[daughter]’s therapy?

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Fri, Jul 2, 2010 at 5:42 PM

To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

[Custodial Dad]:

Does [daughter] see the therapist or any therapist individually or with you?

Can you please idnetify what she is in therapy, for specifically?

Thanks for your consideration.

[The Ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>; [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Mon, June 28, 2010 3:42:37 PM

Subject: June Update: Requests for Responses

CERTIFIED MAIL RETURN RECEIPT

ELECTRONIC MAIL

[The Ex] [last name]

[street address in other state] [third state] Road

[town in other state], [other  state] [zip]

Dear [The Ex]:

I am still awaiting a response to the many, many unanswered questions.  I have attached the last two letters that went unanswered.

There are two pressing issues that need to be resolved ASAP:

1. I do NOT have an accurate social security number for [daughter].  I have asked repeatedly for a copy of her card for my records/ to update [insurance company] as they require a fax to update their records and the number so I may obtain a card for [daughter].  I was able to utilize the copy of the birth certificate that was in her [school] folder until the certified copy came in.

2. It has been brought to my attention through several verifiable sources that you do NOT reside at the [street in other state] home.  Unless you provide me with an accurate and verifiable address, [daughter] will NOT be traveling to [other state] until this has been cleared up.  I have given you ample notice and if you refuse to comply then I will have no choice other than to restrict your visitation with [daughter].  Further, we need to finalize the visitation schedule in regards to drop off, pick up and flight information which should have been finalized months ago per the order which specifies April 15.  As this is the first of hopefully many vacations, I am allowing this to drag out however next year I will demand a formal and finalized plan by the date given.

As for [daughter]’s update:

A. School and Summer Camp:  

1. She had a fantastic end of school and will be going to third grade at [home town] Intermediate Elementary along with her classmates.  She has already toured the school and has met the principal and vice principal socially last summer.  She is very excited to be going to the third grade.  She starts school the last week in August and will be in uniform per the [home town] School District Requirements.  [daughter] mentioned that you wanted to purchase some items for her.  If that is the case, please visit this website:  http://www.[newspaper in home state].com/assets/pdf/435515.PDF to confirm what is and is not acceptable.  

2. Summer Camp: She had a fantastic week of summer camp and is already making friends.  I believe she already knows several girls in her group from school and from her other siblings.  She is doing an excellent job of communicating what is going on there and I think I will let her fill you in on the details of camp herself.

B. Medical/Dental:  She has been very diligent with maintaining her palate extender and her speech is about 80 - 90% back to normal.  She is a model patient for [orthodontist].  Her sessions with Dr. [home town therapist] are going well.  We are all amazed at how wonderful her adjustment has been.  He has reserved a session prior to her departure and upon her arrival home to ensure that progress is not lost during her vacation and time with you.

C. [daughter]’s Mailings: [daughter] has had several letters returned to us as address unknown or recipient unknown.  I know that in my last message I requested an updated mailing address and also requested that you acknowledge her mailings to [daughter] directly.  It is important for [daughter] to know that you are receiving the items she is sending to you.  She is very gracious to say thank you to the sticker mailings and it would only be polite to return the favor to her.  I am sure to give [daughter] her mailing’s that are returned so that she may hand deliver them to you directly.

D. Communication: [daughter] is still asking to [webcam software] with you.  I have offered a multitude of times and find it hard to imagine that you do not want face to face interaction with [daughter].  I am again, throwing that out there in case you have somehow paged your mind.  To remind you, there are several web cafes in the [town in other state] area that able to allow you a pace to [webcam software] with [daughter] for low cost, if you no longer have access to a computer.

Again, you really need to comply and respond to my requests for information.  You are barely acknowledging anything being said to you however, [daughter] mentions you are directly mentioning certain things to her that should be directed through me.  I am attempting to co-parent with you, despite the order, however you are making this beyond difficult.  Please take a few moments to respond to the messages, letters and text messages sent to you.

Take good care;

[Custodial Dad] [last name]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]

[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

Fri, Jul 2, 2010 at 7:20 PM

To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

[The Ex];

Please review the various mailings that were sent you explaining and updating you on any and all medical providers.

Thank you;

[Custodial Dad]

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