Congrats!

Subject: Congrats!
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From: [the ex] XXX <XXX@XXX.com>
Date: Thu, Jun 21, 2007 at 2:46 PM
To: XXXX@XXXX.com

Hi, [Custodial Dad].

Congratulations on your marriage!  

Thank you for informing me of this change in you message today.   I'm sure your wife is a wonderful woman.  We wish you the best in building a happy home. 

I invite you to send me e-mail attachments of photos of your wedding celebration and additional family so I can place them in [daughter]'s family album.  You know her adoration of beautiful dresses and flowers!  Your pics would be an important update to our ever-growing album of the XXX Clan's births, birthdays and weddings.

It is in [daughter]'s best interest for us to make this process as peaceful and respectful as possible.  I believe it is possible.  She is a happy and healthy child who loves both of her parents. 

I'm sure [daughter] will embrace her whole family.  Let's make all of our interactions positive for her. 

As always, I will happily arrange your trips to [town in other state] to visit [daughter] at anytime. 

I will look for your gifts to her in the mail.  I'm sure she will be glad.

Kind regards to you and Mrs. XXX.

Respectfully,

[the ex]

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From: [Custodial Dad] XXX <XXXX@XXXX.com>
Date: Fri, Jun 22, 2007 at 10:44 AM
To: [the ex] XXX <XXX@XXX.com>

Since [daughter] has such extensive albums and I have not been privy to see her or any photos for OVER these past two years, why don't you send photos of her to me?

I will be happy to visit with [daughter] IF I KNEW WHERE SHE WAS! I can go NEXT weekend, where am I to find her?  Shall I go to [other state] and stand at the airport screaming her name???

I would love for this to be 'peaceful and respectful'  but you must forgive the feelings I hold as my daughter and I have had two years STOLEN from us that WE  will never recover.

I am putting together the package for [daughter] this weekend, it includes items from [relative] that [relative]put together the week she was dying specifically FOR [daughter] I am not sure what delivery agent I'll be using (Ups, FedEx Post Office) so please be aware of/for the box early next week.  I'll assume by your e-mail that you verified the mailing address.

I still await her phone calls

[Custodial Dad]

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From: [Custodial Dad] XXX <XXXX@XXXX.com>
Date: Mon, Jun 25, 2007 at 5:49 AM
To: [the ex] XXX <XXX@XXX.com>

It was great to hear [daughter]'s voice as it has been a long year without the sound of her and a very long nearly three years without seeing her.  It has always been my greatest fear that she will forget me and it seems my worst nightmare might be coming true!  I am even more adamant that I see her soon as a child should NEVER be forced to forget her father. I am solely relying on your word that I can visit with her soon. 

I would like to visit with her and as it has been, I am at your whim.  When and where can I see her?  When I agreed with your relocation to [other state], we agreed you'd bring her back to [home state]. (as it is according to mutual [home town] people have mentioned your passing through and I NEVER received a call)  I will compromise (but I will no longer give in) however, it MUST be a compromise.

The very least that I ask of you, for the sake of OUR daughter, is to not let her forget me and don't let her/lead her to think I would or could ever give up on her.  As we both know, no matter of pleading and begging will do me any good if you don't want me to see her, I am again at your whim.

Thank you for allowing her to call me and as I have been and continue to be I am/will ALWAYS be available for a call from [daughter] 24 hours a day.  My cell phone is always on.

Tell my daughter I love her

[Custodial Dad]

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From: [Custodial Dad] XXX <XXXX@XXXX.com>
Date: Mon, Jun 25, 2007 at 11:00 AM
To: [the ex] XXX <XXX@XXX.com>


As a PS to this e-mail ... I just re-read a few minutes ago and want to draw attention to your comment; " Congratulations on your marriage!  

Thank you for informing me of this change in you message today " You should KNOW that I am married since your Father not only was informed in at least three of the calls made to him (since you made yourself and [daughter] UNAVAILABLE to my calls) he even went so far as to ask me about my twins ([daughter]s younger siblings) so someone in [HOME STATE] has been keeping you all up to date.... just thought we should bury that comment, before these things get out of hand.... after all you appear to be trying...

[Custodial Dad]