Mom’s repeated DCF inquiry unanswered. Re: [daughter]’s care 10 points

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 

Thu, Sep 2, 2010 at 11:10 PM 

To:   [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> 

     

[Custodial Dad]:

     

Dishonesty noted.

     

Hostility noted. 

     

Still not addressing DCF issues?  My attorney does NOT know either.. 

Please share. Very concerned for my child.

     

[The Ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Thu, September 2, 2010 9:15:48 AM

Subject:    Re: [daughter]’s care 10 points

Replies within....

On Sep 2, 2010, at 7:51 AM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:

[Custodial Dad] & [spelled incorrectly Step Mother]:

1. There is no response on inquiries on [daughter]’s slow healing scab on her ankle.

The care given was the delay for healing.  After removing the band aid, a scab formed and it healed by the 3rd day.  I am surprised that  nurse would give a child specific instructions that would cause a delay in healing.

2.  There is no response on status of her cough.

I believe [daughter] told you several times she was feeling better.  She had a COLD, pediatrician was called and we followed their instructions as you know.

3.  There is no response on my tiem share with [daughter].

I responded through [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer].  I am proposing 11AM until 4PM on Sunday, Sept 5th.

4. There is no response on your fare for [daughter]’s summer trip.

ANSWERED PREVIOUSLY: I am awaiting a RECEIPT... re-send it.

5.  There is no respons on the number of uniforms she has so i may supplement.

ANSWERED PREVIOUSLY: Buy whatever it is you wish to buy but I am not itemizing her uniforms.  She has a full YEARS worth of clothing including uniform and play clothes, suffice to say.

6. There is no response on why you will not cash the checks sent for child support.

What checks?

7.  There is no response on time share for [daughter] for my mom and sister.

ANSWERED PREVIOUSLY: Neither have contacted me. Please direct them to telephone me at ([XXX])[XXX]-6052

8.  There is no response to me about the altered call schedule - without [home town therapist]’s input.

Dr. [home town therapist] was very clear, if you need him to put it in writing I am sure he is willing to do so.  Additionally, he contacted you inquiring about an upcoming session with [daughter].  Please respond.

9.  There is no response to why you limit the call time with [daughter].

ANSWERED PREVIOUSLY:  There are four hours in the afternoon which encompasses homework, family time, baths, dinner, chores, snacks, playtime, tv time, activities, etc. We have a lot to cram in four hours.  Asking [daughter] to have an hour time to speak with you everyday is excessive, especially when after 10 minutes [daughter] is distracted and wanting to move on with her evening. 

10. There is no response to why you are being investigated by DCF.

ANSWERED PREVIOUSLY: Lets not play dumb, YOUR allegations were found to be baseless and retalitorial. This was also addressed through [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] and [Ex’s fourth other state lawyer].

:Let’s start here. Please stop filling my text and email with distractors.  Answer, please.

I have responded to all of your concerns multiple times and not getting the answer you want is not a distractor, it is reality.

Thanks.

[The Ex]