Mom requests proof. Re: Monm asks; What is the purpose of this email? - unadressed issues.

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[The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> Tue, Jan 4, 2011 at 10:00 AM
To: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>

[Custodial Dad]:
Please have your receipts of your mailings to me ready- certified to verify that you actually sent ANYTHING.  Any emailed attachments are verifiable.

Just saying so is NOT enough- (Re: "You are a writer because you SAY you write."- and such history... you get me?)

A 'red cent" eh?  Neither for you nor I to say.

And- please prepare your records of ALL payments to [daughter] for child support.  Back it up.
  

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From: [Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, January 3, 2011 8:04:47 PM
Subject: Re: Monm asks; What is the purpose of this email? - unadressed issues.

Clearly these issues that you raise are not only redundant but fuel to your fire/paranoia.  I won't address them (again.)

[daughter]'s school is able to send you any school related items however, I have sent you many items and [daughter] has mailed you work herself.

You removed our daughter from ALL contact with me and you want me to pay what?! When your first left I paid and paid and paid. And then you disappeared with our daughter... And when I did locate once again her I paid ABOVE and BEYOND state guidelines... You are hilarious to think I owe you a red cent. You however have a judgement against you but being you live like a squatter and don't own anything/mooch off of everyone around you... I'll never see a dime of the drawn out litigation expenses and wasted time.

And lastly, what checks? I have not received anything from you whatsoever.

[Custodial Dad]

On Jan 3, 2011, at 7:36 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:
What is the purpose of this email to me?
Issues you have left unaddressed from my emails are important - more important than this message:
1.  Will you agree to me buying [daughter]'s school breakfast/ lunch?  If no, why not?  Are you able to qualify for government aid for her school meals due to your unemployment? Why not allow her to be fed by the school as other families do in your financial situation?

2. Will you set up homework time for [daughter] with me?  Can you send homework each week for me? Can you send some of [daughter]'s schoolwork for me?

3. Can you send me pictures of her first day of school?
4.  Can I have a picture of [daughter] in her glasses?
5.  What rules are you insisting that she follows about using her glasses?

6. Did you seek medical care for my child when she was sick in the last week of December?    What was the outcome?

7.  What time can you offer for future time share?  Will you share [daughter]'s time at Easter- or anytime?
8.  Why won;t you cash the checks I sent for [daughter]'s care?  Why won't you work with me to set up child support from me to [daughter]- through payment to you?

9.  Why not settle the back support you owe [daughter] from 2005 to 2010?
Please- Can you take the time to address these points?

Thank you for your consideration of this request.
[The Ex]
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From: [Custodial Dad] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>
Sent: Fri, December 31, 2010 11:05:05 PM
Subject: Re: calls recorded and repeatedly interrupted- no answer on your line after calls cut for child and Mother

One last note... Your inability to recognize that simple fact that [daughter] is just as much my daughter as she is yours, shows that you have never had any intention of allowing me any chance to have a normal relationship with [daughter].  Its very sad but also very telling to see that you can not bring yourself to even share the proper noun....

And she isn't "the child", or "child," nor am I "father." You are separating a very human aspect of this situation.  Just as you are 'mom,' I am simply her Da Da as I have always been and as I always will be.

Its the new year, lets work on changing our patterns of writing/speech and maybe the behaviors and attitudes will changes along side of them as well.
On Fri, Dec 31, 2010 at 10:13 PM, [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com> wrote:
Note:
Last night's call- recording on/ off repeated and interrupted child sharing with Mom and [other state friend].

Tonight's call- New Year's Eve- Call cut mid sentence - I tried to call back.  Voicemail only heard.  I tried later again- voicemail only.

At least allow my child to talk without the interruption of your recording equiptment and allow her to have a chance to say goodbyes to her Mother.

Please facilitate adequate phone contact for my daughter's phone communication.

(Please spare me your useless banter- you have the recorded calls and we all have phone logs.  All will be required in court at the right time.  No need to 'defend' with your version.   Just change these behaviors for the child's phone contact. )
Thanks.
[The Ex]

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[Custodial Dad]
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[Custodial Dad]and [Step Mother] <the[Last name][Last name]s@[email].com>
Tue, Jan 4, 2011 at 10:16 AM
To: [The Ex] <[The Ex]@[email].com>

Just stop your non sense already. I am done indulging your insanity, as are the multitude of lawyers who have dropped your case for that very reason.

I proved my case in court. It's up to you to prove that your insanity is not harmful to [daughter] and not to me.

Because you have refused all the options I have given to you, I have nothing more to say on this matter and especially to you.

Have a good day.
[Custodial Dad]
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