[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Mon, Apr 19, 2010 at 4:39 PM
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
[Custodial Dad],
I will await a response to my email asking you to clarify the items which you feel are yet not addressed by me.
Thanks.
Additionally, please provide proof of your attempts to contact me about [daughter] s traumatic and thoughtless extraction-it is fact. Please send your phone records and emails and texts to show your attempts. I would be interested to know how you were unable to reach me with such effort you claim you made. Unfortunately, your message contradicts itself. How did you not know before you booked two flights to [town in other state]? How is it logical and consistent to say you were concerned about me taking [daughter] away and you were genuinely interested in informing me and made sincere, real, honest efforts to do so? Please help me to understand and show me the evidence. I would appreciate that, [Custodial Dad].
Kind Regards,
[The Ex]
On Mon Apr 19th, 2010 2:54 PM EDT [Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] wrote:
>[The Ex].
>I tried several times to contact you the night before I picked up [daughter] but as usual, you ignored all of my attempts at communication. Further I was concerned that you would abscond with my daughter again as it took me nearly 5 years to locate her after you kidnapped her the first time.
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>And no, I wasn’t prepared for [daughter]. I received the order the same time you did which called for an “immediate transfer.” I was hoping for custody but never anticipated such a drastic and sudden turn, even [daughter] understands that.
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>Your refusal to send [daughter] the basic items of comfort is not punishing me but her. She has plenty of replacements but is still looking for HER things and I’m sorry you can not comprehend that.
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>And for the record, while [daughter] misses you, she is FAR from traumatized. She is not only happy to be in our home but is grateful for the page, normalcy, consistency and routine that my family provides. Any questions regarding that contact Dr. [home town therapist] or Mrs. [teacher] and they will clear that right up.
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>I will not inquire further about her belongings as it is apparent, you will refuse to comply based on some imposed punishment on [daughter] or you will remain willfully stubborn to prove a point to some imagined audience.
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>[Custodial Dad]
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>On Apr 19, 2010, at 2:27 PM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
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>> [Custodial Dad]:
>> Is it an afterthought for you to have [daughter] s items of comfort? It seems you either planned to provide new items of comfort or you disregarded this child s comfort needs in your traumatic transfer of her from her home and life. I can not understand your repeated inquiries. As I m sure you can reference in your recorded calls the bear and blankey issue have been addressed. I think it absurd that I should send a certified letter to confirm that further, but I can surly do so if you specifically request and require such.
>> I sent you all updates- lens crafters as [daughter] had likely shared when she got glasses.
>> Were you not prepared to care for [daughter]? Please do not again attempt to blame and fault others for poor planning on your part. I am happy to work with you so let us be fair and page this staged deceit in which you indulge.
>> Kind Regards,
>> [The Ex]
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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Mon, Apr 19, 2010 at 5:00 PM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Read the various emails [The Ex]... The ones that were not acknowledged or addressed were sent specifically in a certified letter sent to your Grandmother’s home. Why don’t you start there?
Believe what you will, you seem to do that regardless of what I say or do... I attempted to contact you, if you do not believe that, that is your problem. My flight was arranged HOURS before I traveled to [town in other state] and trust that I paid a premium price in airfare to do so.
I would like to point out to you that the order is dated, filed and scanned according to [other state] law unless you are implying I had psychic knowledge of the order prior to you, there was no way for me to know in advance.
Again, your belief in my statements are of no concern to me at all. I have no desire nor patience to show you “evidence” because in case you failed to realize it, trial is over. But again, your convoluted thought processes has no bearing on me and my life. I will continue to keep you informed and abreast of [daughter] but will make no assumptions to your acknowledgement, involvement or even acceptance of reality.
Have a good night.
[Custodial Dad]
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[Custodial Dad] and [Step Mother] [last name]
[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
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