Father denies make-up time for non-compliance with Christmas time share order Re: Reasons for Denail of Christmas for [daughter]? - Mom's inquiry

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[The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 3:53 PM
To: [Last name] & [Last name]s <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]:


Again, I see your answer is "NO."
It is clear you will not cooperate for [daughter] to have time with her Mom.
[The Ex]


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From: [Last name] & [Last name]s <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Cc: [Custodial Dad]@[email].com
Sent: Thu, December 30, 2010 6:51:36 PM
Subject: Re: Reasons for Denail of Christmas for [daughter]? - Mom's inquiry

I did email you several times and in detail.  You emailed me with the subject line
"Restated request to cease eamils [sic] on Father's "position"
What specifically are you asking for at this juncture?  I am certain your inbox will be able to answer any and all questions you may have on my "position."  Further, the motion that my attorney had filed was explained in detail to your latest two attorneys, they may be able to better clarify any ambiguities.
[Custodial Dad]

On Thu, Dec 30, 2010 at 6:38 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
 Please detail your reasons for denial of Christmas for [daughter] with her mother.

The house awaits her with Christmas still alive here.

Care to arrange the next long weekend per school schedule for me to fly her to her [other state] home for a belated Christmas?

I am prepared to have my daughter at any time.

This time is seperate from any time I request in the months to come.
Thanks.
[The Ex]




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[Custodial Dad] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com> Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 5:27 PM
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
I have done nothing BUT cooperate.  And your refusal to compromise is based on ...?? ... These are the crossroads we are at and have been since her birth.

What is apparent is that you will not even entertain the idea to seek a SIMPLE evaluation and/or the help you so desperately need (again.)

[daughter] needs you in her life, but she needs you mentally healthy and whole. I will not put [daughter]'s safety at risk as she still bears the PHYSICAL and EMOTIONAL scars from her last visit with you.

I have given you viable alternatives.  We can move forward but as I said, the ball is in your court.  If you do not want to get an evaluation, I have offered to host time-share outside of school at a PUBLIC location while you are in the area.

And I have suggested that you take the time to visit with [daughter]'s therapist at a SCHEDULED appointment time (please do not barge in on him unannounced) so that he can better aid OUR daughter in her adjustment, and maybe a professional can point out the damage that you are doing to OUR daughter... whether unintentional or not.

I am trying my best to be clear with you.  Please read the words that are written and do not assume what it is you THINK I mean.
On Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 3:53 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
Again, I see your answer is "NO."
It is clear you will not cooperate for [daughter] to have time with her Mom.
[The Ex]

________________________________________
From: [Last name] & [Last name]s <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Cc: [Custodial Dad]@[email].com
Sent: Thu, December 30, 2010 6:51:36 PM
Subject: Re: Reasons for Denail of Christmas for [daughter]? - Mom's inquiry

I did email you several times and in detail.  You emailed me with the subject line
"Restated request to cease eamils [sic] on Father's "position"
What specifically are you asking for at this juncture?  I am certain your inbox will be able to answer any and all questions you may have on my "position."  Further, the motion that my attorney had filed was explained in detail to your latest two attorneys, they may be able to better clarify any ambiguities.
[Custodial Dad]

On Thu, Dec 30, 2010 at 6:38 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
 Please detail your reasons for denial of Christmas for [daughter] with her mother.

The house awaits her with Christmas still alive here.

Care to arrange the next long weekend per school schedule for me to fly her to her [other state] home for a belated Christmas?

I am prepared to have my daughter at any time.

This time is seperate from any time I request in the months to come.
Thanks.
[The Ex]

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