Contact Info for Visits

Subject: Contact Info for Visits
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From: [the ex] XXX <XXX@XXX.com>
Date: Sun, Jan 6, 2008 at 9:50 PM
To: XXXX@XXXX.com

[Custodial Dad],

As per your e-mail to me on December 22, I understand that you were not going to make it for the holidays. 

To move forward:

I understand that you will be available in mid-January and in February 2008. 

I will formally change from my established site and supervisor in [town in other state] to the [visitation supervision site] in [town in other state] for future visits.

I will pay all fees and and file our court order with the [visitation supervision site].

As I notified you previously, you will need to complete orientation to begin visits.

After orientation, as consistent with our agreement,

there is NO limit to the frequency of your visits. 

I will cover 50% of the hour session and contribute to your travel expenses, as we agreed.

To make scheduling as straight forward as possible, please contact [supervisor] at the [visitation supervision site] directly at (XXX) XXX-XXXX.

I will bring [daughter] for visits as you confirm visitation sessions.

As for fees, I will pay in advance of your visits: 100% of initiation fees, 50% of session costs to [visitation supervision site] and a gift card to you for travel. 

Be sure to ask us for any further financial assistance for these visits.

As stated in my December 18th message to you:

Independent of your visitation, I encourage you (and your partner) to accept an invitation to meet with me and a family psychologist  in [town in other state] to communicate on the issues surrounding [daughter].  I hope you will be open to this session as we may gain a better understanding of how to move forward.
I will cover the costs for the session. Let me know.

I thank you for your consideration. 

We would like to see this progress peacefully with concern for [daughter] at heart.

God Bless,

[the ex] 

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From: [Custodial Dad] XXX <XXXX@XXXX.com>
Date: Mon, Jan 7, 2008 at 9:14 AM
To: [the ex] XXX <XXX@XXX.com>

You and I BOTH know that there is NO reason for supervised visitation,
that was your way of controlling the situation.
You and I BOTH know that the only reason that line is stipulated in
that document is because you had an attorney and I did not.
You and I BOTH know that there will be a court appointed psychologist
that we both must see and be evaluated by.
You and I BOTH know that your outlandish promises regarding visitation
will be scrutinized and evidenced by the courts.

You and I BOTH know that you have never intended for me to visit or
even speak with [daughter] and as such...

NOW...

... unless you intend for me, at the bear minimum to SPEAK with my daughter... YOU WILL DEFER ANY AND ALL CONTACT TO MY ATTORNEY.

By the way, "my partner" is my wife [Step Mother], whom you have spoken with on
several occasions.

[Custodial Dad]

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From: [Custodial Dad] XXX <XXXX@XXXX.com>
Date: Mon, Jan 7, 2008 at 9:16 AM
To: [the ex] XXX <XXX@XXX.com>

PS Did you even bother to get a present for [daughter] with the Gift Card I sent?