Lies? Re: Father’s opinion on Mom ‘telling on him” Re: Chiropractor info and all other doctors listed please & time share

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> 

Mon, Sep 27, 2010 at 1:22 PM 

To:   [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com> 

     

Are you reffereing to the ‘lies’ about your inappropriate conduct of a sexual character with [daughter] that I stated in trial- repeatedly- in detail- with times and locations of incidents?

     

Those ‘lies”?

     

That sworn testimony, [Custodial Dad]?

     

Those were lies?

     

Did [spelled incorrectly Step Mother] think so too?

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Mon, September 27, 2010 12:25:28 PM

Subject:    Re: Father’s opinion on Mom ‘telling on him” Re: Chiropractor info and all other doctors listed please & time share

It’s disgusting for you to state such lies and disgusting that you even think of such lies to state.

Your desperation is showing again.

On Sep 27, 2010, at 11:46 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:

Do you think it was disgusting to tell about your behaviors of sexual inpropriety with [daughter] in INFANCY to TODDLERHOOD.

Or was was it DISGUSTING for you to have DONE that?

Which one?

From: [last name] & [last name]s <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Mon, September 27, 2010 11:30:12 AM

Subject:    Re: Chiropractor info and all other doctors listed please & time share

I am sure I gave you the Chiropractor information but here it is again:

Gorman Chiropractic in [direction] [home town]

([XXX])XXX-4100

You have the contact information for all the providers [daughter] sees.

Here is the ONLY email regarding Children and Youth sent by [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] to [Ex’s fourth other state lawyer].  How you reinterpreted that I do not know. 

I would also suggest you get the transcripts of trial because the only “disgusting conduct” described was your own and your attempts to remove me from [daughter]’s life.

From: “[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]” <[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]@[email].com>

Date: August 26, 2010 3:09:34 PM EDT

To:”[Ex’s fourth other state lawyer]” <[Ex’s fourth other state lawyer]@[email].com>

Cc:   “[last name] [Custodial Dad]” <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>

      Subject:    Re: [The Ex] [last name] - Post-Judgment Relief : 43477.XXXXX:

[Ex’s fourth other state lawyer].,

It is highly unlikely that Mr. [last name] will allow [The Ex] to have anything more than Judge [Other State Judge] requires because of your client’s latest failed attempt to have the [home state] Department of Children and Youth remove [daughter] from the [last name] home, inter alia.  She has been speaking to the child “in code”, trying to get [daughter] to tell authorities that she is being abused.  To the child’s credit, she will not lie on her Mother’s behalf.

See if you can get [The Ex] to cut it out. Then maybe [Custodial Dad] will be more forthcoming and gracious.

[Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]

Sent from my iPhone

On Mon, Sep 27, 2010 at 10:50 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:

1. Need a list of all rpoviders for [daughter]- conventional and alternative treatments.

2. Got the pediatrician, dentist and orthodontist in [town in home state].

3. Is there a chiropractor for [daughter]?  Pleas provide contact information.

4. Is there an eye doctor at Wallmart? 

5. Any others?

Please send promptly. 

(Wow. Don’t know what letter you got that [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] sent- not the same [Ex’s fourth other state lawyer] got.)

How can I help you start to address [daughter]’s time share with Mom?

[The Ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Sun, September 26, 2010 9:20:57 PM

Subject:    Re: C&Y notice from your lawyer t to mine- Thanks, [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]! Re: [daughter]’s September Update

Wow your reinterpretation of [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]’s letter is astounding. It’s in black and white and speaks for itself.

[daughter] is OUR daughter. Sorry you are failing to understand that. No matter how much you say, bold and underline “my” does not make her any less OUR daughter.

Sent from my iPhone

On Sep 26, 2010, at 8:52 PM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:

[Custodial Dad]:

The reason we know that Children & Youth Services is because YOUR attorney wrote that information in an email to [Ex’s fourth other state lawyer], my attorney.

THAT is how we know.

You told us.  And we are horrified.  And we are watching.

Had it not been for [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer]’s keen sense of responsibility in informing [Ex’s fourth other state lawyer], I would have NEVER known. 

Maybe because [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer] remembers my testimony on your disgusting conduct as told in trial and he did not want to seem as if he was protecting you.  Good for [Custodial Dad’s other state lawyer].  Bad for you.

So, I hope people keep an eye on you.  Clearly someone called C&Y.

You know we are ALL watching.

[The Ex]

P.S. Send the names and people who claim your reporter to C&Y is me.

I will have to manage that with a slander suit for each... go on... send it.. all names.

YOU BE CAREFUL WITH MY CHILD.

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To:   [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[college other state].edu>

Sent: Wed, September 22, 2010 2:27:52 PM

Subject:    [daughter]’s September Update

[The Ex]

I will be sending these via email as you have finally acknowledged receipt and although your father was signing for the previous updates, it does not appear you actually read them.

Text really should not be used for in depth communication.  In one day, I received over FIFTY texts from you at obscene hours.  Please refrain from calling and texting outside of the designated hours as it simply disruptive and annoying.  If you truly wish to communicate with [daughter], I do not believe you can achieve that by texting me at midnight.  In addition, last night you telephoned SEVEN times in five minutes... that simply achieves nothing as we have caller ID and voice mail.. ONE call is sufficient in that time frame.

A. School: [daughter] is doing fantastic at school.  Her teacher Ms. [teacher] is very familiar with our family as [daughter]’s older brother had her as a student teacher and Ms. [teacher] also knows us from [sibling]’s time at [SCHOOL].  We are very happy to have such great teachers with [daughter] this year.  Principal [teacher] and her guidance counselor, Ms. [teacher], only have positive things to say about [daughter].  [daughter] is already making fast friends at school. Please ensure you are on the school’s mailing list, as I know that they are more than happy to forward you all documents as they are distributed.  Attached is [daughter]’s self portrait that she drew and her brief bio/home information.

B. Medical: [daughter] has been seen by [orthodontist] regarding the swelling and scrapped tongue.  I didn’t take her when she initially arrived because there was no swelling and/or marks on her tongue which would prompt a visit.  I am very curious as to how that occurred when her tongue never scrapped or was swollen in the previous four months including the weeks following the installation of the palate extender.  [daughter] couldn’t explain it either. Her cold is obviously better and didn’t require a Doctor’s visit either as it was a very mild cold that we passed back and forth for a few weeks.

[daughter]’s sessions with Dr. [home town therapist] have been very revealing.  I am thankful that she has a provider that she trusts and can talk to without worry or inhibition.  As I mentioned previously, please do not make appointments with Dr. [home town therapist] that you have no intention of keeping.  We want to keep a cordial and professional relationship with Dr. [home town therapist] and his staff.

C. Activities: [daughter] was signed up for Cheerleading and she is really excited to start in October. This is a great [community in other state] in to dance, gymnastics and possibly even acting/chorus and although quite a commitment [daughter] is very very excited at meeting new friends and participating in such a great team activity.

D. Communication: After discussion with Dr. [home town therapist] and [daughter], we will be calling every night and a [webcam software] on Sunday.  Please be mindful that there are times where contact is not feasible.  We will do our best to facilitate contact every night.  Please understand [daughter] has cheerleading three nights a week, sessions with Dr, [home town therapist] on top of homework, chores, dinner, bath and bedtime rituals to fit within four hours every evening.  Further, an hour conversation is just not possible every night.  Also, you mentioned some difficulties with the phone calls.  Please understand that [daughter] telephones you from home from our HOME line - there are no reception or dropped calls on a home line.  Understand that [daughter] does have younger siblings and most nights, I am upstairs with them preparing for bed and some nights we are all awake doing an activity or family time together.  I am sorry it disrupts or so greatly disturbs you but it does not bother [daughter].  [daughter] does know that at anytime, she may go into the office or kitchen for quiet to remover herself from the noise level. And of course [daughter] may contact you via email, [webcam software] or telephone at her discretion.  *Please check and respond to your emails as I know she have sent several since August.

E. Pictures: As I am certain you know from your visits to [SCHOOL], Picture Day is today.  I do hope that you made arrangements to purchase pictures.  If not, I can provide you with the website to order photos.  Also, I reconfirmed with [daughter] that you did receive the pictures she sent.  I will continue to facilitate [daughter] sending you pictures as she enjoys that aspect of the emails.  Also, I will mention again, [daughter] would love a picture of you for her bedside table, if you are feeling generous.

F. Children and Youth: You have been attempting to allude to your non-involvement with Children and Youth... I have failed to address this with you as a. you were the one to call and b. we were cleared by the several tiers of the agency due to your escalated claims.  It is a shame that you feel it is necessary to abuse these resources and waste not only their time but embarrass [daughter] and [sibling] as they overheard the officer confirm it was you making these calls, [sibling] has been a wonderful big-brother in reassuring [daughter] that none of this was/is her fault.

Any valid questions and/or concerns please email me.

[Custodial Dad] [last name]

[Step Mother] [last name] [last name]

[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com

([XXX]) [XXX] - 6052

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