Fw: Call schedule, psych info, summer request

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Tue, Apr 13, 2010 at 3:56 PM

To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

Cc: [the ex email]@[The Ex’s school].edu

[Custodial Dad]:

I will take [daughter] on in August, as you have scheduled.

Th.anks.

[The Ex] 

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From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

To: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

Sent: Wed, March 10, 2010 5:49:36 PM

Subject: Call schedule, psych info, summer request

[Custodial Dad];

I understand to call at 7pm.

I understand that you will update me on her psychology session. 

I will be available to participate in her psych sessions as you inform me of session schedule.

I understand that I am invited to call her guidance counselor.

You have sent the medical and dental office information but I have yet to recieve the psychologist information. 

Summer 2010: I will take [daughter] this summer for the scheduled time.    Please send possible dates for 15day time sharing. 

[daughter] misunderstood me.  She is still just 7-8 years old.   These pages are sudden and big for a child.  I’m sure she is just trying to sort it all out.

Appreciate the contact and hope that your family is well.

God Bless.

[The Ex]

From: [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

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Sent: Tue, March 9, 2010 11:56:34 AM

Subject: [daughter] Update

[The Ex];

You are not replying or acknowledging my emails and I will just assume that you are reading them.

[daughter] is attending [school] Elementary and her teacher is Mrs. [teacher].  [school] was not accepting late registrants although we appealed to Dr. [teacher], the [home town] Superintendent, she could not attend [school].  Her Guidance Counselor is Mrs. [guidence counselor].  You are more than welcomed to call them.

She is doing very well. She has already made friends at school, she loves her new teacher and she is just shinning.  I am very proud of the adjustment she is making thus far but we have an appointment with a therapist this evening.

She is telling the school that you are picking her up, I think you need to confirm that you will not be doing so, at least not until the summer.  Its not really appropriate that you tell her these things because its simply not going to occur. I think its better to address the situation as it is instead of giving her false hopes.  The guidance counselor agrees with this statement, please try to respect that.

I overheard [daughter] shouting last night about her door.  She was upstairs in her room but was very loud as we all heard her.  She has a door, she pages in the bathroom or with her door shut.  She has privacy and knows how to make herself comfortable.  I am saying this, although I have no real reason to explain it to you but so that no more false accusations are thrown by you.

I think for now we need to limit the conversations a little bit, in time NOT in frequency. [daughter] just seems very upset with the conversations.  I’ll address this more with the psychologist tonight and will relay his findings.  If he feels it is appropriate, I will of course include you in on the sessions, if you want to be included.  For now, a short call every night and a long [webcam software] or Sunday call to [daughter]’s wishes would be better.

FYI: Bedtime is at 8PM.  [daughter] typically showers at 7:30PM and so please try to call around 7PM, like I stated previously so she adjusts to the schedule appropriately.  I am in no way, playing the ridiculous games that you did.  I see the importance in [daughter] maintaining a relationship with you and your family.  I’m contacting grandparents to let them all know [daughter]’s contact information.  Please forward the information to [daughter]’s Aunt and Uncle as well.

Thank You;

[Custodial Dad] [last name]

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]

[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com

[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>

Tue, Apr 13, 2010 at 9:00 PM

To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>

Cc: [the ex email]@[The Ex’s school].edu

[The Ex];

You need to do more than acknowledge my proposal for [daughter]’s summer vacation.  As per the order, We need to come up with a means for transportation for [daughter].  I believe the order specifies the 15th as a deadline and I have requested information and our scheduling for the past 30+ days.  Please, let us simply schedule her vacation, including travel arrangements ASAP, as the order dictates.  Will [daughter] be spending time in [third state] or do you intend for her to travel to [other state] for the duration of her vacation or a mix of the two?

Are you simply going to refuse to communicate on all other matters concerning [daughter] or are these one line sentences your effort in communicating and parenting with me?

I have sent you multiple emails, registered letters and texts with no response whatsoever.  I am doing my best to keep you informed and to involve you but you are making your position crystal clear.

[Custodial Dad]

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