[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Tue, Feb 10, 2009 at 11:04 AM
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
Issue #1: Old school Records you claim you Requested
In reality, you have not responded to my inquiry as to the date on which you and [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] requested information from [daughter]’s previous school. This question was made after receiving your message as excerpted below in quotes:
You wrote to me: “ It would be great if you can forward me her new school information. I would love to have a daily report from her teacher directly. It would save me the cost of having [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] intervene on my behalf as he did so previously at her last school.”
What was the date of request for records of her previous school?
Clear question to you.
Please respond with clear answer of date(s).
Issue #2: You were not on-line for [webcam software] contact on 2/8/09, Sunday as scheduled. You were also not available via phone at the contact time.
As you are well aware, this is a set court ordered time.
What is the reason you were not available? [daughter] was prepared and awaiting your web presence or at minimum, your availability by phone.
Please respond to our inquiry.
Issue #3: Parental counseling for promoting enjoyable web contact for [daughter] and you.
As per your last email, I understand that you were unwilling to give consent for [daughter] to work with a child psychologist to work towards enjoyable web contact with you.
Question and Request: Would you be willing to attend sessions via web with me and a child psychologist so we may get guidance on making the phone and web contact experience positive and focused on you and [daughter]’s relationship?
Please let me know. I am ready at any time to make these proposed sessions a success.
Thanks for your kind attention to these matters.
God Bless.
[The Ex] [last name]
From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Tuesday, February 3, 2009 11:56:43 AM
Subject: Fwd: Request of School Info for [daughter]- Second request by [The Ex]. Please respond, [Custodial Dad].
[The Ex],
I did respond. What is the new school information so that I may speak with [daughter]’s teacher directly?
As for the quality of your mailings, please refer to the last message where I requested ORIGINALS.
I look forward to speaking with [daughter] tomorrow evening.
x
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From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Date: Tue, Feb 3, 2009 at 11:16 AM
Subject: Re: Request of School Info for [daughter]- Second request by [The Ex]. Please respond, [Custodial Dad].
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
I sent this message to you last week Tuesday.
It is now Feb. 2, 2009- Tuesday.
Restated as pasted from below:
What dates did you and [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] request the info of [daughter]’s old school?
Please let me know so I may know what information you may still need to be well updated.
Thanks.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Sent: Tuesday, January 27, 2009 10:21:42 AM
Subject: Request of School Info for [daughter]
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
What dates did you and [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] request the info of [daughter]’s old school?
Please let me know so I may know what information you may still need to be well updated.
Thanks.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [the ex email]@[email].com
Sent: Thursday, January 22, 2009 11:49:30 AM
Subject: Re: NEW PHONE NUMBER FOR [THE EX] [LAST NAME] IN EFFECT TODAY, Tuesday, 1/20/09.
[The Ex]
1. I certainly appreciated the phone call on Tuesday night—Thank you. My question was, what is her exact bed time, it seems to be quite flexible and I would like a more approximate time so that I could have called her back.
2. Yes, yesterday’s phone call was perfect. I noted that she had a tendency to regress whenever you were physically present in the room. Do you believe there may be a correlation to your obvious presence vs when you are otherwise occupied? We reviewed past calls and chats, there is a definite pattern present. Of course I am not implying that you are the cause but its a known fact that in some instances the reluctance is due to some real or imagined loyalty.
3. The catalogue is coming from American Girl directly. Please have her call [Step Mother] directly when it comes in so they can discuss the plans regarding their tea party trip and this will allow [Step Mother] to place the order for the girls.
4. It would be great if you can forward me her new school information. I would love to have a daily report from her teacher directly. It would save me the cost of having [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] intervene on my behalf as he did so previously at her last school.
[sibling] certainly appreciates his big sister’s prayers.
[Custodial Dad]
On Thu, Jan 22, 2009 at 9:37 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
I see you got the new phone number for [daughter] and me.
1. Regarding last night’s phone message from [daughter] to you: [daughter] was just going to bed, also at~ 8:15PM. Just thought that she could share a call to you on the historic eve of Inauguration since she watched the events and speech.
2. Also, re: Wed. night scheduled call:
Looks like last night was a success in communication, [Custodial Dad].
The call to you at 7:05 lasted until 7: 26 or so. Even with the seconds of interruption when the phone fell then, I was happy to see that she stayed on for over 40 minutes on the second call
I told her she could call today as I had to put her to bed last night at end of the call
3. We will look for the catalog in the mail which Mrs. [last name] stated she would send on the call last night.
4. January 2009 mailing:
I got the certified receipt that you got the January packet. Were you satisfied with the quality of the printing and the color copies?
Were you able to decode the Sanford
Please, let me know and I will have the school send any information as to grading to make those documents more comprehensible, if necessary.
Glad to move forward.
As I overheard your talk of her brother’s heart problems, we will surely keep him in our prayers. [daughter] and I talked about that last night.
Kind Regards to all.
[The Ex] [last name]
--- On Wed, 1/21/09, [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Subject: Re: NEW PHONE NUMBER FOR [THE EX] [LAST NAME] IN EFFECT TODAY, Tuesday, 1/20/09.
To: “[The Ex] [last name]” <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Date: Wednesday, January 21, 2009, 9:03 AM
I received [daughter]s wonderful voicemail last night, please tell her I was settling everyone in bed. If in the future you do call later in the evening maybe you can let us know how late we might be able to return calls.
Thank you
x
On Tue, Jan 20, 2009 at 3:11 PM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
This email is to notify you that my NEW CONTACT PHONE NUMBER is:
([XXX]) [xxx]-4244
Sorry, I DO NOT have text feature on this phone.
Please email me all communication from now on.
Please reply so I know you got this message.
Thanks.
[The Ex] [last name]
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[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.
* Thomas A. Edison ~
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[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.
* Thomas A. Edison ~
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[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.
* Thomas A. Edison ~
[Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> Tue, Feb 10, 2009 at 1:55 PM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
I emailed you and texted you in regards to rescheduling [webcam software] which you received and chose to ignore, despite my constant flexibilty to your schedule.
I phoned [daughter] minutes later which you again chose to ignore.
My requests for [daughter]’s school information was to save legal expense - I will ask [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] to gain the information once again since you refuse to provide the information.
In case you have forgotten, we are in the midst a custody case and the judge will and should make future determinations in regards to what the best course of action is as we obviously can not agree.
I look forward to speaking with [daughter] tomorrow evening.
x
Please excuse spelling and or grammatical errors
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[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
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[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> Wed, Feb 11, 2009 at 2:48 PM
To: [Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad]:
The facts are:
1. School records: As you have documented: You have already requested school information through [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer].
Check your emails. False claim?
2. [webcam software] compliance: Additionally, you were not on [webcam software] on Sunday 2/9/09, as scheduled for web cam.
3. Mother’s Request for Parent Guidance with Psychologist: You either refuse to answer whether you are willing to participate OR you ignore my request repeatedly.
Would really appreciate your cooperation to make communication joyful and easier for [daughter].
Please respond specifically so we can make progress.
Kind Regards,
[The Ex] [last name]
From: [Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Tuesday, February 10, 2009 12:55:40 PM
Subject: Re: 3 issues:1. Request of School Info for [daughter]- Third request by [The Ex].2.You were not on [webcam software] 2/8/09, 3. parental counseling for [daughter]’s benefit
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[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> Wed, Feb 11, 2009 at 4:21 PM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Bcc: Wife <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>
Facts are:
1. What is the NEW school information? The only false claim here is that you are implying that you intend to provide the information.
2. I needed to reschedule Sunday’s [webcam software] and the fact is that I gave you ample notice that I would need to reschedule and you IGNORED the text and email messages despite your obvious receipt of both.
3. AFTER you have completed all that is necessary then and only then will I become involved. I will not waste more time, effort and expense on something that YOU fail to comply with (i.e. the fiasco that YOU created with Ms. [therapist in other state].)
It is apparent that there is nothing further to discuss. I will stick to the schedule from this point forward and will expect and demand that you do the same. I will see you in court.
x
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[Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> Sun, Feb 22, 2009 at 8:37 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Cc: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
A few notes to memoralize:
A. You started prior to the 7:15 start;
B. The video was unclear and the audio was horrendous;
C. The connection on your end was poor;
D. You ended prior to to the 7:45 time frame for you to “go out.”
Again, your failure to encourage and facilitate any sort of normalcy for [daughter] is and will continue to be documented via video recording of [webcam software] sessions.
Your blantant disregard of this order will be addressed shortly.
x
Please excuse spelling and or grammatical errors
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[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
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