Cast of Characters

[Custodial Dad]
[The Ex]
[daughter]

My wife [StepMother]
My other children [siblings]
My many brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews.
My mother
Our pets

The Ex's FOUR fiances and The Ex's ex husband
The Ex's past in-laws
The Ex's parents and sister

The Ex's NINE different attorneys
Custodial Dad's two attorneys

Four therapists in [other state]
Daughter's therapist in [home state]

Teachers, Principals, Superintendents and Guidance Counselors at [school] in [home state]

[Home State] Department of Children and Youth
[Home State] Police Department

Friends, strangers and passerby's who witness the insanity that has become our life.

Monday

Web Cam May 4 ‘08

[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Sun, May 4, 2008 at 7:57 AM
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Cc: [the ex email]@[email].com

Hello, [last name]s!

Glad we caught you to talk with [daughter] this week, [Custodial Dad]. 

Friday was just to share her fair at school. 
She was excited, so we thought you’d want to hear her version of things! 

Saturday was just a post-pinata joy! 
[daughter] thought it was great that you had a similar day of birthdays and car rides! 

After the call she quickly revisited our PM agenda of craft chopping and (more) pizza! 

Seems like the phone calls are fun!  Glad for you both.

Thanks for your texts and emails this week.

We want to reach you when you are available to [daughter].

But, please understand that it is OK if we call impromptu and you are busy.

[daughter] and I have talked about time frames and activities for you guys at home/ work, etc.

She’s understanding as she also watches the time to secure timely arrival to play dates, birthdays, Children’s Theater, etc.!

I respect that 7AM is not good to extend Sunday morning and that Saturday is not a good day for you at this time.

Please let us know when/if that changes.

We will continue to call you for [daughter] to chat. 

At this juncture, calls to you are my suggestion as I evaluate her enthusiasm about something in her day.  I say, “Hey, wanna tell Dad?”  So then we try your phone.

I have made sure [daughter] has had a strong belief in your care and love for her. 

She knows that you not having time at a random call is separate from that.

And I think you do a good job of saying:  “Daddy really wants to listen to your story, but can I call you back..or call me later etc.” It is good. 

[daughter] just states to me: “We can call Dad later, Mom.”  or “He’ll call back soon.”

For the most part, it seems that it is working well.

Well, on to today... sending attached instructions for a boat building  mini kit.

Thought you may want the option of building it with [daughter].  (Not mandatory at all.)

Check e-mail for photos later this week.

See you at 8AM.

God Bless.
[The Ex]




On Thu, 5/1/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Sunday web cam at 7AM.
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Thursday, May 1, 2008, 2:29 PM

Hello, [Custodial Dad] and Mrs. [last name].

Hope all is well.

Please inform: Did you set up another e-mail account for me to use for [daughter] to web cam?

[daughter] was happy to have 2 -way communication last Sunday through [email] messenger.

I will again use [the ex email]@[email].com, since it is working well.

Will gladly accommodate any “tech-updates” from you guys.

Why don’t we extend the time for the web chat?

[daughter] is awake very early in the morning.

I will be happy to facilitate your web session with her at 7AM Sunday, beginning May 4th. 

She will be delighted!  As it is, she wakes up and we await the set 8AM time for her to connect with you all.

Warm greetings to all.

God Bless.
[The Ex]


--- On Sun, 4/27/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: April 27 web cam at 8AM.
To: [Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com, [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Sunday, April 27, 2008, 6:34 AM
Hello, [Custodial Dad] and Mrs. [last name].

Hope all is well.

Please inform: Did you set up another e-mail account for me to use for [daughter] to web cam?

Since you saw [daughter] last week through [email] messenger,

I will again use [the ex email]@[email].com.

I am at the computer and will check my email before 8AM.

Please send any updates.

Thanks for your kind cooperation.

We will see you all at 8!

I know you stayed on as long as you could last week.

Today, we’ll try for early mass to keep [daughter]’s activities on schedule.

I will give her the option of web cam for Saturday and Sunday of next week.

Let me know time for possible Saturday. 

We can try to do both days this week.

God Bless.

[The Ex]
--- On Thu, 4/24/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Let’s keep trying.
To: “The [last name] [last name]s” <[Custodial Dad’s home email]@[email].com>
Date: Thursday, April 24, 2008, 6:02 AM

Hi, Mrs. [last name].

Thanks for all your help.

 Much appreciated.

 I’m glad for your technical skills.

We are using the basic [email] messenger available through my [email] account, buildingbloxp@[email].com.

I will gladly do a trial run. 

How is Friday evening-late?  Please text me to confirm [XXX] [XXX]-4665.

[daughter] did want to see all of you guys on the computer.

I do not mind if you want to set up an account for me to access with [daughter] to facilitate

web cam.

Please, let me know what you think is best.

God Bless.

[The Ex]


On Sun, 4/20/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Thank You, Mrs. [last name]!
To: “[Custodial Dad] [last name]” <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Date: Sunday, April 20, 2008, 1:48 PM

Hi, Mrs. [last name].

I overheard the kids on the web...  They are so darling!  We are charmed by them!
Thank you for this morning’s photo of  [Custodial Dad].
[daughter] will be delighted to see it!

In May, I will be sending a Mother’s Day package for you from [daughter].

We hope you like it!  Please, let us know when you receive it.

Please take a photo of yourself for [daughter] to have.
As I have shared with you guys on e-mail, we are putting together more “[daughter]’s family” scrapbooks.

We gladly await pictures and any little stories you want to have written under the photos.

There is a way to have the books duplicated. 

I will look into that and will get you a copy when we have it all put together.

I wish you a peaceful and blessed day.
Kindly,
[The Ex]


--- On Sun, 4/13/08, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Web Cam 4/13/08
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com
Date: Sunday, April 13, 2008, 10:24 AM

Hi, [Custodial Dad].
[daughter] was glad to be able to chat with the kids and you this morning!

(I overheard your other little Princess and Prince- how cute they are!)

I’m glad you were able to color with her at the PBS kids site.

I thought she’d enjoy “live” web interaction with “Dad” & her favorite Dragon Tales characters. 

Figured the Little Ones could enjoy the colorful pictures and familiar faces, too.

Of course, we can try again before Sunday.

There should be nothing wrong with wed cam set up here.

Clearly, you can guess that I’ve had two professional web consults advise me,

since technology often needs expert verification!

Anyhow, enjoy your day together.  Thanks for taking [daughter]’s second call

We changed our plans to a later mass so you could talk longer today.

Just thought you might be free the 2nd round to get on-line with her.  She was delighted!

God Bless.  Warm regards to Mrs. [last name] and the sweet Little Ones.
We’re off to [city in other state]!
[The Ex]


[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Date: Sat, 12 Apr 2008 18:47:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Artwork for Web Cam As Scheduled for 4/13/08
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com

Hi, [Custodial Dad].
[daughter]’s work is attached.
Let me know if you get the images.
Thanks!
Enjoy.
[The Ex]


[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Date: Fri, 11 Apr 2008 12:52:46 -0700 (PDT)
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Web Cam As Scheduled for 4/13/08
To: [Custodial dad email]@[email].com

Hi, [Custodial Dad].
We are on for web-cam on Sunday morning at 8.
See you then!
Hope your little ones can say hello to [daughter].
Kind regards to Mrs. [last name].
God Bless.
[The Ex]
[The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Date: Sun, 6 Apr 2008 04:59:37 -0700 (PDT)
From: [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com>
Subject: Re: Web Cam As Scheduled for 4/6/08
To: [Custodial Dad] [last name] <[Custodial dad email]@[email].com>
Hi, [Custodial Dad].

I understand from your e-mail just now

that you will not be able to web-cam

today at 8AM,

as scheduled with you in [daughter]’s call to you last Sunday(3/30/08).

Let’s just stick to e-mail for future scheduling.  OK?

I can have [daughter] call your cell phone around 8:15AM.

No worries.  [daughter] will understand the change in format.  It’s OK.

For next week(4/13/08), I will have [daughter] available for web cam at 8:00AM on Sunday.

Please let me know by Friday if you will not be available. 

We can plan to have breakfast out instead.

( I’ve told [daughter]... she sends “hugs and kisses” to the [home state] home crew!)

Thanks much.
God Bless.
[The Ex]


On Sun, Apr 6, 2008 at 6:04 AM, [The Ex] [last name] <[the ex email]@[email].com> wrote:
Hi, [Custodial Dad].

I am happy we could set up this web-cam session. I think it is a good option.
I’m sure [daughter] will delight in the web-chat(!) this morning at 8AM.
Hope your little guys will be there to say hello to [daughter].

I understand that you were not able to enlarge [daughter]’s artwork and schoolwork I sent you. 
From a tech consult, I understood that digital images would be easier to get and send
(up-loads from phones to computers, etc.).

I will gladly try to e-mail pictures , if you can get those images well,  Let me know.

For now, I will have [daughter] show you her work on the web chat this morning.
I will then follow up with a package or e-mailed samples early this week,
including the packet for next Sunday’s web chat.

[daughter]’s work sent to you is for you to share with Grand-ma and keep.

We will be off to church with [daughter]’s classmates at 8:30AM.
I will have her dressed and ready to go, so you can have as much time on-line until then.
We/You can add/change chat schedules as we need to- as we go.
For now, I think this will be a good time slot.

Kind regards to Mrs. [last name] and your children.

[daughter] will see you at 8!
Enjoy!
[The Ex]



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