Child’s “chores”- Religion, sanctions Re: SLEEP/ SWEEP [daughter] is sweeping on a Thrusday night- school night- Father putting his children to sleep while [daughter] sweeps

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 

Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 9:13 AM 

To:   [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>  

     

[Custodial Dad]:

      What are [daughter]’s chores and what times are they performed?  What do you do at that time?

      What is the religion you have [daughter] in?  Does she go to church of a christian faith?

      How long have you been unemployed?  Is that why you refuse financial disclosure?

      How are you so sure I am unemployed?  You refused my child support for [daughter].

      Take me to court for the ‘sanctions’ -illegal “judgement.”  Can’t wail to see your papers and disclosures around “your need” for the cash and “my ability” to pay it. 

      For the most important issues at hand: Please answer to time for Friday and this weekend- we woudl like to pick [daughter] up after school and have her for the weekend.  TIme share for [daughter] with Mom.  Please respond.

      [The Ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Fri, October 1, 2010 6:12:57 AM

Subject:    Re: SLEEP/ SWEEP [daughter] is sweeping on a Thrusday night- school night- Father putting his children to sleep while [daughter] sweeps

Clearly you have no idea how to raise a self sufficient, independent household of children of different ages. Please ask [daughter] how she feels instead of projecting your feelings and paranoia onto OUR daughter.

[daughter]’s religious education is my responsibility. Thank you very much.

As an unemployed married woman, how are you able to manage your own home as you seem to be spending an exuberant amount of time obsessed with mine and my family.

Since you have so much money to throw around, however unemployed, how about you pay of the judgement against you?

[Custodial Dad]

On Sep 30, 2010, at 10:47 PM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:

So my daughter is brought to your house,

and you utilize her as domestic help.

She is sweeping your kitchen floors at 8pm. 

You are putting your children to sleep upstairs as [daughter] sweeps, as per your text at that time.  And this is not the first time I know of this.

Are you kidding?

Most children [daughter]’s age are reading or on the computer playing a game or like activity at 8pm.

Can you please send me her homework assignments for the week so I can do her homework with her?

That is her job- her education.  Not your housework. 

“Chores” are a sad excuse for making my kid a domestic servant.  Got that email.

My daughter needs to be getting ready for bed also at that time-

or like others her age- she should have the chance to read-and christian books should be allowed. 

My child’s religion is not of witches and deamons. 

Are you understanding my concerns?  Am I crystal clear?  Am I asking too much for my child to be a child?

Do you need money for a maid service?  Let me know.  I’d be glad to help with finances.

My child is not a maid. 

As an unemployed couple, please find time to manage your house chores and childCARE responsibilities.

[The Ex]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>  Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 10:39 AM 

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 

What does it matter what I am doing while she is doing chores?

Have you spoken to [daughter] regarding her chores?

What were her chores in [other state]?

Do you think she’s scrubbing toilets with her toothbrush?

Do you think I am feeding her crusts of bread while me and her siblings dine on gourmet meals?

Do you really think she is treated any differently?

What are you basing ANY of these accusations on - Your meetings with Dr. [home town therapist] or something else?

First, please tell me what church [daughter] attended in [other state] and the rate of attendance not including her time at [school in other state].

Also please explain how “fairies” fall into your christian belief system.

Please define a christian book and point me to some legal document requiring me to only provide a book on one faith.

Please explain how stories of birds and eagles rescuing children fall into that same beliefs.

Please explain why is it that [daughter] has no real knowledge of the catholic or christian faith if she was reered in church “her whole life.”

Please explain why you believe [daughter] is in religion of “witches and demons.”

Please explain what you believe [daughter] is being raised to believe as you are certainly telling some fantastic tales!

I most certainly would not presume to know your employment status as I cant even tell you where you are living since it changes daily.

Please explain why you believe I am refusing to submit anything. Please explain where your financial disclosures are.

Please explain how a Judge’s order is illegal and why it was not immediately appealed based on it’s illegality.

Please explain why you feel the need to contact Children and Youth with baseless and insane allegations almost daily.

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