Denied Claims in Response:Request for Confirmation of Phone Contact Times for [daughter] and Momma

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Wed, Mar 31, 2010 at 1:45 PM

To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

[Custodial Dad];

Are you not planning to have [daughter] and I talk everyday? Yes or no?

What is the confirmed call time daily? 7pm?  [webcam software] viedo/audio communication on each Sunday? 

Please respond specifically.

[The Ex]

[XXX]. [xxx]. 5236

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Sent: Sun, March 28, 2010 8:55:59 PM

Subject: Re: Request for Confirmation of Phone Contact Times for [daughter] and Momma

[The Ex];

First, no one “removed” [daughter] from [other state].  Custody was transfered pursuant to court order... you removed [daughter] from [home state] in 2004 without my approval, authorization or order of the court.  I realize it is merely semantics but its just irritating that you refer to it as something it is not.

Second, it is clear that the many emails and updates being sent to you are not being read and/or comprehended.

I will state this again one last time and please feel free to verify this with Dr. [home town therapist].

Dr. [home town therapist] has suggested an every other day phone contact schedule for [daughter] to speak with you for 15 minutes.  The schedule for phone contact is: Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday.  He suggests that in off days, Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday, [daughter] email you directly which she has done so.  I have suggested that on Sundays, you find a means to [webcam software] with [daughter] or have a conversation can occur at a longer interval, depending on [daughter]’s wishes.

I suggested 7PM as that is a time consistent in [daughter]’s life (as per the order of contact between [daughter] and I.)  I have ensured this time free from chores, obligations, distractions homework and meal time.  A call prior to the start of school is simply not feasible.

[daughter] is also aware that she may call or email you at any time.  We respect her want to call you at her discretion.  There has only been one instance that [daughter] has ever asked to call you outside of the schedule, which we facilitated immediately.

Lastly, you chastised and belittled me the last time I erroneously texted or called the incorrect phone number.  Your cell phone number and address are in constant flux and for ease of [daughter], I can text the multitude of phone numbers at once instead of dialing down the line to determine which is in use.  I will, as I have done so, text you prior to call time to remind you to call [daughter] at the appropriate time as a courtesy.  

[Custodial Dad]

On Mar 28, 2010, at 8:38 PM, [The Ex] [last name] wrote:

[Custodial Dad],

What is you decision on contact for me and [daughter]?

The contact is inconsistent since her removal from [other state].

Please write me and confirm contact times for [daughter] and me to have phone calls. 

I am available many times a day.  I am up by 5:00 AM every day. 

As I have notified you, you can call me at this number [XXX].[xxx] 5236. 

Thank you very much.  I look forward to your decision and reply.

[The Ex]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]

[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com