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[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

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Tuesday

Your “examination” of Palate Re: Did [daughter] see the Orthodontis for her tongue being scarped by palate device?


[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 
Wed, Aug 18, 2010 at 10:04 PM 
To:   [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> 
     
Golly Gee, [Custodial Dad].
      You examined her palate durying the adjustment?
      Who adjusted it?  [spelled incorrectly Step Mother], I guess.
      When is the date for the next appointment?
      Something she ate in [other state]?
      Wouldn’t you want a professional to figure this out? 
      It is a device in her mouth.  Placement is important, no?
      If it is tightened and is not in the right position, since it scraped her tongue last week...an unexpected event with normal placement...would that not be something to have concern over?
      Let me know promptly, PLEASE.
 



From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wed, August 18, 2010 8:41:04 PM
Subject:    Re: Did [daughter] see the Orthodontis for her tongue being scarped by palate device?


Spoke with the Orthodontist once [daughter] was here.... she made no mention of any issues or discomfort and when asked, she said she had no issues with the palate extender.  I examined her mouth during the adjustment of the palate extender and there was no redness, swelling or abrasions.  She has her appointment soon and if the issue arises again, I will take her to see [orthodontist] prior to that but it never was an issue in 5 months... must be something she ate while in [other state].



[Custodial Dad] [last name] and [Step Mother] [last name] - [last name]
[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]
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On Aug 18, 2010, at 3:09 PM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:

Hi, [Custodial Dad].
It is now Wednesday.  You informed me and promised [daughter] that she would go to the Orthodontist on Monday.

What was the treatment/ evaluation for [daughter]?
[The Ex] [last name]









[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> 
Wed, Aug 18, 2010 at 10:15 PM 
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 
     

No, I adjusted [daughter]’s palate extender as I have done so in the past and also with [daughter]’s brother over the past two years.  You stated her tongue was swollen however she has not mentioned any discomfort since her arrival home.  Her palate extender does not look out of place or maladjusted, her tongue does not look swollen, tender and there are no abrasions or marks on her tongue or in her mouth at all. 


We are quite fluent on the extender and like I stated, we spoke with the staff at [orthodontist]’s office prior to and after her return.   [daughter]’s medical professionals are comfortable with my judgements. I assure you I take her care very seriously, however I refrain from bring my children into the doctor for every sniffle as recent studies, unnecessary doctors visits do more harm than good... I am sure you can locate proper citation and medical research to understand that fact.

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[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]
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