[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sun, May 18, 2008 at 7:59 AM
Reply-To: [the ex email]@[email].com
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Hi, [Custodial Dad] & [spelled incorrectly Step Mother]!
Thanks for setting up the option for “[webcam software]” downloading, [spelled incorrectly Step Mother]!
We are on for 8AM this morning.
This regular schedule seems reliable for both of us (I”m thinking the Mom’s!)
I hope to get a glimpse of the little ones today.
FYI: You may nor may not have a long sesion with [daughter] today...
When I said: “Remmeber [daughter], we web chat ith Dad tomorow...
[daughter] said... “ Ah, maybe later.. not tomorrow...”
So I said:
“ Well Dad has made time for you Sunday morning together ...
and we’ll get to see “little Brother” and “little Sissy”... (and sweet [sibling], of course)....
(Quite honestly.... I want to see the kids!.... pardon the delight... but it’s true:)
I will have her availabe for the chat.
[daughter] had lots of playdates, birthdays and afterschool events this week.
Don’t worry... I remember that you want to have her call..
I have said: “hey, wanna call Dad now”.. a number of times... especially on her way to school.
She said, “ Nah... not right now... maybe later.”
-Then she just moves on to a story...”You know that Liala got three shots...”
(Liala is her teacher’s dog...
She has told me this story about 10 times with the same enthusiam..
so I respond as though I have never heard it before...
Just like the story that Paige went to a Hanna Montana concert!...
Guess she is a six year old, huh?)
I will be sure to put her through to you via phone, chat, “[webcam software]” this week also.
God Bless.
See you a in few minutes!
[The Ex]
--- On Sun, 5/11/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Re: May 9-11, Mother’s Day Weekend Chats Are on!
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Sunday, May 11, 2008, 7:16 AM
Dear [spelled incorrectly Step Mother],
Happy Mother’s Day! (x 4!)
Gods blessings for a long and joyful life with all your children.
I delight in [daughter] getting to know you better and her care for you as she grows.
She says se has two Mom’s.
She already identifies you fondly as her “other mother.” (How cute!)
Here are a few photos to open AFTER you open your Mother’s Day present from [daughter]! ;)
See you at 8AM on web cam!
Enjoy!
Warm Regards,
[The Ex]
--- On Sat, 5/10/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Re: May 9-11, Mother’s Day Weekend Chats Are on!
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Saturday, May 10, 2008, 11:10 PM
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
Got your e-mail just now. (It is 10:50PM on Saturday night.)
No worries.
String of misunderstandings I would say; wouldn’t you?
[daughter] build her poodle and I put money on every gift card
available in the store so she could have the picture cards
in her purse!
It was cute and she was happy.
She was glad that you went on the site for her.
[daughter] can do virtual games and dress up via computer with you and the kids in real time on your chats.
You have offered a great option for fun communication!
Hats off to you, Dad! (Kid is happy and loves you...
let’s move forward.)
Please understand there is NO expectation or obligation to spend any money on her.
[daughter] appreciates your time.
Got no text confirming Saturday cam in PM.
[daughter] wanted to sign up for skating lessons this session at the
ice rink and there is no phone service inside- beats me why... thick walls- insulation?
No e-mail access & no mail service on my cell phone when out.
(That’s why I ask for text messages.)
[daughter] wanted to stay at Build a Bear for most of the afternoon.
Sent you photos via phone mail since I did not know of any other options for us today.
8AM tomorrow is great...
If you guys choose, the boat kit with hammer is right here waiting for you to finish the building together.
Photos from [daughter] to [spelled incorrectly Step Mother] attached in this message.
Just to give a basis for them to connect.
Enjoy the snapshots. [daughter] would love to talk about them, I’m sure.
Good night.
God bless.
[The Ex]
--- On Sat, 5/10/08, [The Ex] [last name] <{the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: May 9-11, Mother’s Day Weekend Chats Are on!
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Saturday, May 10, 2008, 7:37 AM
Good morning, [spelled incorrectly Step Mother] and [Custodial Dad]!
Thank you for the Build a Bear account. We willl visit the site later today.
Friday call at [resturant]’s was a nice idea. Glad we reached you.
But, as you can see, [daughter] has long -standing relationships with the staff there and is very occupied with socializing and greetings at dinner. We can always try
that time slot again. But my best guess is that time on web at 8am Sundays is focused and great for you guys to all bond.
For the weekend, how is this:
(Please text me via cell phone to let me know.)
1. Saturday call: [Custodial Dad], why don’t you guys call us about 2pm or so? We will answer and you can chat.
2. Saturday web cam: We can do Saturday late afternoon before dinner to finish the boat
building with open time block for the chat, dependent on [daughter]’s wants at the time.
I have set aside the afternoon to be at home to allow time for the web cam session.
3. Sunday regular web cam: 8AM is great!
Breakfast plans at [resturant]’s so... the session is really for [daughter] to send good wishes and kisses to all!
Warm regards,
[The Ex]
On Fri, 5/9/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Thanks, [spelled incorrectly Step Mother]!
To: “The [last name] [last name]s” <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Date: Friday, May 9, 2008, 10:23 AM
Thanks, [spelled incorrectly Step Mother].
(You are welcome to call me [The Ex] if you choose.)
Enjoy you blessed day also.
I will not be having other children,
so I hope you don’t mind if I randomly send little outfits or books for your little ones.
(I’m a “sale-only” shopper and the prices here are great - $2-3 for famous label children’s clothes!)
I’m glad for a chance to move forward with [daughter]’s adorable family you’ve given her.
Look for photos on Sunday - but ONLY after you open your gift! ;)
We will web with you guys on Sunday AM to stay consistent for the little ones.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
On Mon, May 5, 2008 at 10:31 PM, [The Ex] [last name]
<[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote
:
> Hello, [Custodial Dad] & Mrs. [last name].
>
>
>
> [daughter] and I sent out your Mother’s Day present today.
>
>
>
> Inside is a card and photo for Grandma, too.
>
> The mailing was via US Postal Service Delivery Confirmation Receipt.
>
> Ticket number is: 0307 3330 0001 7028 6012
>
> It can be tracked upon delivery at www.usps.com.
>
>
>
> Enjoy!
>
> God Bless.
>
> [The Ex] & [daughter] [last name]
--- On Fri, 5/9/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Mother’s Day Weekend Chats
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Cc: [the ex email]@[email].com
Date: Friday, May 9, 2008, 9:16 AM
Good morning, [Custodial Dad] and [spelled incorrectly Step Mother].
Glad you got the package for Grandma and [spelled incorrectly Step Mother].
Please, let Grandma know she can also web cam with
[daughter] before mass on Sundays- anytime she is ready.
Glad [daughter] was able to reach you before school on
Thursday morning to announce that earrings are in!
Thanks for mirroring her enthusiasm.
A call tonight ~6PM is great- thanks for agreeing.
Before bed at 7:30PM Saturday night web chat
should be fun for you guys!
You get to see “Jose” (joe-zee) robot! (A [daughter] build!)
To be consistent,
let’s keep the Sunday AM web cam session so [daughter]
can see the “Cute Crew” and say Happy Mother’s Day
to [spelled incorrectly Step Mother].
Maybe you can open the package while on cam together?
See if it is feasible. Any way it works out is OK.
[daughter] will be delighted for it all!
No rush, but FYI- we will have Sunday breakfast out at
[resturant]’s so take your time to chat on Saturday.
Sailboat you started building with [daughter] is ready to
be finished; Hammer and all!
(Father’s Day is around the corner...
thought you might like to have it as a gift...
Please act surprised when she sends it to you!)
Warm regards,
[The Ex]
--- On Mon, 5/5/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Check mail for Ms. [spelled incorrectly Step Mother] [last name]’s Mother’s Day Gift!
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Monday, May 5, 2008, 10:31 PM
Hello, [Custodial Dad] & Mrs. [last name].
[daughter] and I sent out your Mother’s Day present today.
Inside is a card and photo for Grandma, too.
The mailing was via US Postal Service Delivery Confirmation Receipt.
Ticket number is: 0307 3330 0001 7028 6012
It can be tracked upon delivery at www.usps.com.
Enjoy!
God Bless.
[The Ex] & [daughter] [last name]
--- On Sun, 5/4/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Web Cam May 4 ‘08
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Cc: [the ex email]@[email].com
Date: Sunday, May 4, 2008, 7:57 AM
Hello, [last name]s!
Glad we caught you to talk with [daughter] this week, [Custodial Dad].
Friday was just to share her fair at school.
She was excited, so we thought you’d want to hear her version of things!
Saturday was just a post-pinata joy!
[daughter] thought it was great that you had a similar day of birthdays and car rides!
After the call she quickly revisited our PM agenda of craft chopping and (more) pizza!
Seems like the phone calls are fun! Glad for you both.
Thanks for your texts and emails this week.
We want to reach you when you are available to [daughter].
But, please understand that it is OK if we call impromptu and you are busy.
[daughter] and I have talked about time frames and activities for you guys at home/ work, etc.
She’s understanding as she also watches the time to secure timely arrival to play dates, birthdays, Children’s Theater, etc.!
I respect that 7AM is not good to extend Sunday morning and that Saturday is not a good day for you at this time.
Please let us know when/if that changes.
We will continue to call you for [daughter] to chat.
At this juncture, calls to you are my suggestion as I evaluate her enthusiasm about something in her day. I say, “Hey, wanna tell Dad?” So then we try your phone.
I have made sure [daughter] has had a strong belief in your care and love for her.
She knows that you not having time at a random call is separate from that.
And I think you do a good job of saying: “Daddy really wants to listen to your story, but can I call you back..or call me later etc.” It is good.
[daughter] just states to me: “We can call Dad later, Mom.” or “He’ll call back soon.”
For the most part, it seems that it is working well.
Well, on to today... sending attached instructions for a boat building mini kit.
Thought you may want the option of building it with [daughter]. (Not mandatory at all.)
Check e-mail for photos later this week.
See you at 8AM.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
On Thu, 5/1/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Sunday web cam at 7AM.
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Thursday, May 1, 2008, 2:29 PM
Hello, [Custodial Dad] and Mrs. [last name].
Hope all is well.
Please inform: Did you set up another e-mail account for me to use for [daughter] to web cam?
[daughter] was happy to have 2 -way communication last Sunday through [email] messenger.
I will again use [the ex email]@[email].com, since it is working well.
Will gladly accommodate any “tech-updates” from you guys.
Why don’t we extend the time for the web chat?
[daughter] is awake very early in the morning.
I will be happy to facilitate your web session with her at 7AM Sunday, beginning May 4th.
She will be delighted! As it is, she wakes up and we await the set 8AM time for her to connect with you all.
Warm greetings to all.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
--- On Sun, 4/27/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: April 27 web cam at 8AM.
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Sunday, April 27, 2008, 6:34 AM
Hello, [Custodial Dad] and Mrs. [last name].
Hope all is well.
Please inform: Did you set up another e-mail account for me to use for [daughter] to web cam?
Since you saw [daughter] last week through [email] messenger,
I will again use [the ex email]@[email].com.
I am at the computer and will check my email before 8AM.
Please send any updates.
Thanks for your kind cooperation.
We will see you all at 8!
I know you stayed on as long as you could last week.
Today, we’ll try for early mass to keep [daughter]’s activities on schedule.
I will give her the option of web cam for Saturday and Sunday of next week.
Let me know time for possible Saturday.
We can try to do both days this week.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
--- On Thu, 4/24/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Let’s keep trying.
To: “The [last name] [last name]s” <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Date: Thursday, April 24, 2008, 6:02 AM
Hi, Mrs. [last name].
Thanks for all your help.
Much appreciated.
I’m glad for your technical skills.
We are using the basic [email] messenger available through my [email] account, {the ex email]xp@[email].com.
I will gladly do a trial run.
How is Friday evening-late? Please text me to confirm [XXX] [XXX]-4665.
[daughter] did want to see all of you guys on the computer.
I do not mind if you want to set up an account for me to access with [daughter] to facilitate
web cam.
Please, let me know what you think is best.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
On Sun, 4/20/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Thank You, Mrs. [last name]!
To: “[Custodial Dad] [last name]” <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Date: Sunday, April 20, 2008, 1:48 PM
Hi, Mrs. [last name].
I overheard the kids on the web... They are so darling! We are charmed by them!
Thank you for this morning’s photo of [Custodial Dad].
[daughter] will be delighted to see it!
In May, I will be sending a Mother’s Day package for you from [daughter].
We hope you like it! Please, let us know when you receive it.
Please take a photo of yourself for [daughter] to have.
As I have shared with you guys on e-mail, we are putting together more “[daughter]’s family” scrapbooks.
We gladly await pictures and any little stories you want to have written under the photos.
There is a way to have the books duplicated.
I will look into that and will get you a copy when we have it all put together.
I wish you a peaceful and blessed day.
Kindly,
[The Ex]
--- On Sun, 4/13/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Web Cam 4/13/08
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Sunday, April 13, 2008, 10:24 AM
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
[daughter] was glad to be able to chat with the kids and you this morning!
(I overheard your other little Princess and Prince- how cute they are!)
I’m glad you were able to color with her at the PBS kids site.
I thought she’d enjoy “live” web interaction with “Dad” & her favorite Dragon Tales characters.
Figured the Little Ones could enjoy the colorful pictures and familiar faces, too.
Of course, we can try again before Sunday.
There should be nothing wrong with wed cam set up here.
Clearly, you can guess that I’ve had two professional web consults advise me,
since technology often needs expert verification!
Anyhow, enjoy your day together. Thanks for taking [daughter]’s second call
We changed our plans to a later mass so you could talk longer today.
Just thought you might be free the 2nd round to get on-line with her. She was delighted!
God Bless. Warm regards to Mrs. [last name] and the sweet Little Ones.
We’re off to [city in other state]!
[The Ex]
[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Date: Sat, 12 Apr 2008 18:47:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Artwork for Web Cam As Scheduled for 4/13/08
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
[daughter]’s work is attached.
Let me know if you get the images.
Thanks!
Enjoy.
[The Ex]
[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Date: Fri, 11 Apr 2008 12:52:46 -0700 (PDT)
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Web Cam As Scheduled for 4/13/08
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
We are on for web-cam on Sunday morning at 8.
See you then!
Hope your little ones can say hello to [daughter].
Kind regards to Mrs. [last name].
God Bless.
[The Ex]
[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Date: Sun, 6 Apr 2008 04:59:37 -0700 (PDT)
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Re: Web Cam As Scheduled for 4/6/08
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
I understand from your e-mail just now
that you will not be able to web-cam
today at 8AM,
as scheduled with you in [daughter]’s call to you last Sunday(3/30/08).
Let’s just stick to e-mail for future scheduling. OK?
I can have [daughter] call your cell phone around 8:15AM.
No worries. [daughter] will understand the change in format. It’s OK.
For next week(4/13/08), I will have [daughter] available for web cam at 8:00AM on Sunday.
Please let me know by Friday if you will not be available.
We can plan to have breakfast out instead.
( I’ve told [daughter]... she sends “hugs and kisses” to the [home state] home crew!)
Thanks much.
God Bless.
[The Ex]
On Sun, Apr 6, 2008 at 6:04 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
I am happy we could set up this web-cam session. I think it is a good option.
I’m sure [daughter] will delight in the web-chat(!) this morning at 8AM.
Hope your little guys will be there to say hello to [daughter].
I understand that you were not able to enlarge [daughter]’s artwork and schoolwork I sent you.
From a tech consult, I understood that digital images would be easier to get and send
(up-loads from phones to computers, etc.).
I will gladly try to e-mail pictures , if you can get those images well, Let me know.
For now, I will have [daughter] show you her work on the web chat this morning.
I will then follow up with a package or e-mailed samples early this week,
including the packet for next Sunday’s web chat.
[daughter]’s work sent to you is for you to share with Grand-ma and keep.
We will be off to church with [daughter]’s classmates at 8:30AM.
I will have her dressed and ready to go, so you can have as much time on-line until then.
We/You can add/change chat schedules as we need to- as we go.
For now, I think this will be a good time slot.
Kind regards to Mrs. [last name] and your children.
[daughter] will see you at 8!
Enjoy!
[The Ex]
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[XXX]-[xxx]-0185
[Custodial dad email]@[email].com
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[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Mon, May 19, 2008 at 9:10 AM
To: [the ex email]@[email].com
Bcc: [Step Mother] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>
Maybe we should set a time for [daughter] to call .... such as just before bedtime this will allow for a solid
re-building of our relationship and give her more of a reason or want to call me when other events occur (i.e. your offering her to call at odd/different times and her
“not at this time” responses)
Maybe evenings before bed... so she can recap her day.... instead of me trying to draw out the details of her week ...
[Quoted text hidden]
~ Nostalgia isn’t what it used to be.
- Peter De Vries ~
[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Sun, Jun 8, 2008 at 7:42 AM
To: [the ex email]@[email].com
Cc: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com
Bcc: [Step Mother] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>
[The Ex]
We are ALL so very very looking forward to 8am this morning.... just counting down!!
Tell [daughter] Da Da and the babies cannot wait!!
[Custodial Dad]
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