Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Wednesday

Text Messages (10/2010)

Me to [The Ex] 10/31/10 10:20 AM 33 hours ago Me: Please call back 7:58 PM [The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter]. Tried ur line. No answer. Here waiting. 7:58 PM Me: let it ring more then twice 7:59 PM [The Ex]: Went to voicemail. Will call now. 8:00 PM Me: Are you going to call back? 8:01 PM [The Ex]: Voicemail again. Pleaser call please do not text on this. Call is only one button to press. Call is easy for [daughter] to talk to her Mom. 8:01 PM Me: On house line please 8:01 PM [The Ex]: Please call me. I do not know houseline from any others. Make it easy. Send number if u wish. Or cal. 8:03 PM Me: Obviously we will be out trick or treating this evening. If you want we can [webcam] around 2 PM. 10:20 AM [The Ex] 52c9f7010e41f7e5 10/29/10 10:11 AM 3 days ago [The Ex]: Please email. 9:54 AM Me: About? 9:55 AM [The Ex]: Any topics on which u text. Tnx. 10:11 AM Me: huh? You're texting me?? 10:12 AM Me to [The Ex] 10/28/10 8:56 PM 3 days ago Me: Calling tonight? 7:39 PM Me: [other state friend] told older person to shut up 8:03 PM Me: [The Ex] laughed 8:03 PM Me: Oh that was [other state friend] 8:03 PM Me: Say shut up 8:03 PM Me: Sleepover at your house 8:04 PM [The Ex]: No call last night. [daughter] watches video od herself tonight and that seemed fun for her. [other state friend] and [other state friend] kids were eager to share phone time w [daughter] tonight. 8:20 PM [The Ex]: We cannot make ense of your comments. Please email. 8:21 PM Me: Nothing to email, comments were not meant for you and as you know last night was school open house 8:26 PM [The Ex]: Ok. 8:56 PM Me: You need to look at a clock occasionally it is WELL past an acceptable 'comunication' time 8:58 PM
[The Ex] 10/20/10 7:28 PM 6 days ago
[The Ex]: Pls cal with [daughter]. No call last night. 7:13 PM
Me: Call anytime, she's eating but available 7:27 PM
[The Ex]: Ill give her time to eat. Will call in a few minutes 7:28 PM
Me: 8pm bedtime 7:28 PM
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[The Ex] 10/17/10 1:13 PM 9 days ago
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[The Ex]: Please set up for seven PM [webcam]. Please set call back up for same time This is for tonight. Sunday. 12:58 PM
Me: Are you saying a call or [webcam] at the scheduled time? 12:59 PM
[The Ex]: Ill be waiting. Tnx. 1:00 PM
[The Ex]: I can talk to [daughter] now or anytime of day also. 1:01 PM
Me: Great 1:01 PM
[The Ex]: Oh well. No answer. Please call w my child today. This would be in addition to tonights contact. 1:03 PM
Me: excuse me? Do you mean OUR child? [daughter] knows full well she can call you anytime.... At the moment she and her siblings are busy. 1:05 PM
Me: Unless [daughter] asks otherwise .... chat at 7 1:06 PM
[The Ex]: Please carve out some time before. Thanks. 1:13 PM


Me to [The Ex] 10/11/10 6:49 PM 2 weeks ago

Me: Supper is over feel free to call 6:49 PM
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[The Ex] 10/9/10 6:06 PM 2 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Please be sensible and helpful. I wait daily for [daughter]s call. Please place call for her to Mom. 6:06 PM
Me: I've been nothing BUT sensible and overly helpful, we are just done supper so feel free to call. [daughter] will answer directly. 6:12 PM
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[The Ex] 10/8/10 9:46 PM 2 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: No call at all today eIther. Please place call for [daughter]. 9:43 PM
Me: If you have not noticed it is almost 10pm [daughter] is asleep 9:45 PM
[The Ex]: Text is for you. Thx. Goodnight. 9:46 PM
Me: Why then text me if you didn't want to speak with [daughter]? 9:50 PM
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[The Ex] 10/7/10 8:35 PM 2 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: No call at all. 8:32 PM
Me: Its 8:30 however glad you enoyed pizzahut with [daughter] today. Hope it was a positive visit. 8:35 PM
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[The Ex] 10/6/10 9:34 PM 2 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w my child. Triied. Got voicemail. Already past seven thirty. 7:38 PM
Me: Our daughter had a busy evening with her doctor appointment and cheerleading, so glad you saw her this afternoon at lunch and recess 8:18 PM
[The Ex]: No call today. Please indicate doctor for todays appointment. 9:16 PM
Me: Goodnight 9:17 PM
[The Ex]: Noted. Request for doctor seen today denied. 9:19 PM
Me: I'm sure it was discussed over lunch 9:19 PM
[The Ex]: Noted dad evades disclosing doctor. Takes a few words [Custodial Dad]. Send doctor name please. 9:21 PM
Me: You are simply being obtuse since you spoke to Dr [therapist home state] already 9:25 PM
[The Ex]: Noted assumptions. Noted. Possibly [therapist home state] seen today. Thanks. 9:26 PM
Me: Who are you are noting these things to? Do you realize how absurd you sound saying "noted" every other word or is that your intention? Of course things a 9:30 PM
Me: re noted, they are in writing. 9:30 PM
[The Ex]: ? 9:34 PM



[The Ex] 10/5/10 7:27 PM 3 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w my child. Please allow time share for thurs pick up and friday drop to school as per email requests previously sent. 3:50 PM
[The Ex]: Pls allow for weekend time share for [daughter] with us. 3:51 PM
[The Ex]: No one answere but I hear background talking will wait for call. Thanks. I tried. 7:12 PM
Me: Call or not it's your choice [daughter] answered said you hung up on her 7:14 PM
[The Ex]: pls call back. 7:25 PM
[The Ex]: No answeR when I just called. 7:25 PM
Me: Feel free to call back 7:26 PM
Me: On our home line 7:26 PM
[The Ex]: That was ur [Custodial Dad] [Custodial dad last name] voicemail. I will wait for my kid to be placed on a call to Mom. 7:27 PM
Me: You want her to call your mom? I'm confused, is this [The Ex]? 7:28 PM
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[The Ex] 10/4/10 8:42 PM 3 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Pls call w [daughter]. Waiting since seven. 7:30 PM
Me: Call anytime 7:31 PM
Me: Are you going to call tonight? 7:34 PM
Me: Sorry shutting fax off 7:35 PM
[The Ex]: Well that's a fax line. So please call or set up phone. 7:36 PM
Me: Sorry shutting fax off 7:37 PM
Me: Call 7:37 PM
[The Ex]: Well thaats voicemail. Will be here when you call. I have tried. 7:37 PM
Me: Stop drama and call our home line 7:38 PM
Me: Stop drama and call our home line 7:45 PM
Me: I am upstairs settling children, if you wish to speak with [daughter] you should call soon it's ten to eight 7:50 PM
[The Ex]: No call from u. I tried to call. So sad for my child. 8:33 PM
Me: Stop your silly drama, you called home line once and when it was sent to fax you were apologized to and asked to please call back, what's sad us you plac 8:36 PM
Me: ing your dramatics before our daughters needs 8:36 PM
[The Ex]: Please invest your time in placing call not in texting. Goodnight. 8:40 PM
Me: Please invest YOUR time in getting the mental help YOU need. Goodnight 8:42 PM
[The Ex]: ? 8:42 PM
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[The Ex] 10/3/10 6:59 PM 3 weeks ago
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[The Ex]: Please see email. Awaiting phone call. No [webcam]. Please book christmas for [daughter]. 6:59 PM
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