Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Monday

Web Cam 4/13/08

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sun, Apr 13, 2008 at 10:24 AM
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com

Hi, [Custodial Dad].
[daughter] was glad to be able to chat with the kids and you this morning!

(I overheard your other little Princess and Prince- how cute they are!)

I’m glad you were able to color with her at the PBS kids site.

I thought she’d enjoy “live” web interaction with “Dad” & her favorite Dragon Tales characters. 

Figured the Little Ones could enjoy the colorful pictures and familiar faces, too.

Of course, we can try again before Sunday.

There should be nothing wrong with wed cam set up here.

Clearly, you can guess that I’ve had two professional web consults advise me, since technology often needs expert verification!

Anyhow, enjoy your day together.  Thanks for taking [daughter]’s second call

We changed our plans to a later mass so you could talk longer today.

Just thought you might be free the 2nd round to get on-line with her.  She was delighted!

God Bless.  Warm regards to Mrs. [last name] and the sweet Little Ones.
We’re off to [city in other state]!
[The Ex]


[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Date: Sat, 12 Apr 2008 18:47:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Artwork for Web Cam As Scheduled for 4/13/08
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com


Hi, [Custodial Dad].
[daughter]’s work is attached.
Let me know if you get the images.
Thanks!
Enjoy.
[The Ex]
[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Date: Fri, 11 Apr 2008 12:52:46 -0700 (PDT)
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Web Cam As Scheduled for 4/13/08
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Hi, [Custodial Dad].
We are on for web-cam on Sunday morning at 8.
See you then!
Hope your little ones can say hello to [daughter].
Kind regards to Mrs. [last name].
God Bless.
[The Ex]


[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Date: Sun, 6 Apr 2008 04:59:37 -0700 (PDT)
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Re: Web Cam As Scheduled for 4/6/08
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>


Hi, [Custodial Dad].

I understand from your e-mail just now

that you will not be able to web-cam

today at 8AM,

as scheduled with you in [daughter]’s call to you last Sunday(3/30/08).

Let’s just stick to e-mail for future scheduling.  OK?

I can have [daughter] call your cell phone around 8:15AM.

No worries.  [daughter] will understand the change in format.  It’s OK.

For next week(4/13/08), I will have [daughter] available for web cam at 8:00AM on Sunday.

Please let me know by Friday if you will not be available. 

We can plan to have breakfast out instead.

( I’ve told [daughter]... she sends “hugs and kisses” to the [home state] home crew!)

Thanks much.
God Bless.
[The Ex]


On Sun, Apr 6, 2008 at 6:04 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Hi, [Custodial Dad].

I am happy we could set up this web-cam session. I think it is a good option.
I’m sure [daughter] will delight in the web-chat(!) this morning at 8AM.
Hope your little guys will be there to say hello to [daughter].

I understand that you were not able to enlarge [daughter]’s artwork and schoolwork I sent you. 
From a tech consult, I understood that digital images would be easier to get and send
(up-loads from phones to computers, etc.).

I will gladly try to e-mail pictures , if you can get those images well,  Let me know.

For now, I will have [daughter] show you her work on the web chat this morning.
I will then follow up with a package or e-mailed samples early this week,
including the packet for next Sunday’s web chat.

[daughter]’s work sent to you is for you to share with Grand-ma and keep.

We will be off to church with [daughter]’s classmates at 8:30AM.
I will have her dressed and ready to go, so you can have as much time on-line until then.
We/You can add/change chat schedules as we need to- as we go.
For now, I think this will be a good time slot.

Kind regards to Mrs. [last name] and your children.

[daughter] will see you at 8!
Enjoy!
[The Ex]



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[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Sun, Apr 13, 2008 at 12:39 PM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Step Mother] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>


I thoroughly enjoyed chatting with [daughter] this morning --  this was the longest conversation that I have had
with her, by far, since you moved to [other state] almost four years ago.  I am very grateful!  Her brother and sister really enjoyed talking with her as well.
My wife, [Step Mother], is very tech savvy.  If you have any questions, I’m sure she wouldn’t mind assisting you in an effort to get things moving along.  She is just
as excited in the hopes that the children and I have the ability to use web cam to talk to [daughter].
I am unsure as to what you mean by the statement, “Of course, we can try again before Sunday.”  I would love to but I can not use web cam until after business hours.
 Please let me know the schedule that you would like to set.
Again, thanks for allowing the contact!
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to
[The Ex] <[the ex email]@[email].com>,
date
Sun, Apr 13, 2008 at 9:10 AM
subject
Sunday Morning
mailed-by
[email].com



I must admit I am highly disappointed yet again. The webcam was a brilliant idea but in the five weeks since you mentioned, it I am a bit dismayed that you are getting around to verifying account information this morning at 8:15 when we were supposed to start at 8 am supposedly last Sunday.  The weeks prior allowed you plenty of opportunity to set this up, after all it is your suggestion.
She asked if I could log on to PBSKids, however I was logged on to Webcam waiting since 7:43 this morning.  The simple fact that [daughter] was on PBSkids.org instead
of you taking the time to set up the webcam leaves me very disappointed and saddened...
I overheard [daughter] ask you if we could chat on webcam later today, with a little notice, I can most definitely available to try again later today after
[daughter]’s party.  We were starting out on such a good note and I do hope that we can continue this, as it is evident that webcam and phone chats are
standard protocol in these procedures.  Its best we get accustomed to what the courts will be ordering soon enough.
I hope you both enjoy the day and that [daughter] enjoys her Spring Break.  Had I known, we could have made arrangements for [daughter] to travel to [home state] or I
to [other state].  I would like to discuss that with you soon as the summer is coming.
I am still waiting to confirm the address for the package to send to [daughter].  I am all set to send it out but [daughter]’s  Great -Grandmother stated that you
don’t receive things from that address.  I would hate for the package to be returned.
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[Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Fri, Apr 18, 2008 at 8:50 AM
To: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Bcc: [Step Mother] <[Step Mother’s email]@[email].com>


I was under the impression that [daughter] and I would have the opportunity to chat “before Sunday.”  Today is Friday and I guess that it has not come together as yet.  The implication in your email being Sunday I will get a chance to talk to [daughter] again or to be able to use the webcam.
Just so you are aware, you are not verified with [email] as of yet and will not be able to use webcam until you do so.  I would also kindly suggest that you accept the
add request that is there so that Sunday, we can begin webcam chats without any technical difficulties (again.)
Thanks again!
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