Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Tuesday

Challeng to FILE, IMMEDIATELY! -Re: Cinderella gown and blue glitter in hair as child’s view of music star. - Addressed by Mom Re: Lady Gaga


[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 
Wed, Aug 18, 2010 at 11:41 PM 
To:   [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> 
     

This is the first email to which you respond?
      Lady Ga-ga?!!

I have sent you some very pressing messages today about [daughter]’s health.
Prioritize.

To address:
File formal proceedings to charge me with FALSE allegations of you...
Go Ahead. 
And I GURANTEE that you will see
EVERY FACE, WITH NAMES, and CREDENTIALS
and hear
ALL testimony ... to “satisfy your CURIOSITY.”
So if your curious... and SO INNOCENT... FILE...have at it.
We are waiting. 
For now, I would suggest you address the issues in email at hand.  In the time you take to write your FAKE challenges- you would GET A JOB to PAY me the flight money.
Priorities, please.
[The Ex]




From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Wed, August 18, 2010 8:17:51 PM
Subject:    Re: Cinderella gown and blue glitter in hair as child’s view of music star. - Addressed by Mom Re: Lady Gaga

For the record, we couldn’t locate any formal allegations from you... maybe you could point me to a ‘citation’, filing or some other official document.  You made the first allegations, to my knowledge to the mediator and then to Dr. [Court Appointed Psychologist] but I was unaware of these allegations previously.  I’d like to see what you have allegedly documented previously as neither [Custodial Dad’s home state lawyer] nor [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] found anything official in ANY jurisdiction and when asked to your respective attorney’s, they produced no documentation either.  As your allegations have been formally dismissed through both Dr. [Court Appointed Psychologist] and Judge [Other State Judge], my inquiry is simply curiosity.

Thanks so much!
[Custodial Dad]


[Custodial Dad] [last name] and [Step Mother] [last name] - [last name]
[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
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On Aug 18, 2010, at 3:42 PM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:

My pas OBSERVATIONS - not allegations- HAVE BEEN FILED AND DOCUMENTED IN TWO STATES ...
so reference your accusations and write with citation.
You have many more items to tend to so check your eamil please.
Thanks.
[The Ex]




From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Thu, August 12, 2010 2:54:00 PM
Subject:    Re: Cinderella gown and blue glitter in hair as child’s view of music star. - Addressed by Mom Re: Lady Gaga


[daughter] does not watch nor listen to Lady Gaga in my home nor in any of our vehicles.  I make no presumptions on what you do or do not do with [daughter] but provided a link to assist you in keeping [daughter]’s music more age appropriate.  I would prefer she not dress as someone who wears see through clothing and is hyper-sexualized to state it mildly.  Even if she has not witnessed this behavior, it is important that she understand we do not condone such behavior.  Fact is, she will be exposed to his soon enough and the understanding should be there hopefully before exposure.

By your past allegations, I am surprised you are raising such an issue with my trying to keep [daughter] from advancing too far a head of her maturity level. 

Sent from my iPhone





On Aug 12, 2010, at 12:15 PM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:

When do you think [daughter] has been watching these controvertial videos?
What content do you believe I have exposed her to in music?
What is the basis of your statements?
Please help me to understand your prespective.
Thanks.
[The Ex]




From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Mon, August 9, 2010 2:10:06 PM
Subject:    Re: Cinderella gown and blue glitter in hair as child’s view of music star. - Addressed by Mom Re: Lady Gaga

[the ex];

Is it your statement that she does not listen to her music or view Lady Gaga’s videos?  I am concerned where [daughter] may have heard her music or was able to dress up as such a controversial figure.  That is my only concern as her music and certainly her videos are not age appropriate for any 8 year old girl.  I would kindly suggest that music be limited to Radio Disney and do not allow her to view music videos that are geared for a more mature audience.  Here is a link that will hopefully assist you in ensuring [daughter] is listening to age appropriate music.

http://www.commonsensemedia.org/lady-gaga-and-our-kids

The issue isn’t software, my phone does not accept pictures as I have addressed with you several times over the past few years.  If you wish for me to view any pictures, feel free to email them to me directly.  And as explained to you previously, you can simply text a photo to my email address ([Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com)  Simply input my email address in the field where you may normally input a cell phone number.


I addressed the glasses several times, please review those for any additional questions you may have.

I am not playing this “did to; did not” game with [daughter]’s clothing again with you, which is why I am not addressing this issue further.  [daughter] was and will be completely prepared for school.  If you wish to compliment her wardrobe with items that are appropriate for school or her play/weekend clothing, you are more than welcomed to do so. I have neither the time nor inclination to itemize [daughter]’s wardrobe but suffice to say, as last semester, [daughter] will have all that she requires for school and play. 




[Custodial Dad] [last name] and [Step Mother] [last name] - [last name]
[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
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On Aug 9, 2010, at 1:37 PM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:
What action would you like me to take?
[daughter] put her ponytail to the side and put blue glitter streak in her hair- to her “Lady Gaga.”  She was wearing one of her many ball gowns that are “Cinerrella” gowns.
I even sent you a photo- one of many daily.
Please see if you can find an application to download the photos and readress your concerns.

Why not address her glasses being missing since March?
Why not address her status of uniforms for school in two weeks?

[The Ex]


From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Sun, August 8, 2010 10:48:43 PM
Subject:    Lady Gaga

[The Ex];
While I appreciate that [daughter] is on “vacation” with you, I must object to her fantasy role playing a character such as “Lady Gaga.”  I believe the maturity level is best suited for a girl in her late teens and not an 8 year old girl.  If you would kindly refrain from encouraging that sort of behavior, I would be most grateful.  [daughter] has free access to more age appropriate music such as Radio Disney, Miley Cyrus, Jonas Brothers and Justin Beiber (even though she doesn’t appreciate him.)
Thank you for your swift attention to this matter;
[Custodial Dad]


[Custodial Dad] [last name] and [Step Mother] [last name] - [last name]
[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>  Wed, Aug 18, 2010 at 11:58 PM 
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 
     
Reply as it is placed in my email inbox certainly not by priority...


You had ample opportunity to provide testimony but you failed to do so...  I’m curious but not wasting more fees on you or this non-sense.  I have been VINDICATED by the court system in MANY ways including full legal custody of [daughter], Dr. [psychologist in other state]’s testimony and Judge [Other State Judge]’s order.  I am not in want of anything more.  Your allegations are what they are/were to say the least but I will never lose sleep over your “observations” as you called them every again. 



[Custodial Dad] [last name] and [Step Mother] [last name] - [last name]
[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>  Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 12:15 AM 
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 
     

PLEASE SEND THE RECEIPT and I will PROMPTLY pay you.


You are sounding angry but I am more than willing to pay for [daughter]’s flight.  In all of the flurry of emails, you have failed at every last one to send the receipt.  Silly when we can resolve at least one matter swiftly when you fail to simply provide proof of purchase.  Stating “about $300” will not suffice.  Please simply email, mail, fax me a receipt.  Monies are set aside for this.  The screen shot I have has NO TOTAL.

[Custodial Dad] [last name] and [Step Mother] [last name] - [last name]
[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
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On Aug 18, 2010, at 11:41 PM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:

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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>  Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 12:19 AM 
To:   [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Cc:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 



Attached is the sole attachment I have from you.  Please send an actual receipt, not a proposal

[Custodial Dad] [last name] and [Step Mother] [last name] - [last name]
[sibling] • [daughter] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling] • [sibling]
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