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[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Tuesday

Clarify please Re: Sad record Re: FAILURE TO COMPLY with contact order

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 
Thu, Sep 2, 2010 at 7:44 AM 
To:   [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> 
     
[Custodial Dad]:
      What does this email mean?
      [The Ex]




From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Tue, August 31, 2010 4:32:43 PM
Subject:    Re: Sad record Re: FAILURE TO COMPLY with contact order

I’m sorry but did you call us at Sunday at 7PM and our phone not log a missed call or voicemail?  

Or is the text function on your phone no longer an option?  Because we did contact you via text and [webcam software] on Sunday night at 7:08PM acknowledged via text by you 10PM that evening.

When [daughter] was with you, never mind 2005-2009 but for the 30+ days before she moved to [home state], I had ZERO contact.  Maybe you forgot that part?

This is becoming redundant and I will not address this further. 

Take care.


On Aug 31, 2010, at 3:30 PM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:

[Custodial Dad] & [spelled incorrectly Step Mother]:
How sad that you should record in this email that a little child waiting for her Mom to get on [webcam software] at 7, when no one even contacted Mom to arrange.
Your ref to my email fails.  No reason to rely on your complianec.
This is a poor way for you to arrange contact with [daughter] and me.
When seh was with me, [daughter] and I  used to drive out to the cape or panerra just to get internet service for [webcam software] with Dad.

YOu have internet in your house,  And you fail at the contact.
[The Ex]




From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Cc:   [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Sent: Tue, August 31, 2010 2:58:55 PM
Subject:    Re: FAILURE TO COMPLY with contact order


[daughter] waited for an hour on Sunday for you to log into [webcam software].

Because of she spoke with you earlier that day, by your message below and being that Sunday [webcam software] is the status quo, we merely texted to see if you were available for [webcam software].  Long winded message was unnecessary.

I did get your reply text after 10 pm Sunday night however, [daughter] was long in bed as her bedtime is at 8PM and lights out by 8:30PM.

You do not get calls from [daughter] through out the day because we are typically out and about and no one is thinking of you, no offense.  [daughter] knows that she may call at anytime but the schedule set is for a 7 pm contact and we have an alarm set accordingly, if you d not call us first.

During the school year especially, there are only a few hours in the evening which encompasses homework, study time, dinner time, chores, bath time,  play time, tv time and snacks. We make sure to give [daughter] at least 15 - 20 minutes uninterrupted time to speak with you each week day allowing for an extended [webcam software] contact on Sundays.  (This was stated to you via email and registered letter several times.)

Also if you are scheduling a return call or altering the schedule, you need to address that with me and not [daughter]. [daughter] did not inform me that she was to return the call until after she decided she was done waiting for you to sign on to [webcam software] at 8 pm and then it was said in passing.

Thanks.
[Custodial Dad]




On Aug 28, 2010, at 3:43 PM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:
You have not yet offered [daughter]’s time for my visit next week>
After tonight, I will  file in court, as you severely deny contact.

I get no calls from you throughout the day.
Why?
I have calls that overlap dinner.
Can you work to paln the call BEFORE dinner time as time starts at 9AM?
Please call me tonight with [daughter],

Please [webcam software] Sunday night at 7 pm , or as you text me time.
Please respond to my messages.
[The Ex]
 

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