[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Mon, Jan 12, 2009 at 9:25 PM
To: [Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
[Custodial Dad],
Please refrain from dramatized, unfounded speculations. They are useless to progress.
I ask that we work for solutions to successful web cam sessions.
Your sarcasm at my efforts to facilitate (“help,” as you have quoted) are quite disrespectful.
What you have failed to address is why you logged off at 20 minutes into the web session.
You were off line before the 30 minutes were up and [daughter] was NOT able to so goodnight.
What is your response to that log-off before 30 minutes of cam time, [Custodial Dad]?
Let’s work to resolve these issues, shall we?
Kindly,
[The Ex] [last name]
From: [Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sent: Sunday, January 11, 2009 9:34:40 PM
Subject: Re: [daughter] found you gone online for her goodnight wishes:(
[The Ex]:
Your reply makes no sense-
A. Logged in at 6:30
B. Texted reminder to you at 7:20
C Heard [daughter] hysterical on phone at 7:22
D texted you TWICE with no reply
E accepted Your FIRST call at 8:33 which we heard you sniffling as we called [daughter]’s name and heard you speaking to/with [daughter]
F call was dropped at 8:53 which I tried to call back
The great thing about technology are the date stamps. How you can help is to actually be online at the designated time and do not rush [daughter] off prior to the scheduled time.
Thank you for your offer to “help.”
x
Ps you may also wish to actually read my responses
Please excuse spelling and or grammatical errors
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[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
On Jan 11, 2009, at 9:09 PM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Hi, Dad.
[daughter] was not able to say goodnight to you as you were not on [webcam software] web cam.
We were still online.
So sorry you were not able to stay online to talk with her.
The 30 minutes were not even up; you stayed on line for about 20 minutes as per [webcam software]. Is that true?
Any reason why you could not stay to have cam time with [daughter]?
Let me know so I can hlep for next time.
Kindly,
[The Ex]
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From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
To: [Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Sent: Sunday, January 11, 2009 8:30:50 PM
Subject: Tonight’s [webcam software]
Hi, Dad.
Connected at the scheduled time tonight.
However,as you heard, [daughter] was pleading and crying not to talk to you tonight via phone or web.
(This is the same issue for which I suggested a certified professional provide solutions to enable and set up success.
The issues from the summer remain despite the scheduled sessions to phone and web cam;
[daughter] and your relationship may need a bridge to allow her to want to communicate with you.
Please consider the option at my pleading, again.
Allowing her the time to change her mind, I have been trying to connect to you since [webcam software] is tonight.
You are not on.
I will continue to try for another 15 minutes.
Just thought I’d send this in case you were checking email.
Thanks.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
[Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Mon, Jan 12, 2009 at 10:50 PM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
There is no dramatized anything. I WAS online from 6:30 until 10 pm. From 8:30 (approx) There was a blank screen which both you and [daughter] could be heard speaking and 10 minutes of you sniffling in the background until the connection was lost.
[The Ex], your last offer to help was met with my compliance and jumping through hoops despite your failure to comply with the professional you sought.
Again, if you wish to help:
Have [daughter] on at the scheduled time without rushing her out the door or refusing to take her to the “restaurant.”
Refrain from forcing quick conversations due to YOUR schedule.
Do not interfer with our conversations which includes having your “friends” disturbing [daughter].
I will, as always, accept phone calls from [daughter] including and not limited to her scheduled time frame of Wednesday @ 7:15.
I will, as always, will be logged into [webcam software] begining at 6:45 until [daughter] says goodnight and logs out.
I will always be available to visit with [daughter] (and your disregard for my last two requests have been noted.)
It is apparent you have no desire to work this out amicably and we will see you in court.
x
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