[Custodial dad email] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Mon, Jun 23, 2008 at 8:51 PM
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Cc: [The Ex] <[the ex email]@[email].com>, [Step Mother] [last name] <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
[The Ex]
I have to say I am more than just disappointed as it appears you are doing your best not only to undermine but to distract from [daughter] and I rebuilding a
relationship. I have done my best to remain positive but realistically speaking, we are in this position due to you not only withholding [daughter] from me but by
essentially and effectively cutting me out of her life for the past going on four years. It appeared, even if only for the show of the courts, that we were finally
building a better future for OUR daughter.
As her mother, you need to encourage her to want to speak to me by scheduling a time for her to call and not when a) drivin on the road with the windows down b)she is
in the midst of a meal or task c) when you are planning to do something and the only thing stopping her is my call and d)showing up late demanding the webchat be cut
short due to your (and your partner’s?) schedule.
I guess my only recourse is to go forward through the courts since you are refusing to allow me back into [daughter]’s life including shedding light on the most
fundamental information that any father is entitled to. If you choose to allow contact going forwlard, I will always be available not only the times you specified but
whenever you are generous enough to allow for contact.
If you do see fit to inform me of the ongoings in her life like your previous email suggested, feel free to email me. I hope [daughter] receives her phone and you
allow her to use it.
I realize that I am at your whim until the courts compel your compliance in allowing for meaningful contact between [daughter] and I. I hope you realize the multitude
of your actions in regards to its lasting effects on [daughter].
Furthermore, I do hope some positive influence is gained by [daughter] and you attending therapy, if I can be of any assistance, please do not hesitate to contact me.
X
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[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
On Jun 22, 2008, at 9:57 AM, “[Custodial Dad] [last name]” <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> wrote:
[The Ex],
Just wanted to send an e-mail confirmation of the conversation we had this morning during [daughter]s and my web chat that re-confirms [daughter]s Scheduled Monday and
Wednesday Evening Phone Calls (and of course the fill-in-quick-call-Da Da-calls!!) we ALL cannot wait for the next reading installment during our web chat.
Also, [daughter]s phone will ship this week, just a note; due to shipping-insurance there is a mandatory signature.
Great talking to [daughter]!!
X
On Sun, Jun 22, 2008 at 8:26 AM, [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> wrote:
[The Ex]
It is now 8:27am and I will have my computer on until 9am
On Fri, Jun 20, 2008 at 10:03 AM, [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com> wrote:
[The Ex]
After our phone call I decided to memorialize the facts of the conversation:
a. We re-confirmed the phone schedule of Monday and Wednesday at 6 pm even if [daughter] gets on and just says “Good Night.” The length of the call will always be
dictated by [daughter], as always.
We also mentioned the Sunday morning webcam, and again it is quality of visit and dependence of schedule that is MORE important then length or content of
contact/conversation....
b. I can not view pictures sent to text message... instead of my phone number, please enter [Custodial dad email]@[email].com and that will achieve the same goals by
similar means.
c. There is no need to call and say [daughter] is going to call Please have [daughter] call me directly or not as the case may be.
d. I am very curious (and concerned) as to why [daughter] has a “Psych team” involved in her daily care. Please let me know why she is undergoing such extensive
therapy. I understand that she is probably traumatized with not seeing her father for close to four years but does it warrant a “team?”
e. We can begin the “Parental Communication” immediately according to your schedule... like I stated I believe and email will suffice but I am available most nights
after 9 pm excluding Thursdays for IM.
Thanks again
[Custodial Dad]
On Thu, Jun 19, 2008 at 7:12 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
--- On Wed, 6/18/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Parenting Communication Sessions Set-up
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Wednesday, June 18, 2008, 1:35 PM
--- On Wed, 6/18/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
--
[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ And remember, no [Ex’s fourth other state lawyer]er where you go, there you are.
Earl Mac Rauch, from “Buckaroo Bansai” ~
--
[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ And remember, no [Ex’s fourth other state lawyer]er where you go, there you are.
Earl Mac Rauch, from “Buckaroo Bansai” ~
--
[Custodial Dad] X [last name]
[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
~ And remember, no matter where you go, there you are.
Earl Mac Rauch, from “Buckaroo Bansai” ~
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