Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Tuesday

Dad refuses all options for time share on Monday Sept 27th 2010 Re: Please set up tiem for [daughter] with her Mom.Re: Ignored Appointment(s) With Dr [home town therapist]

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 
Sun, Sep 26, 2010 at 9:53 PM 
To:   [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> 
     
I understand that it is a NO for tomorrow’s time share- for all things...
No to dinner for [daughter] with Mom.
No to pick up by Mom for [daughter].
No to [daughter]’s chance to stay over with Mom for drop to school Tuesday.
Got it.
So sorry for [daughter].




From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Sun, September 26, 2010 9:03:15 PM
Subject:    Re: Please set up tiem for [daughter] with her Mom.Re: Ignored Appointment(s) With Dr [home town therapist]


Correct.  I am not offering additional contact.  I think your behavior is unhealthy and insane.  I am not tip toeing around my words and my actions will speak for themselves. 
You do have contact and conversation with [daughter] by phone, [webcam software] and at school. Your statement of ‘weeks’ is absurd. 
You state that you are not able to hear [daughter] (and she says she hears you just fine); We try to reconnect a dropped call (and your [webcam software] lists the call as “NO ANSWER” not “user not online”.)  Ironically, these are the very same issues I had when attempting to reach [daughter] while she was in [other state] yet all these connections worked FINE for you MONTHS previous to your “case building” and works fine with others. It is apparent what is going here...
Beware of what? I am not your enemy but that is not the stance and behavior you have taken. Understand that all of your threats to be aware, to “document everything” and that you will do “whatever it takes” were heard and the warnings were heeded.  Trust that I am not the only one documenting your behavior.
And lastly, your obsession with my wife is also unhealthy.  You really need to let it all go.


On Sun, Sep 26, 2010 at 7:50 PM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
No time share offered by Dad.
No web contact with live video or audio - except two parts of two sentences.  No audio on calls for weeks or no calls or cut calls.
No phones are answered.
No progress.
Degenerating contact.

Be aware of how you write me, [last name]- [Custodial Dad] and [spelled incorrectly Step Mother].
We are not to be enemies.

Just make contact for [daughter]. Just set up time share.
Thanks.
Please spare me your opinions on topics.  I have not the time nor interest. 
[The Ex]



From: [last name] & [last name]s <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Sun, September 26, 2010 6:06:51 PM
Subject:    Re: Really? Please set up tiem for [daughter] with her Mom.Re: Ignored Appointment(s) With Dr [home town therapist]


Maybe you need to review the definition of thesis as I believe you are using the word in the wrong context.
The amount of animosity you are showing towards Dr. [home town therapist] is very revealing especially since you only saw/barged in on him once. He is well respected by lawyers, judges and other officials in [home town].
It’s curious that SUDDENLY you can not manage a call with [daughter] on my HOME line when I receive and make at least five calls a day. I am unsure why you are having difficulties and for the record, I have verified the line multiple times including before and after your call
I am glad you are enjoying lunch with [daughter] at school. However, if I wasn’t clear before, hopefully this will be more translucent for you:
Your behavior is unhealthy and in my opinion INSANE. When public officials that you have come into contact regarding [daughter], ask if you have “mental issues” it is clearly not only me and my family wondering about your mental health.
I will abide by the court order until it is amended one way or another.
[Custodial Dad]


On Sun, Sep 26, 2010 at 4:28 PM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
[Custodial Dad]:
Though I ask for ANY and ALL days you could ‘spare’ [daughter] exclusive ‘bonding’ with her [home state] family it appears that you ignore all my requests for Little [daughter] to have time with her Mom and all requests from her Mom’s family for [daughter] to share time with them.
You seem to like definitions.(And texting - but - STAND BACK- no call)
So, here is one for which you will most likely draft a thesis:
Ignore can mean you know of the request and you disregard requests.
I could not have ignored The Great Dr. [home town therapist]’s appointment, because HE MADE IT WITH himself... Yep... I did not get, nor did I confirm notice - though more appropriately doctors ‘schedule’ not ‘dictate’ appointments. 
Hey, [Custodial Dad] please write me a schedule of time for [daughter] to see me as I have been here in [home state] for a WHILE now - and I’m here to see my child since you do not allow her to talk on the phone... that ‘s right... letting the clock tick and ‘showing’ the call duration does NOT a phone contact make - when the child is not on the line or cannot hear or is not heard by Mom... Can you understand that?  
Maybe look any of those words up and write ON! (Just don’t send it to me.  I just want to see and talk to my child.)
[The Ex] 



From: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [THE EX] [LAST NAME] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [the ex email]@[email].com; [the ex email]@[college other state].edu
Sent: Tue, September 21, 2010 6:12:03 PM
Subject:    Ignored Appointment(s) With Dr [home town therapist]


[The Ex]
You have scheduled two appointments with Dr. [home town therapist] (that I know of) and failed to show for both without canceling appropriately. Let us keep a cordial and professional relationship with Dr. [home town therapist] and his staff by extending basic courte[school] by keeping and/or canceling appointments as necessary. He is a very busy man and is working very hard on getting our daughter to a more normal and healthy place in her life.
Also, I just thought to mention that any visits YOU may have with Dr. [home town therapist] would not be covered by my insurance. Please see to it that you pay for his services, if you do indeed eventually follow through with actually having a one on one session with him in person
[Custodial Dad]

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