Requesting clarification on items pending responses about [daughter]

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Mon, Apr 19, 2010 at 12:34 PM

To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com

Hi, [Custodial Dad].

Please clarify the items on which you are awaiting my specific response.

What kind of response are you requiring to suffice as communication between us?

Please explain and give examples as I am unable to speculate on your criteria to satisfy “parental communication.”

I would like the opportunity to satisfy your specific requirements. [daughter] is my only child and I am happy to be involved in her life in every way I am allowed. So, please reply and we can move forward.

Again, use only this email address-[the ex email] as my school and business addresses are for those specific purposes.

I will be happy to respond as you indicate where a response is required. You have full access to all records for [daughter] so let us not be redundant.

Look forward to your response.

[The Ex]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

Mon, Apr 19, 2010 at 1:57 PM

To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

[The Ex];

You are correct, let us not be redundant for a page.  I will not repeat my specific questions or requests for acknowledgement as I have sent no less than three emails with specific items and questions bolded. I have also sent a certified letter containing specific questions and unaddressed/acknowledged emails sent to your Grandmother’s home which was received over two weeks ago - all with no response nor acknowledgement on your part.  Never mind the unanswered questions, you have stated in court that you do not view nor read my emails, how am I to know that you are indeed viewing them without some sort of acknowledgement in some way?  Please review the many, many emails and letters that I have sent over the past 45 days.

I have attempted to involve you in [daughter]’s life since she came home early in March and your refusal to communicate and your obvious contempt for me is more than apparent.  If you can not see your inability to communicate then I highly suggest we both find a family counselor/therapist to help us find a way to communicate.  The order states that if we are unable to communicate that we seek outside help to facilitate communication and I am now requesting that we do so immediately.

And for the record, yes I may have access to the two providers that you sent me last summer however, if there were subsequent providers including mental health providers that you have alluded to [daughter] seeing in the past, I would have no way of knowing or a means by which to contact them as you have failed to keep me informed about [daughter] from August 2009 - March of 2010.... not including [daughter]’s previous providers from 2005 - 2009.

I do not have a business address for you, I have only responded and utilized email addresses that you have contacted me with in some manner or form.

[Custodial Dad]

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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]

[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com