Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Wednesday

Text Messages (6/2010 - 7/2010)

[The Ex] 7/31/10 10:16 AM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hey. [Custodial Dad]. Pls see ur email for [street in home town] police station cusody transfer. I called dispatcher. Granny will be there for three PM transfer. 9:27 AM
[The Ex]: Note that there is no ststion at ninth street. Officer ststed that [street in home town] is station so that is the transfer spot. Pls respond. We will not go lookin for u 9:29 AM
[The Ex]: We will simply note u did not bring child for transfer so pls be attentive to the. [street in home town] police station transfer address. 9:31 AM
[The Ex]: I have verified that this texting is relaible. 9:31 AM
Me: Not sure what you are trying to say in these texts. Responded to your email last night. 9:56 AM
Me: We've always known where the sole police station is. They also have the order on file. 9:58 AM
[The Ex]: Great. Granny will see u there on time. 10:16 AM



[The Ex] 7/30/10 8:12 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Phone call with [daughter] please. Please have your part of travel available. Please call me with my girl. 8:11 PM
[The Ex]: No voicemail or anything. Why? 8:12 PM
Me: Very late dinner, call as soon as we're done 8:48 PM



[The Ex] 7/29/10 8:32 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter]. 7:24 PM
[The Ex]: Phone died. 8:32 PM



[The Ex] 7/28/10 11:59 AM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: You have [daughter]. Please call me. Have my phone. Call anytime. 9:38 AM
Me: [daughter] called and left a message this AM. 10:02 AM
Me: Will have her call either tomorrow right after camp or at 7 PM. Your choice. 10:02 AM
Me: She is unavailable until then. Thanks. 10:02 AM
[The Ex]: Let her call and talk to me today please after camp. Not so hard to know voicemail is NOT a contact with Mom. Look it up. 10:46 AM
[The Ex]: I am done with this lack of compliance. You are forcing me to address phone contact in a seperate court filing. Enough already. Dad. Please. 10:47 AM
Me: She is going to a sleep over hence my attempt to text last night and call you this am. 10:54 AM
Me: Feel free to address whatever it is you need to. Have a great day! 10:56 AM
[The Ex]: You are failing miserably to adhere to ensure [daughter] has call with Mom. This is me addressing this issue with you. When you continue to disregard the order, 11:16 AM
[The Ex]: And to disregard my request, you frustrate contact which goes to [the ex fourth other state lawyer] to manage through court. It is your bill to pay. Because your failure to act under law 11:18 AM
[The Ex]: Your failure to act under the law is contempt and illegal. I don't know maybe Rosen and Reosen is it for reference 11:20 AM
[The Ex]: Please see to it that [daughter] has my number with her to call me wherever she is. And where is she as you said she would only be with you and [Step Mother]9 11:22 AM
Me: [daughter] is entitled to a sleep over and to visit with friends. I will ensure she calls you either right after camp or at 7PM to compensate. 11:23 AM
Me: Please stop, nothing can be done until [daughter] is home tomm afternoon. Will have her call you then. 11:24 AM
[The Ex]: You will please provide th family she is with my phone number and have her call Mom. It is ordered. Make it happen please. I'm sure they have phones. 11:27 AM
[The Ex]: Please provide me with the first and last names of the family [daughter] will be with. I'm sure she will be fine. Just parent request. 11:28 AM
Me: Absolutely not [The Ex], I will not provide you with their information. 11:30 AM
Me: Please stop, nothing can be done until [daughter] is home tomm afternoon. Will have her call you then. 11:30 AM
[The Ex]: Refusal noted. Please give them my number to call with [daughter]. They will have my child and they are welcome to use public phone or conceal their numbers. Please. 11:32 AM
[The Ex]: Are you saying you are not able to communicate with the family who has my child? This is not sounding good. Please resolve this. You are resposible for contact 11:34 AM
[The Ex]: You are reponsibl for contact with her care providers whether it is a sleepover or not. 11:35 AM
[The Ex]: Hey you know what [Custodial Dad]? [daughter] may miss a call with Mom and I might be sad for that failure on your part. But the consequence through the court is yours Dad. 11:38 AM
[The Ex]: So do what you want and see if judges like to be ignored when they believe you and hand you custody. 11:39 AM
[The Ex]: And let's see how the court feels when they see the records and hear the testimonies of ALL you lied about under oath. IT is a crime what you did. 11:41 AM
[The Ex]: Your actions are punishable by law. Challenge me to show you how its done. Please. Please. Courts disdain LIARS with a paper trail of LIES. I'm ready. Anytime 11:44 AM
Me: No one lied.. your ranting is getting tiresome. Please stop or find a better audience. 11:46 AM
[The Ex]: Sudden amnesia won't excuse you. You submitted files and documents for trial. Your admission to lies is not needed. Please check your email. This is over. 11:51 AM
Me: No one lied.. your ranting is getting tiresome. Please stop or find a better audience. 11:54 AM
[The Ex]: I said this is OVER. Get it [Custodial Dad]? OVER. DONE. Please stop resending texts. Check your email. I will need prompt responses please. Thanks. 11:59 AM







[The Ex] 7/27/10 4:51 PM 2 months ago
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[The Ex]: Please use the word" please" when addressing me. I expect it as I do say please to you. Thanks Dad. 10:49 AM
[The Ex]: Pls have [daughter] call me tonight. 4:18 PM
[The Ex]: Call ur attorney. You are violating daily calls. 4:21 PM
[The Ex]: Unfortunately if I have to have [the ex fourth other state lawyer] help me to get [daughter] her daily calls with Mom. It is YOUR bill to pay. PLEASE work with me Dad. 4:24 PM
[The Ex]: Please respond on request to comply with call tonight per order. 4:51 PM
Me: [daughter] will be unavailable for Wednesday night call. 8:04 PM
Me: Can you call prior to 8:15 or we'll have her available on Thursday? 8:05 PM
Me: Sorry 8:15AM Wednesday morning or regular time Thurs (7PM) 8:05 PM




[The Ex] 7/26/10 9:15 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Check again later for email. 9:15 PM



[The Ex]n 7/26/10 1:23 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Can't read your message. It is fragmented. Pls emaiL. And pls work w me to get N here as in my email to you. Pls see email. 1:23 PM
Me: No email from you. 9:14 PM
Me: Please have your mother provide a booster seat for [daughter] 9:14 PM
Me: Waiting on response from your lawyer... 9:15 PM
Me: Your mother may pick up [daughter] on August 1st earlier than 6 am. 9:15 PM
Me: Give your mother the documents she may need for travel. 9:15 PM
Me: Do not send msgs via [webcam] as it is not always on. 9:16 PM




[The Ex] 7/25/10 8:04 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hi [Custodial Dad]. For [daughter]s fight, please have appropriate state issued identification as MAY be required by [city in third state] airport and or jet blue policy. 6:36 PM
[The Ex]: Please finalize plans for [daughter]s departing flight on Sundat am. Please give Granny time to pick up Saturday to have [daughter] travel with ease. 6:36 PM
[The Ex]: Please provide car booster seat. To Granny for [daughter]s safe car transport. 6:36 PM
[The Ex]: Please send [daughter] with appropriate identification as airline and airport may require. Please let me or attorney know the final plans for Saturday evening pickup 6:39 PM
[The Ex]: [webcam] at seven? 6:40 PM
[The Ex]: It is sunday. [webcam] at seven? I have to be at wifi site. So pls let me know prior to seven. 6:42 PM
Me: Having dinner, will [webcam] as soon as we're done. 7:17 PM
[The Ex]: Ok. TNks. 7:17 PM
Me: Logging into [webcam] now, sorry for the delay. 8:03 PM
[The Ex]: Ok no problem. Thx. 8:04 PM
Me: Please have your mother provide a booster seat for [daughter] as there will be no way to retrieve it when she returns. My lawyer spoke with yours last week, he has yet to respond however your mother may pick up [daughter] August 1st.. I would suggest you supply your mother with any needed documents prior to [daughter]'s flight. Please do not communicate via [webcam] as it is not always on and may take days before I see your messages. 8:02 AM




[The Ex] 7/24/10 6:13 AM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Hi [Custodial Dad]. For [daughter]s fight, please have appropriate state issued identification as MAY be required by [city in third state] airport and or jet blue policy. 6:10 AM
[The Ex]: Please provide car booster seat. To Granny for [daughter]s safe car transport. 6:11 AM
[The Ex]: Please finalize plans for [daughter]s departing flight on Sundat am. Please give Granny time to pick up Saturday to have [daughter] travel with ease. 6:13 AM




[The Ex] 7/22/10 5:41 AM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Not an issue if you can just relax and place a simple phone call. Texting was helpful to let me know to call again. I'm fine with it. Glad for the call. Thanks. 5:41 AM

[The Ex] 7/21/10 7:01 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls answer my call to [daughter]. 6:57 PM
[The Ex]: Just tried twice. No games Dad. Can u call me now? 7:01 PM
Me: No games dialing at the same time... emailed about this very issue. 7:58 PM



[The Ex] 7/21/10 8:30 AM 3 months ago
Inbox

[The Ex]: Safety for children is NOT dictated by Parents and surely not from me in these messages. Just simply heed the internet sites inform on NOT dog walking for child 8:30 AM
Me: You have failed to address how specifically [daughter] is unsafe specifically when you lack the understanding and the logistics of the situation. 12:24 PM
Me: [daughter] is safe and I do not put her in jeopardy at all. Had you have asked, I could explain the situation better to you. 12:25 PM




[The Ex]
7/20/10 9:23 PM 3 months ago
Inbox

[The Ex]: Please do not put [daughter] in the dangerous position of dog walking. We adressed this last summer. Please refrain from putting her in that danger. Please email re. 8:05 PM
Me: What are you talking about? What danger? 8:09 PM
Me: Please email me: No discussion via text. Thanks 8:09 PM
[The Ex]: Dog walking is dangerous for an eight year old little girl. Look up on national child welfare websites. It is a parental caution. Please take notice and 8:31 PM
[The Ex]: Act with caution with our daughter. She has a right to safety. Dog walking is not safe for her. We have discussed this in past. 8:32 PM
Me: Not discussing this via text... I have our daughters safety close to heart. Any concerns email me otherwise goodnight. 8:33 PM
[The Ex]: This is legal communication. Not discussion. Parent to parent. Be careful with my baby girl. Clearly you would agree. 8:47 PM
Me: This is NOT legal communication but rather discussion... genuine concern find an acceptable means to communicate with me. I will not have this DISCUSSION via text. Good night [The Ex]. 8:50 PM
[The Ex]: Legal To all. Let eVerynight be a good night dad. 8:51 PM
Me: You can not base any opinion on [daughter]'s lifestyle or the choices I make for our daughter without communicating with me... you have no idea what is going on and are basing your statements on that of a child. 8:51 PM
[The Ex]: Discrediting [daughter] is not good. She was with you when she shared on phone. [Step Mother] verified already. Why do you say I have no idea what is going on? 9:03 PM
Me: No one's discrediting [daughter]. You are warping everything the child states to you for some imagined trial. You do not know what is going on because you fail to communicate via acceptable means. 9:08 PM
Me: Text is not a form of civil discussion and I would suggest you re-read the order to better understand how to communicate effectively with me. 9:09 PM
Me: If you have QUESTIONS with what I have decided to do or not do with our daughter, please email me a succinct and cohesive SINGLE email and await my reply. This is childish and petty and no way to raise our daughter. 9:10 PM
[The Ex]: Careful discrediting [daughter]. You clearly received this notice. Please act with this in mind. Goodnight. 9:23 PM
Me: If you have QUESTIONS with what I have decided to do or not do with our daughter, please email me a succinct and cohesive SINGLE email and await my reply. This is childish and petty and no way to raise our daughter. 9:36 PM
Me: Please have your attorney explain the order as you have no authority to put anyone on notice regarding [daughter]. Discussion is welcome, dictation is not. Good Night. 9:36 PM






[The Ex] 7/19/10 6:51 PM 3 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter] anytime. 6:50 PM
[The Ex]: Can she [webcam] tonite? 6:51 PM




[The Ex] 7/18/10 5:43 PM 3 months ago
Inbox

[The Ex]: Please listen to whole converations if you want to comment. See my emails to clarify this topic. 5:28 PM
[The Ex]: See [daughter] on [webcam] tonight at seven. I am out to get internet for our video chat so please put [daughter] on tonight. I also have my phone and can use both or [Other State friend] 5:30 PM
[The Ex]: Thanks. Enjoy your dinnertime. 5:31 PM
Me: Not sure what you mean by the above comments. [daughter] will have phone and [webcam] on at 7pm. 5:34 PM
[The Ex]: That's fine. Let's go from there. Wasn't sure of what you meant either so its fine. 5:36 PM
Me: I understand... you stated to [daughter] that she had an attorney and that she was going for blood work. That message was a week old and since addressed through the attorneys. 5:38 PM
[The Ex]: Hey let's move on. I'm testing and I am interrupted by ur messages cause I am anticipating that you might text with info relevant to tonights viedo chat. 5:42 PM
[The Ex]: So let all else go. See [daughter] at seven. Thanks. 5:43 PM


Me to [The Ex] 7/11/10 8:07 PM 3 months ago

Me: Tried you at 7:01 and 7:37... [daughter] has an early morning. Please call prior to 8 pm! 8:07 PM
Me: Will have to be a fast call, bedtime is at 8:30, she does have a very early morning. 8:16 PM
Me: Says your mailbox is full. Will try again in one minute. 8:17 PM
Me: Please call prior to 8 pm per the order and please refrain from discussing legal issues with [daughter]. You told her she needs "bloodwork" and she has her own attorney this evening. 8:32 PM


Me to [The Ex] 7/4/10 9:53 PM 3 months ago

Me: @ Fireworks, [daughter] will call tomm! Guess she left voicemail, didn't know she didn't reach you before we left. 9:53 PM
Me: Running behind schedule - [daughter] will call later tonight. 7:29 PM



Me to [The Ex] 7/2/10 7:08 PM 3 months ago

Me: [daughter] is in the shower after a day in the creek. She will return your call as soon as she is out. 7:08 PM


[The Ex] 6/21/10 7:50 PM 4 months ago
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[The Ex]: Pls take my call later. Just briefly spoke to [daughter] and phone disconnected. 7:50 PM
Me: Please call her prior to 8 pm like the order states. [daughter] has early morning for summer camp like she mentioned. 7:52 PM
Me: calling you back now 7:53 PM
Me: [daughter] said your mailbox is full. Tried to call you back. If you are able [webcam] or email tomorrow. Otherwise, good night. 7:55 P



Me to [The Ex] 6/11/10 3:14 PM 4 months ago
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Me: Please check and respond to the several email messages that are over a week old. I am requesting a copy or fax or [daughter]'s birth certificate and social security card since you are unwilling to forward me the actual documents. 10:30 AM
[The Ex]: Previously answered. Refresher is No copies lawful. I do not have for you. See january national rules on identification for all Americans. Just call State. 3:14 PM
Me: Copies WILL suffice until originals are obtained. I need ACCURATE social security number for [daughter]. No need to be combatitive, just fax or mail copy. 3:22 PM




Me to [The Ex] 6/3/10 9:12 AM 4 months ago
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Me: Please send me [daughter]'s social security card and birth certificate ASAP. Third request. Thanks 9:05 AM
[The Ex]: Please get from the state or ss office. This is the first request I have gotten. You have all the authorization to get the originals. Thanks. 9:09 AM
[The Ex]: Please respond to my requests for more time sharing and June holiday ti{ 9:10 AM
[The Ex]: June holiday time with [daughter] is approaching. Please respond to request from lawyers so we can share more time with [daughter]. 9:12 AM
Me: I do not have her accurate social security number, please provide. 10:21 AM
Me: I have received nothing from you nor your attorney regarding anything of substance. Requests of this nature must be done in writing and/or through [Custodial Dad other state lawyer] [Custodial dad other state lawyer]. 10:22 AM
Me: I do not have her accurate social security number, please provide. I was hoping to have you forward me [daughter]'s birth certificate so that I can enroll her in summer camp. No time to wait for a state request. Forms need to be finalized June 18 or she will be unable to attend. 10:24 AM


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