that [Custodial Dad’s other
state lawyer] agrees with PRIOR to Christmas, based on those results and
your commitment to follow those specific recommendations, I would then
be willing to fly [daughter] to [other state] for this
Christmas-time-share. In
addition, as is required by the court, I would then request the proof of
the physical address in which [daughter] would be spending her time, unlike
what transpired this summer.
Otherwise, I am willing to pay for one half
of your plane ticket to [home state]
for this Christmas and I will set up acceptable accommodations for [daughter]
to share time with you. I hope that you will make an effort to
see [daughter] instead of cutting off your nose to spite your face as those
are the only to options available to you at this time.
I am
unsure how or why you failed to understand my statements.
[Custodial
Dad]
On Thu, Nov 25, 2010 at 3:11 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial
Dad]:
Please
simplify [daughter]'s only two options for Christmas time- share.
I
am unable to extract the conditions for time-share in your email below.
Thanks.
[The
Ex]
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From: [Last
name] & [Last name]s <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The
Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Sent: Wed,
November 24, 2010 1:34:26 PM
Subject: Re: Christmas and Concerns Re: November Update
[The Ex];
Any perceived hostility is probably a direct response to
your combative communication. Look at this email where again you imply that
I didn't prove any of my allegations at trial (I assume), which was not and
is not the case. You need not look further than the court order for a clear
picture of what actually transpired despite what you may or may not believe
in that mind of yours.
It is not for me to prove your insanity, as it is
plainly evident to ALL those that have come into contact with you for any
length of time, it is for you to prove that your obsessional, paranoid,
delusional behavior is somehow sane or healthy for our daughter or that she
is not being continually harmed by your actions and words. Your
behavior has not stopped nor has it improved. In addition, your paranoia
is, once again, spilling over and affecting [daughter]. I would strongly
suggest that you come up to [home
state] and see [daughter] for the allotted christmas-time-share
(which will give you more time with her.) I can not trust that you
will not harm [daughter] physically or mentally (again) in some way and/or that you have any intention of
returning her to her home.
Please note, as stated in the [other state] filing for
modification, if you are willing to undergo a psychiatric evaluation, by a
doctor that [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] agrees with PRIOR to
Christmas, based on those results and your commitment to follow those
specific recommendations, I would then be willing to fly [daughter] to
[other state] for this Christmas-time-share. In addition, as is required by
the court, I would then request the proof of the physical address in which [daughter]
would be spending her time, unlike what transpired this summer.
Otherwise, I am willing to pay for one half of your
plane ticket to [home state] for
this Christmas and I will set up acceptable accommodations for [daughter]
to share time with you. I hope that you will make an effort to
see [daughter] instead of cutting off your nose to spite your face as those
are the only to options
available to you at this time.
[Custodial Dad]
--
[Custodial Dad]
xxx-xxx-0185
~ “Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.”
Harry S Truman ~
[Last name] & [Last name]s <the[Last
name][Last name]s@[email].com>
Sun, Dec 12, 2010 at 1:27 PM
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Custodial Dad]and [Step
Mother] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
I have not "refused" payment for any travel
"expences" for [daughter]. I have offered to pay for HALF of your travel expenses to [HOME STATE]
to allow you a visit with our daughter.
I do indeed comply with the court order in regards to
telephone and [webcam], however, there are and will be times that [daughter]
will be unable to get to the phone. Again, I direct you to [daughter]'s
two weeks in [other state] where she was unable, for whatever reason, to
reach me.
The recording of the calls are in the best interest of [daughter]
as the psychological and emotional pressure in which you subject [daughter]
to is akin to emotional and psychological abuse. When [daughter] returned
speaking in code, we were ALL very concerned about her behavior.
Additionally, your attempts to lure [daughter] to areas that she is not
allowed to travel to, make me fear for her safety and whether you may or
may not attempt to kidnap her again. Recordings were and are shared
with Children and Youth; the local police department; [daughter]'s
therapist as necessary. Not every call is recorded. The calls,
when they are recorded announce it at the beginning and ending of a
call of any such recording. You were also notified via email
and registered letter when [daughter] first came to live at her
home. For the record, [daughter] is well aware that the calls are
being recorded as it has been discussed, at length, with her therapist.
You may want to review the law in that regard because your
interpretation, as you have relayed to me, is incorrect.
My refusal to send [daughter] to [other state] is based
on your inability to behave in a manner which I feel is healthy or
acceptable for our daughter. Your statements to [daughter], again,
are emotional and psychological abuse. Sending [daughter] to you
while you are in this mindset, whether mental illness or not, would be
detrimental and harmful to [daughter].
And lastly, my redundancy in asking a receipt has gotten
tiresome. If you would like to be reimbursed, please forward an
actual receipt and not a screen shot of a proposal. I will not be asking
again.
I would suggest your next letter be to your attorney as
my attorneys are well aware what is occurring in this situation. If
this email was intended for the courts, why are you emailing me?
We were in very late last night and slept in this
morning. [daughter] will be returning your call shortly, she is
working on a christmas present which I believe is for you, first. We
will be leaving shortly to visit with Grandma, feel free to try again or we
will see you on [webcam] at 7pm/or a telephone call (whichever you are able.)
[Custodial Dad]
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