christmas & order Re: “Following order”? Distorting Mom’s time share requests. Dad claims “threat.” Re: [daughter] with Mom on Monday Sept 27th for dinner and overnight?

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 

Mon, Sep 27, 2010 at 11:26 AM 

To:   [last name] & [last name]s <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> 

1.    Dad Denies copy of ‘his’ order- No copy of order attached.  Why? Let’s verify we have same order.

2.    Please make christmas plans- Also, go ahead and make the plans for christmas.  We will pick up and drop [daughter] off as you arrange it all.  Let us know the ticket price an we will pay our half.

We need to book in the next week or so to get her in due to holiday rush.

I await your final arrangements and flight confirmation, as we did for the Summer visit.

Don’ send me useless emails.  Just send the final plans for christmas.  It’s all in your hands.

[The Ex]

From: [last name] & [last name]s <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Mon, September 27, 2010 11:12:09 AM

Subject:    Re: “Following order”? Distorting Mom’s time share requests. Dad claims “threat.” Re: [daughter] with Mom on Monday Sept 27th for dinner and overnight?

You seem to reinterpret everything to suit your needs. 

My order is the same as your order.  Your next visitation is scheduled for christmas.  If we had a smooth transition this summer and if you had intended to be present for the visitation scheduled, I would have been more willing to extend beyond the order. However, this is simply unhealthy and insane.  And like I stated, I will abide by the order as it stands unless it is amended one way or another.

[daughter] is safe.  [daughter] is relatively unharmed despite your best intentions.

On Mon, Sep 27, 2010 at 11:03 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:

Noted: You think that asking you to follow a court order for a child’s time share is threatening. or...

Noted: You think that requiring you to keep my child safe is a threat.

Now, I must ask you please send me a copy of the ‘order’ under which you are operating.

Because I have to imagine it is different from the one in the courthouse since you claim compliance.

Please forward via digital file promptly.

Ammended order?  Do you have an ammended order?

[The Ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Sun, September 26, 2010 9:43:06 PM

Subject:    Re: [daughter] with Mom on Monday Sept 27th for dinner and overnight?

Your dyspeptic emails and responses are very confusing.  One minute you are threatening me and the next you are thanking me for my “kind consideration.”

I think I was very clear:

I will abide by the order until it is amended one way or another.

Good night.

On Sep 26, 2010, at 9:12 PM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:

Can I pick [daughter] up after school tomorrow

take her to dinner

and return her to school Tuesday?

Thanks for your kind consideration of this time share request.

[The Ex]

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